It’s not their fault, it’s because someone is getting it done for them.
Many times it’s upbringing too.
Don’t touch it , don’t it.
They will grow up with fears.
My momma no send us , while we were growing up, we took care of our responsibilities, like bathing eating, wearing our clothes, etc
If you like don’t eat, nobody cares, na stream we dey go bath sef .
I started climbing trees when I was small, even coconut trees.😃
Come to plumbing work, I fix .
Small small electrical work at home, I fix them.
meanwhile , my husband who is a man that should be doing all these things , will be doing sme-sme-.

I have visited a woman once, they had power supply ooo... madam switch on TV , she said she doesn’t know how to do it, she’s waiting for her husband 🙄
I just weak for her.

Firstorderwizard:
I wanted to dismiss this thread as another nairaland redpillers stunt but sadly it's true.
Our girls are very poor in technology.
Simple home machines hard for them to manage.
Most of them can't operate ordinary water pumping machine at home

When you retire from service, you can play games tire, since you are hustling for more money.
for now...
But me ,,, any small time I get, I play game with it .
When I’m waiting for sleep, I just play game .

Divorce means you are granting her wings to fly.😀
She’s not going anywhere

Baronthecelebri:
good one, me divorce straight

Why will I rent another apartment because my wife denied me sex ?
I will bring the chick to my house.

tbambam:
Some foolish single mother that does not understand the joy of marriage are here calling the man broke ..that's why their life is pathetic . I don't support the domestic violence but married women denying her husband sex for God knows why is worse than a log of wood .. d few idiot nairaland female were blind to the fact she was collecting money from her ..

If you wife deny you sex , do not ask her for sex again, rent another apartment get another woman that's ready to satisfy you and go there . You will only take care of your kids and do anything for her when you feel like.

These same set of nairaland oloshos will be the first to complain if the man cheated .. women don't love men, average women are selfish, so far their needs are met , they don't give a Bleep about their husband .. women's love for you is conditional it's only a man that can love a woman without expecting any ephemeral gain..


The said man will face justice for not being smart , next time stay away from any woman that. Deny you sex , that's a divine sex from above you need to be satisfied elsewhere , but do it with wisdom

Private sectors have to increase salary too.
While prize of goods will increase.

slivertongue:
And what happens to those who ain't govt workers?

You are not a materialistic person.
I think you will be a natural person.
Try going on adventures,
Take a vacation to where you can climb mountains, water falls, village streams climbing mango trees 😂 that kind places will make you happy.
You can come take along because I love such things a lot.

boiz2men:


No, It's not ingratitude. In fact, I think it might be too much of gratitude and contentment but I'm not sure. I am very comfortable and appreciative of where I am, was, and came from. I used to be so ambitious but not anymore. The desire for more is now nonexistent yet what was already gotten isn't as exciting as one would expect. A part of me thinks it's because I am not materialistic.

That’s back view, not front view

Angrygoat:
Daft design,a basement supposed to be hidden. Oponu

Correct guy!
Just try listen to your spirit.

Goalnaldo:
They are addictive. I lost my virginity there. I keep count too, although mine is just 16. I havent patronise them since this year. Yesterday, i went to see the house i intend to rent and the girls i saw gave ashewo vibes. I becamep sceptical. A part of me wants to end that lifestyle but my canal man is urging for sex, after all like they say body no be firewood.

Amen!
Arrange deliverance prayer 🙏 for him.

israelmao:
It's controlling power of sexual immorality that has taken hold of you need to submit your life to Jesus and you need deliverance in the name of Jesus.

😆😆 his an accountant,
He doesn’t need the judgment book at the last day, because he has already taken notes of all his actions and inactions on earth.

Patented:
lots of guys sleep with Prostitutes but what worries me about your case is that you are keeping the score........like why?!!

even tracking protection and non protection.

Maybe you need therapy.

on the flip side what about them has you hooked?

Real man indeed.
Let her go and hustle for her money 😂🤣

Rayban25:
Correct man.

😅😅😂
But waiting 20k fit buy for birthday sef
Some people are just crazy . If he cannot afford 20k, what is he doing with celebration?

Iamicekid:
So U no take loan take buy food stuff or even settle important bills, Na for show off u collect loan for, u wan impress the street that’s nice, as u don enjoy the accolades, use that same energy to enjoy the disgrace fool

To achieve enlargement , but it shouldn’t be overused.

FireUpNow:

Why are they recommending vacuum pump for treating erectile dysfunction?
Anyway, Oga OP that your woman is a demon looking forward to your death. If her kpekus dey make noise please enjoy the noise. Make your babe go find man wey get NEPA pole size of preeq. You better flee from her as she has a man with a bigger size doing it for her.

Your right.
A man can’t just watch his soul mate insulted for no reasons, without him taking an action to put a stop to it.
I feel they don’t respect their brother too .

JeffreyJunior:
You're right but when faced with two evils, it's safe to choose the lesser one.

The lady in question here is married to a family full of manipulations and if care is not taken, she may lose her sanity.

Her husband is neither here nor there which is why she is currently going through emotional trauma.

When family members treat their son right and treat his wife wrong, there is monkey hand in the soup. I don't trust her husband, that's my point.

Please it’s not good to marry a bad husband 😂

JeffreyJunior:
You saw the red flag and still went ahead with the wedding. That's your first mistake.

It's better to marry bad husband in a good family than marry a good husband in a bad family.

For the records, I don't trust your husband. He either is a weak man or he was involved in this somehow. His recent lovey dovey with his sister when you are clearly hurting is questionable. I don't mean his sister should be his enemy but a good man should try to resolve your issues with his sister before doing what he is currently doing. I personally see it like they are both mocking you, I could be wrong.

Right now, the ball is in your court. If you can survive the emotional torture, then enjoy your marriage but if you can't, well...

This one na small thing.
Please focus on your husband and your daughter.
Go get another job please,,
Put your body and soul together.
You see all these once worrying your peace of mind, they are just passing times... one by one they will grow old and die. And it will just be a memory

BrighterThanDay:


Sincerely I think I over-tolerated them from day one, I saw a family who never wanted their son to get married, because in their terms, they want to enjoy his money first. I wasn't the first he introduced to them, the first girl wasn't working and from all indications she'll be relying solely on him, so she was out rightly rejected. I later found out I was accepted by them due to my status, but they dreaded the fact that he was extremely in love with me and that's where the whole jealousy and envy started.
It doesn't make sense to me that I should be insulted by you consistently without provocation just because I'm getting married to your brother. My closest brother, my mom had just the 2 of us before she died and we're very close is also married. It has never crossed my mind to hate or disrespect his wife. I do call her to check on her and she does same. Why is my own case different?
Marriage from my side is very expensive but I pleaded with my dad to be considerate with them since my hubby wasn't gainfully employed then, my dad got angry and kept asking me why him?
I have supported him with all I've got. I never said my money is my money. So what exactly is their problem?
For a Christian family, I never expected this. I just wish I wasn't blinded by love from the onset. I sincerely regret my decision.

You don’t eat?
Because of kitchen utensils.
Is kitchen utensils the only work at home.
Besides,
She never complained she can’t take care of her kitchen.
And who told you she’s not working?
Your ego is too much, bring it down.
Wicked soul.

MrAgbako:

Lol
Y'all pathetic lot. Love seams to be one sided thing for you myopic lot. Wait o. U womenfolks sef no fit do everything for una husbands since y'all claimed to love him.
Even if you no fit do kitchen works employ housemaid nah..

So going to work and providing for the family is not love abi? Until I wash kitchen plates that is when you will accept it is love abi. I no blame una. I blame those weak men responsible for this nonsense.

Look enh lemme address your properly.
I live in Nigeria. I was born and raise up here and I am proud of my heritage.
I won't say much but if you expect a man like me to do extra at home after all that stress from work then you in for a long thing and if perhaps let assume a Western or white woman wish to be my life partner. I will laid own my rules and regulations and she must comply to it. I'm that kinda dude that turn a woman into anything I want her to be...

So quick talking and go pick up your dilldo sexxx toy

I’m sure you are living in Africa.
Your wife will divorce you abroad , with this ideas of yours

When you marry a wife you love dearly, you will do everything for her

MrAgbako:

Nah man wey una wan kill una dey find.
U no wan make the husband go work again? You don think about the stress too?.
Come make I dash u belle wey i go reject make u know how the things dey be.

Hehe 😉 thunder is not firing any body.
Federal government has approved 14 days maternity leave for fathers 🤩

MrAgbako:

Thunder wey go fire u still dey do press up ...
If a man don't work to have money will any woman marry him in the first place. E be like bomb dey ur head

Yes ooo!

Kobojunkie:
In many cultures outside of Africa, na husband and wife dey take care of all that fa!

African leaders , see what you have reduced your citizens to, object of mockery

kings59:
Almost all African countries

Haha

Your third child? and you are saying you can barely take care.
You and your husband can perfectly take care of your new born baby.
What if your mom is not there? Won’t you take care of yourself?
When you deliver, tell her about it, but it won’t be necessary for her to come for omogo.
You don’t have to create issue about it.

Please don’t stay child free, your case maybe different

Klass99:


Please ehn, when it comes to your parents remove your eyes from the sibling who is not performing or under-performing and do your best for your parents, while they are alive.

I am not impressed by your sister either but I don't want to dwell on her too much, because I don't have the full picture of her life in Canada, she may or may not be struggling financially.....

However, I hate nonsense and stupidity when it comes to aged parents who deserve better but don't get better, from selfish offspring they gave birth to. Children like your sister are one of the reasons I am staying child free for life.

It is easy in Nigeria 😃
Every morning when I wake up, I will just open my front door and see food that will last me for the day.
I’m riding on smooth roads.
In fact, Nigeria is like heaven now.🤥

iCauseTrouble:
It's not easy abroad, it's not easy abroad.
Tell her to come back to naija then she go change song

People wey do thanksgiving service for church finish they have to enjoy the adventures .
Nigerians and complain are like beans and rice

crows2ravens:
They have started again with this nonsense.
Why not go back home to Nigeria?

You wouldn’t have existed without a woman

Zonefree:

Women have done worse things than that. The world would have been peaceful without that gender.

🤣🤣😆

inoki247:




Some people are enjoying dere life while some are online 247 looking for Wu to curse....

🤣🤣🤣

seniormallam:
While you Are trying to deliver him for evading arrest, you just check your phone and there's news that he has admitted to the crime already. Na to just dey come back house.

Abi ooo?
Not every time bad news bad news.

CodeTemplar:
something positive from across the Niger.

🤣

Kobonaire4:


Not the original poster, but if you are looking for a spouse that would be home by 6 pm for supper, it isn't a medical doctor

Depending on the specialty, your spouse can be called to the hospital at 2pm in the morning for an emergency.

And yes, he or she comes home and is tired, and upset, and stressed.

No , those places are far. He should declare sit at home where he is first.
Nonsense ingredient.

Zico5:
Ikoja aye. These people don't even know what's happening to them again. You are declaring sit at home in another man's land. Why don't u declare sit at home in London or New York. Height of nonsense