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sexylassie2:
Why do black people like you like claiming victims

Are there not white,asians, africans and african americans born in Nigeria?

Can they work in govt enterprises or contest for election in Nigeria?

Germany or other European country is historical white, so don't expect equal opportunities even if you are born there, as long as you are not German by skin colour and heritage, no German will take you seriously.

Even if you are born in germany as a black kid, you can't be German with an African surname, African parent and call yourself German, just because you speak German doesn't make you a German.you are still a foreigner.

Similarly, a white kid born in Nigeria, speaks Igbo or Hausa, isn't considered a nigerian.

This thing is more than be born there.

Also there is nothing like a native born black German or European?

tommyken:
You are an Ignorant chap. 95% of successful people who are CEO of big multinational corporation, Banks, private sector and self employed Business tycoons all had MBA instead of M.sc,

Do you know why? Let me educate you; MBA is purely practical or should I use the world reality knowledge, running MBA will open you eyes to dirty and mafia side of business and teach the raw fact of how the business world operates. There you will meet people who have actually work in companys and banks who have practical knowledge but has come to further their knowledge.

M.SC is purely rubbish theories which are use for academia and research but in the real world are just nonsense because its lack practical details of how the world operate. (Note: am refering to M.SC in Business admin)

Ariza:
I was expecting someone to make this a Nigerian Women thing and you didn't disappoint. The question is are Nigerian Men any different? How many can engage in brain stimulating conversations? How many can vividly separate platonic friendships from sexual relationships? How many value Intelligence over physical appearances?. If it isn't about sex, conversations hardly happen.

This thread is evidence enough to conclude that only few Nigerian Men can do any of those questions asked. On the same thread, a guy helped a girl to get into her skirt, A guy met an intelligent lady he could have kept as Friend but still insist on "putting hand in her hole" On this same thread a Guy ridiculed intelligent ladies saying they are mostly ugly and masculine. Such backward thinking!

Thing is: Nigerian men only have what they encourage. They place more importance on fine face, boobs, and bum and flashy things when it comes to choosing ladies, so why should a woman work on her brains when she will only be overlooked and termed Boring and Ugly. Why will a woman feel encouraged to expand her horizon when she will only end "in the kitchen and bed".

Lol yet these confused bunch are always the first to scream and wail that Nigerian Women are unintelligent or can't hold conversations... Men that hardly have something upstairs themselves. So laughable!

crackland:
Let them? Why do we have to let them?

Isn't it basic that a wife should be earning enough to be able to cater for herself and her children, just in case her husband slumps and dies the next minute?

The real problem here is that too many Nigerian women want to depend on their husband's wealth, or rather they want to fall-back on it. They have no bigger ambition than this.
Thank goodness I was not brought up around women of this sort.

Some people are simply generous to a fault and I bet the OP's husband falls in this category. He's not the first of his kind, and as a matter of fact I have a personal experience with such but I'd rather not share here.

The success of men like him almost always depend on the kind of wife he has because it's only a woman who has no financial weight in the eyes of her husband that will have no influence over him when it comes to financial decisions. FACT.

A husband who knows that his wife is at a financial level close or equal to his, will not take her opinions lightly and will want to find a way to heed to her warnings - this is a simple truth most women still don't want to accept.

FanOfMyself:
Op is a guy trying to make ladies humble themselves here

Chamukebenson:
she might be hurt if she finds out ? I don’t know if I can keep it a secret enough

bodybuilder:
Women don't understand your struggle.

The earlier some men realise that women are wired not to recognise the sacrifices you make the better for you.

A woman does not genuily care if you are giving her half of your salary.

A woman does not care that you're trying hard to satisfy in bed.

A woman will always leave you for man richer, more good looking and confident than you.

The moment you recognise this fact that women just care about value not intent or been sacrificial the better for you.

In a nutshell, don't put your self in great inconvenience for a woman.

Don't spend money you can't really afford.

Just spend what is really comfortable with you.

Here is an illustration.

If you earn 200k, and give her 100k

She will leave for a man that earns 1 million and gives her 200k

You get it, women naturally can't relate your sacrifice and struggle.

This is not just about money. It about every other thing.

A woman will not still stay with you because of the effort you put in to making her cum.

All she cares about is the orgasm, not the amount of work you put in.

In conclusion. Don't kill your self, she does not recognise effort. Women does not recognise effort, just value.

Don't forget this!

I'm not bashing women, it's their natural trait. It's not their fault. That's how they are created.

You just have to be aware of this truth as man, so you expect it, and don't cry like baby, when she leaves you anytime.

This is no hate on women. Don't get it wrong.

RoseyJ:
Do ladies still do this revenge cheating stuff?

Liliantalks:
SMH still on my matter ? Na my matter go kill all of Una !!

Goodman247:
The op was talking about a kid, later he was talking about kids, most of the stories in nairaland are fake

Ybaby:
Do not marry a man who is happy to eat from your sweat.

No infidels

Ybaby:
My bro every man has a 3 months grace to get his shit together.

Life happens and most wives especially in a society like NG prefer to be married at least for appearance sake so for a woman to go from angel to witch ... it takes 3 months.

Now for better for better not worse ..... that statement does not supercede the man being an infidel or worse than an infidel when he cannot provide. They will be together but he will leave by himself when the fury of hell is brought on him.

No one is more resilient than women - she is programmed to carry a child for 9 months - but no matter how.much money she has..... for emphasis I will repeat no matter how much money she has - she is not programmed to shelter, feed or cloth a man least of all her husband.


See the bible said worse than an infidel - meaning he will be treated worse than an infidel.

Teach your sons how to make money. Let the girls go to school and let the boys learn to trade and go to school.

A man is practically useless in a family setting if he is not providing

Ire o

Chamukebenson:
really?

frozen70:
The thing tire me

frozen70:
Am hearing this from a human being for the first time

For the fact that you dont have feelings for both the living and the dead makes you a dangerous species to be with

Seek the face of God first

Then you will gradually appreciate what he created

Gaggi:
I can't seem to find these women that are independent, intelligent, not interested in marriage and have a successful career in real life.They all seem to be on nairaland and Twitter only.
Even the ones at work who are hitting late 30s and early 40s always seem to want a serious man who is ready to settle.

I'd really love to meet some of you and be friends. I'm married to a woman who wants to be married and all my female relatives want to be married. It'll be nice to meet this care free, successful women who are different and be friends with them.

cococandy:
Since I decided to break my silence I guess I might as well go ahead and state for the record that I am not

Fuzzywuzzy
Biglittlelois
Fountainofyouth
Helterkeit ? (hope I spelled that right)
Graxie
Ornicus
Brazenbabe
Davangel
Scarletmoon
Breaststroke
Etc.
I mean it’s almost ridiculous at this point to go on and list the accounts I’ve been accused of hiding behind to attack the OP. One person is behind most of the accusations anyway so that kind of makes it clear to a discerning eye that this person has an agenda. It’s up to OP to believe what she wants to believe. But for the rest of readers, I am not any of these accounts so don’t take their posts past, present or future as cococandy’s post.

I’m not new to this forum and I didn’t start agreeing and disagreeing with OP yesterday. I have always been able to state my opinion with my account (if I deem my response necessary at that time).

To the accusers, Please cease and desist. Thank you.

Probz:
And how divergent is Enuani from standard Igbo compared to Nsukka or even some distinct Anambra lects (Awka, Nnewi)? Why isn’t Enuani classified as anything other than a simple dialect of nuclear Igbo unlike Ika, Ikwerre and even the Abakaliki ‘languages’?

Whatever about cultural affiliation but Enuani people have no grounds for Igbo denial linguistically. Compared to large chunks of southeastern dialects your dialect (and that’s really all it is) is as central as they come.

Dande55:
When an idea is challenged, it's called bully.
Someone created a thread without even facing the questions and challenges thrown at her. She started crying all over the thread, and somehow it's called bullying.