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Explorers:
Restaurant Manager for a well known “Breasturant"

$75k base salary and $20-$25k in annual bonuses.

Hooters?

HISSCRIBE1995:
While someone was trying to read bible downloaded from app store pornographic content poped up from the same app .

How did we get here?

It's no longer safe to read the word of god from some bible app now .

You got here by accepting free services from Google. Google gets money by pushing ads, when you accept Google's terms and condition you accept that they can send you ads. This has nothing to do with any end time prophecy, it is business. If you don't want exposure to such then don't use free services, use services you pay for and have full control over, its that simple.

Maybe Jesus wants to operate all those bank accounts when he comes back. LMAO!

laytoshtwo:
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uyimen:
Good day,
Pls help me with ur advice , i know u wont be shy to tell me if am wrong.

I got married to my dream wife, she lived with a relative for 18yrs who she also called mummy, she have a biological mother, who saw her through school (university level) though she was living with this Aunty.

Problem started when i came to marry her , the Aunty was hostile, she kept coming up with issue to paint me bad. I was repeatedly called to come and explain irrelevant provocative issues sure as why i travelled to inform my wife biological mother of my wedding plans. After the bride price payment and rites duly performed, She still made me perform an additional party which she called a traditional marriage outing party in her compound. All these i did for peace sake. No one including family members, husband children or even my wife ,dear opposes her to caution her ..In all these my wife kept on saying *she stayed with her for 18yrs.*
Worst of all u latter gathered from friends that this said Aunty was laying curses on us during the marriage, that the marriage will fail and my wife will return to her with tales of martial wows.
Then she warned me to stop calling her mummy. In all these my wife was always in tears through the honeymoon.
I ignored just becos i knew after the marriage things will change. This Aunty feed my wife with all forms of manipulative desires to set us up. and even requesting feedbacks from her in some case, words here are not enough to explain all.

To my surprise two yrs into the marriage this said Aunty and her children are still key important figures in my wife live, they have access to her and my home at will, somethings they plan visits when am at work.

Each of there visits leave us in weeks of quarrels . now its me my wife blames.

Friends what do i do now, my wife insists that because of 18yrs of living with them so i should let go and pretend nothing ever went wrong.
Pls advise me.

Your wife is not acting in a matured way. The matured way is to manage her relationship with her aunty without it affecting her marriage. You will have to point this out to her. The fact that the aunt took care of her doesn't give her any rights over her marriage. There have to be limits to how they come to your house, you and your wife should discuss what you both think would be acceptable to each other, it's your house not theirs.

BTW doesn't your wife go to work?

Micielito:
Ewa and dodo

That metal bowl reminds me of the days when men were boys. LoL

Chidelis:
Lolzzz
Next year, u go still listen and nothing will change.
He will still be richer and you ? I nor know o.

Are you richer than him?

Timson01:
Bro u are a good writer but a writer of mischief leading people no where with ur organized rubbish writeup

LoL! Oyedepo won't give you a dime for defending him so cool your temper.

laytoshtwo:
Those who build churches not building it for a Pastor,if you don't get it stop shaking your head .By the grace of God I will finish one before July

I know you think you are doing it for your god but fact is the reward of increased membership is for Bishop Oyedepo not you. Anyway good luck.

Image123:
Still not a fair description, everyone knows that he teaches giving as an integral way to prosperity.

Exactly. People are desperate for prosperity and will follow his every word. It would be different if he wasn't channelling a large portion of the giving to him and his organisation.

Image123:
Manipulation usually refers to "taking advantage of a victim to get power, control, benefits, and/or privileges at the expense of the victim." It refers to an harmful influence or control over others. Maybe you should pick a better word in the case.

Not sure the synonyms are any better but if I was to choose one it would be either finagle or maneuver.

Image123:
Faith is not even mainly for wealth making or accumulation to start with, neither is it by any means the only means to get wealth. Just like selling electric cars isn't the only route to great wealth. BTW, is Musk now the richest guy, i used to think it was the Amazon fellow.

Yep, he is the first to cross the $300billion mark.

Image123:
We do not all have the same level and gift of faith. It is unto you according to your faith.

Elon Musk doesn't have faith yet he is the richest man and supremely confident too. Faith might play into it but it cannot be even the majority of the story.

desiredhome:
The greedy always fall prey to Scammers..... majority of Nigerians are poor so they can't think with their brain

It is hard when the environment and people in it amount to a retarding force. Those able to break the mold stand out.

Image123:
It's not manipulative. You saw and know the amount of wealthy members and ministers that "give" the so called sacrifice and keep giving. It hasn't made them any less wealthy.
If people claim that the majority of the church is poor, how come their total estimates giving is in the millions and billions? And this giving is everytime and every year, no break. If Jesus tarries, it will still be the same story 10years from now.

It totally is manipulative.

How is the constant giving indicative that it isn't manipulative?

I never mentioned anything about poor or becoming less wealthy so I dunno why you are mentioning that to me.

Elsueno:
LMAO, what about the abundant blessings u go get

Is every member of his church a billionaire like him?

Image123:
It's faith in God, you can try exuding the same confidence in nothing and see the difference.

It can't be simply faith in god or else every believer in god would exude the same confidence. I am inclined to think it is something more integral to his personality than anything else.

Image123:
Worked on this all week trying to get known contacts, still to no avail. i'll still check though.

Ok.

HellVictorinho3:
Is there hope?

Maybe about Xmas day.

jclassiq:
You are a very intelligent man/woman.
That man will continue to be rich because he is just so brilliantly good at psychology. No one is better than him in that regard.
But I'm not judging, just stating my observation.

He is adept that's for sure and exudes so much confidence you are inclined to accept what he says.

Ugandatales:
You really can't blame him...once there is sheep, there has to be a shepherd.

No I don't blame him at all. I even think it's a good thing he inspires people but I just think there is no supernatural element to it and he reaps a very huge reward for his actions.

HellVictorinho3:
You didn't say anything anymore


What's happening?

Not a good time.

IWillRiseAgain:
Shiloh 2021: Why David Oyedepo Will Continue To Be The Richest Pastor In Nigeria Till Death


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Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Bishop Oyedepo is masterful in priming people especially in the area of giving. The entire Shiloh program is just a way to prime people to "sacrifice". And the way he does it is so slick, unless you are not really paying attention you'll think he was talking about anything else but his focus is always on the Shiloh "sacrifice". Then he has added the direct building of churches by individuals meaning the Living Faith organisation will not need to expend as much in establishing new branches. So someone else will build the church building but he'll be the one to reap the rewards of increased membership.

I listened to most of the broadcast and was constantly shaking my head in amazement at his masterful manipulation.

codemaniacs:
grandstar comment below answers you all...

thebosstrevor1 comment was ignorant of the African American population in the U.S , Indians, black people who have been outside Africa for hundreds and thousands of years in the caribeans/south America/ north America/ Asia and black people who have been in Europe for 50 or more years all have SS but its silent in those places and I mentioned his comment because he talks as if there aren't black people who are indigenous to the "developed world" or black people who have been living in the "developed world" since the 1800s or before...

The prevalence of SCD in the US is estimated to be about 3 in every 1000 African American births while it is 20 out of 1000 births in Nigeria. The trait itself is present in 24% of Nigerians while it is only present in 7% of African Americans. How would someone see these statistics and say we haven't factored in black population across the world. Also note that African Americans are only about 13% of the population in the US and one can see how 7% of 13% cannot in anyway compare to a whole 24%.

Kobojunkie:
That there is Isaac's prayer for his son. But God's plan was different.

How was god's plan different?

Kobojunkie:
What prayer?

Gen 27
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So he went to him and kissed him. When Isaac caught the smell of his clothes, he blessed him and said, "Ah, the smell of my son is like the smell of a field that the LORD has blessed.
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May God give you of heaven's dew and of earth's richness-- an abundance of grain and new wine.
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May nations serve you and peoples bow down to you. Be lord over your brothers, and may the sons of your mother bow down to you. May those who curse you be cursed and those who bless you be blessed."

Image123:
Pretty much, until later when Jacob repented when he met with the Angel at Jabbok.

So his vision after he left home was not a sign that the god was favouring him?

Captain9ja:
This is the GENERATION!

What is a generation in this context?

Kobojunkie:
This isn't anything to do with a gender. Her son, Jacob, was over 40-years of age at the time and could have easily corrected his mother, but he didn't. This was simply a case of a mother and son, a gang, who duped their own loved ones of what basically amounted to not.

Jacob suffered the consequence of the scheme as he spent many years in the wilderness for it. God eventually brought His prophecy to fruition despite the Dishonest dealings of mother and son many years before.

So Isaac's prayer was meaningless?

thebosstrevor1:
Guess they are a family of SS.

This genotype stuff made me believe in the survival of the fittest.

Soon those with AS and SS will be without partners for procreation because AA wants to marry only AA.

But it is interesting to note that genotype isn't a topic of discussion when dating or marrying in the developed world.

Because it is something that primarily affects us in subsaharan Africa.

budaatum:
Here's something to conspire about.

LoL! Maybe the Covid vaccine is to implant brain chips. Bwahahahahaha!

LoLz! The god is always watching people have sex. Bwahahahahahahaha!