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LORDSAMURAI:
HMMMM standing outside and feeling this cold wind blowing all around, i felt something/someone was standing close to me, "angels are real after all, all u need is a open and free soul. @op u had a bad dream yesterday, pm me 4 interpretation. "kazi.blake the little girl is coming, le.zz rememba august, sy.nzu i told u abt a child 4rm a lady next year, its starting to manifest. "my prophesy is beginning to show case.

This has gone trite, stale and boring.

Come up with something more convincing.

Creamish:

I see I have been found wanting of my attention for you.

My wandering feet and roving eyes shall soon rest on your bossoms permanently. And then I will stay to leave no more.

Creamish:
I already am... Doesn't change ur opinion on it does it?

I think you'll be in a better position to understand my opinion over dinner reservations and a bottle of your favourite drink

Yomieluv:
Since i got married last year,i just realized that the rate women come after me has turned to an alarming rate. Despite knowing my marital status,some dont care.

The last straw was when a married woman within my office openly profess love to me yesterday. It takes God's grace for me to overcome the temptations.

Has anyone noticed this,or expreinced this?

Hehehehe, women love the unattainable and unavailable.

Get ready to be stalked, seduced and harassed especially if your wedding ring is glittering

Creamish:
Yeah UV a point there..

I thought you'll accompany that with a kiss

Creamish:
Its a hard pill for anybody to swallow... I only made DAT statement cos some men believe its their God given right to cheat and they have recently deemed it necessary to inform women to swallow it without complaint.

....and I'm also in d mood for some small mischief..

My creamish, I cannot beleive you have that opinion of me. How can you infer that I will suggest cheating is a man's birthright?

You'll soon be gauging the level of my faithfulness personally.

Creamish:
Le.zz & Tok.s2008 ... I guess u should tell d pastor DAT d wife luvs him...and luv doesn't translate to loyalty. He shouldn't leave d wife just because she cheated...

I am yet to meet a pastor whose wife's love for him has not been dimmed and dampened by the demands of Sunday rites and Congregational demands.

Pastors are often wont to make the church a rival for the affection of their wives.

And I rank pastors amongst

Celebrities
Politicians
Native doctors

Whose marital partners are often deprived of regular _fuck and attention.

delishpot:
Because that is what they have been programmed to believe. Keep your virginity for the one man who will love and respect you. That is all a girl hears from birth and that ideology sticks in her head. It's like if you are born a racist in a racially biased society with so called proof, scientific, religious and otherwise and someone says all those proofs are not correct that people of the other race are as smart and blessed as yours. Even if you can do it and not be jailed how easy will it be for you to change that mentality? Then people will do research and say so so group of people are wired to hate on other races. With all the proof you believe you have, and what you see and hear around you that seem to be supporting the racist theory. How easy will you change?
A woman can have flings as well as a man. They just can't because they will be called hoes and bitches when found out. And that may spoil their chances of getting another partner in future. Men on the other hand do not face such pressures.

Women are societally conditioned .....
This is the well-worn excuse I'm always treated to whenever i raised an age-long human code of behaviour.

Only _prostitutes can have sex without emotional entanglement. The average woman out there isn't programmed for that.

The everyday woman is more of an emotional cheat than a physical one. Flings and crushes she could have alright and it usually revolve in the realms of fantasy and daydreaming which they find more enthralling than the physical experience itself.



It is of no masterful reckoning that were women to have the same sexual drive and indiscretion as men do, the parentage of the entire human race will be lost in the quagmire of her raging hormones.

Brother, testosterone and estrogen no be mate as far as sexual drive is concerned.

Evidently, the natural women will need emotion to really tangle, that's why they are emotional creatures.


Know this, any woman properly circumcised by her man will always squinch in disgust to another man's physical advances.


Abi, society also condition women not to ever forget their proper deflowerers too?

Evolution covered her for a purpose, bro.

She'll cry and let out blood, her drawbridge will be lowered and her temple shall receive a devout whose offering and worship will mark her being forever.

delishpot:
Because you have been configured to exercise your sexual freedom without facing harsh judgement. A woman can be just that way too you know? But they have the unfortunate reward of societal condemnation for doing it so, they hide under the shelter of relationship to be able to have sex. And, they also have to be sure the guy loves them so he does'nt go tarnishing their image after the act. knowing that they will be condemned and seen as cheap while the boy involved is mostly hailed and seen as a "whazup" guy by the same people judging the woman. So, don't for once think sexual fantasy is limited to men only.

Let women be allowed to bang around like men are allowed to and watch to see if they will not outdo men in sexual freedom. Like I said before, just sit back and enjoy the freedom that comes with the male gender.

Women will always attach love and sexual loyalty together. It's in their genes and natural disposition --- the unblemished ones that is.

firstEVA:
then you have to swear to an affidavit of good conduct

Shred your devorce papers and dismiss your divorce lawyer first.

firstEVA:
I am contemplating a divorce, too many side chicks/bitches.

Don't run, You are fresh air

Divorce, ke? Your position is uncompromising.

You who made me see love in 4D.

Help my feet anchor in your shores of love and compassion.

What becomes of me if you allow me be tossed by the temptress wind and tide ?

Kiss me back to reality.
Look into my eyes with your soft gaze and let my demons fly away!

Nubian113:
Now what if your Mrs was trying to get back at you for cheating and she is not as 'smart' as you were and she brings home the virus. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction because life is a biatch! Being faithful sexually pays. Disloyalty in the bedroom department is dangerous in our day and age.

I am open to that possibility.

But I have never met with a woman who doesn't cringe at the thought of sleeping with another. I leave my ornament permanently engraved.

But a good lady who takes me in for love wouldn't cheat just because I slipped, would you, Nubian?

Nubian113:
OK. Well he is intelligent and he reasons better than you. I noticed you're not enemies as such so he complements your crazy theories by bringing your ass back to reality. In my humble opinion anyway. Hope that's less British economy for you (whatever that meant)

Keep the praise for him and your attraction to me I wont mind the comparison

Nubian113:
That was probably the mindset of Aids victims before the virus FOUND them.

Just tryna tell you I'm not a fool or render myself exposed to that. The danger is real. I'm not trying to downplay the effects and danger therein.

Nubian113:
No... But he's your better half

Better half? There are so many meanings I could create from that.

Speak clearly and dispense with your British economy of words.

postmann:
Reality to you is basic: what you see, feel and smell. And govern by your instincts and impulses. But so it is with animals.

With man, there is a HUGE difference. He is govern by a set of rules: Self control, empathy, and the ability to look ahead into the future and predict accurately what the consequences of his actions will become

You have lost me even without trying

Nubian113:
Baby boy love or no love.... Aids is real so I would leave you for your dangerous actions against me!! ... Sex is nothing so let's make love and live happily ever after

I love love-making, but sometimes we all need it fast, furious with neck and ear biting, that's sex baby.

And forget about AIDS, its real Alright but it's for flirts and fools

Nubian113:
I think you're le.zz's alter ego

Does he sound like me?

QueenValerie:
Sometimes you don't need may words.

You're right. I like your stand.

postmann:
You're talking about lust.
Well, let me tell you how it works: It is one thing to appreciate a woman's beauty, but quite another going to bed with her image in your head.

Not every man fit quite into your box.

You're talking about escapism from reality using religion as basic to deny yourself the harsh pangs of reality.

QueenValerie:
An what did you think me before A clown

I have run through some of your comments, you're often monosyllabic and slightly detached and impersonal.

This was seeing you up close without the usal veil.

postmann:
You're right. For some men this is true. But for the mentaly and emotionally advanced who have come to understand the true meaning of being a man, their love means emotional and sexual loyalty.



You are right, they deserve commendation. They are true example of men who have shown that man is indeed a higher being superior to dogs and can show sexual restraints.



The emotionally advanced man may beg to differ. True love means just the opposite. Men can easily detach sex from love, but the advanced man recognise that sexual unfaithfulness is a bad as emotional unfaithfulness.

Here and there...yadi yadi yadi. I get you.

QueenValerie:
Your right Op.....
........A man's natural love doesn't necessarily equate to loyalty/faithfulness ta his woman.

But if he'll love her with Agape,God kinda love.... uh oh!

An sex is not love.
You can give it because yer in love with someone
.....but the act itself is not love.

I am beginning to see you in a whole new light. Such intelligence. I will observe you a while longer and decide what to do with your sensual sophistication

Nubian113:
Le.zz all i understand from you post is that men cheat while still in love with their women,ok, that's fine by women. However it remains our choice whether to leave or stay and it sounds like you are down playing that important fact. Cheat sleep around but it will always remain my choice to stay or leave and if I leave I have every right to leave on the grounds of infidelity.

I am helping women understand the facts and deal with reality. If I cheat, always know that your love was not diminished in any way whatsoever.

Most times, the breasts of another only highlights the comfort and tenderness of yours which I have since long taken for granted

One careless _fuck isn't enough for you to leave, if you loved me

firstEVA:
Bullshit, crap, trashcan material.

You can Change me, darling, change me.

You can do to me what Esther did to king Ahasuerus for the people of Israel You made every woman a Vascti to me