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nNEOo:
This is the dumbest question i've heard in a long time.....




for the sake of decency let me not loose my calm....op YES you should not only be friends with ur X YOU MUST BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X........(for God's sake what is wrong with ppl?)

dumbest post

@ number 7 the right one willing to wait will be played...Deceptive creatures always playing the victim

Mayflowa:
Something is really wrong with you, not the cheating. Do you know how many times men cheat and still smile when they get home? You have prayed for forgiveness and you have been forgiven. Why are you then hard on yourself? The devil is the one rubbing this guilt on you until you lose your sanity and home. That is his work- to kill, steal and destroy.

Tell him and see that your situation now will be far better than after your confession. Pastors are the master of the game. lol. they cheat, ask for forgiveness, and never tell their spouses. Seriously, you are the one killing yourself. Your husband is probably cheating sef!

you are very foolish

Lionessza:
I know there are ladies who have more than one bf, but there are also many who have one guy .

change many to few please

Cinderella5:
well, People say it but they are wrong, no broke girls. Reason is this, when a girl does not have money, it's not as much as an issue compared to when a guy doesn't have.

hw old are u? Sounding like a 10yr old child

sami75:
Bros, which Nigerian bank can give 16 billion dollars for the refinery he is building in Lagos when our Nigeria 2017 budget is about 26 billion Dollars or which bank will give someone money when they are not sure he can pay back.All the discos and Nitel that has been sold before with loans from Nigeria banks, where are they but tell me one venture of this Dangote that is not doing well.

first of all find out about bank of industry. I stated buying far lower than the actual price than the plant should cost and u did not see anything wrong with that right? I don't have a problem with his management of the plant hence I never said anything about that, so please read my post and understand my concern....finally I will like u to find out abt AMCON and why it was created I think that will answer your questions on which bank will give loan to someone that they are not sure can payback...

Can anybody see bank of industry included? This man will just get loan with almost no interest to buy the plant at a low cost compared to the actual cost of the plant and just maximize profit.

dingbang:
Any graduate who doesn't know what business he/she can do with a certain amount of money doesn't deserve to be a graduate

I there a chance that you can fail in your business endeavor? The way u ppl talk about business, it is as if it is guaranteed success. You done deserve to be a graduate for posting this rubbish an illiterate post

Illiterate

babazako:
For me ,de numba 5 point, is partially accepted
I view sex in any relationship in term of mutual concept, if I'm dating a lady for marriage and u say no to sex till marriage then you will have to bring on a way that will make the relationship excited ,if you do .So don't have problems .OK, no sex till marriage

my brother don't ever fall for that scam...except say na virgin and if that is the case marry her within 6 months

PaperLace:
* Women are polygamous.
* Some men start tying wrapper and wearing oversize boxers.
* Their husbands don't service them well. Some men do wuruwuru sex. No pre-intimacy...etc.
* They are wicked and selfish.
* Young boys don't allow them rest.
* Lots of Nigerian men develop potbelly after sometime. She becomes less attracted to him. Women are visual beings too.
* Lots of Nigerian men neglect their wives. Look around you, too many absentee husbands. They prefer to go and sit at bar.
* Temptation.
Etc

In all, it's 85% the fault of the man...Nigerian men should take care of their wives well, so that side-bobos won't snatch her.


Do you know what's double standard at all?

The double standard here, is you thinking a woman's cheating doesn't have justification like the man's own. They're both human, capable of falling to temptation (aka) adultery.

woman wrappering...lol. No justification for cheating

Padiimii:
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing.
And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.

That was what really got me confused man.
She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.

crying is blackmail...don't fall for that

okoyeale67:
come to think of it, this is a country that supplies power to other countries

where did u get that from? Useless country that cannot provide u power will now sell power to other countries...lol please go easy on the weed

Safiaa:
thats a completely different scenario all together.

no it is not.

So what happen when u loose your job I guess there should also be a biblical write up to back immediate divorce also

LaRochelle:
I'm sorry, you should have read "my poor Nigeria" in context. It means both that we don't really have Made in Nigeria goods and the fact that we hardly patronise such goods.

how can u patronize what u don't have? A Nigeria man doesn't think of long term, he wants to make profit immediately

SnowJay92:
When they're overpopulated, why won't they have traffic, but web traffic doesn't equal global coverage. For instance, how many Africans are on weibo?

Nigerians are funny.... A country of over 1 billion ppl and u plan to drag traffic with them..lol.china and India are close to even half of the total world population. China telecom has over 700 million subscribers

wine4dguy:
Patronizing made in Nigeria goods is the way to go as it plays a greater role in strengthening the economy of Nigeria. Walk into one of major supermarket in Nigeria and see for yourself that all goods are imported.

Why are they imported? Even bbnaija was done in South Africa, why? Once u can answer this question, you will have a better understanding. Declare state of emergency on power and everything will fall in place

qualityovenbake:
Nigeria can only achieve economic stability when we Nigerians identify with Nigerian products; buy them and also encourage local services in Nigeria.

Nigeria can only achieve economic stability when we have stable electricity supply

Raine80:
Do you give expecting something in return or do you give because you want to give? The best advice Looking for fish? Don’t climb a tree.

hypocrites do u open your leg for any man without expecting sumtin in return?

ALAYORMII:
I don't mind a girl using Mii as part time lover


In as much as she's giving Mii her punna. (Duri, Otu, Obo) as at when I need it


Am available

You cannot get it when u need it or don't u understand what part time is? You only get it when it is convenient for her...

rose54321:
That's abit harsh, seems you've hard a terrible experience.
The fact though is that men need money with that they can almost always get any lady they want, women need to be fine(presentable and sexy) with that they can almost always get any man they want.

Ofcourse there are always exceptions to this, but most often you fine rich men marry beautiful wives and pretty ladies get the rich guys.

Now, for those of us that might not be "sexy" and or "rich", there's still hope, simply find what you are good at, build and develop yourself in that regard and flaunt it for the world to see.

Please answer this question, why do u want financial success? Is it because of a man? If not why do u women think our desire to be successful is because of pretty ladies...it beats my imagination. A broke or rich guy will always have ladies and let us not forget a broke guy can be rich 2moro BB NAIJA Efe comes to mind and also a rich guy can be broke 2moro so nothing is 100% certain. Nigeria is the only country where as soon as u ask a girl out automatically you are owing her money...it is sickening, it is a shame, it is so disgusting and seeing the support it got from a lot of ladies then I cannot but conclude that these set of ladies deserve no respect from any man

rose54321:
Lmao,
I partially agree with the logic, though as someone already said above not all "broke" men are bad.
I think the OP is just saying Men should first focus on being successful, at least try your best to be financially independent before starting a relationship.

Women will always be available, we ain't running out anytime soon, so hustle hard and compensate yourself with a fine lady.

There are many guys out there, very lazy, that are more focused on ladies than their future. Its all about priorities, strive to succeed, then get a lady.

who fine lady epp? Give your advise to ladies coz I think they need it more. You girls are so lazy, waiting for a man to come and pick u as compensation after working hard...useless generation of girls

Welcome to the zoo called Nigeria. A place where the girls think that there is correlation between erection and money and yet they want respect. Nigerian girls that thinks like the OP deserve no respect, in fact rich men should treat them like slaves...so if u marry your wealthy husband today he is entitled to erection, if anything goes wrong with the wealth his erection goes with it...lol then u jump to the next guy with wealth.....foolish op

Hyerin:
She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like y'all lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut.

your problem is u think lying is not big deal well...I feel pity for your boyfriend. As for the topic nobody cares if u are virgin or not but just don't go about claiming what u are not...it is that simple

kramer:
No I won't, don't be a lazy ba$tard, google it since you're so interested.

simply because I don't have the facts you have to resort to insult....Exactly how uneducated vagabonds behave.

kramer:
While some people like yourself don't have a brain at all.. the key word in my statement was 'some countries' you will no doubt find countries with a similar GDP but charging more as well as those charging less. Don't quote me again

with similar population right? Clown

kramer:
We also have immense numbers of uneducated vagabonds in Nigeria. Go find my other comment on this thread. No I wasn't converting anything

you said 3 times what they charge in Nigeria right? So hw did u come abt that without converting the currency? Can u tell us what they charge for card in foreign countries?

kramer:
Attention w.hore! That picture has nothing to do with the topic

Back to the topic: 600N is still ok compared to what some countries charge (in some cases 3 times the amount).

I believe u r doing currency conversion to get that figure right? Since we like to do conversion please can u also do conversion for minimum wage in those countries? Can u do conversion for standard of living in those countries? The problem in Nigeria is we have too many educated illiterate that are so blind and dumb

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

what has the topic got to do with virgins and decent girls? So a girl giving her man doggie or bj automatically makes her indecent right? The truth is there are many of u girls out there looking for justifiable excuse to become olosho....well continue

GavelSlam:
Is he really?

Can you actually say the number of people involved in 419 is less than a million?

If you have to debate that in your head then that's not generalising.

so a million out of 180 million means it is OK to generalize right? You are sick....black fools

iamtewwy:
even tho this regime is clueless but i would not b biasd i would say d truth... omo i never notice any insufficient power for my area oo. i dey use light sleeep. 18-20hrs daily and even the niegbhouring area dey get light.. so abeg were this statistics comes from? lets not always filled with hates biko

This is the problem of Nigerians... so because your small area get 18-20hrs the statistics automatically is wrong. We can never move forward in this country with this set of citizens