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Kingarthur21:
just look at your poor grammar, you and the vee girl will not take free online class on English but be making noise on internet.. And you have a white collar job with this?how did you write a resume??or CV?

grammarian, if u see my post , close your eyes .

Kingarthur21:
why not you leave me to share my own truth?are you paying for my data?
You may have graduated from being a primary school teacher to whatever you claim you are doing,but your cognitive ability has not graduated from foolishness ..

Tell me the name of the company or institution you work with(if at all it is true,because a hungry nurse claims to be wealthy on this forum),let me screenshot your posts and report it to them that they employed a good-for-nothing.


Else expect no futher replies from me

why on earth will I tell u vital information about myself ? I am not wealthy , but I am doing well for myself in my own home , paying my bills , clothing my self n saving stack money for the future , I am still hustling , and i am very proud of myself .

I am a very intelligent young woman, I know this , n u don’t need to agree ,, ur opinion is less than irrelevant to me .

Yeah leave me alone!! people who hv money r never this stupid !! U might be an exception tho !

Lostz:
I don't know if he was cheating but he told me that he started a relationship with the new woman after feeling unloved by his wife.

the man left the woman to her home

Na so they will always find a reason to blame the woman for their irresponsiblityh

Lostz:
I don't know if he was cheating but he told me that he started a relationship with the new woman after feeling unloved by his wife.

the man left the woman to her home

Na zo they will always find a reason to blame the woman for their irresponsiblity

Lostz:
even the elderly kids always gang-up with their mother. they always believe the man is cheating.


women actually own the kids more. the man can leave any time. more reason you should do everything to keep your home happy

they werent wrong after all

CAPSLOCKED:
HONESTLY MAYBE I'VE BEEN MAKING A MISTAKE ROOTING FOR CERTAIN PEOPLE. DAMN.

YIMU .

Kingarthur21:
Remember when I created a thread advising guys not to date broke girls? You countered it.

Have you noticed most of the ladies saying this are/were school teachers in nursery/primary earning peanuts ? When you consider dating girls from the slum that slum mentality never leaves them.
Can you serme financially stable gals like pocco
and coco.candy say the thrash they are saying?

foolish he goat !! Those a women making a living for themselves how r they broke ? Tell me , I also thought in a primary school after my secondary days, but now I am done with my university n hv a very well paying job so how does that even make any sense!! I hv money blah blah blah , na ur money Dey feed them !! If u hv money u hv it for urself n ur people not people on nairaland ! So make person hear word

Samakus:
Too much Pastors' brainwashing, Bollywood and nollywood is bad! The reality is different my dear.

that’s not brain washing that’s obvious fact ,, women believe men who invest in them more love them more , so he said the truth

Lostz:
the woman is even somehow related to me but I don't blame the man.

he work all day but she don't even respect. the woman spend her money on dressing and makeup.

the man got tired of having to work for people who don't deserve.

he now look happy and healthy with the new woman. I am happy for him as he is a friend

not respecting ur husband is wrong! But if they hv kids he needs to take care of them and more so we don’t know the full story

Samakus:
Oh gawd! You're really living in dreamland. If only you know...


You must be under 22. . Experience will teach you a lot if things

dreamland? How ? I am above 22 , n I know u indirectly mean men r starce , so u hv to go with anything , all the name of hving a man

I hv an aunt friend that got married at 39 to a government school teacher , mean while she is a big time lecturer in a federal university, just because she wanted a husband, well she’s cheating around with richer men , everything in their house belongs to her n her husband does less than 50% in the house . The man can’t tell her nothing , she’s not even happy in the marriage , I hv learnt a big lesson from her n I won’t marry any man because I got desperate

Lostz:
not saying he should cheat if you behave well and support him financially.



i know of a man who got tired of slaving to feed his greedy wife and family.
he moved out of the house, got a new house and brought a younger girl.
the woman is now hustling to feed her home while the man is enjoying his life

the man is an irresponsible man!! The young lady he’s with will he not still spend for her !! Irresponsibility. If they had kids together he’s still gonna pay even for house rent

That’s even worse

[quote author=Samakus post=88649760][/quote]if u r not afraid of losing her then u don’t love her

DominusPrime:
A man must learn to combine reason with leadership. And a woman must learn never to challenge such a man's authority. If as a woman you submit to a lazy drunkard or someone who's life has lost direction then that is a life of suffering. If my wife doesn't agree with my decisions it's fine but instead of ourightly disobeying or disregarding them or doing the opposite she should find ways of appealing to me and that love that made me marry her as well as the fact that I trust her wisdom will make me consider her.

yeah makes sense

Samakus:
Spending for your woman when married is a MUST. whatever she brings is to support you.

But spending lavishly for a woman I'm not married to is A NO NO for me. Until you're married to me, anything can happen.

Spending on a woman for the fear of losing her is the easiest way to lose her. Trust me. Because you can never be a man in that relationship.

valid points but do ur best ! According to one pastor , u can never hv her till u invest in her

Samakus:
Lolz. But seriously, change this your mentality of man must spend lavishly on you. When you marry (if you haven't), your hubby will spend on you for sure. But don't enter a relationship hoping to have the guy as your meal ticket. Guys have families too. They have goals to achieve. I told my girl this point blank. Of course, she sees the way I take care of my family and can see that I am a responsible person who will take care of her and my kids.

For the bolded, No I'm not. I work there

that why u hv to pray she doesn’t meet someone ready to do it all n care less about all that ,,, cause it’s hard to hear but she will leave you , except the man has some qualities she doesn’t like . Most definitely she will cheat on you ! All girls love money , do ur best .

Lostz:
don't worry. you will know whose home it is when he run after fresh pussy

then we hv to ask why is there increase in divorce, u want her to help with the home finance, and want to be the head which will be an issue n still cheat? She won’t take it n leave that marriage without looking back

NockMedia:
LOL hold up! The feelings should be mutual, yeah?
She should also give me reasons why I can't do without her.
Abeg. Stop placing women on a pedestal.
You sound as if ladies are doing men a favour.

in the situation where u take a woman from Nigeria to America, make her balance, even send her to nursing school n now she’s done u expect her to share bills with you as an africian woman , even b4 she finished she used her per time job to also help out. Knowing she’s a woman of her own with so much rights , n u think the Africian I am the head will stand ? For where, she can do n undo n careless

DominusPrime:
That's slavery...and that implies you don't love her

he’s an extremist , a man makes the final n major decisions in the home, whether they r moving to another location, starting a family business n what it is . So much more , the wife helps in the decision making but the man holds his way cause he feeds n provides for the home .

Lostz:
God said the woman should also support financially

hmmm lol Joseph was a Capinter , did they tell u what Mary did?

The world is evolving, women need to work but that a man should think he’s wife money is for sharing is where I hv a problem. She can support ones in a while but u r not entitled to it !!! It’s ur hom not hers

NockMedia:
LOL maybe it's because I didn't include African women or should I say Nigerian women to the list of filipinas and eastern European ladies.
You see, the truth is, the society determines the way and manner women behave.
If you take a Nigerian lady to the States, it's just a matter of time before her eyes gets opened and she starts to behave and reason like her American counterparts.

true definitely n who regrets it? If u want a woman not to think of the possibility of doing without you , give her reasons to

Samakus:
She has her money! When you have money to take care of your bills, dude will concentrate on giving you treats. That's what I do.

And she loves me like kilode. Everyday, she's afraid of losing me. Probably because we're both in a campus environment and she sees the quality of ladies flocking around. When you work in a student environment, you will understand that girls are cheap to get. No offense meant

If a woman loves you more than you love her, it reduces the chances of her misbehaving

Now, I really have to go

lol be like u never hear say man money Dey sweet !!

R u a student ? I don’t understand the school environment issue

Kingarthur21:
Oh please...just get your dumped and discarded self out of here,you belong to the garbage ,the place you have always been dumped by men...

Bye

men who don’t feed me!! So I will continue to speak my mind with my data u don’t buy, I am here to fustrate ur being ! I will keep saying my truth !! CAPLOCKED no get sense !

NockMedia:
I get your point, sweetie but not all American women are that way. You're stereotyping. Stop it.
Anyways, grand feminism in the states is one of the reasons American men travel out to marry Filipinos and eastern European women.
These foreign ladies then become feminists like their American counterparts when brought to the states by their American spouse. After awhile.
The cycle continues

I am talking of Nigerians marrying Nigerians in the foreign world!!
The Americans r used to that life .
Nigerian men dating white women hv this boundaries they don’t cross , nothing like head u are equal,
But men taking Nigerian women to the US with the allusion that a Nigerian woman hv values , while they expect her to work n share bills is what I mean

Samakus:
Yes dear. I'm stingy!! I have my family to care for materially. Babe gets things occasionally and she sends me things occasionally too. It's a mutually beneficial relationship.

There's no parasite in it whatsoever!

She gives me pussy too and I give her dick. And if she misbehaves which she hasn't yet, I draw another closer as I don't fail to have one around even though nothing is going on between us.

just hope she doesn’t meet a better guy who would swept her off her feet . And spend on her

Lostz:
headship is a God given right. it is not tied to bills

it is o ,, there is a reason God said a man should roll the soil!! U are the breadwinner n the head!!