rex444:
Angels among us.....I doubt you will ever see an African even d one wey doctors don pronounce death sef wouldn't be this humane

Africans are a cursed set, with timid mind, savage reasoning, and very unexposed creatures... I don't know how blacks came into this world.

DavidEsq:
Leave ppl wife, una say no. BTW, OP where in the story did it say he was knifing anoda person's wife

Was about asking brother.

chris51:
I am advising you as a grand mother. I have been married for almost 50 years.

Please in the name of Almighty God, DO NOT pack out of the house.
Ignore your husband and his girlfriend.
Concentrate on taking good care of yourself and the family.
It's a hard thing to do but I assure you, this is the best way to handle the situation.
Reduce the financial contribution you make in the house.
Opportunity will come for you to punish your husband psychologically.
Before you know it, he will see another girl and dump this one.
My dear girl, just make yourself beautiful and demand more money from your husband.
God will grant you patience to deal with the situation.
Your weapon is that you own the man and your home.
Make yourself financially independent.
Don't allow anyone talk you into leaving.

50 years So I assume you married at say 20, what is a 70 + year old woman doing on Nairaland for heaven sake!!! It is finished..
Mama, you shouldn't be here oh!!!

sisisioge:
4ks!

He did that! 4kssss! Blowdyfellow!

What do you want to do without getting in trouble? Chai! Can you arrange to travel out of the country while liquidating all his assets while at it? As in, you will sell his properties at ridiculous rates, spoil all the unsellable, send a picture of him and the girl to his work place, then call his family to tell them on your way out. Remember not to tell him where u are going o.


Pele...pull yourself together though. Do not let them see your anger.

Best advice, I thought of exactly same thing.

kennygee:
Dear woman, I can imagine the emotional and psychological pain you're going thru, however, making a decision right now might not be wise cause it will be an emotional one.

Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter.

Start working out the little way you can, start dressing really nice, so nice you'll get compliments outside. It will improve your self esteem, wear make up, smell nice. It might not stop him from cheating but it will build up your self esteem and confidence so much that you'll see you're not the problem.

You'll be in a better place to decide if you want to stay with him or leave.

All the best.

I hope you have a job or a business sha?

Cause the best security a woman can have is her own money.

Your advice is spot on, the only thing that spoilt it is just that prayer you added.

Needtolove:
Hi nairalanders this post is going to be quite disorganized, as I am not such a good writer. Just need an avenue to let our some steam. No advise needed too. The only way forward for me is to quit my marriage.

The reason for this write up is to ease the pain of betrayal that comes from my husband cheating on me with a our neighbor,what really hurts is that after I investigated and found out her identity, I presented him with hard evidence ,instead of an apology he said he is an African man o and polygamy is allowed. He says I should better mind my business as the said girl is not disturbing me. He further stated that the girl is crazy o, so I should not even think of confronting her

Just this morning she had the nerve to come to my apartment with her room mate to clarify some house issues. The nerve of all of them. Really want to make them pay. Really want to make my husband suffer.
This guy body shames me at any chance he gets. (I have a four month old baby) he says am ugly and shapless, and my breast are flat

I want African men to know that women have feelings too, am expected to bottle up my pain and be a woman. When I react violently he calls me mad woman. He is still with her and I am still expected to mind my business.
I will though, but they will both get it.

How will someone that calls himself your husband behave so callous and insensitive, this is utterly unfair, kai!!! People dey suffer for this thing called marriage oh!!! Haba!! No na

MJBOLT:

marciano and mayweather did not suffer defeat

better shut up if u know nothing, is may weather a fighter? Mad small children that know nothing..

This one pain me walahi

Na to pin this woman for ground, fvck sense enter her head go make sense pass.

Nonsense!!!

I so love what I'm seeing, I love every lady I saw,mhen!!!! With the recent things I have being seeing, thinking of becoming a Muslim, so I can marry 4 wives at once.

This is really hilarious

This is the normal happening in all this contest na!!!

uchkochi:
Someone called me this morning to tell me that his little daughter has been missing since Friday last week and I declared as helped by God that before the end of today his daughter will be found and to the glory of God he just called with gladness of heart telling me that his daughter has been found and with him. Listen before the end of today you will have at least one reason to dance in the name of Jesus Christ.

An elderly spinster who had been believing God for a husband, bought just a plot of land for me 2 years ago, as a seed, and by the following year, he had a husband working in shell.
Another woman, believing God for the fruit of the womb, who had visited several churches and hospitals, came to me, bought just a tokumbo corolla, and the following week, she told me she missed her period, as I write, she has delivered a bouncing baby boy.
Another young man who has been jobless for years after graduation, came to me in despair and hopelessness, he sowed a seed of a brand new phone in my life, today he works with chevron.
Any infirmity within you, any challenges you are facing, to day is your day, I declare to you today to sow a sees of just 3000 Airtel recharge card to my line today and see if your story wouldn't change.. Try God and see.

-Lord's Apostle

aseosa:
I Have had an inverted nipple from birth.
Thought it was okay until I started Feeling pain in my breast.


NB-pls I actually Thought my nipple was coming out at a point but it never did.

Pls I need an advice.

PM me.

What she says is true, if I were a woman, I wouldn't marry a poor man either. Neither will I advise my sisters to do same... Poverty is a thing of the mind, not just what we see.. And it isn't fun o behold..

U either get hooked to an average HARDWORKING man, or a guy that has already made it.

Which kind nonsense be this? This country tire me, I just wanna run out, how will someone be earning 10k as salary, what nonsense, 10k I spend sometimes in just a day... Its very annoying seeing all this.....

I shouldn't be seeing this, I really should run out of this country... Shit!!!
Man's wickedness to man.

*spits*

TooMuchStuff:
Pathetic I tell ya

To think these are people's spouses and breadwinners

God save them. BuhariApC remains idiots forever

Bro, God doesn't save anybody, it is through concerted effort to build up a formidable security to secure our lands that true safety comes...

Let's us learn to be more practicable and realistic with things.

Preshy561:
So sad.
I really hate disrespectful siblings.

Our last born is stubborn but I can't beat her cos she's stronger than me.
All I do is to avoid arguments with her or threaten not to give her any of my belongings or give her money.

The truth is that, she'd start respecting you when she sees you can now Carter for yourself and for anybody. Same thing with your parents scolding you.

Relax and make money, and all these nonsense will stop.
If she chooses to date the useless landlord's son, then leave her, all the regret will be bore by her alone. Just do your best.

But why are some landlord's first sons almost very useless?

As old as u are ur last sister is stronger than you, very shameful thing to say, wetin u use all ur strength do? Pitiable ..

FindX:
You're also a failure that's why she is disrespecting you.

Now let the little girl be and put your miserable life in other first.

This is funny mhen!!!/the funniest I have ever read