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 Family › Re: How Relevant Is Bearing A Male Child In Today's World? by lezz(m): 2:19pm On May 23, 2016 |
A male offspring is double step into the future!!! In the world of hereditary and tradition, bequeathment and customs, a male child is next thing to surety. Males are responsible for customs, civilisation, security, foundation and continuity and stability. Every woman should have one. 8 Likes |
| Politics › Re: 8 Ways The Constitution/Statutes Discriminate Against Women by lezz(m): 1:12pm On May 23, 2016 |
MarieSucre: MarieSucre:Doubly presumptuous you are!!! Been having network bottleneck! And whatever gave you the impression I am in support of western countries granting citizenship to foreign males? Have the males here not taken utmost advantage of that statutory folly and exploited their women, economy and statutes by that act? Has America and the West not imposed stricter measures to curb its excesses? Listen young lady, not every country smiles at dual citizenship and even those countries who do have strict control on who they confer it to or what public or electoral office they run. Oh, and men may cheat more than women, but they don't often break the union, majority of single mothers were never married or left their marital home in their own volition. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: 8 Ways The Constitution/Statutes Discriminate Against Women by lezz(m): 1:22am On May 23, 2016 |
MarieSucre: MarieSucre:Go to bed. It's sleep time. I'll give you want you want in the morning. |
| Celebrities › Re: Patience Ozokwor Turns Born Again (Photos) by lezz(m): 9:26pm On May 22, 2016 |
Bossforeva:Blog of cold liars peddling false stories. |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 3:50pm On May 22, 2016*. Modified: 4:38pm On May 22, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:[b]And the Feminist desperation continues!  Prehistoric times women ruled the world!!! Your source talks of archeological findings to support the claim that women ruled the world!!!!Yes snakes had legs before and humans were actually chacma baboons that evolved into super animals. In prehistoric times when humans share a boundless sphere with wild beasts, women ruled. When women had PMS and mensural cramps, 9 months of biological incapacitation and many more years of child-nurturing, they were ruling. You could easily pass for an intellectual woo-woo.Now tell me, what civilisations or era that survived female rulership? Because all civilisations known to man are by men!!! So which civilisation or era did women found? I get you, according to your feminist whining source, they were PREHISTORIC, so no documentation except some archeologists suggest women ruled somewhere in the distance of time that didn't carry any culture or civilisation. Arghhhgh, the sheer desperation could very well mar my Sunday beer Every moment of history only point to the defenselessness of women. The idea of a golden time when women ruled is an intellectual fraud, and you, my dear, are done for!!! [/b] PinketteDawn:The issue of memory retention does not even arise! I had to preserve my mental health from intellectual scraps. Thank you. PinketteDawn:Are you limiting the conditionality of genes to simple basic biology and physiology? Do not genes affect behaviour and temperament, eh? Tell me, granny, this child wants to know? PinketteDawn:Are you not being contradictory? If women , as you claim are victims of societial conditioning, does it not laugh at your claim that women ruled the world once? So their culture and civilisations didn't survive? AhahahAhahaha! Women in their early and late 20s who are financially independent and had career mothers are still more desperate for union like their 19th century mothers who never worked. PinketteDawn:I fail to see the correlation here. PinketteDawn:the emboldened word (that) is where you sought to deliberately misunderstand me. Women (in general) being readily open to forgive a cheating husband than men (in general) , even though sources have proven that men suffer more in divorce, is a proof that women are genetically programmed to keep and maintain marrital union because of their dependability on men. Recent financial empowerment of females would have negated this. But rich women are even buying men in marriages now. PinketteDawn:Did you just noded to genetic dependability of the sexes? And can you give me instances, please? PinketteDawn:I'm sorry not reading your own links before posting them is more embarrassing than public _nudity; it is displaying your ignorance in a celebratory manner I believe you spend more time in front of your dressing mirror than you do in perusing facts you intend to use for defence. Sorry, but it's in your genes. I can't help ya!! Perhaps archeologists can tell you it hasn't been this bad too, and you can seek escapism in the debris of matter subject to interpretation of the desperate few of which you're an eager applicant PinketteDawn:I am not. Your handle is an alternate. This is where I ask you to uncover your mask!!! |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 2:03pm On May 22, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:How is that now? You're the one who told me human society was matriarchal and the source you cited said it wasn't so. And you turn around to accuse me of living in denial? I like your sense of humour  PinketteDawn:The mechanism of my mental defence is automatic and hyper sensitive. As soon as your first two sources assaulted my mental perception, my auto-defence mechanism triggered in self-preservation  I could well be a mental kebab if I had gone further. PinketteDawn:Look around you, evidence abound. Women are forgiving their cheating partners more than men are forgiving theirs, even though divorce or separation bears more on men. Simple psychology and biology, baby. Now you're going to point me to societal conditioning as defence again but all the sourced you've cited couldn't help you. PinketteDawn:Aye! My words indeed. And honestly, I find you more socially enthralling and comely. Forgive the digression but you're super sensitive in more ways than one. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: 8 Ways The Constitution/Statutes Discriminate Against Women by lezz(m): 11:33am On May 22, 2016*. Modified: 12:49pm On May 22, 2016 |
[b]*The idea of disallowing foreign men who married Nigerian women from being citizens of this country is welcomed  The emotional vulnerability of women should rob them of this right. Not mentioning a vast majority who suffer from bad judgement.* Women shouldn't work at night: there's rape out there. Since women are physically weaker and more blunt in perceiving real dangers, they should stay away from night duties. * In the instance the father is alive and sound, a mother has no business giving consent of marriage. Women have proven to be taken by the jazz of emotions and quicksilver approach to life. * The police is right in some restrictions of its female members. *Rape is a serious crime of which punishment is severe. Burden of proof should be tough. "It is better for 10 guilty men to go unpunished than one innocent man to suffer in the hands of the law" Since women could and have actually screamed rape when there was none, burden of proof should be made difficult as well. All the other submissions are still subject to judicial interpretation with basic human rights and dignity setting the perceived discrimination aright. All I see is positive discrimination. [/b] 6 Likes |
| Politics › Re: 8 Ways The Constitution/Statutes Discriminate Against Women by lezz(m): 11:18am On May 22, 2016 |
dinachi:Thank you bro. I was still reading his misguided , ill thought-out claims until I came across your response. Nice one. All I see is positive discrimination. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: How My Friend Was Butchered By His Girlfriend's Dad (Pictures) by lezz(m): 11:07am On May 22, 2016 |
Ishilove:Oh, unquenchable curiosity and inexorable thirst for knowledge. Interesting. Thanks. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: How My Friend Was Butchered By His Girlfriend's Dad (Pictures) by lezz(m): 10:40am On May 22, 2016 |
Ishilove:Are you a lawyer or a wide reader? |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 9:46am On May 22, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:Pinkettedawn, you disappoint me in the most cruel of manners. You rob me of a good Sunday debate You shot yourself in the foot with your first source you cited that claims matriarchy . In the very opening was a disclaimer to your claims. It saved me the pain of delving further. ( I did a screenshot for you)And the rebutal you cited on your second source which sought to establish "men are more dependent on women" must have been written by a teen who was still experiencing her first menses. I have never been mentally assaulted with such laughable postulation and baselessly speculative nonsensicality. No data of stats or stated findings of professionals. Just plain old female chest beating. Her examples are: * men need women to take care of the baby * men throw around thier stocking * women give men fashion sense etc. Lolz, it would have been comic if it wasn't so ridiculous. You need to come up with something more mentally stirring. 3 Likes
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| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 12:29am On May 22, 2016*. Modified: 10:00am On May 22, 2016 |
cococandy:Cococandy has got an ass for brains that's why she likes fart-typing Can you give us the statistics of teenage pregnant girls who grew up with single mothers ? You know data abound of young girls being susceptible to rapé and teen pregnancies when they grow up with single mothers Yes, men cope poorly in divorce, this very biased thread said that much. But women worry more about keeping the union. And that's what your insecurity dares not admit in the open. You're the one with the insecuries that couldn't handle reality here. cococandy:Statistics keep proving you wrong. You will deny the obvious just to live the lie. But who's running to pastors and prophets for life partners? Women. Who's suffereng bulimia nervosa to keep young and sexy and slim? Women. Who keeps wearing phoney accessories and falsifying their looks? Women. I dey watch you ,cocoa 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 12:09am On May 22, 2016 |
cococandy:cocoa, coco? I love cocoa, all I see is cocoa You find this unbiasedly written piece devoid of sentiments sexist? Why am I not surprised! |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 7:32pm On May 21, 2016*. Modified: 10:04am On May 22, 2016 |
Adaeze003:Nice question!!! I love women, matter of fact, I have not been able to decipher what I love more between life and women And men do not go about prating on how independent they are of women, neither do they form groups or new ideology to promote segregation and antagonism of the sexes. It is Women who have chosen to live in denial not men. A divorced women is more apt to preach divorce as the solution to marital problems than is a divorced man. This section can very well serve as a social laboratory to carry out this theorem.  3 Likes |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 6:16pm On May 21, 2016*. Modified: 10:06am On May 22, 2016 |
Adaeze003:Ada, you can't draw up a principle from its exception!!! No principle or occurrence is in absolutism and the few exceptions can't void the premise on which the principle stands. Women may opt out of marriage, it does not negate the fact that the average woman wants a man no matter her financial status or position. She's is innately programmed to hang on to a male and tag along in the rough terrain of life. I have personally scripted threads that mirror this in the past, but seeing it re-echoed by professionals from the West -- the seat of female delusions-- is ever so refreshing. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Family › Re: All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 5:06pm On May 21, 2016 |
@pinkettedawn, you couldn't even quote me properly!!! Let me ask you, how come women were thus conditioned by society in all cultures and in all races across all peoples and time? Keep the denial on 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 2:42pm On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:Your understanding of gene is frightfully limited, dear. You should be having to mentions now, including this one. https://www.nairaland.com/3119292/all-what-mother-dont If not, see her: |
| Family › All What Your Mother Had And You Don't by lezz(op): 2:38pm On May 21, 2016 |
[b] We live in an age in which women have earned complete independence. So do they need men at all? According to Dr NICK NEAVE, an evolutionary psychologist from Northumbria University, not only do they need men, they are fundamentally programmed to depend on them. Here, Dr Neave, 41, explains his provocative thesis: You're a successful woman with a job to die for, a fabulous home and a supportive husband, but do you ever get the urge to check his mobile phone for love messages? Or his bank statements for intimate meals a deux that you didn't share? And do you lie awake at night worrying how you'll cope if the worst happens, your fears are proved and your husband walks out? Don't worry. Your suspicion is only natural. At the risk of sounding extraordinarily sexist, I'm convinced that women, even in the happiest of relationships, are programmed to worry their men are going to abandon them. And they're terrified - in a way that most men find it frankly impossible to imagine. What's more, if their forebodings come true, women are more inclined to forgive an affair than a man if the shoe is on the other foot. That's not because they're nicer, more easygoing individuals. It's simply because their primeval urge to hang onto a male provider is so strong. Women in the 21st century may boast that they are truly independent for the first time in our social history. They may tell themselves and each other that they don't need a man. They can even start a family on their own thanks to IVF techniques. But, while feminists may argue this proves women have finally kicked off the shackles of dependence on men, I'm afraid they're wrong. In evolutionary terms the huge cultural changes over the past generation amount simply to the merest blink of an eye. It could take another 10,000 years for women to change their thinking. Quite simply, women are preprogrammed to feel dependent on men. Even today women may be richer and enjoy all the trappings of success but, deep down in their psyche, they fear they can't survive alone. These women may be shooting up the career ladder and earning more than the men in their lives, but when it comes to relationships men still hold the trump card. As an evolutionary psychologist, I study patterns of behaviour dating back to the first human societies, and constantly analyse evidence that demonstrates the key differences which have developed between the sexes since men were hunter-gatherers and women were child bearers. Females are smaller and weaker than males so, in prehistoric times, women and their offspring were prone to being the victims of predators, and violence. They needed the support and protection of men who didn't just have brute force but also had social status in the group, either through their sheer physicality or the strength of their personality. That's why women still look for a mate of higher social standing. If a woman had a relationship with a socially dominant male, she would immediately get greater access to resources because her social standing would be elevated, too. As we shall see, modern surveys consistently show that women today ape those inherent characteristics by looking for partners who are socially dominant and have the respect of their peers, paying close attention to how men interact with, and are treated by, other men. Men have a different reason for choosing a mate. The caveman needed to be sure he was raising a child who was genetically his. The best way of doing this was to secure a mate and guard her so she didn't get the chance to stray. A man's natural instinct may be to have sex with a different woman every day, but to safeguard his relationship (and secure his progeny), he has been forced into a pattern of monogamy. don't even realise what's happening. When couples meet at speed-dating evenings, typically a man will judge a woman on her looks and youth. His priorities are whether she's healthy, interested in sex and can give him children one day. He doesn't care how much she earns or her social status. Typically, however, a woman's first question will be: 'What job do you do?' It sounds a friendly overture, but what she really wants to know is his social position and earning capacity. Is he an industrious, hard worker, capable of providing for her and their children? Because of his power, even the ugliest politician on the planet has women lining up to go to bed with him. Were he the local rat catcher, his love life would be a good deal quieter. As American statesman Henry Kissinger put it: 'Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.' One might argue that it's only natural for today's women in their 30s or 40s to feel dependent on a man. After all, the vast majority were raised by mothers who by and large didn't have careers and were forced to rely financially on their husbands. Yet study after study proves that today's women in their 20s are just as insecure. In a recent study, two American researchers, John Marshall Townsend from Syracuse University and Gary Levy from the University of Toledo, presented women with photographs of men. The first group, described as doctors, wore designer ties, smart shirts and sported Rolex watches. The second wore plain shirts and Swatch watches and were described as teachers. The third group wore Burger King uniforms. Women repeatedly picked doctors as potential boyfriends - even though many of the men in the third category were actually more handsome. Quite simply, to women a man's looks are less important than earning power and social standing. In another study, male and female medical students were asked to pick their ideal mate from a selection of careers. The majority of men chose nurses. Women, however, picked hospital consultants. This demonstrates that, although every bit as financially successful as their male colleagues, these young women still feel they need men to confer power and social standing to a superior male. It's no surprise to me that another study this year by sociologists at Virginia University found that couples are happiest in traditional marriages run on old-fashioned gender lines, where the man is the main breadwinner. The report showed conclusively that women who worked were more dissatisfied with their husbands than those who stayed at home. One of the experts, W Radford Wilcox, said: 'Regardless of what married women say they believe about gender, they tend to have happier marriages when their husband is a good provider.' Happiest of all were women whose husbands brought in at least two-thirds of the household income, regardless of how much they helped with domestic chores. In short I suspect women will never feel truly comfortable earning more than their men. The need to rely on a man is driven by such a deep-seated biological urge, I cannot see it ever being eradicated completely. Only last week, a survey by the Skipton Building Society concluded that many women who are the main breadwinner hold it against their partner for contributing less to the household budget than they do. While those women might like the material rewards of their high salaries, they also dislike the financial responsibility - perhaps reflecting the inbuilt genetic imperative to rely on someone else. )It is that instinctive need to rely on a man which makes women so afraid of abandonment. Perhaps that is why women are more attuned to their partner's moods and curious about tiny aspects of his life. And they are much better than men at spotting liars. Evolutionary psychologists are convinced that these are in part throwbacks to a woman's need to maintain her relationship at all costs. It's completely irrational for women, who can earn as much as men, to have a terror of being abandoned. Even if she can't work, the welfare state means she's not going to starve. Yet it's a real fear for many women. We have anecdotal evidence of women lying awake at night worrying how they'd cope. Women are terrified of abandonment. They fear a drop in status or social standing that might come with divorce in a way men - who are driven by very different priorities - simply don't understand. Even extremely wealthy, successful women have these vestigial anxieties which bear absolutely no relation to the reality of their lives, but are throwbacks to caveman society. Ironically, although men actually fare less well after divorce and are often less happy, women typically are more frightened of living alone. Men find it extremely hard to forgive an affair. This dates back to early man's horror of unwittingly raising another man's child. However, women are predisposed to be more tolerant of affairs. It comes down to brutal economics. The thought of your husband having sex with another woman may be devastating. But even worse is the prospect of him pouring all his financial resources her way. Quite simply, women are so programmed to feel dependent that their subliminal urge to safeguard the home often outweighs the fury of being sexually betrayed. Terror of being abandoned even drives the beauty industry. Eating clinics report a four-fold rise in the number of middle-aged women seeking help for anorexia and bulimia because they're desperate to look slim and youthful. These problems were once the province of teenage girls. And while women may claim they are having cosmetic surgery and Botox treatments purely to feel better about themselves, I believe the reason is much more complex. Women are driven by a primeval urge to keep their men by looking youthful and fertile. Sexist? Maybe. True? I fear so. [/b] Source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-420513/Sorry-women-dependent-men.html 9 Likes 6 Shares |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 1:10pm On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:Gene predetermines behaviour patterns to an extend. You need me to say this? You hinge it on societal conditioning. I say not entirely true. |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:17pm On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:Sugar, you have, without much effort, denied the structural and genetical difference between men and women. And you used the well-worn tool of "societal conditioning" as an excuse. Society condition women you say, and I say it is in your genes, baby. Let me tell you all ladies something without the consolation of euphemism to make me dear to you. There are not one difference between you and women of the last century. The only difference is they were true to their nature, you are denying your very predisposition with education. Carry on. |
| Celebrities › Re: Celebrities And Famous People From Delta State (photos) by lezz(m): 11:31am On May 21, 2016 |
Dragonking:Thanks, Brother!!! You done begin alter my weekend plans positively. |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:25am On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:Same belief here. PinketteDawn:In a way yes, the relationship between a man and a woman is complementary in nature , made so by the unfathomable brilliance of God through millions of years of evolution. That's why faggøtry can't make sense ever. Women are more dependent on their men in more ways than men are. I don't have the time now to type a long submission. But in everyday things like sex, emotional well-being, in chaos, spirituality, trend, culture etc. Women wait for man to lead and she follows. Take this home: If Nairaland were a physical sphere and a terrorist act were to occur or armed robbers where to attack, all the females here will instinctively, without the luxury of a nano second of thought look up to the men for direction, and leadership......that's the ones who will have the presence of mind, the others might be too busy screaming or in a state of perceptual shock. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:13am On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless:When you're ready, I'll PM you all his gazillion monikers he uses. Unlike most Nairalanders, he doesn't own up to his handles except 2. But we have irrefutable evidence of all his zillion handles, including female ones he uses to hoodwink unsuspecting females into thinking he is being sought after. |
| Celebrities › Re: Celebrities And Famous People From Delta State (photos) by lezz(m): 11:10am On May 21, 2016 |
Dragonking:Thank God it's weekend. Let me e-drive there. Can I download it forthrightly from that link? I can only watch movies in bits on mobile. |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:06am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann: I haven't touched the vast reservoir of facts and evidence I have against that undernourished, demonised, petty, cold thief. Facts of his actual life that spilled onto Nairaland and other forums and e-platformsm. He is the breathing exemplification of attention deficit disorder and inexorable greed. I give him grace and time to mend his ways. But he can't just steer away from making side jibes, can he? |
| Celebrities › Re: Celebrities And Famous People From Delta State (photos) by lezz(m): 10:55am On May 21, 2016 |
Dragonking:Hehehehe, na so life be. I'm a novice to TV series o mobile life done spoil me finish. Na lappy and handset I dey download my movies to watch on the go or whenever I have paper work for office. |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 10:50am On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless:Go read his posts and history, a lengthy backlog but you'll be rewarded. Now ask yourself this; he says he is 19 years of age. So what's he doing crowding supposedly much older women some of whom are married and with kids. From _Nubian113, to _Ladyboss, to _Creamish and to women in the family section most of whom are married and with children. If several of his failed attempts at swindling them had not been revealed no one will know. The real tradegy is when they refused complying with his financial shams, he comes to Nairaland and reveal everything they have confided in him offline. He will troll and hound them in rap battles until they deactivate. Go through his history log. 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Celebrities And Famous People From Delta State (photos) by lezz(m): 10:35am On May 21, 2016 |
Dragonking:Delta north, bro. It's good to know, brother. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 10:07am On May 21, 2016*. Modified: 10:37am On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless:He is!!! A mythical 19 year old whose brain elasticity can't stretch beyond 5 minutes Google search to prate about what he has no knowledge about. One would think, the kid would be worried about his studies and future instead of dabbling into adult affairs he knows little about. But preying on the vulnerability of "older" females in dire emotional need is his stock-in-trade. He gives "carefully researched acquiescence" to their submissions to warm his way--always. The length of his epistle is a clear depiction of his desperate need of their recognition. We hope he doesn't die of the logical fallacy of his long epistles faster than he is certain to die from the failed search of another vulnerable woman to scam and later troll out of Nairaland when relationship goes bad. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Celebrities And Famous People From Delta State (photos) by lezz(m): 9:43am On May 21, 2016 |
Dragonking:Another great Nairalander from Delta state too? Nice discovery. Just like me which region in Delta you from, bro? |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 9:17am On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn: Good and honest start.PinketteDawn:But you have the answer yourself . You just stated that yourself above. |
| Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:22am On May 21, 2016*. Modified: 12:49am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:Alright, bro. Today was for side jabs and veiled swearwords!!! Tomorrow might be for brutal confrontation..... of facts of course Good night 1 Like |
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