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daretodiffer:
I am sorry but I don't do s.tupid

Your Akike moniker follows me.

Your raging emotions blinded you to your potential sex suitor. Calm down and recognise the diick in front of you.

Your in the presence of your future, baby.

misspicy:
This talk again?


When will this boys learn that we all have a choice,y'all don't need to shove your opinions into our throats na,its not by force to stay with a cheating partner or stay in a polygamous marriage,I for one will make use of the exit door,can't imagine training my God given kids in such a polluted environment....so what the Fcxk is all this noise about.


Niggas this issue has been overflogged,we need decorum please fed up of nairalanders debating about virginity and polygamy,you have a choice I have a choice,we cannot all reason the same way or have same choice




daretodiffer go sleep

le.zz you too

Sweetheart, what are you accusing me of? You know I'm a lover not a fighter.

Daretodiffer came at me in a male's exterior.

[quote author=daretodiffer post=43400571][/quote] Loolz, I'm liking you already.

That's Nairaland trademark response for lines when you don't have any real answers for.

But I am not dissing you, so stop making lame allusions to my mother, dear.

My desire to bed you is newly found but genuine.

Your attitude earned you the top spot to grace my bed, not your body outline

daretodiffer:
If I had known you were daft, I would have ignored you the moment you started making shit up

Nope, you just wanted my e-attention.

Tell me you don't follow one of my other monikers?

Tell me I didn't make you wet your panties and soared your blood pressure .

daretodiffer:
Are you daft?

What's the matter ? Don't tell me my seduction is having the opposite effect on you.

What's eating you so deep?

I thought you said you won the debate?
Is this the attitude of winners?

Either you're having gender identity crisis or you're suffering from the malady of hypoactive sexual desire disorder.

But I have bleeped-cured ladies whose conditions were worse off than yours.

Let's give it a try, darling.

[quote author=WORDWORLD post=43400363][/quote]Night bro, catch you later.

daretodiffer:
Both of you have lost it


Console yourselves o, babies



@word.world, you know what you are
@le.zz, we were not talking about your wife but your baseless argument


Holla, when you learn to use your brains, I can't stand cry babies.

Why are you crying over an issue that is so inconsequential? And put a letter indicator in your other moniker, I actually rue debating with a female.


All those energy should've been spent prepping you up and making sure your pussssy is moist enough to take my lengthy diick in a single sweep at first try.

You need my trademark therapy.

I want to make you cry in sheer joy of the feel and attitude of my diick inside you

WORDWORLD:
TO BE HONEST I SHARE THE SAME THOUGHTS WITH YOU. She is so E-M-O-T-I-O-N-A-L as if it is GENDER a contest.

One of the reasons why our world is so upside down. People read to reply and not to UNDERSTANDING before REPLYING..........all because its a faceless discussion and we can all type things in a hurry without THINKING THROUGH them properly.

JUST OVERLAPPING........BLA BLA BLA....................ITS NOT ABOUT FEMINISM but about doing what is right within what is right to be done.

She never understood me from the beginning, bor. Kind of frustrating when she kept dancing around non- correlated issues as if it were a gender war. In her opening statement, she said my wife would cheat on me blalabala, I replied, I'm open to the possibility calmly.

So surprising. I have a knack daretodiffer is one as same person as akike

daretodiffer:
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Go FVCK yourself

Common babe, don't be so rash, I'm giving you a rare offer. And why the cheap profanity.

I thought you were the sophisticated type. You get easily piqued for all your show of seeming know-how.


Allow me to savour the warmth and moist of your vagina, let's see if the settling of my _semen will calm your raging spirit.


If your demons be mild, I'll _fuck you slow and long.

But if you show any signs of belligerence as you did here them I'll pound your pusssyy hard and furious and your pleasure shall come in the company of a little pain.

PunterTim:

Lolz, don't mind me bro, you take this belligerent folks at face value at your own peril. The lad was quoting me out of context with long narratives as if I'm against women cheating. I only opined women can cheat but it doesn't come easy to them as it does men. And women are emotionally equipped to deal with cheating than men are!!! Then Mr logic was squealing with so much charged heat. Not really in the mood for trolling.


Then comes little miss singing bird, who has a hypoactive sexual desire disorder trying to bait the pussydon!!!

Funny, how she fights without defining the cause


She needs a strong diick to rail her back in the line of feminine grace.

daretodiffer:
Actually, cognitive emotion is to men as emotional empathy is to women. I have floored and I will always floor you






Do you have a death wish? I do. I'll like to know how your

I won't take the bait, babe!!! Very tempting, but I won't bite.

You can only floor me if you can last 3 rounds of sweat-dripping sex with your legs arched apart and allow pelvics level penetration without the hindrance of your thighs.

daretodiffer:
I should stop arguing with you. I don't like men who cannot use their brains. They nauseate me



The day you share my bed is the day I die

On the contrary, that's the day you come alive and begin to live in essense.

You wouldn't give a care about logic when I part your vagina lips with the head of my phallus if you spend a night in my company.

daretodiffer:
It is not an opinion

In psychology, they are referred to as cognitive emotion and emotional empathy. Google is your friend


Admit it, you don't know what you are saying

And what is it I'm trying to say, sweetheart?

I'm trying to see if your bed can offer something so contrasting to this weather.

Cognitive emotion with women aren't in dispute and I actually don't care to take you on that. I'll easily floor you.

What I'm interested in is your choice of undies during this heat.

It tells alot about a lady

daretodiffer:
@le.zz

Mention this moniker when you learn to use logic to analyse issues

What's up hun? Beleive me, I don't waste time with logic with women; It's a waste of time, I like the look of your eyes already. And I want to share your bed not logic.

akike:
Nah, you need to learn how to learn to reason logically and rationally.

I forgot to tell you a lil bit about my profession. Logic is what I do .


Admit that you are poor thinker, I might just be willing to teach you some tricks

Oh, anything goes here, lad. Wake me up when you learn to separate your opinions from facts.

Oh, and stop hiding behind the curtains of nairaland with bogus claims. Sounds so darn insecure.

And no one really gives a good goddamn about a logician ---that's judging by your display so far

[s]

akike:
What is so hard for you to understand. Let me break it down for you

My argument:


A woman is very emotional that is why she cries etc etc but the type of emotional strength she has is for empathy.

A man's brain is not for emotional empathy, he can deal with issues therefore he should be allowed to deal with emotional issues. Is that so hard for you to grasp? If men can deal with situations, shouldn't they be considered emotionally stronger than women? Shouldn't they be allowed to deal with emotional situations?


The society's and yours:

A women is very emotional therefore she is emotionally weak but not weak to stay with an abusive or cheating partner=she is emotionally strong to deal with a cheating partner.







There are societies where polyandry is practiced although they may be few but it proves one thing. It proves that women are capable of having as much sexual and emotional relationships as posiible






Your widower vs widow argument was so irrelevant, you should be glad I addressed it but here is a complex but simple reasoning.

Do most women have a job and maintain their home at the same time? Yes


Are most men the same way? No, they go to work and come back, sometimes they run a few errands at the behest of their wives.



So it is common sense when a woman who is used to running both fronts to easily move on than a man who thinks it is a woman's job to maintain the home. Don't put it on emotional strength, blame it on experience and the society.




My society tells me to be independent and also be a ‘good wife', my husband only needs to be independent. I didn't choose it, it chose me. I have been told by virtually everyone on earth to learn how to run two different lives. Most Nigerian women love their lives based on it.

[/s] Tried as I did, I couldn't sieve out your overlapping, leaking emotions from the point you're straining to make.

You needn't write a long epistle to pass the point. You tried 4 times earlier and you didn't scale through. Sorry.

akike:
We have different types of emotional strengths. Women do more empathy, men don't however men are more able to deal with situations than women. It does not make one more emotionally stronger than the other rather I see it as a compliment.

Because men are more prone to logic and less with emotion.
Women do more empathy because it's in their genes. Biologically implanted by evolution to nurse the baby and surprisingly the man himslef

akike:
If a woman finds it easy to explode or change gear at every opportunity, my logic tells me that she shouldn't be trusted to forgive a cheating partner.

Because the emotions of women is like a faulty fuel gauge of a car. They rant out of jealousy which is agsin doused by the sweet pleadings of the cheating partner. Nonetheless, ranting about it doesn't mean not being able to deal with it.

akike:
However if a man can move beyond emotions and deal with issues, he can definitely withstand his wife having sex with his best friend right in front of him.

Ego stands in the way. Your logic is spectacularly off mark!!!

akike:
[s]Your argument is based on the nurture not nature. If a widower is the first son of his family, he would cope because of his position however a woman will always cope because she has been nurtured to act that way. [/s]

Absolutely no bearing with facts and logic.

Please answer the question I have asked; if women are conditioned or nurtured by society to be how they are, is it a coincidence that for millions of years in all human societies women were so conditioned?

This has reached the path of vain banter, bro.

I'm calling it off and putting a permanent lid on it.

akike:
Women are pickier however it does not mean that a woman cannot prioritise her relationships.

If a gf can have four stable bfs for different reasons, she can maintain her marriage and her infidelity . She can also prioritise her marriage over her lover . Women who cheat do it all the time. Women who wants to cheat but who don't cheat, do so out of fear

The fact that it happens inside her does not mean anything.

@bolded is why I'm giving up the debate. How could you bring the notion of having different lovers as a credential for fidelity?

Really I'm lost to the rationale or logic of your postulation.

akike:
We are not physical toughness. We are talking about emotional strength. Women are not built to be tougher. It is a fact not an opinion. The society not genetics make them tougher. Also we have different types of emotional strength however women do not have a natutal emotional strength to deal with a cheating partner. Men's brains are better suited for that.

And I wasn't making allusions to physical toughness. Women cry easily and relieve stress and emotional tensions.

Check your statistics for stroke and HPB between the sexes.

Widowers can hardly cope after the demise of their wives.

Widows cope better. There's no experience or statistics to support your argument.

You said it was societally conditioned and I have told you it is pure genetics by millions of years of evolution.

Why do you think evolution made women to be the one to conceive, carry the foetus for months, nurture and care for the child all through infancy?

It takes an emotionally powerful being to do that.

Men aren't built to withstand that kind of emotional pressure.

Quit this argument.

akike:
That was a sarcastic reply.


I was listing reasons why women are believed to be able to endure a cheating and abusive spouse. And I know I am spot on, ask Toks2008, his cohorts and other traditional men and women.

A still wonder why women equate sex with love more than men do.


Remember sex takes place inside a woman, it means more to her than men.

A woman will consider _fucking randomly than would a man would because evolution ensure she's more picky of her suitor and mate.

akike:
Women are not built tougher. They are conditioned or asked to be tougher yet they still call them emotional beings.

What an irony?

Forgive my personal remark, since your handle has no letter indicator to ascertain your gender.......are you female or male?

Women aren't conditioned to feel stronger.millions of years of evolution made women to outlive and out-bear most tradegy men cannot bear.

Are you telling me women were conditioned to be something alien to their very nature for millions of years, by all cultures and civilisations known to men. Across all parts of the world wjo never share same culture or beliefs or ethics?

Give me a better excuse.

akike:
You convince them that they have no choice. [s]Men are not liekly to get married to divorcees or single women with children.[/s]

You mean single men are not likely to get married to divorces and single mothers.

akike:
You ask them whether they intend to have sex with every dick and harry when they need sex. You ask them to consider the effects on their children etc etc etc

You lost me here sincerely, you care to rephrase? But if I guess correctly, you seem to be making a conclusion that African women are still subjugated. They are not!!!
This isn't 1935. Today's women in Nigeria are sexually liberated more than most women in Asia and south America.

akike:
Basically, you make them feel helpless and hopeless.

Your postulation is ridiculously misplaced.

akike:
I don't think so sir. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. There are lots of interesting characters out there to make her feel on top of the world. Yours might just not be enough for her.

lolz, I don't want to take the route of my personal experience as this convo is thus inviting.

But a cheating wife takes a whole lot of factors. A girlfriend can cheat...easily.


A cheating wife takes more, either baggage of the past, E.G ex's or the complete emotional, sexual and financial abandonment of the husband.

Beleive me, it's a touch decision for a wife to make.

A man on the other hand can bang the _pussy just for the fun of it.

neoapocalypse:
It would surprise you that on average the ego of the woman is bigger than that of a man as it is more difficult for a lady to walk away from betrayal but most men quickly adjust to life and what it throws at us. You look at it from an African point of view where the woman is suppressed in every way imaginable , I have met white ladies who would put a bullet in your skull if you cheat on them , in fact it is more likely with a white lady than with a white man.

OK, females do not as much as shadow men in the ego contest. That's a marked feature of males, for his good and undoing as well.


And I think women are built tougher than men to handle some aspects of life. Cheating, betrayal, emotional tumoil.

Western women who shoot their cheating partners are suffering from hyper-active personality disorder. And they are in the minority.

akike:
Some reason like women do not cheat. Your wife is still going to bang your gateman. She doesn't need to have lots of extras. Another one to switch the flavour is all she needs.

Depending on a whole lot of factors!

neoapocalypse:
Yet you won't accept it if she bangs the next hunk that walks by her

My mind is like an open highway!!!

And I'm open to the possibility of the worse in life.

The ego in a man like me might suffer more from the act of betrayal, perhaps, more than my sense of being cheated on.

But then again, sex for most women isn't bang and go!!!

dridowu:
A new political platform believed to be packaged by fronts of aggrieved bigwigs of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has come into being.

At the National Executive Council/National retreat held by the promoters of the yet-to- be registered party, the Peoples Mega Party (PMP), the National Coordinator, Chief Perry Opara, told the delegates that the mission of the new political platform is to provide a very focused and patriotic body deviod of negative traits of impunity and confusion.

“The major people who are in the party are former members of the PDP who disenchanted by the high level of corruption, high level of impunity and high-handedness in the PDP. They have decided to form something very new and they are of the opinion that they should hand over the party to younger elements who are less corrupt and who can be able to fight for the interest of the people.”

Opara who is a close associate of the estranged PDP chieftain and former Presidential aide, Alhaji Ali Ahmed Gulak said that apart from the bigwigs from PDP, there are others from even the ruling party, All Progressives Congress (APC) desirous of pitching their tent with the new party.

However, Opara declined to mention names of those PDP and APC members floating the party, saying no one among them has given permission to make it open.

But that does not mean that it is only people from the PDP, there are also people from the All Progressives Grand Alliance (APGA) chapters in many states. There are people from the Labour Party and there are some disenchanted people from the ruling party.


http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2016/03/01/aggrieved-pdp-men-floats-peoples-mega-party/

A sinking ship still adding more load to its cabin

It should be People's Maga Party!!!

firstEVA:
Refresh

Seen!!! Accepted!!!

firstEVA:
my IV is pending, maybe you should do something about it.

You tell me tall tales, my burning flame.

firstEVA:
really?

I'm not discussing this with you!

Where've you been? Been looking for you.

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Often time, I allow my ladies a glimps into the window of my "weakness".

I evoke their maternal instincts that way.

Ladies always love the boy in a man