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@t.Truth
If u don't understand why people 'villify' TB Joshua, I pray God gives u the understanding. Are you a Christian- I mean 'born again'? If u are the Holy Spirit will give u some discernment to identify false prophets like TB Joshua.
Fortelling future events that got fulfilled accurately does not make such forteller as a true prophet. And making prediction that did not happen does not automatically make such person a false prophet.
The Holy Spirit filled men that are prophets are not empowered to be giving prophecies on football, death of this or that- those can be done by herbalists too. Search the scripture and see that no true prophets of Jehovah ever bother themselves with predicting events that are not of eternal value.
Most of the self acclaimed or public acclaimed prophets in Nigeria are just after their own popularity and not after the advancement of the Kingdom of God.
Definitely these 'prophets are not been moved by the Holy Ghost like the Biblical prophets of old.
DON'T ALLOW THEM TO DECIEVE YOU, GO AND READ YOUR BIBLE AND STOP FOLLOWING FAKE PROPHETS UP AND DOWN.

True Talk. I respect you on this.

Whether your parents are rich or poor, you are still expected to perform as the first child.

I am the first born child of the house. I make sure i am right ahead and on-time.
I get all the insults and abuse when my younger mess up.
I remember one faithful day when we were still little. My dad had visitors so we use that opportunity to go out of the house to play. He had warned me earlier not to allow my younger ones to leave the house. I didn't adhere to his warning and so when i stepped out, every other person to the last followed me. I was playing and telling my younger to go back to the house.
My little sister mistakely injured a girl and the mother of the child carried the crying girl to our house.
My father was mad, and he was shouting my name.
When i got to the house, he told my younger ones to kneel down, and asked me to lie face down to the chair, and the next thing, was gbozaaaa, on my behind.
From that day, I learnt to discipline myself because i then noticed that whatever i do, the little ones are watching and copying and doing without asking why (they feel the eldest are the wisest and never make mistakes).

I always use myself to set an example to them now, and they are proud to have me as a big sister, but the journey still continues.

It is quite obvious the poster is fraudulent because i don't see genuineness in what he is saying.

For a start, they are your nieces, if there are children from your sister's. You should know that

If their school is located around Ikeja, then you should know how to find the school.

Contact the police to help you in your search, it will make things easy and smooth for you.

In my opinion, Micheal father isn't a good man.

1. Going public is only disgracing Micheal, and that is what he wants to achieve.
2. Some men could be very wicked to their first wife just because they have seen another beautiful woman and they have small money at hand to waste away. so the children from the first woman suffers
3. (Men don't joke with their mothers.)That man may have done something terrible to micheal's mother, before they finally seperated.
4. Am sure, he never thought anything good could come from Micheal's mother and his children.
5. Atleast Micheal sends money to him, but with his too many wives and kids, you would expect him to use the money to fend for the women and their kids.
6. The other women want to reap where they did not sow (they should be reaping from their own kids, mayb they don't know they are branded as husband snatchers)
7. Papa needs more than money from Micheal, and that is a Relationship. Well, Relationship are built. He never built one and he cannot have one.
8. It is difficult for Micheal to suddenly become his father's friend

This is a a big lessons to men who forgets that they may be strong today and probably don't see their children as anything now, but tomorrow they would be needing the help and support of their children.


In it all, for humanity sake, Micheal should try and manage to give his father a befitting life at his old age now, than a beffiting burial tomorrow.

How come she has everything? Am not saying it is not possible, but my advice, get another medical check and a confirmation that she can still make babies. If there are any operation that needs to be done, she should do them now, before the issue becomes complicated.

If you love her, be by her side at this moment of your relationship.

@Omalichanwa

I want you to take things easy with your self and don't start regretting because it will do you no good.

That Lady (mistress) must have picked your husband phone to call you just to arouse emotional truama in you without your husband knowing.
Relax.
Make sure you treat your husband good, as you have always done. Let him into it that someone used his fone for such.
Pray for God's help in your marriage and then concentrate on your studies.

There are brothers and sisters from different parents. Nice look alike

the woman is a w-i-t-c-h.

I pity the foolish man who has met with the standard that will make his end come so quick and easy.

@dominique

You can say that again. I guess theirs is free madness

These ones are never meant to be parent. Guess it all came to them by mistake. And as long as they keep trending this path to their little innocent children, they will be disgraced themselves.

arrant nonsense.

wonder shall never end,

what will they tell the baby when he grown, that he is the great grand son of his mother.

Am so happy for you llade because you are blessed. Many wish for one but find none. Please, let her start her school processes and then go on with the pregnancy, God will see her through it all and she will have no regrets.

@Poster

You have to tell one of them to cool down, most especially your mother since she knows who ur papa was/is. Pleaseee, by now she should be used to your father and have deviced means to control or deal with the situation when it arises.

At that age, she doesn't need any man slapping her, it is not just good at all for her health.

Guess they have been managing the marriage all along.

@Poster
Chaircover is right, we need to know who you are in contact with, so that we know what angle to start from.

From my end, I want to know if the wife is a working class woman or house wife, what the husband do for a living, and if the grandma husband is still alive.

How long has the grandma lived with them, and how long did she say she will be staying before leaving.

Am surprise that non of the clerics advised Yar dua to see his vice-president.

Am surprised non of the cleric advised the president to resign so that he can rest his frail bones and flesh.

Am surprised non of the clerics advised the president to atleast speak a word or two (with watever medium he chooses) to curious and well loving Nigerians who have been praying for him.

Am surprise non of the clerics could speak the truth before the president with this opportunity of a life-time they had to see him.

All they could come up with his that the president is getting better.

They (clerics) claim to be men of God. They should go back to the bible and read scriptures of Jeremiah, Isaiah, Ezekiel, Elijah and Elisah, to know what they did and said when they had opportunities to meet the King.

Hmm, Some people are the devil himself.

I will only advice young ladies who rush into marriage because of Love to be extra careful because they could be dealing with their worst enemy. Get all the appropriate information about your man before jumping into marriage.

@OP
As for your friend, there is so much she can do with her life. She should stand up tall for her baby, get her life secure with the HIV drugs, get her family or friends to be of assistance to her now, and then she should call on God's help so that she can sail through.
I wish her my prayers.

I wish I read this thread before I got married. But no regrets my marriage is ok.

I just want to admire Kimi's braveness, some men just would never change until their dying day which may be too late for them.
Thank God you had to leave before he kills you. You have nothing to lose.

@rositta. My advice, pray for your husband. It takes the grace of God for a man to stop cheating most especially if he finds it as an hobby. Forgive him but my dear be watchful so that you are not caught unaware.

kosovo:

These spiritual leaders have no shame . . .

I agree so much with you. I am so angry with these clerics. What did they go there to do? Or where they invited by Turai to come and pray and cast the demons away from him?

Clerics with no integrity. They should have atleast said they won't see him until Goodluck Jonathan sees him first,

That is why what they preach have little or no effect because they don't practice what they preach.

Gosh! this is insane. I just had to stop watching the video halfway because i just couldn't control myself. I have a 9 month old baby with my nanny and just can't imagine that act being done to my baby.

Tell me what that little baby must have done wrong to that worthless idiot woman. Even if she is not happy with the parents she should not have atleast behave that way to the baby.

Thank God for camera video, that baby wouldn't have been lucky the next day.

I wonder why this news is so new and strange. We have had rain falling, and afterward you find dust particles of it on your car and roof top. This has been happening since time memorial and no body has ever raised an alarm about it until now. Na wa for who generated this news.

He heart bleeds, See how life was taken for no justifiable cause.

These idiots literates don't know that they have no part in this country. They should try and extend their foolishness to the south, and then they will know that being patience doesn't mean weakness.

Foolish cows.

The SULTAN is one big hypocrite.

Am sure he is smiling in-between-his-teeth.

So if a christain had ordered for the deployment of the army troops, he (sultan) would still be speaking like this.

Mayb he doesn't see the clear line of politics and religion. How his this matter a reliogious one?

These leaders are the cause of the problem in nigeria. After they have supported the killings of christain in their bedrooms and toilets, they will come out in public to say that they support one Nigeria, One country, One God, One love, and One nonsense.

Are they really fighting for God sef? Na waoooo

Thumbs up to the imafidon.

We have so many more here in niaja.

For Becomerich, I guess he is also a whiz kid, though i feel his is for the love of maps, figures and wat-hav-u.

Some times I wonder if they have brains to think.
To what good will they achieve if Dora resigns? They are old fools, they should be the ones to resign so that they can go treat their epilepsy. Idiot fool.

And I imagine them to be someone father.

For Dora, stay put. You no dey go anywhere until God decides your removal. Let them see you and torment.

Ogbu lafor or whatever he is called and PDP are big Goat.

I don't blame them, they have got no shame, they don't have eyes and ears to see and hear that Nigerians detest them.

Who gives a damn if they decides to give the presidency to all the goats, chickens, rams, cows, camels to the North.

They still have mouth to talk after all their failures. Foolish party.

Aisha2 and Beef, u guys got me laughing.
But on a serious note, e don do. Una try. we know that u two lovebirds are intoxicated by your love because of the love poison una drink.

@Topic
The man is an idiot. He should be joining Bode George soon enuf.

Depends on her type of Job, if her job demands so much from her then she should forget the job but if it demands less, which means she can as well run home early to see her baby, then she should discuss it with her husband so that they can come to a conclusion on how to settle the matter.

As for me, my job demands less. I have time to go home early. I have a nanny who leaves immediately i am back from work, and it has been working fine for me and my baby.

It is obvious this news is a big lie, even a child can tell its error.

All this media people sef, am sure they are selling their papers big time.

Thank you all.

My hubby will be calling her today. Guess she has no option than to tell husband.

I will let you know how it all went for her after she has reported herself to her hubby.
Thank you all for your replies again.

Pampers:

Unfortunate, if it yielded positive, he'ld definately praise her, she would have been the best wife on earth, The decision to tel now or not depends on the kind of person the husby is. Am short of words. Wish her sucess,

Thank you so much for your reply.
Exactly what I told my husband initially, he (my husband) has to ask the lady what character her husband has concerning how he takes issues on distrust and betrayal (probably on his friends, family etc), in that way she can approach him.
But my hubby don't seem to get my point as such and don't know exactly what to tell her.

Please more ideas on how she can approach her husband on this. Should she tell or not?

Please, I need urgent response to this:

A friend (female) of my husband that resides in kaduna just called asking for his advice.
She said some guys came to introduce forex trade to her, which she found interesting so she gave them some amount of money, after a month, they called her to inform her that her money has been doubled. She was paid the doubled sum.

She was excited and then decided to let her husband into it. Her husband showed no interest, she begged her husband that her husband should please bring money for them to invest but the man refused outrightly.

After so much thought on how much she could gain on it, she decided to use the money her husband gave her to keep, she added the money she had saved from her job and also some money she got from some few people around her workplace. It amounted to N1.4m. She took the money to these guys office and they assured her the she will get her returns soon.

After a month when she didn't hear from them, she tried calling them but didn't get through. She visited their office and found out it has been destroyed by soldiers, she broke into tears.
After some few days she was able to get their new address. They assured her that they will pay her the initial sum she deposited but she should give them till month end.

The problem here now is that she wants to know if she should tell her husband or pretend as if nothing ever happened. But she is afriad her husband may hear from some other source (mostly some of her collegues she also introduce into it) and would guess she has been up to something.

My husband asked her to relax herself that he will call her tomorrow, but my husband is confused and sort for my opinion from a woman's point of view.
Should she tell her husband or just wait till the end of the month when she will paid or just forget about telling him?