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Family / Re: Https://www.nairaland.com/7401346/aftermath-dna-test-first-child#117869548 by lilyheaven: 7:41am On Oct 27, 2022
That’s the more reason he should inform his wife. He can still do the DNA secretly.
Getting her hair will be very easy.
InfernoNig:


I doubt this your explanation and can only be proven right if they carry out maternal DNA. Our generation of women now can do wonders.
Family / Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by lilyheaven: 6:29pm On Oct 26, 2022
Exactly, he is just hurting his soul
Enimin:


Yeah the more reason they need to address the issue immediately
Family / Https://www.nairaland.com/7401346/aftermath-dna-test-first-child#117869548 by lilyheaven: 6:26pm On Oct 26, 2022
https://www.nairaland.com/7401346/aftermath-dna-test-first-child#117869548

A lady ran into the labor ward screaming, please I need wrapper,, I’m in Labour, baby is coming, baby is coming,,, please oooo, I don’t have wrapper.
Lo.. she wasn’t even pregnant.
That was when she was bundled outside.
This incident happened on Tuesday last week.

My story, : what was her aim,,,?
she wanted to distract everyone... then make away with a baby.

Most times, after delivery, mothers will be left in the couch, while their babies will be inside a cot.

In the hospital, due to lack of staff, only two nurses to one doctor will be attending to upto 15 patients, once these evil ones notice you are busy,, they will want to implement their evil plan.

To all pregnant mothers out there, you have to be alert... don’t be too tired after delivery...keep your eyes on your baby, try and come with a trusted human being.. husbands please try and be there...
In fact, tell them you want to carry your baby once your baby is born.
Except if there’s any reason , your
Baby is taken to inborn, for further management.

For the above link,,, Oga I don’t know what happened,, but I think you should inform your wife, she might be as confused as you.
Or she will tell you what the secret is, if there’s any.
Keeping the secret will hurt you forever, and it’s not good for a healthy relationship.
Family / Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by lilyheaven: 6:04pm On Oct 26, 2022
What if, it wasn’t as a result of cheating but hospital mistake.
Enimin:


You are playing with fire, a woman who can do that iis capable of.ending your life without notice. Now consider a scenario where the biologicall faher of that child (whom she knows, but you don't know) approaches her with juicy incentives in order to get rid of you and claim the boy. You'd be a goner in such a scenario.

My niggä, I'm sorry I've got to inform you that your life is in serious danger.
Family / Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by lilyheaven: 6:02pm On Oct 26, 2022
You are making a mistake, you should inform your wife...
What if someone mistakenly carried your baby after delivery.
You should have done this immediately you observed your suspicion.
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?
Politics / Re: Hakeem Baba-Ahmed Blasts Doctors & Other Professionals Leaving Nigeria by lilyheaven: 4:22pm On Oct 26, 2022
Let them go, but government should at least make our working environment conducive with reasonable pay.
gbengaeed:


Majority of those people leaving Nigerian can not afford the training fee of tertiary institution in those country they moved to, after been train here. Nigeria subsidies the education they have for them. if anybody is migrating its not a problem but it becomes one when you compare the pay cheque here to the one abroad without comparing the education fee too. its unfair to the nation but however migration is part of life and that was how it would continue to be.

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Politics / Re: Hakeem Baba-Ahmed Blasts Doctors & Other Professionals Leaving Nigeria by lilyheaven: 4:18pm On Oct 26, 2022
Which one is true talk, anyone that sees work anywhere in this world should go and work , and earn a living, hunger can’t come and kill people because they want to serve their papa land.
Abfinest007:
Truth talk
Foreign Affairs / Re: Heritage Foundation Says US Military Is WEAK And Unable To Win War (Pics) by lilyheaven: 11:55am On Oct 24, 2022
How can they have energy to fight, when all they do is shook anus .
Health / Re: Medical Brain Drain In Zimbabwe: Government Blocks UK-Bound Nurses (Video) by lilyheaven: 6:59pm On Oct 20, 2022
Poverty and practicing witchcraft at the same time, is what African leaders are.
SouthSouth1914:
You can’t take care of them properly, you don’t want them to go. Are African leaders not greedy and wicked??

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Crime / Re: Charles Chukwuma Onwuemelie "Blue Cloth Bandit" Arrested In The US by lilyheaven: 4:42pm On Oct 03, 2022
Come back where?
He should stay there...
We don’t want his type around.
Godspowerpro:


I pray he's able to come back
Literature / Letting Go by lilyheaven: 8:41pm On Oct 01, 2022
It has rained all night, the morning was chilling with cold. Jane woke up , looking at the blanket she had used earlier to cover herself lying on the floor. She didn’t bother to pick up the blanket, as she ran towards the toilet door to release herself from full bladder.
Tap, tap. Tap!
Some one tapped at the door,,, jane reached the door, to check who was knocking so early.
It was Kang,
Jane:——good morning Dr. Kang,
Kang:——good morning Jane, are you just waking up? Aren’t you going to work today? It’s 7:30am already.
Jane:——Oh my gosh, are you seriously serious? I didn’t know time has gone down, I was really enjoying my sleep due to the rain.
Dr.Kang:——I think , I should be going, since you are not ready yet, I have some patients to review this morning before my consultant will come.
Jane:—— Alright, see you later.

(Dr Kang left).....,,
Jane met Dr. kang through her friend from school, Cam, it was almost two months since Jane came to Benin, for her service, but haven’t seen any accommodation, as her place of primary assignment didn’t provide any accommodation for them.
She hustled from barracks to teaching hospital everyday, until she met Cam, she explained all she has been through to Cam, but he couldn’t help her, since he too was already squatting with a friend too.
But , Immediately Dr. kang called him, he asked him if, there was any free accommodation around his area.
Luckily there was one.
The next day , Cam and Jane went to check on the accommodation. It was a good one, Jane paid for the house immediately. Jane found out
Dr. Kang was her next door neighbor, and he was also doing his intern in the same hospital she was posted . Kang been mobile , always drive her to the hospital every morning,, they became really close.
Eight months later.........
Family / Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by lilyheaven: 9:03pm On Sep 29, 2022
She is a very strong woman.
Nine weeks without talking to hubby, she is strong indeed.
emmyN:
Ignore him. VVomen that make their own money don't need man, so divorce him. You are a strong woman wink
Family / Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by lilyheaven: 8:59pm On Sep 29, 2022
Not only hanging off, but cut him off for 9 good weeks.
This marriage has suffered.
Exceed15:
Hanging up is a slap on a man's face. Find a way to apologize. Men love respect.
Family / Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by lilyheaven: 8:57pm On Sep 29, 2022
Fahvvy:
You had an argument with your hubby over the phone...
You hung up on him before he could say his peace...
Avoided his calls consecutively for 4days...
Cut him off completely for 9weeks...

And then out of the blues, you send a completely unrelated message without first trying to resolve the old issue and you expect him to be cool with that?
You expect to just come through for you because you finally reached out to him?
LMAO undecided...

My dear...
The same way you took the initiative to start this matter is the same way you should take the initiative to end it...

The fact that you felt comfortable cutting your hubby off for 9 full weeks is proof that this is not the first time you have given him the cold shoulder over minor issues such as this and so Oga is fed up undecided...
That’s 2 months and 1 week on top
Without talking to husband.
Hmmm,,, some people get mind ooo.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Nigerians Celebrate Queen Elizabeth’s Funeral With Aso Ebi In UK (pictures) by lilyheaven: 6:42pm On Sep 20, 2022
I didn’t see anything wrong with what he said.
Electorate:


If your direct ancestor was amongst those enslaved, sold and chained like animals only to work in farmlands in America and Europe for the rest of their lives, you won't be typing trash to praise your oppressor.

A brain resetting visit to Badagry to see the chains used in chaining your ancestors is necessary.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Nigerians Celebrate Queen Elizabeth’s Funeral With Aso Ebi In UK (pictures) by lilyheaven: 6:41pm On Sep 20, 2022
Honestly you’re right, black man doesn’t have the energy to patch their leaking roof, but will prefer to squat with a white man and do labor that is bigger than patching a roof.
Hmmmm.... na longer throat de worry black man.
festacman:
Beautiful sight seeing these beautiful Nigerian ladies mourning Queen Elizabeth II in spectacular Aso Ebi.

The truth is knowing the truth of British colonialism doesn't set anybody free. It is what you do with truth that sets you free. What Uju Anya said is not anything new. The historical fact has always been there and recognized. The earlier every Blackman knows that the Whiteman can't love him like his mother, the better for the Blackman's mentality to fight for himself. The sooner the Blackman realises that crying about injustices (which also happen even within the his own society) or playing the victim will not make the Whiteman slow down in racial RAT RACE, the better for the Blackman to puts his house in order.

Uju Anya twitted her message of hatred against the oppressor while in the oppressor's country and hailed by some Nigerians and Africans who live in oppressor's country and live off his economy as immigrants or are making frantic effort to leave his own country to the country of the oppressor. Africa with country that bask in xenophobia to protect its interest is not any less than an oppressor. Africa with country in which certain ethnic groups views others with extreme derogation is a boiling pot of anti-progress energies.

Several years after that Nigeria/Biafran war, the British authorities can't be held responsible for the poor performance of the Governors of South Eastern States. There is nothing stopping South East from still being another Japan if its State Governors would invest instead looting. Believe me, if South East States were developed infrastructurally with industries, well-supervised schools, well-planned towns, etc, countries of the world will respect the region while other regions in Nigeria would have driven by envy to also perform to catch up.

Your own brother took a large of the common patrimony and hid it in the oppressor's country but instead of seizing it, the oppressor returned the money and insisted you spend on something that would improve your economy for the fear that another brother would steal the money again. So much for Blackman's activism against Whiteman's oppression. Fix your leaky house and watch your neighbour respect you more.
Education / Re: School Friends Who Travelled Abroad Share 4-Year Throwback Photo by lilyheaven: 9:05am On Sep 07, 2022
Vawulence master
zicoraads:
One thing that struck me is how their skin has remained the same.

If it was that other gender, even the very black ones will become light skinned, and what they'll tell you is that the camera became better. Or the weather abroad has got them toned.

They all look good.
Family / Re: Please Advice My Elder Brother And His Wife. by lilyheaven: 1:14am On Sep 06, 2022
He didn’t send her, she sent herself.
Blakjewelry:

Since he is doing well for himself, the choice to move should solely be his, but some people get mind o. How I go marry come send my wife abroad, if she is going there temporary that is fine, but permanent stay? Mba

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Phones / Re: Why Is This Black Stuff Popping Up On My Phone Screen? by lilyheaven: 11:25am On Sep 05, 2022
Ahmback:
comrade, this vawulence is too much for him nah grin grin grin

Politics / Re: Prof. Moghalu To Speak At Nigeria Youth Decide Conference October 1 by lilyheaven: 5:45pm On Sep 04, 2022
In the morning before you wake up? grin cheesy
NotBeenPaid:

sad

I bet you Tinubu won't attend.



Food / Re: What Is Your Favourite Food Combo? (Pics) by lilyheaven: 9:48pm On Sep 01, 2022
You are too much
breadplanets:
yez maram cool

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Family / Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by lilyheaven: 9:47pm On Sep 01, 2022
If you are staying in the same town, she can drop them with you, or you can go pick them up, while she resumes her duty.
I don’t think it’s mentally hygienic to raise children in a hotel environment.

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Romance / Re: My Friend's Wife: Does She Needs To Be Cautioned? by lilyheaven: 4:31pm On Aug 27, 2022
How is his friend drowning?
jeromestarks:

So he should watch his friend drowning and leave him? You're a bad person.
Shame on you.

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Romance / Re: My Friend's Wife: Does She Needs To Be Cautioned? by lilyheaven: 4:30pm On Aug 27, 2022
Ask him ooooooo
5 good hours, doing what?
Nonexisting:
Come, I often disagree with the vagina gender but that hasn't robbed me of my common sense. What if she was few weeks pregnant which usually is at high risk? Have you heard the phrase mind your fuccking business before? Open your ear and hear it now. The mother in law no complain to you, the simp husband said his wife was sick, wetin be your own? By the way, why did you visit someone and stay up to 5hours? You no get work?

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Food / Re: What Is Your Favourite Food Combo? (Pics) by lilyheaven: 4:20pm On Aug 27, 2022
Did you say pepper soup and soft bread? shocked
breadplanets:
Bread and avocado
Banana and groundnut
Catfish peppersoup and soft bread
Fried ripe plantain and stew
To mention but a few grin grin
Politics / Re: Gas Explosion Kills Six In Owaza Communuty, Abia State by lilyheaven: 11:04am On Aug 22, 2022
How people we just leave their houses , use their hands to kill them selves out of greed is alarming.
Why not use the same energy to do something tangible
Travel / Re: Nigerian Man Speaks Out Against Alleged Racism In Europe (video) by lilyheaven: 2:38pm On Aug 21, 2022
The one they do here in Nairaland can be hurting
Regex:
I will rather face racism than face tribalism. The former I can deal with, the latter, has no dealings.

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Travel / Re: Nigerian Man Speaks Out Against Alleged Racism In Europe (video) by lilyheaven: 2:31pm On Aug 21, 2022
Why are you complaining?
Racism has been in existence before you left your tribalism country to join them.
As you enjoy their good leadership and good infrastructure, also enjoy their racism.
If you can’t cope, go back to your papa land .

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Food / Re: See The ₦600 Banana And Groundnut I Bought In Uyo (Pictured) by lilyheaven: 9:30pm On Aug 19, 2022
angry cheesy
Jennyclay:
You can't even calculate properly. Total sum is ₦600 not ₦500. Please edit your post!!

₦400 + ₦200 = ₦600.

Go to school you people will not go!!
Food / Re: See The ₦600 Banana And Groundnut I Bought In Uyo (Pictured) by lilyheaven: 9:29pm On Aug 19, 2022
You don’t know how to count one two three grin
The banana is 5 in number
Cypress042:
Groundnut 200 naira cool

Then 6 Bananas for 400 naira ?

Op just admit you're lieing sad

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Travel / Re: Video Of Mass Deportation Of Dubai-Based Nigerians by lilyheaven: 3:17pm On Aug 19, 2022
cheesy
Go to your house grin
Go and dress your bed, make it comfortable grin
Lexx129:
We are in trouble.... we can't stay in Nigeria and now we are been chased back to nigeria
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How True Is This Message? by lilyheaven: 9:59am On Aug 19, 2022
Haaaa! This statement is scary, but what do I do?
I don’t reply their messages
Darkerberry:
Your numbers been harvested n targeted by scammerssss

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