₦airaland Forum

byvan03:
Was your post about yourself or men in general? Your assertions would have been comical if it wasn't so ridiculous that you have the fantasy of 7 women begging to be your wife while fending for themselves .

HaneefahRN:
I agree to an extent and still disagree with this. I believe women are more likely to be unemployed than men,

HaneefahRN:
although more women seem to be focused these days on being independent, while some men would rather do fine boy like you pointed out.

HaneefahRN:
Most ladies I know are getting their education and even a side skill, how many guys do this? Yh, men are marrying late seeking financial stability which some might not find till their 40s and a woman most likely wld find someone ready to settle down during that period.

/quote] You answered your own poser! Men are marrying late = few men are available for marriage.

[quote author=HaneefahRN post=44484634]They paid their bride price because our Society still pays so much value on marriage. If this continues, marriage will gradually lose meaning. Just get someone to make your babies with, if interested, cest fini

So what's your view about this? Is this a menace of some sort. And what are the causes?

byvan03:
Really? and this man is forcing his promiscuous wife home.

https://www.nairaland.com/3034103/missing-housewife-traced-brothel-3



He could have married seven more, why is he chasing after one if your posts were true? Someone mentioned that women give birth to more girls, I will say that you have no idea. I see more all boys families around me.

joseph1832:
She is the typical example of a typical ngerian woman.

HaneefahRN:
And the funny part is that time isn't upon us yet, cos the population of male to female in the World is almost balanced and besides the need for marriage is gradually waning . More people will chose to be unmarried with time.

Dcholeric:
at the bold, very true.
even the population ratio at birth is 1:1 in most of the said advanced countries .

firstEVA:
Funny again

I have come to realize something in life, opposite always attract. The very hard working manly men who do not have time for fashion and creams and all that are always attracted to not so hard working or industrious women, the completely dependent ones. While the men you have described are attracted to the very hardworking women. It's may appear like a case of role reversal, but then again, not all men or women were built the same way, opposite will always attract.

Imagine a lazy bleaching bleaching man with a lazy bleaching woman, that's a disaster.

Mindfulness:
A quick google search would have shown you that there are more men on earth than women and even in Nigeria.

And what disgrace? In this day and age?


Keep dreaming!

dare2differ:
Okay

dare2differ:
I have always told you. Learn to listen to your superior

If you had taken time to use that same Google, you would have succeeded in learning something new today.

iyb:
It's true women outlive men and they are probably more women than men and don't forget the gay bastards that are reducing the number of men in the world.

dare2differ:
It might interest you to know that we are having more men and more men are living longer.

Besides, there is a man for every woman out there. It is fallacy to say that nonsense.

unlawfulact:
I quite agree with you. Most of these ladies are in their mid and late 20s. While their male counterpart of the same age are struggling to get paid job or to feed themselves. The truth is at this age some male folks still rely heavily on their parents for survival. When these men are ready to settle down they are less likely say in their early or mid 30s they are less likely to date someone of their age . The only advice i have for ladies expecially those one in higher institutions is to change their mindset about graduating and working for a number of years before they get married.

Suigeneris93:
are you the op?

dare2differ:
Le.zz, I expected you to be smarter than this




Don't tell me you believed that for a second? I didn't!

Dcholeric:
you are welcome dear.
by the way, I am just a young man.

and thanks for the complement.

you look tempting , no wonder le.zz....erm..erm......never mind .

mimzy:
You have spoken for yourself dear, we both know majority of men are guilty of having these dual standards... Its not fair to women. But I agree with you tho... "Somehow"

Dcholeric:
got ban.

no, I am Dheartless.

Dcholeric:
I noticed just a while ago too .

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:

[b]1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

You want the truth? Ok, A man's sexual arousal is like a light bulb; swift and in a flash of an instance.

A woman's sexual impulses are like a volume knob, slow and gradual. Bottom line, women are more premeditated when cheating and carry out a lot of detailed planning.

Men will just want to nail an ass that breezes by with the instant arousal of his nature, women are more likely to plan and fine-tune their mission before execution.

Women's cheating isn't always a one-off mistake!

mimzy:
2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

Every man should be comfortable with domestic chores.

mimzy:
3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?

I don't think the average man shames a woman for her sexual narration with her "guy" except she is silly enough to recount details of escapades of lots of body counts.

But men should brag just a bit
we do the wooing, take the risks, plot the map, stand the fear of rejection, we should rejoice with a little chest thumping!

mimzy:
4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

Are you talking about feminism?

mimzy:
5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? [/b]

mimzy:
Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

Dcholeric:

so Wetin I post/type pain you so tey you go report me ?

or are you a moderator?

only small "fowl" wey I post Naim you go report .
ok no worry I will certainly direct more at you when the time is right .
bye for now , no go report this one too o.

coolsix:
Look at your own screenshot...

Someone tell him he was raised by an animal is not an insult? Ok he should say thanks?

daretodiffer:
You are no different from the op

You are a loser!