Health / Re: Video Showing Nigerian Caregivers Abusing 89-Year-Old Granny Lands Them In Jail by lilyheaven: 8:09am On Jan 19 |
Nursing a human is a calling, it’s not for everyone, but people go into it to earn money, not really to care. You see some of them in the hospital franchasofficia: There are more humane ways to handle the woman.
From age 80, most humans become kids and start to act like kids, and at that stage they need compassion and not cruelty.
If you are empathetic in life, no matter what, you will never maltreat anybody even when they push you to the extreme.
Empathy makes us humans.
Can you handle your own mother that way, ask yourself that.
The woman is in agony due to health challenges arising from old age, she need compassionate care and empathy to care for her. Don't support evil in the name of race.
If a caregiver treats your own aged mother that way how would you feel? Will you be happy to watch it?
If you wish to grow old, have it at the back of your mind that you might be in similar mental state like that aged woman they were rough handling. Yes some aged people are more difficult than others to care for, but if you have empathy, you will always try to treat them passionately. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Wedding Invitation Card To All Nairalanders(photo) by lilyheaven: 2:21pm On Jan 18 |
🤣🤣🤣 cocolacec: Ghost married to his fellow Ghost. |
Food / Re: Can You Fry These Two Without Tasting Them? by lilyheaven: 9:30pm On Jan 16 |
Yes ! before breakfast No! After breakfast. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Experience With A Single Mother by lilyheaven: 8:59am On Jan 14 |
🤣🤣🤣 Chimezie198: She came to introduce her kids to their new stepfather |
Romance / Re: This Bad Practice Among The Poor. by lilyheaven: 6:27pm On Jan 07 |
Please differentiate 🤣🤣🤣 Nicepoker: Op when a poor man is about to cum. Its always different from a rich Man's cum. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Menstrual Cramps Disturbing Me Badly. Please What Can I Use For It? by lilyheaven: 8:52pm On Jan 06 |
😂😂😃 Incoherent message EmperorCaesar:
What are u always saying sef and to whom
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Health / Re: Menstrual Cramps Disturbing Me Badly. Please What Can I Use For It? by lilyheaven: 3:31pm On Jan 06 |
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Temptations!!! Jewessgratitud3:
I've been trying to do that o. One woman now go and use big cola to do new year for me few days to this thing, I now drank it i 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Health / Re: Menstrual Cramps Disturbing Me Badly. Please What Can I Use For It? by lilyheaven: 3:29pm On Jan 06 |
Giving birth doesn’t reduce period cramps for all , so you won’t be shocked if yours didn’t calm down after delivery 🤣🤣🤣 Jewessgratitud3:
Yeah.. my twin attested to it that since she started giving birth hers stopped. I can't give birth now until I'm married so that can't work for now. 17 Likes |
Health / Re: Menstrual Cramps Disturbing Me Badly. Please What Can I Use For It? by lilyheaven: 3:25pm On Jan 06 |
Stay away from sugary things , a week to your period. It won’t stop the pain totally, but It will help reduce pain . 67 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: More Hardship Looms For Nigerians As Discos Set To Increase Electricity Tariff by lilyheaven: 11:12pm On Jan 01 |
Pepper no costly reach this one johnmartus: This useless disco are just a useless hopeless organization. Nigeria electricity supposed to be competing with what Nigeria are earning from crude oil of course we are the population. Many communities not see electricity light for 10 years even in urban areas you still can't guarantee 8 hours power supply. You keep increasing tariffs every month like you are selling pepper. |
Politics / Re: What Obijackson Is Building In Okija Anambra State (video& photos) by lilyheaven: 8:14pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Anambra humans are chest beaters 🤣🤣🤣🤣Na today you know. Bendeco2020: And so
Who asked you?
Must you guys bring everything here to brag with?
The world class school he is building, is it not for his business?
Will Igbos or Anambrians be giving free education in the school?
Abeg you guys should grow up |
Properties / Re: Checkout This Beautiful Mansion In Agulu, Anambra State by lilyheaven: 8:36pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Fry stone. No eggs to waste chopnaira: So we should fry plantain 🤣 |
Fashion / Re: Why Do Women Do This? (Pic) by lilyheaven: 3:49pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
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Fashion / Re: Why Do Women Do This? (Pic) by lilyheaven: 2:39pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Like seriously 🤣🤣🤣 BloomingDale:
Remove men from this earth and it will be 90% crime free, almost a utopia. That’s why the Bible says there will be no marriage in heaven, cos there will be no men. Just one sex. |
Celebrities / Re: Dejumo Lewis Dies At 80 by lilyheaven: 1:40pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
He is looking for mentions, a man that died @80 aged gracefully BGSM:
Remember we are human, he’s now gone. It’s better we learn to forgive one another, no matter what he has done to you, please forgive him. If you think you ll never forgive him, tell us exactly what he has done to you. |
Family / Re: Is It Normal That I've Never Received Any Gift From Anyone? by lilyheaven: 11:12pm On Dec 21, 2023 |
I have never received gift from my family, but my best friend always do gift me, my husband and my in-laws are trying.🥰 Olodo24: Is it normal that no one has ever gifted me anything on special occasions? I'm talking about Valentine, birthday and Christmas. I am 29, and since I became anything close to an adult, I've never had anyone care for me enough to show me love on these special days. Not from family, not from friends.
I am currently not dating and things are really rough for me right now, but I've gifted people in the past. I know some members here will say I'm feeling entitled to the outcome of other people's efforts, but that's really not the point. I just want to experience love and feel loved no matter how small. I can't ask for much.
Having people gift you things is a big flex. I'm not even talking about people coming through for one when one needs help because that one na long story.
So, guys, is this normal? Is it very much normal that feel unloved over this? I'm really over thinking it for sure, but I can't help it. |
Family / Re: Guess How Much My Wife Bought These 17 Tubers Of Water Yams Today ? by lilyheaven: 11:04pm On Dec 21, 2023 |
10k |
Car Talk / Re: How Much Do You Spend On Car Fuel Weekly by lilyheaven: 11:01pm On Dec 21, 2023 |
20k 4Runner drinking fuel like horse 😭 33 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Returned To Nigeria Homeless After 30 Years In UK, US – Ondo Man by lilyheaven: 9:42pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
Dead and buried? Take it easy ooo Nigeria is just sick Chronic fever 🤪 saddler:
This man left Nigeria in 1984 because Nigeria was bad and now he came back to 2023 when Nigeria is dead and buried
Omo this man go like suffer i swear. |
Crime / Re: Barrister Brutally Attacks Wife Over A Key In Uyo, Akwa Ibom (Photos) by lilyheaven: 9:21pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
Which fathers house? You want her to go back to her fathers house and start worrying her brothers wives 😆 No way, let her look for accommodation , and move in . Johnycastro18: Like, how can any man treat his wife in such a humiliating and embarrassing manner....
According to the post this incident between them have been going on for the past four years.....
If the woman is a nagging and disrespectful woman to him, instead of the beating and all that above, it would have been better if he ( the husband) sent her packing to her father's house, than all that drama above
That man need to be arrested ASAP
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Career / Re: Japa: From Bank Manager To Skyscraper Cleaner by lilyheaven: 9:09pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
You are absolutely right, I remember how many years I searched for job 😢 I registered for Ielt, I just wanted to leave this country, since I got a job, I forgot the Ietls, though I learnt a lot, but I don’t feel like leaving again 😀 Jewessgratitud3: Soft life to hard life.
I guess when he got there and saw the pile of bills staring him in the face he had no choice but to grab the next available job.
If you are gainfully employed in naija, you don't need to japa. Japa is for someone who has no hope of ever getting a job in Nigeria. He'll appreciate any kind of job he finds there. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Do You Count How Many Sachet Are In A Bag Of Pure Water After Buying It by lilyheaven: 10:19pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Thank You for counting |
Health / Re: The 10 Most Abused Drugs In Africa by lilyheaven: 8:07pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
My room mate then, would finish one card at once due to menstrua pain ednut1: The way Nigerians abuse Pracetamol ehn. People take it in anticipation for potential headache omo. So many damaged liver and kidney |
Family / Re: Married Women Must Lurrn The Hard Way, My Crashed Marriage Story by lilyheaven: 10:06am On Dec 15, 2023 |
What drug are you taking to prevent pregnancy? ADURA123: Before you crucify me, pls check my previous two stories
https://www.nairaland.com/7833825/want-divorce-live-alone
https://www.nairaland.com/7842384/peace-ultimate-target-happy
The peace above only lasted for a week, then it done on me that this woman will never change, reading through comments on Nairaland shows that is a place to have fun not for some serious issues, but as the matter na here i start am, i say make i update una grin.
So finally i left my wife and took my three kids away from her and she may never see them until they are 20yrs, women should know that, is a man's world no matter what you try to do, the Nigerian society is program to favour the men, from law to traditional institutions.
Now, i found my self in the hand hand of a beautiful single mother of 1, 35yrs same with my wife and Halas, she is over the moon, she self na man pursue am last year November, her marriage lasted just 7yrs and guess what? she could not speak to her kid since then till now, is a man's world.
I am very careful but i know say no be pikin carry me go there, i am currently on drugs i cannot impregnate woman, but guess what>
Most of you suggested coz i couldn't satisfy my wife in the OZA room that could be the reason why she is misbehaving despite all i have done for her and still doing, naaaa, sex is from the heart, i barely last 20mins with my wife and struggle to go two round, the same me last Saturday i was almost killing somebody's daughter and person former wife grin.
Some of you requested i increase her monthly upkeep, i did, but for where, i just discovers she is not my kind of person and no match for my lifestyle, She has to look for another man to marry or remain single and f*ck around if she so wish.
The simple lesson here is that, both women are now carrying the Tag, DIVORCED WOMEN, while me as the man can still settled for a baby girl of 21yrs but God forbid, their ogbanje too much grin.....Married women should learn to do what your husband want, no juju pass that one, especially if the man is responsible and taking care of his responsibilities.
Adura ni ti gba....if you don't know me you can judge me. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by lilyheaven: 9:57am On Dec 15, 2023 |
🤣🤣 Fountainofyouth: I like the fact that you stylishly didn't admit that you cheated, only that there's no evidence, swear with amadioha say you no cheat
You can divorce, your choice, but you can also forgive her since you know you also cheated on her. |
Food / Re: See Different Ways Plantain Can Be Enjoyed. (pictures) by lilyheaven: 8:34pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Is that corn and okra, inside the pot ZooOga:
We only have one loan plantain in the house now.😁
When I lived in England my Caribbean friends taught me how to make fish tea or fish head soup with green banana, the food cousin of plantain 😋
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Food / Re: See Different Ways Plantain Can Be Enjoyed. (pictures) by lilyheaven: 8:30pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
You haven’t eaten beans and plantain before? You can enjoy it with palm oil( boiling method) Or fried plantain with white beans plus stew.😋 EmperorCaesar:
This seems the best the best among all
Beans and plantain? Not sure I've tasted that before...that one go too sweet to taste like food |
Family / Re: My Wicked Stepmum Has Requested For My Help by lilyheaven: 10:06pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Devils compound 💃 Nice2023:
Pls,be careful.
If u think ur step mum loves u then u are deceiving yourself.
She is only looking for the perfect time to deal with u and deal with u seriously beyond ur imagination.
Don't give her ur money oh.
I am yet to see a good step mum...almost all of them are from the devil's compound.
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Family / Re: How Old Were You When You Realized This (see Here) by lilyheaven: 9:43pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Just now money121: How old were you when you realized that it's not "Mummy Oyoyo" but "Mummy oh-you're home"? Please don’t come and lie 🤣😂
but I still prefer mummy o yo-yo |
Health / Re: Nigerian Nurse Sacked & Deported From The UK For Praying For Patient by lilyheaven: 9:41pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
You are fulfilling your destiny. Poor you. Insulting people is your destiny 🙄 Karlifate:
You're just foolish.
You know how to pray, yet your country is still in shambles.
Onye ara. |
Romance / Re: Why Would A Man Reach Out To An Ex Of 10+ Years Out Of The Blue ? by lilyheaven: 7:53pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
But I thought both party will enjoy the Bleep jeromestarks: I do that a lot. Sometimes, I just want to refvck them. Other times, I just want someone to useless again and again. Nothing personal.
I hardly forgive wrong doings from girls. I always make sure they pay. Even if it took 10 years, they must pay bitterly (except they're dead). |
Agriculture / Re: I Killed The Big Rat (okete) Eating Our Cocoa pods by lilyheaven: 7:47pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Why is the rat looking so beautiful? Redomi: There is this big rat that comes every night to eat our cocoa pods. We have two cocoa trees in our compound. I killed the male rat last week and I killed the female today. It is forbidden for any Ondo ekimogun born to eat the big rat. So I'm going to sell it off. |