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Chimeluv:
check your email

am interested
eawajimelekiji@gmail.com

ubunja:
okay let me think of putting everything in a writeup. But so many of my writeups touch on issues on the document.

I'll explain that equation and tag you. I have this on my diary.

I'm repeating myself at this point. But The summary of the document is that women are having secret sex with Players and good decent guys are not invited. Why? Because good decent guys would be too shocked if that world was brought to light. Most guys won't handle that truth without falling apart.


But tell me, have you ever thought that women were angels and pure? In your history? Because even the best of us are sometimes tempted to think that. But we quickly come to our senses. It has happened briefly even to me.

please do you have any idea of fractionation?

eawajimelekiji@gmail.com

eawajimelekiji@gmail.com

Nice write-up bro.

But there are times you don't get the greenlight but when you shoot your shot,she becomes the one that love most.

foodthought:
There's this guy in my department.. He's handsome no doubt and he dresses a little bit cool.... He has this base voice and a beard which makes he look more mature than most guys in the department...

Girls are all over him and he doesn't talk to anyone... I mean he barely talks in the department...

I thought girls only needed guys that are funny and cool, but this guy barely talks and still gets the ladies attention....

I want to be like this.... Is this a red pill something or what?

like say ubunja dey im for explain but ilegend dey sha.



Mods abeg unban ubunja.

iLegendd:
No. Man should be both an introvert and an extrovert = Ambivert. If you're just one, you'll regret in life.

True.


Thanks.

iLegendd:
No.

Please what do you mean?Do you mean that being extroverted is bad?

iLegendd:
Only stupidity will make you hustle in silence.

Do you want to know why? When you hustle in silence, you're greedy. When you hustle and loudly share, you motivate others to pick interest, you make more friends who will turn to client, and you become more popular. Fame fetches money.


When you hustle in silence, you miss all the above. If you know anyone who is hustling in silence, that person is a greedy introvert.


Hustling in silence sounds good to the ear, but it's bad in reality.


You MUST make some reasonable noise if you want to be heard. Most of these quotes you guys post are created by introverts who cage themselves in their comfort zone and start dishing out quotes.

An intelligent introvert wants you to be an introvert like him, so he comes up to sweet quotes to cage you from exploring and making some noise.

Silence is powerful, but only after you've made noise and heard. If you're unknown, silence will hurt you. If you're already known, then silence is powerful.

Don't just swallow all quotes you see — some are crafted to cage.

Do you know how many people I have motivated just by not hustling in silence? If everyone hustles in silence, how will you learn? If we all hide just because we want to obey a quote that says, "Hustle In Silence" who will show who?

Hustling is silence is a quote of a nervous introvert who is afraid of being abused if he talks. So, he comes up with a quote to make himself feel good. No no no nooooo! That quote is bad.

Make some noise, but don't oppress people while making the noise. It's called...let's keep it for another day. Hustling in silence is for those who do bricklayer jobs or offline work.

Those who do online work need to make noise to make more money. If what you're selling is already popular, then you don't need to make noise again, but monetize the noise you made when you started.

iPhone doesn't need to make noise again to sell. Why? It had already made noise before and now it's known. Noise must be made if you want to be heard, even though there is a quote against it that says, "Empty drum makes the loudest noise."

Please, I beg you in the name of God, don't follow all these quotes that are seemingly created by wise people 100% to heart. If you want to succeed in life, you must break some quotes or rules. There are some quotes by Einstein that most people go against and succeed more compared to those obeying.

Trying to please people or do things in a way everybody will like just to be loved and not bullied is one of the reasons most people are depressed or broke today.

#Smile.

So are you against being introverted?

Blackivy27:
Was 7 recently but no more. Now a number 1 and 3

I hear.Feminist loading. Looking for one.

bbn na real rubbish.

That song goes well die.

Zinny25:
I guess you were infatuated. You don't rush love like that jor you build it gradually.

But come to think of it,so guys like you still exist na wa ooo, I thought you people have wisen up ooo.

Nonetheless if you still have some money to spend, I don't mind ooooo. I promise you, you won't spend more than 10k on a date...

Mumu.Guy is depressed youre still saying shit.Hopeless gold digger.

Jacinthe:
You met a girl on the 26th of last month (last week Friday), and before a full week runs out, you've promised to place her on a salary.


No, you didn't tell her to visit nairaland job section or hotnigerianjobs when she complained about money, you straightaway went on to promise a salary. Even employers would usually take it slower.

My point is, till you guys stop putting money at the forefront when dealing with women -especially those you just met-, you will continue having to deal with gold-diggers whom you created with your own hands.

And please guys, work on your self esteem and ego, such that you don't always have to spend money -even on a lady you already resent- just to feel good about yourself.

Sorry about your experience anyway, @logobenz

I like you for this.

ubunja:
that's where you get it wrong

No one on NL loves women more than Ubunja. I love women. With all my heart. That's why I write 24/7 about women. You think if I hated women I would waste years writing on them? Don't make me laugh. You're being stupid

Savage.

Fountainofyouth:
It is only ladies with extremely low self esteem and lack self worth that will allow men to play mind games like the rubbish you posted up there, don't you guys have sense ni? If y'all caught your gf cheating red handed and she still try to deny it and not apologise, won't you call her all manner of whòrish names, break up with her and kick her out? Isn't that logical reasoning and sense functioning well? But you want a lady to be a fool and accept you back after doing the nonsense op wrote, y'all will wise up one day, bunch of rug rats claiming men by cheating prowess, nonsense.

Hopeless feminist spotted.

ubunja:
true.
That's why you never listen to a woman. No matter what she says, give her what 4 billion other women want. Cause in her genes and her subconscious that's what she wants. They're all daughters of one mother.

Yeah.Their subconscious always seek the loud,extroverted guy.But they keep the quiet guy for marriage.It really sucks to be introverted as a guy.

ubunja:
if women were not the same they wouldn't be all chasing "The Tall, Dark and Handsome" man and the "Strong Silent type" guy. Those two guys are the staple of all your fantasties. Because you are the same.

No matter how unique and special you may think you are, your desire is like that of every other female. Don't tell me your fav colour is purple but your best friend's fav colour is blue then take that to mean women are different because that's a difference that's INCONSEQUENTIAL.

Where it matters the most you're the same. In the big Loves and the big Hates you're the same. That's why men know if they improve themselves in a particular way (say hit the gym, or make money, or be a Player) they know they'll get bîtches cause really you're predictable. Cause you're the same. It's like dealing with 1 woman with different faces.

Hope you're getting me loud and clear.

These girls just dont know what they want.Some will tell you that they love quiet,introverted guys but they are actually falling for loud,extroverted guys.

ubunja:
text game is the easiest. Will write on it soonest.

Am very bad at text game,i prefer meeting the girl face to face.

xeroxje:
I'm not that type of cantankerous person that will be bickering over a mundane issue.learn to live and let live..

and learn to talk without saying non-sense.

xeroxje:
fine babe. the lagoon will automatically get dry by just being in touch with ur astounding beauty.

See as u dey talk rubbish.

Safitu:
Oh so you think it’s by sleeping when you’re young and then you will just wake up one day and be rich? Go and read up on all the rich men you know, you will realise they started their hustle from as early as 17. Continue

Why did u not start working at a young age and become rich.

Safitu:
If you are sitting with me on nl arguing about something so inconsequential, then you’re unlikely to get to his level of wealth. The upcoming wealthy men are hustling harddd right now, not arguing with women on the internet trying to make an invalid point this early morning. The journey to wealth starts from a young age. Good luck.

Who told you the journey to wealth starts from a young age?Do well to prove this point of yours.

ubunja:
college girls are some of the biggest sluts bro. And not just sex, also their abuse of alcohol is legendary.

Am telling you.

Safitu:
Men expire late in the game sheyy lol?
At 45, go and talk to a girl of 23 without millions in the bank. Or without enticing her with real cash. You will look in the mirror and realise expiration does not discriminate.

Better use your youth wisely and stop deceiving yourself. Most men never get to that level of wealth where they can pick and choose. Stop looking at Ned as your role model, you can’t get to his level of wealth ever. Shiooorrr.

So no man can be as wealth as Ned?

Goldensword:
Let stop derailing this thread, the question is guys how did you treated that lady that had the courage, to asked you out.

i respected her.Nothing less.

Safitu:
You think you can get married at 70. You better have millions in your bank. Multiple millions because no young woman is going to marry you without it. They will only marry you for the money and they won’t hide it...they will suck you dry until there’s nothing left and leave you on your death bed to suffer. You think you can have children by 70, with low sperm count and erectile dysfunction? Most Nigerian men don’t even make it to 70, they always die before their female counterparts. Health complications and all. You can’t run away from aging. You can never have the same strength at 30 and 60. Go and get married and have kids at 70, you never see anything in this life. Silly dumb men everywhere

Go have kids at 70.

ebonyggurl:
I agree women can't repreduce at 50. And neither can men. the only men who manage to even retain an erection at that age are very rare. Not to mention those that have healthy sperm.

Youve agreed so dont argue again.

ebonyggurl:
On the contrary, y'all are the deluded ones here. Impregnate a woman at 50..

When you are 50 try to give birth.Then you will know who are the deluded ones here.

ebonyggurl:
Lolz. You think your 50 year old sperm can impregnate a woman?

And do you think a woman on menopause can get pregnant?