Pukkalolo:


Sometimes guys in this redpill space tend the assume that getting pussy from a girl means you are the alpha, and getting cheated on by a girl means you are the simp. But that's not true.


Look, that girl giving you pussy despite the fact she has a boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean her boyfriend is a simp: it might simply means she's a LovePeddler or a bitch.... The truth is, Girls also cheat on alpha guys. A cheat is a cheat. A bitch is a bitch. It doesn't necessarily matter if you're a simp or alpha.

Again, you getting the pussy isn't necessarily because you are the alpha or you have good game or you are the best seducer in the town.

It simply because she's currently available and interested in you, and for whatever reason she felt comfortable giving you the pussy. Which might possibly have nothing to do with being alpha or being redpill or being a smooth seducer or whatever.

Please Josefvision, don't get me wrong. You're doing well, so I'm not trying to attack you. I just want you to see interaction with women from a different and more realistic angle. This will definitely help other guys here as well.


So let's begin..

Many guys here might not know this truth I'm about to say because it takes having real experience to know this.

Here it is:

A woman attraction for you is predetermined
...meaning, even before she meets you, she's already attracted to certain traits about you.

This is because, psychologically, women have different taste for men...so once she sees you or at least once she starts interacting with you (within seconds or latest minutes), she has quickly "subconsciously" decides if she fansy you.

Look, Women already know if they will Bleep you or not. Forget all their false front.. This is the bitter truth about women only the real OG understand. Woman also know this, but they won't tell you.

If she doesn't fancy you, she'll only just waste your time and exploit you if you "allow" her to. But if she fancy you and she somewhat feels comfortable with you, she will give you the pussy and you would think you're some smooth seducer or alpha...


If you truly believe that a woman's interest for a man is predetermined, then your whole game strategy will change FROM trying to make her like you and giving the pussy TO giving her the opportunity to either follow your lead or get lost out of your presence.

I love being realistic, so let's take it to the real world.

Let's play with an hypothetical scenerio:

I'm gonna use brothers we are familiar with here, so it can connect even better.

Let's say, CaveAdullam is hosting a party... He invite ladies and cool fellas, some of the fellas include KingEarnest, Lordfranklin... there's also this random dude, let's just call him JASON.

Now, Cave has this beautiful cousin who was also present there. Let's call her Anita. JASON, KingEarnest, Lordfranklin individually told Cave that they are interested in his cousin. So CaveAdllam enthusiastically encourage them to go for it.

Let the game began.

Now, note: JASON, Lordfranklin and KingEarnest are all redpillers, and None of them are Simps.

But the difference is their core believe about interaction with women.

Let's assume Lordfranklin and KingEarnest believes that a woman's interest for a man is most times predetermined, So she's either interested or NOT. So their first goal is to figure out if Anita is somewhat interested and worth the pursuit. Their believe is, She either follow my lead or get lost.

But JASON on the other hand believe that her interest level doesn't matter. He believes he can get Anita if he can seduce her enough and excute the game perfectly, and so his goal is to make her like him and get her to give him the pussy.

Now, we know a woman's attraction for a man is actually predetermined... She's already interested or not. So among these three guys, Anita has already "choose" the guy she fancy. But of course she gonna just act like she doesn't give shit about them. You know women and their "attitude" look.

So, while Anita is just chilling at the house party vibing to music playing, Lordfranklin confidently initiate a conversation with her. Let's assume Anita isn't interested in him. But since Lordfranklin first goal is to find out if there's any interest---in couple of minutes of interacting with her he was able to figure that out. From her negative vibe and wishywashy response, he could see that the girl is more likely to waste his fucking time and energy if he continues going after her. Lordfranklin highly value his time, so in his mind he tells her to get lost, then he stand up and move on to talk to some other cool chic in party who is more likely to follow his lead...

Now, when JASON saw that Anita was alone, he smoothly initiate conversations with her. Anita sincerely doesn't really fancy him: she's just not interested. But JASON was oblivious to that because he thinks he can get Anita if he apply some seduction/game moves. So he focused on getting her to like him and give him the pussy.

Now, since Anita enjoys the attention JASON was giving her, she just play along and gave him the impression that if he tries harder enough he might one day Bleep her. Anita, just like most girls out there is good at misleading men they have no interest in, deceiving them and giving them the impression that they might get the pussy if they try harder.


Next, KingEarnest went into action. He initiated conversation with her. The moment Anita met KingEarnest, she's already somewhat fancy him because he has certain traits she "subconsciously" admire. And since his first goal is to find out if there's any interest---he quickly gave her the opportunity to either follow his lead or get lost. In couple of minutes of interacting with her he was able to find out he has a chance with her. He exchange digits with her. And before he left her present, he playfully told her, "I have to go now, but try not to think about me too much."

She blushed.

All KingEarnest had to do was just to make her feel a bit more sexually comfortable and safe with him, and few days or weeks later she is dropping her panties for him...

Weeks and months later, JASON is still "working on" Anita. "I guess I'm doing something wrong," he tell himself.

So he ask some pua/game junkie. They gave him some more game/seduction technique to apply her on her in order to get her to drop her panties... They told him, if you apply this seduction tactics, soon she will be screaming "Bleep me harder" loud while you bang her for behind.

But unfortunately, the only loud "Bleep me harder" JASON end up hearing was from the pornhub video he was watching on his computer.

He wonder what he was doing wrong. He felt emotionally shattered. He holla CaveAdullam, "bro, what's up with your cousin, what's really her issue"

But here's the real issue Jason didn't realize: Anita was never interested from the beginning. But his pussy focused mentality prevented him from realizing that.

Jason look Anita up on Facebook to see what she's up to. To his surprise he saw her picturing with KingEarnest: she was holding him in a romantic way.

Jason thought to himself, "wait, isn't this the guy I saw at CaveAdullam's party. So this is the asshole Anita chose over me."

Now,

Some Fellas might think KingEarnest got the girl because he has better game, but not really. Infact Lordfranklin also has solid game. But KingEarnest got Anita because she was available and ALREADY INTERESTED in him from the beginning. All he did was just to make her feel more comfortable.

Although Lordfranklin didn't get Anita, but he wasn't emotionally affected or heartbroken by that because he didn't invested his much time, effort and money wooing her. Right from the first conversation, he was able to quickly figure out that this girl wasn't really into what he was offering. So he had moved on quickly to avoid getting attached to the wrong girl.

But JASON was attached, bitter, angry and heartbroken because he had invested his time and effort and self-respect trying to seduce/pursue a girl(Anita) that was never interested in him.

In summary, The one reason most guys aren't getting girls is because they are ignoring the vast majority of girls that ALREADY LIKE THEM and going after the girls that are either currently unavailable or uninterested.



I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

Pukkalolo:




Here is one bitter truth about women:
Women are master PREDENDERS.

Women don't easily lose interest in a guy when they already like a guy.

Yes, you read that right. Infact, if she's interested in you, then she's interested in you. She can't just wake up in the morning and lose interest in a guy.

But here's where the average woman is a master predender.

She most times intentionally PRETENDS she's losing interest in you, just to break down your confidence and make you become desperate for her attention....
Read that again.

This attitude of women is due to insecurity.

Women feel insecure showing interest in a guy because they are scared of showing interest in the wrong guy and getting heartbroken.

But women feel more powerful showing disinterest in a guy even if she likes him.

Why

Because she feels more secure that way. Some women believe showing interest is like giving power to the guy. That's they prefer to show disinterest.

Confusing right

Yes, the female psychology is confusing sometimes.

This happen sometimes in my experience: The woman initially seemed like she's interested. Then, sooner than expected, this woman behaved as though she's losing interest.

Women want to be with a confident strong man.

The strategy of pretending to be losing interest is what women use to separate the men with true confidence from the men who are weak. It's what they use to separate the men who they can easily exploit and tame from those men who CAN'T be easily wrap around their fingers.

How does she knows she's dealing with a guy(weak) that she can easily exploit and tame??

When she PRETENDS to be losing interest, the weakling is quick to think, "Damn it, she's losing interest in me... Am I doing something wrong?"

Then he tries to spend money on her or tries to treat her nicely to win her interest back. This guy place high value on her pussy and place less value on his time.

If a woman sense that you place high value on her sexual companionship, she's going to toy with your emotions and play manipulative games with you until she gets bored, and she'll dismiss you.

When she PRETENDS to be losing interest, the guy with true confidenc does NOTHING. He simply just give her SPACE.

This is why it's very important to convey to a woman that value your own time. When a woman feels you have more female option and you are willing to walk away anytime, she's play less manipulative games.

But like I said, when she's pretending to lose interest, the nice guy will freak out and try to fix the situation immediately by doing any nice guy or needy stuff.

But the confident guy simply just give her SPACE and move on like nothing happened. He may contact her maybe weeks later just to see if she's back to her right sense. If she's still misbehaving, he simply just gives her space again, like it's no big deal. No stress.


Many times when you give them SPACE for a while and re-contact them again, they seem to become more receptive. Because now they see that you go no time for crap.

Pukkalolo:

If a girl act like she's losing interest in you, don't try to spend money in an attempt to get her interest back. That's desperation.

Spending more money won't help the situation; it only make her see you as a mugu she can easily exploit.

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2dice01:
She said she dont want to see you soon that means want space Bro give her the whole Planet

Just Block her on social media then
Delete her number

Move on

Ketapu:


One of the best ways to know if a lady consider you her best option for intimacy is to ask yourself this question.

Is she making rules for you or breaking her rules for you?

If she is making rules for you, she doesn't rate you well on her option list. You are just another beta or orbiter to be exploited for attentions and any other nonsexual things.

If she's breaking her rules for you, she considers you as one of her best options, a.k.a an alpha. She will do anything to ensure she doesn't lose you. That include bombarding you will sex.

Base on this explanation, I'm sure you know the category you belong to in this lady's rating.

I actually commend you for not forcing your way into her. You let her go once you realize she's not interested. She could have accused you of rape if you had force your way to have sex with her. Never force or manipulate a lady to have sex with you. The little enjoyment you get can end up being your doom either now or in the far future. There are many stories of men whose lives were destroyed based on that.

I also like that you didn't back down during your chat with her. You maintained your frame.

My Recommendations

1. Move on from this lady. She already made the rule that she's not interested to chat or be with you anytime soon. Turn that anytime soon to forever. Don't lodge around or stalk her while you wait for when her "anytime soon" will be over. That's just scarcity mentality. There is nothing special about her. You will meet many more ladies within the time left for you to live on Earth. Explore your options. Relate with more ladies. Let this lady become history to you.

2. Read the 36th law of the "48 laws of power" which states that "Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them is the Best Revenge."

This law is one of my favorite laws in dealing with ladies not sharing similar interests with me. Such ladies literally become dead to me and I don't acknowledge their existence again once they make it clear they won't give me what I want. It's always amusing to me when I later see them doing their best to get my attention. I just chuckle or even laugh and let them continue to work to get my attention which I still won't give them. There is nothing special about any vagiina. I've had sex with multiple ladies. Apart from some vagiina being wider than others, there is nothing special about sex with any lady. It still baffles me why some guys will always go the extra mile just to get laid.

For God sake, block that lady on all medium of communication and move on with your life. Most likely when she realizes that you no longer give a fucck about her and that you have another lady you now relate with, she will likely try to get back with you or she will also not care.

In either case, you win because you didn't waste your time trying to persuade a lady with low interest in you.

AlterEgo00:
It's A Trick,don't fall for it. She wants you to keep chasing her. See mah tell you,never block her yet..... If you have another babe,go out with her,take pictures and post on your status with the caption, "This could've been us,but you wan claim Deputy Virgin Mary.".....

No time for Nonsense this year brother,is either she's in or she doesn't exist for you... No Middle Grounds.....

Pukkalolo:



You gain more romantic success when you understand this very core aspect of women I'm about to talk about.
I've talk about this before here, but let me make it clearer a bit.

The funny is, guys here place more attention on turning a woman, being alpha and passing her so called "shit test"....

Accomplish all those are actually important when interacting with women.

But but...

Dealing with the average (naija) woman who's giving off the personnel of a wholesome innocent Angelic damsel that doesn't like sex. In reality, she actually do love sex but she's has some psychologically barriers that's preventing her from showing her real sexual nature.

An example of psychologically barriers is "He just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."

I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me time after time; this is NOT because I'm the most alpha redpill motherfu*ker in the neighborhood..Far from it. It's simply because I know how how to neutralize those psychologically barriers and inspire her to become sexually "comfortable" with me.

Let me explain.
Please read carefully. Funny enough, I've actually not seen this being talked about any where either offline or online. I had to learned this the hard way: personal experiences.

It's one thing to make her become sexually attracted to you, it's another thing to make her become sexually comfortable with you.

Things like being alpha or passing her shit test might increase her sexual attraction for you. But that doesn't make her sexually comfortable with you. Because when a girl is thinking in her mind "he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex..." you saying some dope alpha sh*t won't make her automatically drop her pants.

Funnily, the ability to her inspire her to become sexually "comfortable" with you requires no creative redpill skills...It doesn’t even require badass alpha moves. I'll say, on the contrary, it requires the ability to NOT to go alpha.

Funny enough, it actually turns your "tough guy" attempt against you... No wonder, alot of guys lose cool ladies who are actually into them simply because they were intentionally trying to act like assholes.


It's one thing to make her become sexually attracted to you, it's another thing to make her become sexually comfortable with you.

Many times, the very alpha play that increase her sexual attraction for you is the very thing that decrease her sexual comfortability with you.


If you are not getting the sex life you want, then it's not because women are not attracted to you; it because women aren't sexually comfortable with you. Again sexual attraction and sexual comfortability are entirely two different thing. If you truly understand this, then you'll understand women.

For example, If you are in a country like Brazil or USA where women are more sexually librated, and you are not getting pussy, then the problem might be your lack of ability to make her become sexually attracted to you.
Yes, many women in countries like, England, Brazil and United States are more sexually librated, that's why you see them comfortably making out here and there on the streets shamelessly. That's why to get the girls there, all it takes is to make a strong eye contact, say some baddass shit and make some alpha moves, and then boom! ...you and her already kissing around the corner.

But if you in a country like Nigeria where the women are greatly scared of being viewed as whor_e and they are socially conditioned to present themselves as "good girls" so they will have a better chance of attracting a husband, then saying some baddass shit and making some alpha play is almost not enough. You have the added challenge of breaking through her good girl facade and bringing out naughty sexual side. Women have their "naughty sexual side" locked up inside. The "key" to open that lock is to make her become "sexually comfortable" with you.

Years ago, I was wooing a lady, then she threw at me what you might call a shit test. She said something along the lines of "Is this how you go about sweet talking other ladies you meet and if I may ask how many girlfriends do you have?"

I can't remember the exacts words I replied her, but I made sure my response was alpha enough , I can't really recall what I said, but i think I said something along the lines of: "Yeah, I have 7,500 girlfriends ."

It looked like I passed her shit test, because her eyes dilated, she laughed and playfully hit me my shoulder. Sexual Attraction was increased but sadly she kept resisting my advance regardless, and to cut the story short I didn't end up getting intimate with her.

With my response to her: "Yeah, I have 7,500 girlfriends..." sexual attraction was increased .......because it conveys abudance, strong frame, I-don't-give-a-Bleep attitude and sexy-player vibe and any other random attractive trait you can think of right now.

But sexual comfort was also reduced because that response revived the psychologically resistance: "He just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."

Late last year, again, a lady threw at me what you might call a shit test. She said something along the lines of:
"I bet you have a other women and you're just looking for a new girl to mislead... sorry not this one, you can try your games on the next girl."

This time, I am more experienced and wiser. I asked her:
"and how did you come up with that conclusion?"

She replied some bla bla bla...

I then responded to her, something along the lines of: "One reason I admire you is that you are not the kind of lady who can be easily misled with sweet talks, you'd only go out with a mature and straightforward guy....the good news is, I'm that guy!"

She smiled and said, "Really?"
I continued, " If you think I want to mislead you, you can delete my contact and block me, but if you think otherwise, then we are good to go....The ball is in your court!"

To cut the story short, Few days later, I and this lady were doing stuff in the "other room"..if you know what I mean.

In response to her talk, ""I bet you have a other women and you're just looking for a new girl to mislead..."
As you saw, I didn't go simp: "No dear, I don't have other women, I'm not trying to deceive you...I truly love you."
If I gave her that simp response, both sexual attraction and sexual comfort will reduce drastically.

As you saw, I didn't try to act all alpha I-don't-care, stone-cold aura OR tell her "Yeah, I have 7,500 girlfriends"

If I gave her that tough wannabe alpha response, sexual attraction might increase a bit but sexual comfort will reduce drastically. And I won't have gotten intimate with her.

But with the legit response I gave, I kill two bird with one stone...sexual attraction was maintain because I communicated strong frame and willingness to walkaway. Sexual comfortability was increased because because.... (go back again and read my response to her, you'll see how)


Ladies who I go sexual with don't experience any guilt.. infact after they leave my place, I get messages like, "Yesterday, was fun." Or "Thanks dear, I enjoyed my time with you." These ladies are sexually comfortable with me: They don't feel deceived; they don't feel cheap or used. They feel comfortable showing me their naughty sexual side


Back to you and the lady.....See, she's saying, "I shouldn't have let it happen."

The reason she felt bad and guilty for going sexual with you is because she's not sexually comfortable with you. Nothing more nothing less.

Yes, she's probably sexually attracted to you, but the major thing is she doesn't feel any sexually comfortableness with you.....and your alpha fronting and your stone-cold aura wasn't also helping matters. You ended up reviving her psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" and "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."


Anyways, I hope this was helpful.

AlphaAlex:
i got Alan’s books

ManAdii:
From my observations I've seen that fee Nigerians are into Data Science. Even analyst are few. I don't mean those excel and power bi analyst.

I've just been accepted into ALX/Udacity scholarship for data analyst and the curriculum is amazing. I plan to migrate to data scientist later. I'll be documenting my experience here for future sake.

I pray for perseverance.

Dami12345:


As someone who has suffered in abuja.
Mine is wuse 4 near the market. I walked there a lot.

Anyway, I know of writing gigs that pay about 150$ monthly.
You don't need anything except you phone, data to make uploads and some free time.

I won't ask you for money, but when you make good money and are balance, I would ask you to find a person who truly needs it and build that person too.

If your interested mention.
I'll link you up.

jeromestarks:

Yes yes. How do u know?

jeromestarks:
I have this colleague that I have know for months. We don't take much. We just greet and that's it.

Today, I got to work as usual and called her the usual "madam Nike" as I usually call her whenever I want to say goodmorning but to my greatest surprise, she said " I am not madam Nike".

I was like ' but you're Nike right?' and she said yes.

After that , she started conversation with me twice! Twice my brothers. And she maintained eye contact so much that I have to look away. This is someone that never spoke with me except to answer my 'goodmorning'.

This girl is around 24. Very beautiful and calm.
I think I have found my wife.
What do you think?
(Just advise me first, we will talk about her virginity status later).

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TheUndercover:
Friendship with women, how to use women to get what you want. (Some errors might be seen, kindly ignore.)

Woman

INTRODUCTION:

Generally, friendship with women is being frowned upon in TRP with no exceptions or caveat. Women can prove helpful to you in a lot of ways if you're conversant with the way they think, how they react, what they are capable of doing etcetera. They are also capable of making your life significantly better or catastrophically worse depending on how you deal with them. A woman can be a venom, can be fragrance, can be used as a stepping stone, can be used as a weapon, can be fragile, and can also be lethal. A woman can wear any face (masks) depending on the situation. A woman can also be the reason for your rise or fall. Use them wisely, you'll succeed, use them poorly and you'll fall.

Friendship with women goes a long way. The reasons why TRP frowns at friendship with women is because most times the men is on the recieving end of things. He gives while recieving nothing. He spends and yet have nothing to gain from it. He's been friendzoned in this case. Friendship with women is also frowned upon because inevitably sexual attraction will rise amongst both parties which might lead them doing the inevitable when the opportunity comes.

Now, what about if the man friendzones the woman? If you're a man with little or no self-control, this is not for you. If you're a man without balls, this post is not for you. The post is aimed at how to keep women in the friendzone instead for mutual benefit and not sexual benefits. If your aim is to use a particular woman to get what you want, then do not have the mindset of having any romantic or sexual relationship with her.

Scenario One:
When I was building my business I use my female friends as a way to advertise my business by making them post on their status, the response I got was far greater than when I was posting it alone on my wall. Believe me, women have a lots more contacts than you can imagine. You can use them to reach a lot of people easily especially if she's very attractive. Before you can make a woman agree to do your biddings especially in this case, you would be a person of excellent charming and social skills. You'll put them in the friendzone instead. Spend on them when you have to without being asked, forced or compelled to do so, this will make it easier for them to do your bidding or what you want. You can tell them this is what they have to gain in return. If I know the woman I'm dealing with is a narcissistic person, I make it go both ways, do what I want and I will do what you want.

Methane04:
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