₦airaland Forum

Virgo01:
You made it seem like introverts don't have that much friends or no friends at all because they fear rejection. I think that's low self esteem and not introversion. Introverts don't have much friends around because they simply like keeping to themselves and enjoying their own company every now and then in solitude.

Solitude is very different from loneliness which is what those who have low esteem and think they are not accepted by society feel.

I am an introvert but I have a lot of friends and people who always want to come close to me but my seeming lack of care and concern through pointless calls and endless chit chat is what drives most of them away.

Introversion is not equal to low self esteem.

Chukapage:
which kind of CHEAP PROPAGANDA is this?? That's carrying a baby for 9 months and giving birth AUTOMATICALLY entitles you to their love and care children always love and care more for that parent who was there for them ,It's has nothing to do with "giving birth to them or being a mother"I've seen an irresponsible mother who Ignored by her SIX children focusing all their love on their Father because while Daddy was working hard to take care of them combining both his Job and responsibilities as a Father Mummy dumped them Jumping f rom one dick to Another ...It has Nothing to do with who gave birth to who ,It's about who care most ,the major Reason mother's have upper hand in kid's life in Nigeria is because they're always at home available to the kids while Daddy spends most of his time working to pay bills... If you like when you give birth to your kids don't treat them right or care for them well thinking because you're the "MOTHER" automatically they'll love you... E go SHOCK you ,Oga eme gi vum na Anya ..... Children even prefer they're foster parents who treated them well and cared for the than they're biological parents...Any body can father or mother to a child what matters DID YOU care enough? If a Single father cared enough they'll still love him more than anything!

Akposy:
Cococandy, Mariangeles, iomoge, petyprinces, pocohantas and others who have been insulted on this thread.... I now know how it feels

I posted one of my Ewa agoyin pics in one cooking Facebook group like that.... The insults I've been getting no be here....some said it's shit, some said I stole the pics...some said the food is nonsense....some said I blended onions as beans ....the insults are breaking my weak heart. 90% of the insults came from the ladies
I feel like going offline
Below is the pics i posted. What exactly is wrong with the meal....I need genuine response

Ausrichie:
What kind of lousy post is this so you can't work abi. Just saw this rubbish, the feminists are fighting to give women full rights and you are here giving encouragement to women to attach themselves like mosquitoes to men. Of course being stingy is bad for a man or woman but there is nothing like worthlessness.

Eniolakiite:
Like if you know what most women bottle up in their marriages in Nigeria.
Once they cross The Atlantic ocean to North America, they start feeling a refreshing aura of how they have rights as a woman and they use it fully and unfortunately some abuse it but such is life. Everything in life gets abused by some.

I know of two couples who got their PR to Canada just last year and are already in their divorce process. The women according to them have been tolerating abuse since when they lived in Nigeria.
It’s like women wait to leave the shores of Africa to exercise all their rights and stop enduring pain.

humilitypays:
Lol, now I get it....Liliantalks probably lives abroad and only rely on western media propaganda and online stories as her source of information that 80% of Nigerian married women gets beaten and turned to slaves by their husbands, wonderful



Nne, have a blessed day, but be careful so you don't end up in a messy marriage out of fear......open your mind, change your perception about marriage and Nigerian men....there are wonderful Nigerian men that if you are fortunate to marry one, you will willingly relocate from wherever you are living to be with him in Nigeria...there are millions of them. Nigerian men are the best in the world when it comes to treating women right.....I am not including the far northern Nigerian men in my stat, please note that cos I cannot vouch for them due to their religious influence over there.

humilitypays:
Lol, now I get it....Liliantalks probably lives abroad and only rely on western media propaganda and online stories as her source of information that 80% of Nigerian married women gets beaten and turned to slaves by their husbands, wonderful



Nne, have a blessed day, but be careful so you don't end up in a messy marriage out of fear......open your mind, change your perception about marriage and Nigerian men....there are wonderful Nigerian men that if you are fortunate to marry one, you will willingly relocate from wherever you are living to be with him in Nigeria...there are millions of them. Nigerian men are the best in the world when it comes to treating women right.....I am not including the far northern Nigerian men in my stat, please note that cos I cannot vouch for them due to their religious influence over there.

humilitypays:
Good, so don't make the unfortunate ones who are not enjoying their marriage in Nigeria out of their own making the focus point.....they shouldn't even be a topic of discussion cos I insist they are insignificant number today.


American men treat their women worst than Nigerian men treat their women.

How can a man expect to split every damn bill with his wife, what makes you the man, I will be ashamed to do that even if I live in the US or with Queen Elizabeth.


That is an unfair treatment of a wife to start with.


American men also kill their wives but you guys won't focus on that! Homicide cases are high their, same as domestic violence why are u not focusing on that Why is the divorce rate in the US and most western nation so high if all is well with their marriages


You ladies should stop allowing western media and crazy feminists to deceive you with wrong figures and news of Nigerian married women being treated as slaves when almost all Nigerian wife have a house help, some have drivers, cook, cleaners, etc, so I ask again, who are these suffering Nigerian wives who have been turned to slaves by their Nigerian based husbands


If your husband pays for a house help for you who takes cares of most domestic chores and only require that you prepare his best meals and serve him yourself, is that too much for a man to ask from his wife, does that make his wife a slave

For instance, my house right now is almost automated, everything, automatic wash and dry machine for laundry connected to water supply or u need to do is pour detergent and turn on water and put it on to wash and spin for u, and if u want faster drying u put on the drying bag and it dries it.


Everything in my kitchen is also automated as we speak...even a lazy idiot can cook within few minutes....I have automatic mopper for mopping the floor....tell me what a wife will do that is too tedious to scream slavery in this scenario which has become rampant in modern Nigerian homes all thanks to China affordable technology.

I repeat, don't buy those nonsense stories being peddled online and on TV, they are not many okay

efosky1246:
I was having this conversation with a friend yesterday. I keep telling her that all this fears you have about marriage will be allayed if you can train your perceptive powers in order to vet and choose the right person. When a man loves you, all this insipid fears created by feminists to make it seem like all women are suffering in marriage suddenly becomes a joke to you.

I really don't know any Nigerian man that wants to treat his wife like a doormat. or control her like a bull. most men just want to lead, albeit with love and then respected and cared for in return.

humilitypays:
You are a small girl so what do u know aside dating, hangouts, flirting and crushing

humilitypays:
I just looked at your profile, you live in US, what do you know about marriages in Nigeria except what you are told and what you read online or watch on TV

All my sister-in-laws are enjoying their marriages, if u see some, they look hotter than most single ladies all thanks to their beautiful marriages to my brothers....my own wife will enjoy heaven on earth, all I ask for is good health and long life to shower her with love and care.


You single ladies are you problem, you make long list of qualities your man must possess or nothing, and when you attract and accept the foolish boys into your life as a result of your wrong list and personality, you start to cry fowl.


Marriage is sweet to those that chose the right partners, it doesn't matter where they live, what matters is who they are; their personalities

humilitypays:
Young lady stop believing that crap, it is all lies peddled by ladies who failed in their marriage by choosing the wrong guys out of their selfishness and greed!!!


Lots of ladies I know married to Nigerian guys living in Nigeria and abroad are all enjoying their marriages to the fullest....stop believing nonsense stories told online.......go into your own marriage with joy and expect the best and forget people talking nonsense and the process of having a wonderful marriage start with who you chose to marry......don't marry out of selfish reasons and greed....marry for genuine reasons....marry who you believe in and strong believe in his vision and goals....work with him to build that goal....stop marrying out of greed and you won't be crying that your husband is treating you like a slave, where does this even happen today How many married ladies in Nigeria of today are being treated like slaves like you guys are forcing us to believe

larryking540:
Na stupidity they make brain most times,,,,
U wan make man run out ring and carry u straight to alter abi

When there isn't any investment u have made in the relationship not even money investment but time ,,.. ...na foolishness don make many relationship last unlike ur brain wise Sense

Niwdog:
I once had sex with a girl during the process she keeps screaming baby suck me( breaast) harder, I will be sucking she will be screaming suck me harder so she came on top, start riding me cowgirl she put her breaast in my mouth and said I should suck her harder I was at it o before you know what next this girl use the whole of her Bobby to cover my face shouting baby suck me harder omo no space to breath o, I was choking yet this girlie no send I had to push her with force asking her she wants to kill me on top sex that almost half of her breaast is in my mouth yet she is screaming harder infact I no do again she should come and be going

lefulefu:
if u want to be a baby mama better hook a guy who has sumpting doing..better u hook a wealthy artists like tuface dem or a prosperous business man

g4gerald:
U wud hv been used for sacrifice

odogwunaija:
Once bleeped a chubby girl I met at the club, as we were doing it doggy, I was perceiving this pungent smell but I was determined to cum. When the smell became unbearable, I had to pull out only to see better shit full my penile cap(thank God I used protection).

I 1st asked her, "did I enter u thru the anus(anal sex)? She said No.
Then what's the meaning of this? By then my dick don humble. Na so she begin explain how she's been taking this drug for weight reduction that's been making her poo frequently. I just shake my head, enter bathroom go shower.
If I hear say I no block am

zedegit:
There was this girl I dated in 2006. I can call her weird because everything about her: from her dressing (black) to the way she roved her eyes at me, down to her sleeping habit was weird.


There was a time we were trying to make love, all of a sudden, like one possessed she said I should lie down, I did then she climbed up my face.
What I heard next was "Poo!"
Girl messed o. The stench turned my mouth sour and I lost erection immediately.

For a week, the stench persisted in my room. I had to crash with a friend.
That was the end of whatever we had. I cannot come and kill myself.

MhizJoyce:
Lol..short guys are more handsome.

paul100:
Fifty Shades

MOnkeyBabe:
you Sef. You are too BuSh. nO offence

MhizJoyce:
Because he didn't ask you out abi

josh2297:
There is no child whom u will provide for and ahow concern abt that will totally 4get abt u...unless on rare cases which will b due to stupidity on d part of d child...and mind u d US and africa have different mentality towards aged parents..in Africa at old age you become d responsibilty of of ur children...in d US here u will most likely get 'donated' to a care home at old age to b d responsibility of d govt ...irrespective of whether u acquire them in or out of wedlock...
THEREFORE d best tin for any man out there who wanna make d best out of life and avoid troubles is
1.Get children through surrogacy or through a legal arrangement...then Bleep as much as u want without being called a cheat.
2. Make enough money as possible save for ur old age...train up d children u have got and live a happy man
#SHALOM

GeneralPula:
Lol. It’s called Slave and master sex!

josh2297:
There is not there to regret ...just suck it all up get as much children as you can train without committing to any woman...get a life ,flex,Bleep as much as you can,,u will probably die a very happy and fulfilled man...as long as you provide for those children they will b urz till death

josh2297:
There is not there to regret ...just suck it all up get as much children as you can train without committing to any woman...get a life ,flex,Bleep as much as you can,,u will probably die a very happy and fulfilled man...as long as you provide for those children they will b urz till death

Kobojunkie:
Getting married to Nigerian women or having Nigerian baby mamas is NOT BETTER. Many of the women(either through marriage or not ) forced into babymama situations are not happy about it, and this applies to even the Nigerian ones.

larryking540:
Depending on who you go marry ,

I just tell guys camp woman for hux make she born ,if it will take u 8 years before una do marriage ,do am like dat ,women way stay with guy even for am before they con finally go church go do marriage,I noticed say na them they humble pass .........yes they have invested their time ,along with years of courtship with the guy ,even when the guy day mess up ,day go talk am out and many go even day beg u like say na them wrong the guy

EgunMogaji2:
I've advised this before, I got some folks triggered. I expect the same now too.

The first advice first is not to get married. There's no benefit to getting married in this day and age. Getting children out of wedlock is no longer a taboo. You can get a "Domestic Coordinator" to do most of the functions that a "Wife" will do. One of the "Side Chicks" can take care of the other room. Build your life and business/career. Travel the world, learn new cultures. Don't turn yourself into an educator/financier of someones Daughter.

Second advice is NOT to take a Nigerian girl from here to the USA. Best advice is to provide for her here. This is what got the Nazi Feministas triggered last time.

As for me I'm running away from this thread because they'll come for their father as usual, awon omo alaileko gbogbo