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Lola which Seminar please

smiles... am a Relationship Counselor been in it since College. I advice people and it works. So go for seminars nahhh

Morning Everyone, how was your night and hope you are feeling fine. Yesterday was Friday and am so sure most people hangover and had a pretty nice time. Its cool, enjoy your self while you can.

I received an email .. here is it

[s]Lola how are you doing? thanks for the seminar the other day, it really helped my relationship[/s]. Please I need your help. My girlfriend will just not have sex with me. She's not a virgin, we have had sex many times before. She just changed and am worried. We have been dating since I was 18 that's 3 years ago. I don't know what to do. Thanks your reply in advance
-Smith, 21. Lexington


Hey Lola. My wife is giving me excuses anytime I make moves to have sex with her. Our relationship is tearing apart. Your advice will really help.
-John 28

Do you know that your relationship can control 89% of your emotion? Yes it can. The person you really love can determine either you will be happy or not. Your relationship is very important. And that's why you have to be happy in it.

I really appreciate those cool guys who are always sending me mails from Nairaland. That's an evidence that my articles are working. Feel free to PM me... I will never ignore them.

Lola is not here today to share 7 Things A Woman Should Get During MouthAction or maybe tell you 10 Reasons Why Sex Will Help You Live Longer or try to preach to you on 7 REASONS TO MASTURBATE. Am rather here today to help you find reasons why you girlfriend do not want to have sex with you. Because once you discover the reason, it will be easy to tackle.

Was your girlfriend fiery in the sack, but now you feel her flame has fizzled? Here’s why your long time girl is no longer interested.


Did your sex life used to be an all-night rager between you and your girlfriend? Did it feel like torture if you had to go more than a day without getting down and dirty together? Maybe your wife or girlfriend is the hottest, best sex partner you’ve ever had. If this is the case, it can make it that much more difficult when your long-time partner starts getting disinterested in your sex life.

Whatever the reason for her denying you sex, it’s a dangerous game when either partner in a relationship is denying their partner sexual intimacies – not only because it feels great, but more importantly, because this is one of the most essential ways for couples to connect and strengthen their bond together.

If you’ve been with your girlfriend or partner for a long time now, and she’s suddenly not interested in having sex with you, it’s in your best interest, as her man, and in the best interest of your relationship to find out why.

Why she won’t have sex with you

For those too shy to ask, here are a couple of solid reasons why your girl may not be feeling too frisky between the sheets these days.

#1 She’s bored or not getting the type of sex she wants.
As humans, we grow and change over time. What once satisfied her in the bedroom might not be what does it for her anymore. It might not be that she isn’t interested in sex, it may just be that she wants a different type.

Maybe she’s veered more towards oral, S&M, slow sex, rough sex, using toys, role-playing, or any host of other kinks that can be developed later in life. Next time you’re going to be intimate, introduce something new into your bedroom routine and watch her be dazzled.

#2 She’s not just tired
– she’s exhausted. Just like you, your wife or girlfriend might just be exhausted. Has she been working extra hours? Busy taking care of the kids? Is she dealing with extra stress, or a sick family member?

When bunched together, these things are not only stressful, they can be a real mood killer. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you’re “selfish” or “a pig” for requesting sex from your partner – just make sure you do it in the right away. Anything that comes off as whiney or accusatory won’t be received well.

Instead of going for it right before bed, why not set the mood by indulging in a relaxing weekend together? Get a babysitter, order takeout, and take the weekend off. Use this time to go out for a couples’ massage or exchange them at home, complete with a long bubble bath, some wine, and the right mood music, and you may just be on your way to scoring.

#3 When’s the last time you went down on her?
Hell, forget doing down on her. When’s the last time you engaged in even the most basic forms of pre-intimacy: deep kissing, caressing her body, touching erogenous zones, licking her nipples, and all that good stuff?

Sex when you’re a new couple or new in relationship is exhilarating, and you’re both doing your best to please each other in every way imaginable. Every touch is exciting: a new avenue to explore with your scintillating new lover.

But, as time goes on, you may be less inclined to work your magic, and more likely to roll over before bed, requesting a quickie. It’s not exactly romantic, and it isn’t likely to make her feel very sexy or desired. Putting some hardcore, newlywed effort into it may just be the thing you need to reignite your gal’s passions.

#4 She’s tired of faking it.
It may just be that after many years of trying to orgasm during sex with you, your girlfriend is simply sick of trying, and sick of faking it. Don’t feel bad if your girlfriend has been faking it. In the end… no, you haven’t been doing what she needs to get her off, but you can’t fix what you don’t know is wrong!

Your girlfriend should be upfront with you. After all, you’re an awesome guy who would do anything to make her come, right? Right!

If you suspect your girlfriend’s been faking and that sexual frustration is the reason for her shooting you down, your best bet is to come out into the open and ask her if she is having real O’s, or just Oscar-worthy performances.
Tell her you want to make her come hard, and that your next session is going to be all about her. After the initial embarrassment, she’ll be much more excited to jump into the sack with your promise of patience and tongue-tingling action.

{To My dearest Shy Guys, You should read this How to Stop Being Shy: 16 Ways to Kick Your Shyness to the Curb} Thank me later

#5 She’s getting it from someone else.
Unfortunately, the same as the worst case scenario as when you were dating may be true today. If she’s not getting it from you, she very well may be getting it from someone else. Unlike men, who will keep sleeping with their partner and their mistress, women are more likely to form an emotional bond once they begin sleeping with a new partner.

If she’s sleeping with someone else, she will be less likely to sleep with you in that same time period. If you suspect your girlfriend is cheating, you need to calmly ask her about it ASAP. Just because she’s feeling unfulfilled doesn’t mean you should get possible STDs as punishment!

#6 She is going through an emotional change due to…

– Menopause. Due to the loss of estrogen and out of whack hormones during menopause, your wife’s sex drive may have taken a complete nosedive. The good news? Her lack of sex drive has nothing to do with you or your mad sex skills! The bad news? Menopause can last a long time. Ouch.

– She’s on birth control. Has your partner recently started taking a new form of birth control? Ironically, the same pill being taken to prevent pregnancy is the same culprit for removing some of the testosterone found in women’s bodies responsible for giving them all of those happy, lusty feelings.

Whether it’s being dumped, being fired, or having your partner turn down your orgasmic intentions, one thing’s for sure: getting rejected sucks, especially by someone you love.

If your girlfriend’s sex drive has changed, then you need to figure out why – and fast! Don’t let a lack of sex, connection, intimacy, and that fabulous love drug oxytocin get your relationship down in the dumps. Open communication with your lady should have you back on your way to regular romps in between the sheets.

Whats happening between you and your girl? why do you think she do not want to give you sex.... feel free to express yourself in the comment below. And you as a girl, add to my list please.

Am sure Most of you girls and guys will not be able to express and share you experience here because guys are never serious here. As guys will be calling you names even insult you too the core... all because you are being truthful.

There is a place where your questions will be treated with respect and experiences will mean a lot an that's my room. Join me Now on Moral24 Relationship Forum

Or email me on Nairaland..... I will reply you asap.... This article will be useless if you are not reading....

Thank you for reading. God Bless You
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Lola
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Do you sometimes feel like a girl is attracted to you, be it a friend or someone you see now and then? Learn how to find out if a girl likes you here.

It’s not always easy to know if a girl likes you.

Just when you assume a girl is interested in you, you may find out that she’s only being friendly or nice.

But by putting a few obvious signs together, you’ll see that it’s not so hard to decipher a girl’s feelings towards you.

How to find out if a girl likes you

If you’ve ever felt like a girl likes you, just use these tips to bring things out in the open.

And once you do know the answer, you can ask her out if you choose to or just enjoy the attention!

#1 You catch her staring at you often.
Does she steal glances at you now and then? And every time you look at her, does she blush and look away?

If a girl can’t stop staring at you, especially when you’re busy or occupied with something else, it’s a good sign to show that she has something romantic in mind when it comes to your thoughts.

#2 You bump into her often.
And somehow, she doesn’t seem surprised to see you.

If you don’t know this girl or haven’t been introduced to her, and you still see her out of the blue in places where you like hanging out, she may want to catch your eye.

#3 Her friends seem excited.
She seems nervous. One of the easiest ways to find out if a girl likes you is by watching her behavior when she’s with her friends. Do you see her friends nudging her while she blushes and discreetly looks at you now and then? Well, if her friends stare hard at you and laugh, and if she coyly catches your eye, there’s definitely a crush in the air.

#4 She thinks you’re a great guy.
When you have a conversation with this girl, does she constantly remind you about how sweet a guy you are? Being labeled a sweet guy isn’t always a compliment. But if she ever does say any girl would be lucky to have you, then that surely is a compliment!

#5 She looks for excuses to touch you.
Some girls are just touchy feely all the time. But almost all the girls aren’t. Does a girl look for excuses to touch you or hold your hand? If you notice this behavior of hers only around you and not any other guy, she probably does have feelings for you.

#6 She compliments you a lot.
Does this girl treat you preferentially? Does she favor you or take your side all the time? There’s a good chance that a girl likes you if she favors you and compliments you for the smallest of reasons, all the time.

#7 She talks about your exes and girlfriend.
When a girl likes a guy, she’d want to know everything about his relationship status and his past relationships. It’s an easy way to get to know more about the kind of girls you like and are attracted to, and also the relationship issues that matter to you.

#8 She talks about your plans.
If a girl likes you, she’d want to be a part of your life beyond work or college hours. Friends do casually ask each other what they’re up to over the weekend, but if a girl wants to date you, she’d try to look for similar activities often, so she can join you.

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How to Find Out if a Girl Likes You in 12 Ways

If you think you’re in for some drunken fun between the sheets, here’s some true sex talk: alcohol gives you a limp dick and other goodies.

We’ve all been there: frisky at the bar, feeling drunk, Hot, and ready to pounce on your lover or one-night-stand as soon as you find the nearest thing resembling a bed… If that sounds like a grand old night to you, it’s definitely time for some sex talk truth. Alcohol’s effects on sex rarely produce the lustful evening you envisioned sipping martinis in your stilettos.

Wanna have some unsexy sex talk? Who doesn’t?! In fact, getting down and dirty after a hard night of partying may *sound* like a great idea at the time, but trust me, drunk sex is more laughable humiliation than an erotic novel. We’re talking truth about alcohol’s effects on sex, boners, and your libido.

Drunken sex experiences

If you think your lovemaking is scheduled to go off the charts as soon as you hit that shot of tequila, you may be in for a rude awakening. Check out these true tales of some not-so-sexy drunken sexual encounters.

“I dated this guy who was a total alcoholic, whereas I don’t drink at all. Contrary to the ‘booze kills wood’ thought, he kept an erection for hours. Our sex would last so long I was always sure to orgasm, but he would never cum. Ever! It was such a buzzkill. It made me feel like I couldn’t please him, and sleeping with him while I was sober and he was not made me feel like a creep.” –Kristen, 30

“In my freshman year of college I just started a new relationship. I was crazy about her, but we were too nervous to make the first move sexually. One night we both got drunk and went for it. Turns out we were so wasted I couldn’t get hard and her vagina was drier than a desert. Eventually I managed a half-chub and tried to do the deed, but she was so dry she actually started crying from the pain. It was humiliating for both of us. Side note? She broke up with me that following week.”-[/i]Steve, 29

[i]“I had sex with this guy who was so drunk that he literally fell asleep while we were doing it. I kind of… nudged him awake and tried to pretend that awfulness didn’t just happen to me. He thrusted sleepily a few more times before snoring loudly into my ear. Talk about disgusting. IF you want to feel un-cared about, have drunk sex. TBH don’t, it’s frickin’ terrible.” –Christiane, 26

Sex talk: Why drunk sex is not a good idea

Alcohol effects the prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain controlling inhibitions. Clouded thinking and lowered inhibitions sound like the point of getting drunk, but the reality causes some pretty scary situations. For example, rape.

Studies show that anywhere from 69-89% of sexual assaults occur when there is alcohol involved and on average during one out of three sexual assaults, the perpetrator was either drinking or drunk.

Being drunk as a skunk also affects your decision-making skills, such as the decision to use condoms to protect yourself from STDs. You also do things sexually you would otherwise not do *and not in the fun way*.

Get ready for some dry sex

Ever notice how after a night of slinging back Long Island Iced Teas you practically gulp down a gallon of water before bed? This happens because alcohol dehydrates you, and not just your thirst—to your vagina, too! A common side effect of drinking results in vaginal dryness and the inability to self-lubricate.

Alcohol kills erections

What’s more embarrassing than finally scoring the hot girl to go home with you and then not being able to get hard for her? Pretty much nothing. Whisky Dick became a phrase for a reason, people. While one beer lowers inhibitions and allows each partner to let go and enjoy sex, five beers only give you a humiliating story to go home with. Alcohol slows down your nervous system, which holds responsible the ability to get aroused. Also alcohol acts as a depressant, and nobody wants to bang when they’re feeling sad!

Research suggests excessive drinking is one of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction. Ouch.

Impaired or dulled orgasms

As previously mentioned, alcohol creates a negative effect on the central nervous system, which also holds responsibility for circulation, nerve sensitivity, and oh yeah—orgasms!

Nervous system aside, alcohol also inhibits a woman’s ability to get wet, and we all know lubrication is absolutely vital in a woman coming to orgasm. Lack of reaching the big finish line doesn’t just affect women, either. One 2004 study shows 11% of drinkers had difficulty reaching orgasm.

Sloppy sex talk *and not in the fun way*

You are the master of your bedroom, you know exactly what you’re doing and exactly how to please. You’ve got moves your partner’s only ever heard about. Until you start drinking, that is. Drunk sex isn’t exactly a neatly flowing ballet. Body parts flail everywhere, you can’t find her hole, the kisses turn into wet misses, and you keep losing your hard-on. Not exactly a rave-worthy moment.

The short and sweet of it, why bother having sloppy sex that makes you a laughing stock, when you could be bringing your partner to the brink with sober seductions, instead?

If this sex talk doesn’t deter you from having a naked, drunken fiasco next Friday night, we don’t know what will. Here’s to you, you little drunk! Go ahead, get laid—just don’t expect it to be good.

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Raine80:
Really? I don't know about others...I go to sleep. Lights out, thank you sir sleep.

most people do also

You're not the only one avoiding the sticky spot.

Considering all the prep you do before sex—shaving, buying lingerie, washing your sheets (if you're feeling ambitious)—you'd think that most gals just Netflix and chill afterward, but that would be wrong.

After getting down and dirty, we've got a lot of things to check off our to-do lists, from prioritizing the post-sex pee to assessing that spot on the bed.

These are the weird, slightly embarrassing post-sex rituals we all go through—even if we’d never ’fess up to it.

1. Check the Time

You guys were going at it for more than 20 minutes? New personal best! Give yourself a pat on the back, you sex panther, you.

2. Peek at the Condom

Hey, even if you’re strict with your birth control pill-popping schedule, it’s still comforting to know that your backup protection is fully intact. And there's no non-aggressive way to assess that situation other than by getting up close and personal with his wrapper. Sorry, not sorry.

3. Chug Water

Sure, hydrating is important, but what's even more essential is ensuring that you won't be peeing liquid fire for the next three days. You've got at least a pint of water to down to make sure you’re able to pee within the next hour. Sorry, guys, you didn't actually wear us out that much.

4. Avoid the Sticky Spot

Cuddling is awesome, but if our snuggle sesh is taking place on one half of the bed, it's probably because there's a big ol' wet spot on our side. It's a sign of a job well done, but that doesn't mean we want to roll around in it.

5. LOL at Your Sex Hair

That sexy mane you get from the position changes and hair pulling is hot. But when the fun stops, it’s just a mess. Seriously, your hair is so terrifying it's almost worth a post-sex selfie (not that you would do that…) Your guy might not admit it, but he's probably impressed with that hot mess on your head.

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Well, this is disturbing: Seeing images of surgically altered vaginas can impact what women view as “normal” and “ideal” down there, according to a new study published in BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology.

For the study, a group of 97 women ages 18-30 were randomly assigned to one of three groups: a group that looked at pictures of surgically modified vaginas, a group that looked at pictures of vaginas that hadn’t undergone surgery, or a group that didn’t look at any images at all. After that, all three groups were asked to look at 20 images of vaginas (half of which had been surgically altered) and rate how closely they resembled “normal” female Instruments, as well as “society’s ideal.”

Turns out, the group that had seen the surgically altered privates were more likely to rate them as “normal” (whereas the control group tended to rate them “less normal”). What’s more, all three groups said that the lady parts that had undergone plastic surgery were closer to “society’s ideal” (although the effect was strongest in the group that had first seen the post-surgery photos).

This could help explain why labiaplasty (a procedure where the labia are reduced in size and made symmetrical) is the most popular cosmetic surgery women get for their nether-regions, say the study authors. Plastic surgeons performed five times as many labiaplasties in 2010 as they did in 2001.

Of course, you can’t know for sure whether you’ve seen a surgically-altered vagina or not and how it may have affected your idea of what your nether region is supposed to look like. But what you can know: The definition of “normal” down there encompasses a huge range of different looks—and plastic surgery comes with the potential for scary side effects like bleeding and wound infections. All the more reason to embrace your lady parts as-is.

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Simone de Beauvoir called it “a small person … an alter ego usually more sly … and more clever than the individual.” Leonardo da Vinci said it “has dealings with human intelligence and sometimes displays an intelligence of its own.” Sophocles said that having one was to be “chained to a madman.”

These great thinkers were referring so exasperatedly, so powerlessly, to none other than the penis. That’s a lot of hype for a body part that can “be seen as something the Creator doodled in an idle moment,” as Tom Hickman puts it in the new book, “God’s Doodle: The Life and Times of the Penis.” Then again, our fascination with the penis has long belied its relatively small size (the average one is believed to be 6.2 inches long when erect). It’s fitting, then, that Hickman, a journalist, has written an expansive history of the male member covering everything from biological explanations of its shape and size to analysis of phallic myths.

It’s a well-researched, dryly witty and worthwhile read. But even a history of the penis can use some … snipping. Below, you’ll find the top 10 most surprising facts about the penis — from monkey-ball implants to broken johnsons.

10. Every penis was a clitoris

That sounds like the title of a children’s book, doesn’t it? But, seriously, Hickman explains, “Every penis in the womb starts as a clitoris before hormones ‘sex’ the brain of the to-be male.” The penis “retains the mark of its female heritage: its dark underskin and the thin ridge or seam, known as the raphe, which runs from scrotum to anus, are remnants of the fusion of the vaginal lips.”

9. Fetuses have erections

That’s right, and ultrasound scans prove it. “So many newborn males greet the world with an erection that the sexologist William Masters in his earlier obstetric days set himself the challenge of trying to cut the umbilical cord before it happened,” writes Hickman.

8. Before there was Viagra, there were monkey balls

They didn’t have Cialis ads at the turn of the century, but they did have monkey-ball transplants. In order to cure impotence, doctors began experimenting with xenotransplantation: surgically transplanting testicles from goats, chimpanzees and baboons into male humans. “Thousands of men around the world in the 1920s went under the knife for the supposed benefits of what were known as ‘monkey glands,” he says. By the way, it didn’t work.

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Over 250,000 to 300,000 women in the US have breast augmentation surgery done each year. It clearly shows that a significant percentage of women are not happy with their natural size. Well, going under the knife isn’t the only way they can enhance the size of their breasts. There are perfectly effective and simple exercises you can do at home to achieve the shape and size you are looking for.

The breasts are mostly made up of adipose tissue and have no muscles hence their shape and size cannot be altered through exercise. The exercises recommended for breast size enhancement work on your pectoral muscles, which are directly beneath your breasts. With regular exercise, the muscles in that area become firmer, leading to firmer and perkier breasts. It is the perfect remedy for sagging breasts.

Due to their firmer appearance, their size enhances automatically. Here are the top 5 exercises for enhancing your breast size.

1. Wall-Ups

Wall-Ups are perhaps the simplest of all exercises for breast enhancement but highly effective. It is similar to push-ups, the only difference being that you have to use a wall to push against instead of the floor. Place yourself two feet away from a wall. The gap between your feet should be equal to your shoulder width. Lay your palms flat on the wall and bend your arms. Lean forward till your nose touches the wall. Hold that position for around 10 seconds and then repeat.

2. Flys

You will need a pair of dumbbells to do Flys. Grab a dumbbell in each hand and lay down on the exercise bench. Stretch your arms out so they are at level with your shoulders and are parallel to the floor. Slowly lift the dumbbells over you, bringing them close enough to touch. Lower your arms back to their original position. For best results, it is important that your arms are straight throughout the exercise except for a slight flex around the elbow.

3. Rotation Push-Ups

Rotation Push-Ups are a modified version of the standard push-ups that you do during a workout. The fundamentals of the exercise are the same. You have to be on your toes and palms, with your body straight. Your arms should ideally be a shoulder-width apart but you can place them wider. Go low by bending your arms to the maximum extent. Then, straighten your arms to push your body back up. After this, raise your left arm followed by rotating your chest towards the left. Follow the same technique for working on your right breast.


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Here is a list of Guys From hell that every Girls must run from
I will just talk about them briefly..... If you really want to know more about Guys secret, go to Guy's Corner

The complain king
“Your food tastes worse than rubbish. Why you never cook? Your clothes like auntie leh. Why you buy such expensive clothes?” Get this guy out of your life.


The petty miser
That guy who remembers every single cent he spent on you even though you didn’t even ask for hime to treat you or buy you gifts. The best part? He demands every single item back from you when you break up. Avoid him at all costs. He only thinks of you as something bought with his money.

The blur king
He doesn’t know what he’s doing half the time. Gets the dates wrong and always meets at the wrong place. Also doesn’t pick up on your hints and sarcasm. Seriously? He’s not even interested to be serious about what he’s doing so why should you be?

The indecisive
As if you, as the girl, isn’t already indecisive.

The MCP
Male chauvinistic pig. Basically the guy who treats girls like shit and look down on them because he believes that man are so much greater than women and they have the right to control women. BULLSHIT.

The player
If you know he already has a girlfriend and is obviously not seriously and committed to your relationship, don’t even think about it. No matter how good he is, he’s good to every other girl.

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bitchcrafts:
6mnths?! She pour honey inside poosee?

Tch

MissHatey:
lol. Don't mind *IT*

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Her life, her pussy and her decisions

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tiswell:
How do you measure commitment...?

We surely do

kolajoo:
Op i like your likes. I can even wait a whole year just been following and coping but the story will change immediately i hit the spot and i will start my own drama. Moral of the story, it shouldn't matter how long you kept him waited just pray for flesh of a flesh. I have this ex gf we did it the very first day we met and we had a wonderful experience together and i heart her so much till now.

Your start your Drama, then I quit..... Its not reading meter dear

dollarprincess:

Princess...... How much time will you make him wait?

Your first time with a new man can be a bit nerve-wracking , especially for the young and inexperienced.
Some girls just go in for the kill on the very first night but a lot of girls choose to make a guy wait … and wait… and wait…….hmmm… and wait.
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Now I’m not talking from experience here, but I have a friend who has done this and said it worked well for her. She made her new man wait 6 months (wow six months, most men I know would be gone in a few weeks) and said that it proved to her that he’s serious. Where are the days when guys would buy you roses and dress smart and be on his best behaviour to whoo us ladies?

They are gone because they no longer have to work for it any more. But how long should you make a guy wait for and how long is to long or too short? Back in the day it was all about waiting till the man puts a ring on it (all ma single ladies…lol) now it seems just wham bam thank you man and then he’s gone.

To be honest I would love to make guy wait months for it because as my friend says it proves his serious but then if you really like each other comes the problem of feeling you may lose him or even sexual attraction that may make you move to the bed to early.
Well here’s a scenario You’ve met a great buff new boyfriend.

The chemistry between you is good, you’ve kissed and cuddled, you have loads in common but then comes the big jump into having proper relationship with sexual intercourse. But when is the right time? How soon is too soon? There is the thing that we hear all the time and that is to wait till your married, but who does that nowadays? These are the things that fill us with questions and anguish.

It’s always tricky knowing how to go forward in a new relationship, but if you haven’t had many partners, or it’s your first time, the whole process can be a bit nerve wrecking if your trying to please your partner.

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Wqooo....Best reply...and the ones with money like that guy up there offer excuses.......

here are lists...... am sure guys will be Jealous after reading this

1. Get pregnant: Sure, guys contribute but they'll never get as close (literally!) as we get to our own babies.

2. Fake it: Cue the famous scene from When Harry Met Sally. Enough said.

3. Ask for directions: We have no problem pulling over and asking for help. Consulting the GPS doesn't count either, boys.

4. Look sexy while sipping fruity cocktails: What guy do you know can look hot with a pink drink in his hand? Oh, and by the way, we look damn good drinking beer too.

5. Live longer: It's a fact, women live five to ten years longer than men. Plenty of time to take a few more vacations, have a few more orgasms, and maybe hook another hubby.

6. Have multiple orgasms: No need for us to wait and, um, reload.
7. Multitask: We can talk to our BFF on the phone, while watching America's Next Top Model and doing lunges. No sweat.

8. Get a new last name: Or just drop it all together, la Fergie and Madonna.

9. Wear skirts: They keep us sooo much cooler in the summer than men's shorts. Plus, a hot mini is sure to score us a few free drinks at the bar.

10. Get out of a speeding ticket: A little smile and a "Sorry, officer" is all it takes to get off scot-free.

11. Become a cougar, not a dirty old man: Sure, the idea of an older man sounds hot, but the reality is often a skeezy shmuck. Cougars, however, are fierce. Like: Demi Moore.

12. Wing it on the dance floor...convincingly: Guys will be so busy checking out your shaking booty, they won't even notice you're not a great dancer.

13. Wear high-heels: They add four inches to our height and make our legs look fab. Hey guys, what do your ratty old sneakers do for your physique?

14. Flirt with the bouncer: We bat our eyes at the doorman and get in the door with no cover charge. If a guy were to try it, we're thinking he might get kicked out of line.

15. Blame it on PMS: Just say the words "cramp," "tampon" or "period" and men instantly let you have your way.

an here is the most beautiful part.....read on
21 Things Women Can Do That Guys Can't