₦airaland Forum

Edusouls:
any guy washing clothe for her girlfriend is a big slap in the face of men and betrays our respect, there things not even said,talkless of being done,real men are the kings and rulers of earth, we have very tight limits, no matter the extent of love...tufiakwa to any man that dares stup so low...

pureguide:
if not that you are so useless and stupid. How can a man wash the cloths he bought for u with his heart earned money.

Because am sure ur type is the jobless type. Judging from the title u gave to ur boyfriend boo. From boo to moo. I just pray the guy realizes the mistake he made knowing u + taking u as his girlfriend before u charm him. This one u dey call am boo maybe him dey drop barz scatter for u like mugu.

Incase u don't know everything is wrong in asking a guy to wash ur cloths. Is ur mother washing ur fathers cloths!? Or ur brothers washing ur sisters cloths? Its either ur that type of a child that was brought up in a bad way or disowned by ur people.

So if ur husband suffer go work come back. Him go wash ur pants and bra? Nawa o. Thunder strike u. Stupid girl.

pureguide:
ur are very stupid asking him to do that. Its ur responsibility not his. Just find way an please him. Because that's even an insult.

Chizzy20:
yeah true, its jst once in a while, bt sum ladies take advantage of it, which shouldn't be so.

DesChyko:
Yep.. As illustrative as if someone uploads a picture of your own sister undressing and captions it 'The next step a prostitute takes after you agree a price'.
It's cool if you're not myopic in everything you do. A cartoon may be better, but using a real life scenario definitely sends the wrong message. This is not a fiction, man.

bamog:
u see!! Dat iz y nigeria iz nt improving!! Make our 1st lady put on her own bikini nd waka go lekki beach!! Anyway 1st to comment!!

flupxydon:
na god go punish dat idiot..make he come tryam for waffi (warri) na

bamite:
wetin i tell u

bamite:
I know dis is gonna mk fp, so y not jump in nw? Charlie man..go ahead with ur coda or rochi,wat Eva rocks ur boat nd quit seeking attention,u dig?

kennygee:
President of life.

This woman must be a strong woman.

I can imagine mama peace or aunty Ngozi in a bikini.

bamite:
Keep on begging..he might hv a change of heart,bt keep it in mind that u need to beg d rest of Nigeria individualy if u want to stand the chance of winning dis election

Chizzy20:
hmm no big deal, it depends on d guy in question...One man's meat is anoda man's poison, would ve bin more fun nd romantic if u both wash it togeda, u wont even knw wen u re done.

BeeBeeOoh:
Make mouth dey talk joor..

bamite:
no worry, so far i de involved it must reach dis tym arnd

DesChyko:
Fake picture to drive the point home .. There should be punishment for misleading the public!

bamite:
I know dis is gonna mk fp, so y not jump in nw? Charlie man..go ahead with ur coda or rochi,wat Eva rocks ur boat nd quit seeking attention,u dig?

ray2Dmond:
this is nonsense

Charly Oputa, the one popularly called Area Fada, is one man who loves stirring the hornet's nest at all times and controversies are his second name.

He should know what it means by defending his territory and to scare away trespassers from his house, Charly Boy put up a sign that he 'shoots to kill', warning intruders that they will be violated.

He then took to his blog to write this interesting article about protecting his zone. But it is not just about protecting his property. Charly Boy talks about setting a boundary in whatever anyone does.

Read the interesting article here:

'We Shoot To Kill. Trespassers Will Be Violated.'

"Why this provocative warning? Many may wonder, perhaps many more are careful to hang around my property, before they get shot for loitering, for nothing.

Well, just putting people on notice that I will violently defend my territory at all times; just like the dog and animals generally, pee on objects to mark their boundaries/territories. Yes, I don mark my territory be dat, no messing around.

Though I have not shot anyone yet, I will not hesitate to use extreme violence in defending my territory if push comes to shove. Yes, I will shoot to kill first, then ask questions later. Yesooo.

When there is heavy rainfall, we need umbrella; when our homes are dirty we need broom to sweep off the dirt, and when there is unfettered increase in crime/violence, we need weapons to defend and protect us and our loved ones at all times.

We all should know that we have a right to do so; and that we not only have the right, but also the duty to take responsibility for how we allow others to treat us.

We need to be able to tell people when they act in ways that are not acceptable to us; to either shape up or you trash them. Yes, like dorty.

Setting boundaries is not about manipulation or wanting to be a control freak. Mbanu! It is impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone who has no boundaries, someone who cannot communicate directly and honestly. It’s like playing football without a goal post on a pitch that has no demarcation.

Learning to set boundaries is a necessary step in learning to befriend ourselves first.

It is one's responsibility to take care of oneself, and this is not possible if we don't first of all, own ourselves.

Boundaries define limits; they make clear separations between different turfs.

One of the most correct perceptions about the CharlyBoy brand is that he won't take bullcrap from anyone and he will speak his mind at all times on matters/issues without fear or favour. After all, him send anybody?

Going forward, we need to start becoming aware of what healthy behavior and acceptable interaction dynamics are, before we can start practicing them ourselves and before we start demanding the proper treatment from others, abi?

We need to start learning how to be emotionally honest with ourselves, to start owning our feelings, and to communicate in a direct and honest manner.

It is important to say our feelings out loud; by so doing, we are affirming that we have a right to feelings. Emotions do not define us, they are a form of internal communication that help us to understand ourselves and a vital part of our being, as a component of the whole.

It is vital to own your own voice, to own your right to speak up for yourself. There is no time to be weak and not live. Find your own method to tell people shut the Bleep up and they would. Shey you dey hear?

Mark your boundaries, don't let people shit all over you or use you as door mart.

Enough of the nonsense, people taking advantage of people, fire burn dem."


http://pulse.ng/gist/charly-boy-entertainer-puts-up-notice-warning-intruders-that-he-shoots-to-kill-id3503611.html

Odunharry:
true........i use 2 be an advocate of not checking each other's phone but e get wtn i see some years ago..
My guy,fear catch me o....many girls aint loyal..

I dnt have problem with anybody going thru my phone and i notice it ladies who do that.

adahgold:
I will advise u to dump her cuz d imagination of her sleeping with d Alfa will always hunt u,it's a good idea u check her fone because if not for DAT she will still be sleeping with him,let me tell u something bro if a man sleeps with a lady ones it will surely continue as long as possible.

blackjack21:
there must be a first time for everything.

Does IWE IROHIN means news paper in youruba language?

toprealman:
YET MEDICAL STUDENTS ACT AS HE THEY ARE THE SMARTEST..MTCHEW

tchidi:


Your village witches go just de time you like referee!