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doveda:
Biggest lie ever

Keep deceiving yourself

The earlier you realise that it lies with how they have been brought up, the better for you.


I have met men who do not mind doing domestic chores. Why? Upbringing; they do not assume that marriage is an avenue to stop doing believe that marriage should absolve them from taking care of themselves and their environments and personal factors.

in those days, our mothers used to have lots of kids and relatives. Even a new wife is given a small child when she is going to her husband's house. They do not live in the type of buildings we live now. They do not need to do the things we have to do today to make the house orderly.

Why do you think older people tend to be very good with apportioning chores?

You're often wont to edit your posts, sparking conflict of response.

Gather your thoughts like your make-up accessories before you hit the submit button.

Men are still exploring Mars, the Artic and Outer space today as they explored your village and founded it millions of years ago .

Evolution can't be altered by theories or debate.

Evolution has designed you for millions of years never to take risks and be adventurous.

That's why you bleed once month and have PMS sickness and symptoms, that's why you carry the foetus for 9 months and nurse it for years of its infancy.

Feminism is the dumbest idea ever put forward.

Evolution has chosen your role and all the books, seminars and rantings won't alter it.

And I won't be reading the other long quote of donkeyshit you dropped ealier.

You're too young, too troublesome and too inexperienced a tiro for me.

kaziblake:
Aww my bad,forgotten he is an attention seeker.

A sponger and a supplanter too.

Next to pictorial exposures, a silent dismissal he finds soul-wrecking.

He's a natural repellent vexer, he can't help it even if he tried all he may.

pinceprinz:
In short, yo jealousy guarding her from sanguine extraordinaire when you could employ your highly ballistic literal prowess to convince her to see the world around in a more classic oculus.

Lolz, see literary efforts of grandeur!!!

Bro, I've done by bit and showed her the beating of my heart through the dance of my letters.

And other admirers with less social graces like you came at me in alternate monikers

I do not shield her from the advances of others, I can't. She'll get to a place where she'll reaffirm her path with me or chart a strange course where I may not follow.

Until then, if it ever comes, she follows the beat of my heart and that shine in her eyes when she looks at me in the morning, I've sworn to keep it there.

kaziblake:
kil yourself

He isn't worth a keystroke, hun.

Let him slide off like bathe water. Let the whirlwind blow the scraps of dirt on the road into the chasm of obscurity.

pinceprinz:
This is love personified; it ain't complete. I'm here proposing love exemplary, as in keying in to complete the love triangle.

She isn't open to such extreme examples of love!

She's a bit old fashioned, and that's how I like 'em

joseph1832:
Well it was clumsy of the guy. How could he have let his guard down? That's the question.

Same thoughts here, the minute your wife has strange association with another man and you no longer see the spark of love or glow of compassion in her eyes, then you've got be on your toes.

firstEVA:
Most times they refuse to learn until its too late.

What's there to learn when the light in your eyes has always guided my feet aright?

HaneefahRN:
Lolz. Hmmm, sing? Maybe.

I can't fault that. Also the Societal expectation of women nowadays is also crazy, like most men would say they want independent women, they don't want liabilities, bla bla bla, yet these women are expected to hold their work and home front strong. Get something doing so you contribute to the family's finances and still be on ground too, for the domestic chores, clean up after the man, take care of the home, kids, in-laws and all, be there to try and satisfy him so his eyes don't wander, listen to the Society judge them on what and what not to do etc, this would drive anyone crazy.
I believe we won't be having these issues if each gender plays his or her roles with mutual love and respect.

It's a tricky one for modern women, having to define their role in motherhood, wife, a professional and a career woman.

Our grandothers didn't have it this tough.

But I think men caught up with the Feminist rant asking women to go live their dreams and be whatever they want.

Now no one seems able to draw the line between a woman's role in the house and her career.


Men can never be domesticated, his nature is adventurous and exploring.

Same way women can never be altered to be career driven and running after the rat race!
She'll always be drown to her children and husband.

Your caring nature isn't made to withstand the dogfight of power, glory and risky adventures.

HaneefahRN:
So I heard. So what influences this? Certainly not the inability to be trophy wives , I presume.

Lolz, you and bedroom sha.

My name is Haneefah.

Haneefah?

That sounds so musical and sexy. You sing?

Ehm, to your point, having women walk long hours, join the rat race, office fights, promotion struggle, competing for office bonuses is not what most women are cut ought for.

They make the money and lost their womanhood, nowadays married women are transferred out of their husbands' state of residence. Isn't that evil?

It wasn't so in the distant past, a woman working in state or federal civil service is often exempted from transfers away from her husband. It's no longer so.

Why wouldn't they be sad?

HaneefahRN:
Lolz, maybe. Men have always had an edge though and you can see some being uncomfortable seeing the edge gradually disappear

No one is uncomfortable. We worry for women.

Latest US statistics just pointed out that women have grown increasingly sad in same proportion to their economic rise.

So the modern woman is actually sadder than her counterpart of the last era.

You know it affects the bedroom, don't you?

And what's your given name?

Dcholeric:
I believe it was a subtle way to evade responding to my post

She hides in obscurity and confusion. Mixing things up in an attempt to evade your points.

dare2differ:
One of you mentioned me

You needn't heed the call

dare2differ:
What makes you think that you are special sef?

I never said so, you just did.

So, what makes you think I'm special?

Dcholeric:
and even so, it proves nothing.

the fact remains that there are more number of females who wants to marry than number of males that want to do same,even without a prove, it is easy to decipher in todays society.

of course they know, but won't admit it.

dare2differ:
I can see two misogynists consoling themselves

I thought you said you were leaving?

Stillfire:
You've got to be kidding me. This was your opening statement:

These are the foretelling of the holy Book.
Are we already at the threshold of this prophesy or is it still an occurence we await?

By asking that question YOUR initial interpretation was that the prophecy is just now being fulfilled or it will be fulfilled in future. This a verse Nigerians typically insinuate differences in gender ratios as again proven by your statement. Whereas this prophesy in the scripture had already been fulfilled over 2000 years ago, and it is dead and buried. Your statement in bold counters the metaphorical emphasis you are trying to redeem yourself with. You goofed up!

This is what happens when you try swindle religion into secular issues. If you want to discuss faith, discuss it. If you want to discuss economic issues, discuss that. And stop making a mockery of christians like myself.



Refer to above post!

I saw no allusion to population in the texts you emboldened

7 women proposing to 1 man is no allusion to decrease in male population. Matter of fact, the following texts: we shall but our own bread is grounds enough for you to draw economic inference from there and not population.

Seems you didn't read the thread in its entirety before jumping at me.

And cease quoting Dcholeric along, if you have issues with his post make your point separately. I'm the OP, address the issues of the thread to me and his posts to him.

Blade21:
stop all your women this women that we are the way we are for balance IF all of us are logical how do you think world will be for there to be balañce we need logical and emotional people.

Ok, nice way to look at it. Factual.

Stillfire:
But the heading and by also including a bible verse, had everything to do with world gender population.



Stop making a mockery of Christianity. This scripture is not apt in today's realities as the statistics prove there are more men than women even in Nigeria. China and India for example are on a gender ratio crisis. Isaiah 4: 1 is a continuation of the prior chapters 2 and 3. The house of Jacob had deviated from the Lord, taking advantage of the poor and the penalty was that God will remove every support from Jerusalem and Judah. So great would be the calamity that will befall Israel. Isaiah 3:25 Your men will fall by the sword, your warriors in battle...this leads into Isaiah 4:1 where the women would act out of character according to Jewish customs to propose marriage rather than be proposed to because of reduced population of men as a result of war.

Why are you making allusion to population?

And since when does the scripture became a dress to be amended to soothe the shape and weight of men?

Did the OP made any allusion to population?

You didn't see the metarphor ? Look again.

Dcholeric:
that's how we roll , we like to take away the hope of society miscreants .

well lezz said something about how the op has little to do with gender population ratio.

and yes wiki is to a point more reliable than a good number of information sources and yes again, your site (the one you included in your quote of me) It's erm..erm, "let me be linient ", It's not recognized.

I wonder why they kept harping on population citing a political motivated link from CIA fact book.

Mindfulness:
In civilized countries, every birth and death is duly registered. This is how they cam to their findings. If you want to know more, take your time to do some research. I have a job and a family. Thank you.

And identity theft is still a puzzle and crime they can't wrap their fingers on.

Common, even fagōt Obama's birth is still a controversy in almighty US of Gay who claims to the watchdog of the globe

HaneefahRN:
Lolz.

I don't know o, really.

He likes you, but don't give in; I'm still interested in you, in my bed and out of it

Mindfulness:
Yeah, all these sources were "doctored by a group of feminist for selfish goal."



https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/fields/2018.html

http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx

http://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.POP.TOTL.FE.ZS

https://www.census.gov/population/international/data/idb/worldpop.php

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2015/08/19/see-where-women-outnumber-men-around-the-world-and-why/

http://www.indexmundi.com/world/demographics_profile.html

To begin with CIA fact book is a criminal assemblage of doctored report for political and economic manoeuvring. This is a group that promotes homosexuality, feminism and unstable governments.

The others, I see blogs in there too. They aren't reliable, just like CNN.

joseph1832:
Like seriously If you truly belief that, then I'll have to believe L ezz that you're a _shemale, sorry female.

She has the aura of daretodiffer

Mindfulness:
@red

So what? The statistics did not include their corpses.

Everything about the Original post has nothing to do with population, only economic swing. Population was somehow weaved in and I have made it clear earlier that population will play little or no roles.

Nonetheless, I find your list doctored by a group of feminist for selfish goal.

Your list did agree that women are more in population in old age, from 65yrs when marriage and copulations don't matter much, because it's undeniable that women outlive men. But all the wars that has been fought from Iraq, to Syria, to Afghanistan to Nigeria to Lybia to Georgia to Egypt etc etc have been wiping off young men, as are police who fight crime and engineers who do dangerous sea and field jobs, yet men still outnumber women ?

With all the men in prisons worldwide?

Mindfulness, even if men outnumber women, I put it to you, the number of marriageable women far outnumber that of marriageable males.

joseph1832:
A she? There is no gender attached to the moniker. But i'm hoping the she isn't a _shemale. LOL.

But how do you know its a _shemale sorry she? LOL

Her letters are burdened by the weight of her emotions; they aren't standing straight.

VintageCocktail:
Women will always outnumber men because they are " smarter" abeg

..more men are drafted into the army to be killed off.
..more men are encouraged to do risky jobs or attempts risky behaviors to be killed off early. How many women can change a burst tyre, light bulb, start their generators, do some repair works on their homes. Women has been jobbing men for centuries and Isaiah's instead of facing it head on decides to dream about it and now even modern guys won't let person hear word.
..more men commits suicide successfully while women attempts to without succeeding by four times or so. Meaning if you and your girl decides to commit suicide the chances of you dying on the first try is high while your girl will attempts up to four times without succeeding. It is a proven fact in psychiatry.
..then when the guy managed to get the seven women at once , his life will be snuffed outta him by the bloodhounds while his fellow men cheers him on thinking he has won a lottery not knowing he is playing an endgame refereed by this women.
At the end, women will be playing both end either by being bisexual or outright lesbian and a poor fellow out there will be waiting for the fulfillment of Isaiah's prophecies.

That's some hilarious and factual submissions up there.

The prophecy is a metarphrical analysis, the prevailing socio-economic reality is the actual premise and it isn't something to await in blissful anticipation; it is doom for all if the tide continues unabated.

joseph1832:
Really? Bro , don't think so oh. Hmm. Just take a look at the society today and tell me what you think? Even here, we see the way things fold out when sh1t starts hitting the fan when a female Nairalander start believing she's too much...

I'm sure you remember Patricia Etteh, Diezani, Okonjo Iweala, the way they were lampooned and chastised made me smile, where as people like Saruki are being escorted with 5 platoon of SAN to the court room. LOL.

It's a she!

Djailer:
Sure I don't know you. But I know this much about you: You're an arrogant girl Who never owns up to her own false judgment.

That's one of the underlining shades of inferiority complex.

Is it my own Muslim beauty you're attacking?

What's your grouse ?

joseph1832:
If they were even throwing this much tantrum under the sheets, skillfully, why should a man look elsewhere for more tantrums?

That's it bro, misdirected energy is what these ladies are good at.

HaneefahRN:
Hmmmm, male nurses don't have it bad actually. So you might use other cases. I think it depends on the areas and fields too, like naturally women would have a upper hand, and larger representation in female dominated fields.
And whose fault is it you pick more females?


Lolz. So true. Really cracked me up.

Hmmmm, yeah.

Male nurses don't have it bad because they are in short supply.

We pick female IT students more because they come with pressure and notes from high-end clients and corporate bodies.

Is banking a female dominated field, I don't think so, neither is teaching or government agencies and parastatals.

FTBOY:
let's just forget about the untimely, hazardous deaths which tend to claim the lives of men most of the time...there are also established facts that women have a higher life span than men..

the difference is crystal clear......these people are just arguing blindly..

Women can never argue with logic, bro. See then throwing illogical tantrums around the thread.

joseph1832:
I want to believe we're not fighting ghosts, ghouls, poltergeist and spirits here?

She's creepy and eerie as a ghost, bro.

byvan03:
If you are having difficulty understanding your own words, how then will you comprehend mine? Try and " make out what I am straining to communicate " Mr English .

When you throw my words back at me, they lost their meaning in your word-blindness and dyslexia.

Being original seems a burden to you as making logical postulations