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Nubian113:
Baby boy love or no love.... Aids is real so I would leave you for your dangerous actions against me!! ... Sex is nothing so let's make love and live happily ever after

I love love-making, but sometimes we all need it fast, furious with neck and ear biting, that's sex baby.

And forget about AIDS, its real Alright but it's for flirts and fools

Nubian113:
I think you're le.zz's alter ego

Does he sound like me?

QueenValerie:
Sometimes you don't need may words.

You're right. I like your stand.

postmann:
You're talking about lust.
Well, let me tell you how it works: It is one thing to appreciate a woman's beauty, but quite another going to bed with her image in your head.

Not every man fit quite into your box.

You're talking about escapism from reality using religion as basic to deny yourself the harsh pangs of reality.

QueenValerie:
An what did you think me before A clown

I have run through some of your comments, you're often monosyllabic and slightly detached and impersonal.

This was seeing you up close without the usal veil.

postmann:
You're right. For some men this is true. But for the mentaly and emotionally advanced who have come to understand the true meaning of being a man, their love means emotional and sexual loyalty.



You are right, they deserve commendation. They are true example of men who have shown that man is indeed a higher being superior to dogs and can show sexual restraints.



The emotionally advanced man may beg to differ. True love means just the opposite. Men can easily detach sex from love, but the advanced man recognise that sexual unfaithfulness is a bad as emotional unfaithfulness.

Here and there...yadi yadi yadi. I get you.

QueenValerie:
Your right Op.....
........A man's natural love doesn't necessarily equate to loyalty/faithfulness ta his woman.

But if he'll love her with Agape,God kinda love.... uh oh!

An sex is not love.
You can give it because yer in love with someone
.....but the act itself is not love.

I am beginning to see you in a whole new light. Such intelligence. I will observe you a while longer and decide what to do with your sensual sophistication

Nubian113:
Le.zz all i understand from you post is that men cheat while still in love with their women,ok, that's fine by women. However it remains our choice whether to leave or stay and it sounds like you are down playing that important fact. Cheat sleep around but it will always remain my choice to stay or leave and if I leave I have every right to leave on the grounds of infidelity.

I am helping women understand the facts and deal with reality. If I cheat, always know that your love was not diminished in any way whatsoever.

Most times, the breasts of another only highlights the comfort and tenderness of yours which I have since long taken for granted

One careless _fuck isn't enough for you to leave, if you loved me

firstEVA:
Bullshit, crap, trashcan material.

You can Change me, darling, change me.

You can do to me what Esther did to king Ahasuerus for the people of Israel You made every woman a Vascti to me

LORDSAMURAI:
ITS CLEAR LIKE CRYSTAL, ITS THE 20% of men that refuse to cheat on their wife that truly love their wife without fault, those 80% of men that cheats on their spouse do not love their wives,

If you agree to my submission that 80% of men cheat, then you have unwittingly agreed that men are incapable of absolute loyalty in love always apply logic in argument

LORDSAMURAI:
overtime man has misused the term called love, if i love my mother then there will be no amount of money in the world that will make me cause her pain becaus love conquers all

The love of your mother is uncorrelated here. Are you saying that you're capable of having same feeling for your mother as for your girl? Are you having Oedipus Complex ? Eheheehe

LORDSAMURAI:
so its the same as husband and wife, in my own family, since i was given birth, D union of my parents has been something 2 look up 2, has been motivation 4 young couples becaus my dad has never in his life cheated on my mom Abt 30years now.

Go back to the basics, tell me why the overwhelming majority of men cheat while still loving their wives. Make me beleive you.

LORDSAMURAI:
CRAP!!!! JESUS said in the bible, if you love me then keep my commandment, you cannot claim to love your partner and dont be loyal to her or try to satisfy her sexually, "when you love your partner then everything that makes him or her to get angry and pour out tears should be stopped and that includes disloyalty, those that claimed to love and still not loyal are only experiencing infatuation, there is a reason why LOVE IS THE GREATEST, LOVE CONQUERS ALL, INCLUDING DISLOYALTY, LOVE CONQUERS CHEATING,HATE AND ALL DEVILISH VICES, LOVE KILLS THE DISLOYAL TRAIT IN YOU INFACT JULIET AND ROMEO DIED FOR LOVE WITHOUT DISLOYALTY.

Nice effort, although strained and a little incoherent, I understand what you're trying to say.

However, you failed to grasp the objectivity of the thread, its practicality and cold, hard fact.


Over 80% of men will cheat on their wives once or more, and I guess those men do not love their wives.

Can you furnish us with a theory to explain this behaviour?

halfricanadian:
Geez if u cant come with the full package of been faithful loyal truthful nd loving

No body will kill u dont marry remain single nd flirt

Please enof of dis excuses biko

Full package or nothing

Cos u guys always enforce so many laws on women bt wen it gets to ur flaws u always av every excuse plan ready to b executed

Very annoying species

See outbursts!

Your tall list is fantasy, girl. Learn to stare the cold truth in the face and embrace reality.

I wish I could tell you everything you want to hear, but I can't.

You need, once in a while, a slap of cold water to reawaken you from the land of Oz

A man's love for his lady does not really or necessarily bear the mark of loyalty. Some women already know this but a vast majority still seek an escape in the consolation of illogical and subjective excuses.


Religion and the notion of ethics of morality have made few men tame thier natural deportments for women and this must be commended in all sincerity.

Nonetheless, many man can truelly love a woman in all sincerity of purpose without the idea of sex-loyalty to her. Period!!!

This is the coldblooded truth without the appeasement of reconciliatory concessions just to make some ladies feel better about life.

The majority of unblemished ladies are unable to separate love, sex and loyalty for their man.

Consequentially, love, sex and loyalty are an indivisible package in one box inscribed with a single word : Love.

It is thus designed by the ageless, intricate complexity and fixity of human evolution to remain so for women.

And it is biologically and socially expedient this remains unchanged.

But then a man's sense of loyalty to his woman is often of the nature of heritage, provision, security, affection and life-long companionship unwavering.



At the risk of being labeled a chauvinist, I make bold to say a lot of men and women know this as the uncompromising truth, but we're at the era of political and social correctness where facts and truth take the back seat to self-seeking propaganda and gender belligerence.



I do not endorse cheating in any guise, but then, men will always be swayed sexually by women whose curves and flesh bounce off just by walking; butty wobbles, laps and boobs resonate in rhyhmic vibration to their saunter.

Another unbetrayed physical affection would be formed that holds no spark of emotion for the male and emotionally uncompromising to the wife.

FTBOY:
dang!!...very reasonable of you! we truly have no emotional attachment to those we fvck.....it's just as they say, "chop and clean mouth". men are just greedy

That's as true as gospel. The quicker ladies grasp this fact, the more understanding and mature to solve relationship disputes.

onstelly:
I have been asking myself this question for a long time
why is it that a man will love u and still cheat on you

....because love is different from _fuck, dear.

Men are programmed genetically to spot the difference

FTBOY:
it's no joke, bro. i can tolerate a nympho/wayward girlfriend but not a cheating wife. girlfriends come and go but wives are meant to stay until death

I can relate with that completely. Sadly once a wife still carries the mental images of a past lover, the chances of cheating is only a matter of time. Especially if the husband doesn't meet up to the sexual expertise of her husband.


Sad reality, bro.

FTBOY:
this is why i don't blame guys who insist on virgin or no marriage. women hardly forget their ex boyfriends......especially their first or those who gave them the fvck of their life. i can't bear the thought of my wife having wet dreams of her ex while still in my house..........that marriage would die instantly if i find out

Greene66:
That's how it starts.

S.eun come and see now ooo..

When Strahovski start comparison they will say he is racist. See this now.

You think Nigeria is better than India? You guys are making a mistake. When we start listing facts one mod will come and say racist when u are d one drawing the lines.

Loooolz, open another thread for the comparison then. I promise to embarrass the sense of sound out of your perception.

Greene66:
You are more dumb than he is.

He said 'I may be wrong' he did not say it doesn't exist. He hasn't heard of it. So he asked since when it was a word and admitted he may be wrong in that regard.

I have just added Dyslexia to your long list of inherited deficiencies.

Read up and get to solve the conundrum that has made your life just a tad below primal existence

coolsix:
Your dictionary must be 2020 edition . Since when is vulgarism a word? I may be wrong sha.

And since when did vulgarism have value? Hmmmm

Illiteracy

At bolded sums up the entire characteristics of your mental and intellectual deficiencies.

Obviously you're irredeemably lost to unlearning mundanity.

Bwhahaha. You need to unfuck yourself from your genealogically acquired analphabetism

Strahovski1:
I don't care about whatever you say. It's 11.30pm here. I'm about retiring. You better get smething to do with your night as it's only 7.30pm there. You have a whole evening to do stuff other than quote who doesn't give give a crap about you.

I'm expecting S.eun mention. Anyother, I'll pass.

A trailer-load of trite, uncorrelated blatter.

Wake me up whenever you want to compare notes and statistics between India and Nigeria.

coolsix:
Where is your brain please?

Ok.. yaba left

Cheap vulgarism, from a progeny of mental and material bankruptcy.

Greene66:
Shut up! You hypocritical mofo.

You can't even stand close to him one and one and talk. I guess u d keyboard soldier here. He called out Se.un. Let S.eun do d talking not you.

No one give a fvck about ur opinions.

Here goes another Nigerian without a fixed address or means of identification. Poverty+foolishness = Vagabondage.


Nature did you an injustice birthing you as a fool, for i know of no medical or spiritual remediation for foolery. You would've fared better coming as a thief. Let the devil take your soul. studipity-magnet.

Strahovski1:
I'm very much around man. You are being hypocritical. I was racist but the person telling me to go to Indialand.com that I don't count here was not racist? Yes where is SEUN? He has explanations to make to me.

If Indians are not wanted... block our IP. Write it on your website that INDIANS ARE NOT NEEDED. GO TO INDIALAND.COM. tell us to our faces. Not going under the rug.

Seun, Lalasticlala. . All mods.. come here and answer to me.

I am racist because someone quote me FIRST and tell me I don't count here a polite way of saying 'Get the fvck out of Nairaland. We don't want you'. Yet everyone has her back and sees me as the racist for giving her a taste of her own medicine. I wanted to ignore this but I won't.

Nothing will put I or my people away from this forum. If it hurts you all. Block our IP. Block our country from your servers and systems so we cannot register. Put our flag and cross it in red to show how much you despise us. Until then we are here to stay.

Thanks.

Oh shut up, man, I read your posts and your heart is clearly made of laboratory glass-tubes.

A lady says your opinion doesn't count here and you went off like stream overflowing its bank and started reeling out our national statistics. There's no excuse, you behaved like a Milquetoast.

After reading your posts I felt you could be having hormonal imbalance and a twisted sense of right and wrong.

Learn to own up and cease the charade of bravery, keyboard soldier!

FTBOY:
really? oya, create the thread na and tag me. i'd love to watch a real NL movie

Lolz, I will when I have more time and knack to write.

But I'll drop something soon on them.

FTBOY:
spot on, bro! [b]they're lions on nairaland but house cats in reality.........i [/b]deliberately created this thread to filch them out. LOL!

We could have dropped it in family section. That's where they converge in escape of reality.

FTBOY:
to all feminists and female supremacists in the house, i have just five questions to ask......... would you say ladies first to the following?:

1. be the first to wake up in the morning and lead the family in prayer.

2. be the first to go to the kitchen and prepare food for the family.

3. be the first to go out and hustle for the family.

4. be the first to pay all necessary bills, including house rent and children's school fees.

5. be the first to ride your man the cowgirl style during a fucking session.

it's "ladies first", innit so what ya say?

Of course not, Feminism to these African women is just a cheap catchphrase they hurl around to be seen as sophisticated and learned. Especially our avowed nairaland feminist crusaders.


None of them dare walk the narrow, lonely path that true feminism marks. They stand behind the curtain of nairaland and become keyboard feminists and liberated bigots who preach what they dare not practise in the comfort of their homes.

iblawi:
This illiterate repeated what I wrote and said I need to be admitted in an hospital. I think you need urgent attention fool.

exactly what I told the lightheaded muppet.

I will earmark him for mental checkup.

croat:
You dare to call for pride, principles, honor and grace as you continue to lie about me as you can't handle the truth thus you are a pacient on life support due to being faced by reality.

There is no pride when being ashamed of who you are.

There is no principle when in denial.

There is no honor in lying.

Thus there is no grace nor respect.

truth, respect and shame are human phenomenon your shoulders can't bear.

Desperate south African!!!

I did a cursory swipe at your posts from when you debuted your last dying scheme of seeking relevance... I came to realize.....












You're either the whoreson of a south African runaway soldier or you are an irredeemable delusionist using NL as a gateway from the pangs of reality. (hello patrick)

Msauza:
Why would it be a secret that the Junk Fighter has a poor radar and a large RCS? That data is well known and is not a secret.

You pervert.

. And the admission of the radar's weakness in comparison to the gripen he stated. But you still brought it up for redundancy and vain repetition whilst ignoring the other facts because you couldn't debunk them.


You're suffering from your own self-induced delusions of persecution.

Perennial minion

croat:
That is what you to believe... You're only deceiveing youself.

And thanks for ignoring Henry.

Another patient on life support.

I don't usually grace the mentions of ghosts and cowards of cheap duplicity with a reply.

Your moniker is barely a week and a couple days. I've seen worse case that yours.

Right now you're inconsequential, your opinions don't matter.

The idea of pride, principles, honour and grace is still a foreign concept to you.

Buzz off!!!

HungerBAD:
This Police guy don lose him Job.

Which kind training our Police dey receive sef? and the gun dey fully loaded sef. Hopefully, somebody at the top go see this post, this guy na disgrace to Police.

The Nigeria police is a disgrace alright. From open collection of bribes from commercial motorists, to public begging of tips from private motorists, to demanding money from complainants before going for arrests or investigations.

The force needs reorientation ASAP