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danilmo:
hmm.. see many comment from ladies above. Most of them aren't different from unrealistic tales of a motivational speaker. They talk too much..

@op. listen to what those Men above told u. U want a Man, listen to how to get a Man of ur dream from a Man.


Lemme drop this reality, how u present urself and ur personality , what u talk and discuss about matters o..


Wen I think of Sex, I have ladies I think of in my dm, I'm serious o.

but as per my future marital life, i dnt joke wit that, nd I'm at d same time seeking love from a brilliant ,homely ,young and decent virgin lady which I even know ll most likely deny me sex(I don't really mind, what I want from her is future).

once she accept my date plea eh, I don turn new leaf for her b that, sign out of market. I won't like to stain her personality,

So we men judge women base on what we perceive.

u see that Bleep/bleep boys ehn is in all men and at d same time ,that same responsible man is also in us, we give to u base on what we think is obtainable from u.

very helpful thanks

24kmagic:
First to comment.
And again, how old are you?

late 20s

24kmagic:
First of all, how old are you?
Secondly, why are you rushing to get FTC on your own thread?

I don’t understand what u mean by FTC

eniolaamos7:
first of all, which denomination do your attend?

living faith

eniolaamos7:
you will have to decide that. it depends on your taste.

lol just suggest .

Shugavee:
Being desperate about getting a man will only make u fall for idiots , be strong ,Iove urself sily , no one gives a fucck about you ,, all their point is to make women out there feel they can’t live life alone , u definitely can babe .. u would definitely think about it, keep the ship sailing with the fact u are living n not hungry or begging on the street,, babe stand ur ground, u are beautiful n a wonderful soul ,, don’t let the quest to get a man , make u run mad ,,, take good care of urself , they all attacking me cause they don’t want you to believe me cause they all want u desperate to feed their ego!! The faster u key in to this the better u will become

thanks babe , I won’t say I don’t hold the same opinion that u hv.

eniolaamos7:
what's your age range ? and I suggest that you should start attending churches densely populated with guys.

wish do u suggest ?

Sexytincoll:
Just relax and be your normal self,keep those Bleep boys at armslenghth. Do things that makes you happy and the right ones will come into your life at the right time.

thanks dear

Semperty:
pardon my curiosity... are you up to 30?

I am not but at my age no single commitment relationship? Lol

Jewessgratitudd:
Hmm...
I'll advise you stop this self pity and learn to love yourself anyways. If love comes, enjoy it while it last. If it doesn't, keep self love alive. One thing you don't know, when you go about with this "pity me" aura, it tends to send a negative signal that puts these men away eventually or it will attract the wrong fellows.
Be vibrant and happy.
Don't take anything to heart.
Remember you're not the only one.
Give yourself nice treats as much as you can.
Be free with men ( not loose)
Smile always and see the right people coming.

Most importantly, be chaste and maintain your stand so you don't have much to lose at the end. Until you find the rightful one.

nice words , thank you

Alfather:
Can a man do without money?

can a woman do without a man?

if you keep fvcking around you are wasting your time. You need to go on discovery as to discover the root of your issue. Even those guys you tamed fvck boys will also get marraid, but why not you. See, enough is enough you need answers. Is high time you travel far as to discover the root of your problem.
a time will come people will look at you and shake their heads in pity, because you are yet to know the WHY of your predigament, instead of the answers.
the way i see you, u are not even determine, untill a problem cause you tears you might not see vision to sacrifice.
it is when you are push to the wall, unimaginable ideas will start coming out of you.
but you must know that, the world has reach to a level whereby every man must pay price else you live by the mercy of the devil, i.e what comes your way by chance you take.

thanks.

this is a faceless platform n I am going to be very explicit about my issues , I hv done church prayers n fasting , I hv done it ,,, I hv even gone to a priest , bath in river n all ,, I hv done it , nothing!! Went back to God kept praying n praying !! Things hasn’t changed, looks like I am getting a break through but no I ain’t !!
Question is how many of that stuff will I get myself into ? In the quest of getting a man ? People will keep bringing suggestions but how many I go go ?

That’s not it .. I think I am created to be alone !!

KaideeGee:
Well the only thing i can say is follow your heart even God said "it is not good for a man to be alone" if you actually need a guy, you will find one.

I will hv kids. Definitely, so I won’t be alone

Shugavee:
can worrying change anything tho ? What won’t make her more depressed? U cm with no solution but hv a problem with what I said ?

U don’t need a man to live ur life , that’s what she needs to know n understand, other than that is desperation and depression.

thanks babe

Sexytincoll:
Dont even bother yourself looking forward to a relationship else you keep getting what you don't deserve from Bleep boys.I can't even remember the last time i was in a relationship.For the few ones I've been in my life were for the wrong reasons. I get too much attention everyday and I don't take any serious because they either come for the breast or nyash which is not what I want. It's very hard to recognize real this days because of too many Bleep boys around.Focus on whatever you are doing and in no distant time you will find that true person who will dig with you in every.Dont sound desperate, dress to kill and pamper yourself more.Life is good. Stay safe

Thanks sis , will try

Sad part is I am an introvert,, everyone saying I should go out more ,,, guess what the period I did , found myself hving sex with guys I didn’t even like, emphasis on guyS, all in the name of being in a relationship n not being too picky ,,, guess what ? They weren’t even serious n were also fuckboys .

XhosaNostra:
What do you mean by the bolded? Hope it doesn't imply you're a pushover. Sometimes what men claim they want isn't what they tend to go for. Don't be deceived. Some, just like some women, are "fixers". Meaning, they like a challenge or someone they think they can "tame", if that makes sense.

Anyway, "submissive" sounds like a complete bore to me. Could be why they're not sticking around. Perhaps what you need is to balance your submissiveness with a bit of kick ass, so you're not so one-dimensional & a snoozefest.

what exactly does that mean in details please

If it’s what I think , I am not a push over in my opinion, yes I am clam but I don’t do things I do not want to do.

xendra:
that's why you are single, you think you are too good.

not trying to be hard on you, but as you've rightly noticed none of these perfect sh!t get or keeps a man.

just be yourself the right one will come. don't be in a hurry or desperate(are you over 30yrs?)

don't try to be a feminist talking smacks you don't mean, you'll end up more frustrated.

i don’t think I am perfect in anyway . But I know i am every man’s dream i know that for a fact , I am willing to learn n grow,,, but that I am everymans dream is not a statement I will ever regret .

Dated a lot niggas hoping n praying he would be the one but sex sex sex is all they r after .

lefulefu:
maybe u the the cause
if u keep flaunting every man on social media no guy would take u that seriously

well I don’t , I hv never even met a guy worth posting on social media

KaideeGee:
So in essence, you are telling us that you think or thought ur needed a man?

yeah ,, but I don’t, cause I hv been doing fine without one. But still hv that thought of needing a man thats just my issue atm

Shugavee:
Sending love to ur end! I wish I could hug you ❤️. U don’t need a man babe. Take care of urself n focus on other things that would make u happy,U can live ur life without a man.

thanks darling. Still real sad tho

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If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

Deandean:
This advice z an expo n a violation of sec. 14 of the international bro. Code...so keep it.


1.Don't ever call him,its a power game,even if ul submit to him later,4 now u need some power to negotiate where d relationship will lead(if u av no power,he'll so panel beat ur heart ul eventually propose to him)

2. The moment you guys re back on track,don't be do demanding,but always ask him for some things u knw he can afford (even if u can too).a man's heart lies where his money goes....if hez not investing,he'll hardly b committed .

well said