IamD18:
Audio husband

BelleFamn:
I (31 female) met this naija born man (39 male) on dating app. I am Haitian American born in the US , my parents came for US.
At first we were just friends. I didn’t want anything serious.

We met and instant sparks. Laugh, dance. The vibes were 100%

He asked me to be his girlfriend about 6 weeks . I say yes. He has most qualities I am seeking.

He tells me .. I have something important to tell you. I beg him to tell me , and he says he will in person.

I asked about his visa status but he was never open about it. This was the red flag I wish I didn’t ignore


He tells me he is married in a sham marriage . He was set up with a woman who he paid . The woman has her own life set up and boyfriend , baby.

He is almost 2 years in the process .


I asked him why didn’t you share this with me before asking me to be your girlfriend ?

He says he was afraid I would not want to be with him.


I told him he does not have the right to hide something to critical to me . Due to my feelings for him, it is now difficult for me to make sense of this.

Logically, I KNOW I need to walk away and date someone who can give me what I deserve .


I cannot wait 3-6 years .


I told him I wish he was almost done with the process or met him before. He shares the same sentiment .



I’m happy he didn’t wait until months later to tell me .. however I am sad he didn’t expose this before asking for a commitment from me .



I am 31 years old. I am working towards getting my masters, home ownership, and children hopefully in the future. I wanted him to be ready on my same timeline but now I realize I cannot achieve my dreams with him by my side. I will most likely do this alone .



Anyone have experience being US born citizen dating someone who is in a sham marriage ?


Am I mad?

EmekaBlue:
They can attach a camera to a brave midget and hold him with a very long rope through d hole to get d baby out i think.....

Femziecarlos:


I wouldn't waste my time to blame him..he's moniker answers it all


Wasted Investment

01Alpha:
Your GP can't be lower credit, that's your grade. So what is your GP to start with?

Explorers:


You just gave him what he wanted.

LuciferVirgin:
All these equpiment & manpower just for one tiny 2 year old?
Are they drilling for oil?

Is he more important than all those people that died after falling into wells last year in the crime section?

Funny thing is, he might grow up to be a rapist or drug dealer or murderer sef.


Rubbish.
I hate preferential treatment.



*spits

Rextizzle:
I'll state some of the reasons for this;


1. Nigerian women have nothing to offer you, only their stinking pvssy

2. They are never adventurous on bed, only lying on bed like a log of wood when being dicked

3. It's very rare to see a Nigerian girl support her boyfriend or husband, it always the other way round.

4. They are very boring when chatting with them, and can never say anything intelligent, only Letter K

5. They demand alot like you are their atm machine or they are entitled to your bank account.

6. They can easily be used because of money, when they see money they are ready to give you their destiny

7. Most of them think because they have pvssy or one yeye hole, they think they can have anything in this world

8. Some are not productive, only few of them who I respect for owning their own legit business.

9. Most of them have 10 or 20 boyfriends, and most of those boyfriends are their atm machine. It's hard to see a God fearing girl and a virgin in this country.


10. Most of them marry you because of money, when that money has finish, you will see their real color.

And so on and so forth, guys wise up and marry a foreign girl to have a sweet life.

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Jesus is Lord FOREVER and EVER.