₦airaland Forum

ebonyggurl:
Okay. Goodluck getting her pregnant at 50 with your watery sperm. That's if you can even get it up by then.

Keep deceiving yourself.

ebonyggurl:
Lolz. How many naija men as half as financially buoyant as him. Stay there and be deceiving yourself. Flex till you are 50 sef...no one gives a shiit. Na ur body go tell u

I flex until 50 and still have sperm to impregnate a woman.Can a woman flex until 50 and still give birth?

Safitu:
TO Break the truth to you. Once a man is 33, 34,35 etc that’s when reality will hit most of you. In our Nigerian culture, if you’re not settled by that age

You are an outcast and there’s something wrong with you
You can never hold certain positions of importance and wealth
You’re not respected as much
People will compare you to your married counterparts
You will begin to feel isolated

So many things. So unfortunately life doesn’t just begin at 30 for a man, infact that’s when you will really start to feel the pressure to accomplish and achieve the things you need to do, if you haven’t already: That’s when you will start seeing the achievements your mates have accomplished with their families and you’re still there living baby boy lifestyle. A man can form and play at 20 but once 30,31,32 etc hits and you’re still forming and playing, you will see the way life will brisk right by you and you will be left behind. This is Nigeria, the pressure of marriage hits both genders particularly around 30 plus.

Can you compare all these you mentioned to what a woman that is not married at 30 will suffer?

ubunja:
and do you know what a woman's mumu button is?

do women have mumu button?

victorian:
I did.

I went to look for him at the filling station. I saw him , waved at him as he walked towards me. I became shy! Jeez! But i summoned up courage and was like , i prepared rice and stew. Would u care for some?
He was pleasantly surprised and he said yea.

Sighs i said ok, so come over to my place in the next 30mins , it should be ready by then. And he came. He likes my meal

Nice...u be wife material.

Isha327:
I 've never asked a guy out before but crushed on some...I fear rejection... I might jump into lagoon if I get rejected

Rejected by a guy you like or any form of rejection at all?

MariaLavina:
huh?

When you are done misbehaving do well to inform me.

Ayotemide:
You really are a child. Alpha, beta, gamma..you are a child.

Child with a phone,access to internet.....Very big accomplishment.

victorian:
Im not a coward .

Nigerian men are naturally egotistic from birth.

Shooting my shots on a guy im dying for ? Is like youve made the guy , God already

So nah. I will pass

Few weeks back a cute young guy said hi to me, i looked at him grudingly. In my mind , im like yea yea hes cute and so?
With a scowl on my face i replied and walked away hastily. I didnt want him to notice i like him. Lol
Then two days rain fell heavily , i was stuck at a filling station close to house . And i bumped into him again. I was like oh Lord! Whats he doing here ?
Then he was like , why do i look broody ? Because of the rain ? I looked at him and said yea. He then asked do i want to buy anything? I looked at him again , then looked away then i i said yea.
He was like , he can get those things for me and what do i want to buy? I was like hmm foodstuffs . He smiled and replied is it frozen chicken?or turkey or fish? Tomatoes? Tell.me.i can help instead of you entering the rain walking round the market without umbrella. I have a bike i can get them and im not scared of the rain. His friends stared at him in shock!

I said ok fine.sighs
Take this money, buy frozen chicken. Tomatoes, pepper equal amount, onions and power oil . He smiled he took the money and off he went with his bike . He came back 30mins with everything i want .

I was so touched , i said eeyah , such a nice chap and he smiled then drove off .

Well he has won a lil bit of my heart. hes kind and supportive , cool

Smiles, but i will never shoot any shot! Never!!!!!!!!!!!


I cant just imagine a guy i fancy , saying No to me!

A whole me! The lovely Princess of a certain kingdom in the south south region! Hell no!

This your ego....

LillyVal:
SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE

Did you see my email?

MariaLavina:
You too like amebo....



Read the thread carefully, boy don show himself.

Lemme give you hint;his moniker is logik29.

Marcofranz:
Naija girls don't literally ask guys out they rather give green lights, and those weird moves.

No sir,they do.

MariaLavina:
And he took down his profile picture!

Damn I should have saved that! All these teenagers forming alphas!

I dont think there aint an age limit to being alpha.SHOUT OUT TO ALL ALPHA MALES AND RED PILL MEN OUT THERE WE TRULY ROCK.

MariaLavina:
Na so!

e be like say you go sabi argue oo

MariaLavina:
They are abusing you.

lol...Why do you think so?? No allow innocent face deceive you oo.

MariaLavina:
Child abuse!

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SteveOfu:
Moe
@Mochievous
I’m going on a break but it just occurred to me to do this. Ladies, please share your stories of rejection from a guy you shot your shoot at. Until we as women begin to normalise rejection, we will forever be reluctant to go after what we really want. I’ll start.

So there was this guy I liked, we went out a few times and in my head we had a connection. Anyway one day, after what I thought was a great evening, I go “can I kiss you?” And he goes “oh shit. I’m so sorry if I gave the wrong impression, I just really like talking to you.”


Some people are sending me DMs on this. I’ll respond to as many as I can but I’m not going to share them here. The post was clear for a reason. To bring rejection out in the open and start to normalise it. So if you have stories, please share em here yourself.


Let me share mine
So we both agreed it was just bangs, but I started catching feelings, went to his place and told him "I know we agreed it was just for fun, but I kinda like you " he said "I know, I sensed it, but I don't like you like that yet". We banged and I left and travelled the next day.

Told a man I loved him and he told me I stressed his life so that ship sailed a long time ago. Hung up on me.
Another said there’s no future in it.

One laughed and said, “if only you were lightskinned”.

Gathered my L and decided to save my shots. To Jesus be my glory tbh.

chai dis one go sabi pain oo

rex444:
So our babes do ask guys out? Wonderful....don't shy out y'all let's make it fun ....oya spill d bin

My guy dem dey ask oo plenty girls wey ask me out i no gree oo i just dey waya dem when my body need warming.

healthserve:
Sco pa tu ma naa

I don see dis thing tire..wetin be the meaning?

abeg tori us bro.I wan knw how the love dey go.

Suzie0:
No, I don't double date..

sure??

Suzie0:
No, I don't double date..

sure??

if you need see my picture,check my profile.

Pegi23:
I have. Nairaland guys are so cheap.


Follow up on instagram @iam_pegi.

Are you sure??Do you know if am cheap?Stop generalising.

Ayoolajumoke:
Lmao . Let the phone boot very well oo

send me a pm jumoke,

ubunja:
If you don't like a girl don't waste any time and effort on her. And If you like a girl relate to her as if you don't like her. Don't chase.

Thanks man for that piece of advice but i have some few questions;1)please expantiate on what attention means. 2)when you talk to a girl you like you dont like her how will she get to know that you like her and compensate same.

LillyVal:
Some of you are expecting to get married this year, but you've largely been unsuccessful in getting even a reply to your text messages.

As you read this tweet, replies that will lead to what your heart desires will fall like the Abuja rain of today.

Say Amen.

lets talk.

ubunja:
Logik what is attention?

dont really know tho.To me it means looking at a girl or something related to that.

if you dont give a girl attention wont she think that you are not interested in her?meanwhile you are interested,wont it spoil your game?