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Samakus:
Let it not seem like I brag but babe, we don't lack 'em. Trust me

r u stingy ? If yes , u lack them . U just get free Pusey from girls with boyfriends

Lostz:
that does not mean we will sacrificed our headship

u are still talking about leadership , u must be kidding

Samakus:
Maybe, this op isn't in Nigeria!

There are a lot of ladies to go round. A lot

lol like u can love every woman u meet ! Single men r still out there, because of this expectation.

NockMedia:
LOL there is enough to go round

Just hope , cause it happens.

Look at the US for example where almost everything is equal, our men out in the US r crying, a woman can send you packing from you own house . N u can’t do nothing , cause they feel so relaxed n don’t work ur ass off to be the provider , that’s how disrespect comes up . They leave u for a big dick n a richer man n care less about ur feeling cause add no value to their lives .

Lostz:
men now prefer your money.

no one want to die early from too much hardwork

okay kudos

NockMedia:
Well I guess my values only align with that of the 2%.
How sad. It's one of the reasons the 98% of women don't marry early, these days.
Feminism needs moderation or it is going to become extremism. Imagine being an extremist feminist, as a lady.
Most Men won't want to marry you, for sure.

yeah those ladies r most times lesbians , hv toys or hv a toy boy . They r fine with or without men

Just hope those 2% don’t get swept away from u by a better man tho

Samakus:
Keep talking! . Relationships are not poverty alleviation programme my dear! As a girl, you will do yourself a world of good getting something doing and having money to pay your bills at least until you marry. A single girl, depending on men for her sustenance is not fashionable anymore. It doesn't pay them anymore sef. Go to RantHQ and other online platforms and see how ladies are complaining of stingy single guys. NNE, Boys don dey wise up

I will only have my wife and family to fend and provide for. Until you become one, don't expect much from me.

Newsflash! Even without 'spending hell' for them, they still flock around me. . We now know the secret

OK bye

there r women who care about men spending n there r women who don’t! So u take ur pick It’s always good to hv a source of income but not to give a man .

Lostz:
the married men are not men?

of what use is your submission?

will I take submission to the bank?

when I say men I mean single men , married men r in another side.

I don’t know of what use it is, Ask men

NockMedia:
Being submissive is relative, I believe.
First off, if I love my wife with my heart, I wouldn't need her financial contributions, unless she does, willingly. But if I married her with my head (logical reasoning), she must be ready to go Dutch.
My wife being submissive doesn't mean I won't do house chores or run errands for her.
It won't mean her opinion won't count during discussions.
Being submissive can be said to mean RESPECTFUL.
As a lady, you can still be submissive and contribute to the family.
Being Submissive is not the same as being oppressed

only 2% of women r ready to respect /submit to a man as they rightly should while paying some bills .

josen16322:
Dis days Nigeria as a country is one of d poorest and hardest country 4 guys wit out connection 2 survive on a daily basis so dating or trying 2 marry a idle women will only make matas worst and i think d guy is goin 2 die of hardship and if check d stat nowadays u will see dat 9ja men don't last long most especially d people from d east

if u see a woman willing to support fine but thats until u get ur shit together

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...


The two contradicting threads just proved that both men and women are confused.

how ?

cooooooks:
Not all men want 'submissive' women. I don't even know what that means. This of us who believe that marriage is partnership cannot be talking about submission. Equality all the way.


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then I respect u greatly

Samakus:
The bolded is part of the reason we're having more entrants into Shiloh yearly

BTW, men are becoming wise. Single men I mean. That's why married men are the new sexy for leeches

because men r too lazy to work ,, women rather become side chicks to married men which is very sad !! There r still men out there spending hell for their ladies .

Stop looking for women to feed you n expect submission

Kingarthur21:
aren't you the same fool that posted this ? At least you can see why you are used and dumped like a diaper by guys... You can never be capslocked level...
Many more will use and discard you till you develop yourself to be smart...

lol does caplocked level feed me or what !! Who cares about his level? Lol! I am not replying u again

donbachi:
Men are not confused,just dat they are dealing with some confused women.

really ? How

DominusPrime:
I quite agree with you. Most men simply say what they say to bash ladies. Whatever side you take as a woman here they will bash you. My advice is just know what's best for you and go for it. Make sure the man has the same values as you and you are good to go.
Men have turned the word submission to mean that a woman has no say as long as that's what the man wants.

exactly thanks

Kingarthur21:
aren't you the same fool that posted this ? At least you can see why you are used and dumped like a diaper by guys... You can never be capslocked level...
Many more will use and discard you till you develop yourself to be smart...

caplocked is a fool I am not ashamed to say it !! I don’t need a man so move on

Pwhitelaw:
Nairaland will become a better place the day we start respecting each others opinion.There are so many thread on Nairaland where opinion differs but we fail to understand people are entitled to their opinion and it doesn't mean they are correct 100%.The use of abusive words should be avoided because it's speaks alot about our personality online and in real life situation.

yeah just like that man n he’s co Horts . I totally agree with you !

So there was a thread yesterday night n the OP was complaining about women demanding for men , he said prostitution is okay n porn stars is okay , but women who demand from their boyfriends r the immortal people ( makes no sense ofcourse) a lady made some valid agrument against it , n emphasis on men doing the needful for their wives and girlfriend , and women also being summissive to them , which to me is absolutely correct, well men attacked her for simple agreeing that ofcourse women deserve to be treated as queens. Which is normal in this platform

My point : Men just showed me that they r very confused with what they went , you want a woman to share bills with you n expect her to be submissive at the same time ? That’s impossible and that’s the reason a lot of marriages are not working . If u want submissiveness be a MAN , the way God Sa’id it n till the soil. Don’t look for a woman to share bills with u n think u can tell her what to do , it will never work .

And trust me no woman wants a man feeling entitled to her money, in other to make ur home function , cause it’s ur home , they r all answering ur surname ,

if u feel sharing bills or hving a woman who can take care of herself with out ur input is what u want , don’t complain when she feels she’s can make decisions in the home without ur input . No matter how much ur woman make , she is ur responsibility, she’s only there to help when things r tough .

Ps : date ur kind of woman , if a woman is demanding leave her alone n stop complaining to us , if u don’t spend , another man will spend.

Pwhitelaw:
..I did. They are both guilty of using abusive words and I'm not taking sides.Moreover what the op wrote there is simple to comprehend and he Never said men are saint.

simple to comprehend but he believes prostitutes n porn stars r better than women sticking with one man ? Why blame women as the only reason for immortality? if u want to talk about immortality attack both gender not just women .

That man was seriously trying to get on that lady’s nerves n that was super immature of him . U didn’t read up the thread

CAPLOCKED mr itk ! Spit!! YIMU

Pwhitelaw:
Most females who contributed on this thread knew what the op was trying to say .The lady was busy replying every comment using abusive words and we want the male folks not to retailate.Imagine a guy made a giveaway post to gift any lady who can post her cleavage for 5k and within minutes there are over 200 comments with different pictures of their breast and you want men to respect and take you serious ... So funny.

u obviously didn’t read the thread,,

arthorjnr:
Okay okay.
She can be pissed now... Better??
Lol... Just go to bed already.

smiles okay .

arthorjnr:
Yeah, people differ, they handle stuff differently.

He'll prolly do better next time.

This forum can sometimes piss someone off tho.

the lady is the one to be really pissed not that man!

arthorjnr:
Truth is, it was taken out of context, he was attacked by people who refused to see his point.
They threw him off course.
Yes it was a bit contradictory but he's right about the porn part.

Truth is, morally, society has plummeted.

He was just pointing out what he observed in the women folk.

u call that a bit ? To me he didn’t act as old as he claimed I am sorry

arthorjnr:
Was his statement hard for you to comprehend?
He is saying the truth.
He's bothered because he has to raise a girl in this society.
I would be.

But the "stupidity" guy is also right with his point.

In conclusion, we are morally screwed in this world.

he’s point were very contradictory in different levels.

The owner of this thread made no point the only reason these men started supporting him was because she said men should take care of their girlfriends, which is absolutely normal in real life.

When he was defending porn stars!! What was even his Point exactly ?

Before u start supporting these irresponsible men , read the thread .

Carloslehder:
This where the first people that insulted the man and till the end of the thread he didn't even reply them.

And that 3rd picture is the insult your Darling you're defending threw at him

after insulting her multiple times ? she said plain facts in that post .

What r u calling her mother selfish for ? Ar u her husband? A man sorting the bills for his wife is a crime, Is she ur wife ? Do u people know how they started ? That’s what I expect u people to even talk about , not start calling her mother a LovePeddler , for what exactly?

Which brings me to the question, what was the argument even abouT?