Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:06pm On May 20, 2016*. Modified: 12:44am On May 21, 2016 |
bukatyne: @bold:
Are they 'African' values? If anything, they are the 'white man's values; afteral, he brought the Bible you quoted.
Cc: lezz [b]Firstly, Christianity isn't the white man's religion. Second, headship of the husband has been an African virtue reaffirmed by Christianity and other religions. Today's Western standing denies man this headship and depicts marriage as a "two-way traffic ". Same ideology that takes the control of children out of the parents. The hypocritical fallacy and irony is that no woman wants a man who isn't her superior. Every woman wants her man to lead her. Women are genetically programmed to depend on men. The blackmailing phrase of " our mothers were slave" has been amply employed to hurl people into the bandwagon of this new liberation movement. Have you ever wondered why violence against women is high in the West? 2008 statistics shows 500 women are raped in America daily. And a Western stooge told me we lack accurate stats here. True that. But does it wipe away the fact that the father of female liberation is still the worst oppressor of the female gender? I keep saying it, some decades ago, phoney Western accent of British or American English is the sure way of proving how westernised one is. Well since both akara sellers and gala hawkers have mastered that act, our domiciled brothers and sisters have upped the requirements to endorsing controversial Western norms as conventional mode of conduct. When is the idiocy going to stop? [/b] |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 10:40pm On May 20, 2016 |
Acidosis: Exactly bro. They really do not understand the implications of recolonization.
The good thing is not all Nigerians who live abroad subject themselves to this mental and marital 'enculturation.'
Enculturation means: the process by which an individual learns the traditional content of a culture and assimilates its practices and values.
If these categories of anti-african folks travel to a continent where females sleep with dogs, they'll stand by it, defend it, and beat you with their understanding.
They live in climes where men kiss fellow men on the streets, so they've over time blend to belief a man can actually burst the anus of another man. I have done cursory check, all the Western marionettes here are all domiciled abroad except the male phoney kid who is a compulsive liar and shammer.
Do I add that other than TV, who I see has stood and called the Western culture for what it is, the rest traded their morality to leverage their economic destitution.
These ladies are socio-cultural terrorists like the brainwashed suicide female bombers in the north. Only difference is that they think they are innocuous to the blast.
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 10:23pm On May 20, 2016 |
Dklef: LOL.. I 'think' i sent you a mail (not very sure it went through)
Please do check. Seen! Sorry bro, I'll reply witihn the clock, just sorting out some stuffs. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 9:37pm On May 20, 2016 |
Acidosis: It's simple!
Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands.
Husbands love your wives.
This principle has worked for all successful marriages I know. It worked for my grandparents; it worked for my parents (over 30 years in marriage, yet I've never seen them fight/yell/or shout at each other).
This same principle/ethics will I uphold in my family, and same would be passed to my children. Even if Obama legalizes marriage between man and pig, my own ethics and principles STAND. Thank you for your unpretentious and simple truth.
The majority here are carried away by the modern fad of moral vapour. In their failed attempts at being seen as liberated of mind and morally mature, they have been blown away with every passing jazz of moral inclusivism.
All who have opposed african marriage here have equally given adhesion to faggøtry, homosexuality and other fads which has not only defied logic but nature.
The new mental slavery that has enveloped the black man is in the books!!! Isn't it ironic.
We were illiterates and were colonised and enslaved.
Now we are lettered and are enslaved by the needy compulsion to be seen as liberated and sound in mind. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 9:25pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: If her hijab material frightens you, I'll have you know, I cringe at the sight and smell of her vagina. Just imagine it, her vast array of hijab material, couple with her bushy vagina, mixed with the seeming heat, will make her vagina and its surrounding stink to the point of resurrecting dead corpses.
Small wonder why she display her frustration all over the net cos she must have murdered numerous men by virtue of parting her legs.
To think a woman can carry a weapon more deadly than a nuke beats me. I just hope she doesn't give the C.I.A a grand idea...  Not so brutal , bro.  She likes me alright but has an odd way of showing it. and she's in Scotland, can't travel that distance for a püssy I ain't certain of its moistness or elasticity. 
I think her tuition fees didn't cover house heating. She wants to get e-warmed but employed a rude way in going about it. |
Family › Re: And What If She Is Cheating? by lezz(m): 9:20pm On May 20, 2016 |
Dheartless: tell her something. developed countries always have more crimes due to population, exposure, equipments, knowledge/experience...more . them go dey talk without reasoning. The number of Nigerians who believe the West can do no wrong, who ape them and give them the status of divinity is as immense as it is sickening. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 9:08pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: I believe it may. Remember, lack of good sex can cause serious deviant behavior.
However, before we engage in the deed, I'll have her do us the deed of shaving her vagina. A bushy vagina is known to be home to all manner of pest, rodents, cats and arachnid.  Lolz, my ribs.
I shudder to think of the vast materials of hijab I will have to shove aside to get to her centre.
She may well be a freak awaiting fuel to burn.
I just wonder how wide she's going to part her legs; in complete surrender or in partial reluctance of hesitation.
I've never predicted a depressive maniac aright!
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Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 9:02pm On May 20, 2016 |
uncjay: Will be asking you subsequent questions, it might not be on this thread anyway. Got alot to know.  Okay, bro. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 8:58pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: Hey bro. I'm actually thinking the time is almost right for I and you to have a menage a trois with daretodiffer. LMAO. Lolz @ menage a trois. Will that cure her acute lack of good judgement and chronic obsessive-compulsive disorder? |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 7:55pm On May 20, 2016 |
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 7:49pm On May 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Bla bla bla
The same BS . You just can't get enough of me. 1 month without quoting me is just too much asking for you  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 7:45pm On May 20, 2016 |
Ishilove: Men use diplomacy because the kind of directness you're talking about is disrespectful to many women's sense of honour. I have long discovered and 'acclimatised' myself to my own femininity but if ever a man is as direct with his intentions in the way you insist women like, to me, I will immediately take offence and give him a thorough tongue lashing. Ishilove, I have always wanted to fück you, in a period in time past. I often wondered when you'll get round to realising you have always wanted to fück me too with equal fervour 
Men have always used diplomacy because female sexuality has always been downplayed and misunderstood by men since time began. Common, when was female Orgasm learnt and appreciated? It has always been an act of duty or obligation for women to participate in sex.
So men through time have always felt the need to put sex in a diplomatic, persuasive imploration.
You mean with all your pro-women's rights and emancipation, this has eluded you?
Yeah, you can tongue-lash, it's just a culture shock to you. Your senses will get used to it, but your hormones will before the rest of you follow.
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 6:53pm On May 20, 2016 |
Ishilove: What kind of ladies have you being hanging out with?  All types. I love 'em in varied assortments.
And I love to loosen the uptight, prudish ones who are yet to discover their raw femininity.
Women love it direct most times, but men for some unexplained reasons have used too much diplomacy. Women only learnt to adapt. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 6:46pm On May 20, 2016 |
Ishilove: In other words, you aren't gentlemen who are bothered by the conventional mating rituals. Just tell her to her face 'I wanna fvck' you. Gentleman? The word itself is a term for hypocrisy and falsity!!!
Being gentlemanly has turned many ladies to cheats who crave the brutality and primal nature of sex and love!
" I want to fück" will turn your hormones around and make your heart do the double and produce an extra glint in your eyes than other pretentious euphemisms.
Few moments call for veiled intentions though, but take nothing away from bold assertions |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 6:34pm On May 20, 2016 |
Ishilove: You and joseph1832 are such lechers  He and I are like the majority of males about; the only difference is we state our intention and mind with boldness accompanied by honesty.
We don't ass-lick and suck up to you females to gain your approval like the pansy kid does
We tell it as it is.
Deep down, the average woman is a 100 times more earthy than the male. |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 6:29pm On May 20, 2016 |
uncjay: lolz........one hell of a job for me there. Hahaha, then you don't like them then? |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 6:28pm On May 20, 2016 |
Dheartless: oga Eros . you want to finish another mans daughter? how is life, ma man? Lolz, there's nothing I have planned for her she won't approve  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 6:16pm On May 20, 2016 |
Ishilove: Oyibo girama. I never knew there are so many sexists on Nairaland Realism isn't sexism.
My love for women is Nairaland-renowned but it won't colour my perceptibility. |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 2:43pm On May 20, 2016 |
uncjay: i can't count the numbers of times, i've heard girls say that no. 2, to me, i never count it as anything in fact i think it's just the usual way girls talk whenever they want to sound funny and sometimes metaphorical. Bro, you'll pay a little attention to it. Nigerian girls are the masters of subtlety and so much more is often hidden in no2 |
Romance › Re: Am I Being Wicked? by lezz(m): 2:25pm On May 20, 2016 |
5minsmadness: There was this girl I was interested in, we actually met at the hospital and she was damn hot and sexy. I asked her out and she complied and we went for a couple of dates during which things began to get more serious. However, on one of the dates she let it slip that she had a boyfriend but she wouldn't mind double-dating. Me, I don't do that stuff, I noticed it always ends up messy. So I pulled back from the relationship and when she asked why I stated my reasons. Even if I want to continue that kind of relationship I would never take her serious and it would be mainly for the sex. She thanked me for my honesty and as far as I know we parted ways in good terms.
The thing is now she keeps calling and asking for one favour or the other, financial, medical, etc. I feel such things can be handled by her boyfriend who she has even fixed a wedding date with, and so I keep telling her I can't help her, she should go meet her man but she no wan hear.
Ok Now she's asking for us to meet at my place and I'm wary about meeting her in a lonely place so I won't be tempted cos she is damn tempting and am seeing green light everywhere. I told her to keep away from me and she said am too uptight and wicked. That I don't want to help her. But I feel since she's already in a serious relationship any help she needs should come from her bf, even if I can render that help. Am I really being wicked?
Sorry for any typos, this was typed in a hurry. 5mins, yes you're wicked!!! WTF!!!
All she's asking is 5minutes püssy-shellacking and you deny her that?
Common, you've told her you can't date her, so she's clear. So you can't possibly be leaving any emotional scars on her.
Tomorrow is Saturday, prepare well then invite her over. Give her what she wants. It won't hurt anyone  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 1:53pm On May 20, 2016 |
postmann: Hey bro, back off!!! What are you talking about? Drawing up inference randomly? Hehehehe he.
Love, love love. Oya I don go.  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 1:38pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: You meant places? I'm sure most ladies wouldn't mind the feel of an Ice Cube on their _nipples  lolz, I meant "ice" for her cold and aloof deportment.
"Thawed" for the sudden, animated and heated surge and outflow of her emotions which has always been "cold".
Who could ever believe such a carefree statement will become the causative agent to unlock her passionate side? Bwahahaha
Your active mind sha.  |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 1:25pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: LOL. So, how want to visit the Pit Of Tataurus? Lol.  I never hesitate to show homosexuals the way.
As long as it is criminalised in Nigeria, I will always be a law abiding citizen  |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 1:03pm On May 20, 2016 |
mimzy: Ha...PM do you want your girlfriend to break my head  No 2. stated out loud and clear.  But it isn't a one-way traffic. So your heart won't ever do the double. 
mimzy: ehn ehnnnnn  and what was ur response to her.  "...until you made me..." how did i make u blv?  that reminds me... i have a thread to finish reading  I assured her what I just assured you above 
Last night? My suspicion became my belief after seeing one of NL's finest female point me to a route I so loved to ignore. 
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Romance › Re: 6 Reasons Why Slim Girls Will Always Look Better(photos) by lezz(m): 12:56pm On May 20, 2016 |
benedict100: hey bro..hope u ain't gay...y ask for his mail? Has not this gay catchphrase become too trite and well-worn?
You seem lazy and unimaginative.
Seek new materials. |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 12:42pm On May 20, 2016*. Modified: 6:57pm On May 20, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 12:36pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832:
Where dem fags_ at? You have a cool customer here...  I still have the duplicate key to Hades handed me by Satan himself.
Perhaps, the moment to excercise such powers has come. |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 12:34pm On May 20, 2016 |
mimzy: that's what 'they' tell u abi  I never believed it oh. Until you made me.
That statement (no.2 ) comes in different shades 
I was told one last night.  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:31pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: Yea its usually blind, that's why its the major cause of most heart breaks in contemporary times... And the fans usually watch and read in 3D.  Love hurts, chai!!! My heart dey beat like the bomb dropping on sambisa forest 
See as your friend dey ventilate because of one yeye statement. Ice thawed in the most subtle of manners  |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by lezz(m): 12:28pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: But still, I honestly don't think it would have been fun seeing you in shorts, back then.  My leg never straight finish abi?  I've always had the gift of fine bones and well moulded flesh from God himself. Hehehehe |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:14pm On May 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: LOL. In any event, you should know he wasn't referring to you, right?. Lol. See how a general comment can be taken in the light of personal assessment?
Love, love, love
They say love is blind, I say love sees in 3D lens binoculars  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:11pm On May 20, 2016 |
Ishilove: You know, there are many times when your posts are little steps away from being sexist and condescending.
What tha fvck is the 'vulnerability' of the female mind? 
Do you realise how insulting that is? And the female mind is biologically programmed to be vulnerable. It is her source of strength and , of course , weakness too. All religious and statistical data , and real life occurrence have shed light to this.
Why stamp your feet over a trite truism that is known to both men of letters and nonreaders?
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