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ayokellany:
What do we call a reverse situation where the man ask the lady to stop but she did not. Does that pass for rape against the lady as well ?

don't mind the idiot

4Ken:
If a girl says she doesn't want to do and you still force yourself on her it's rape.

If a girl follows you to a hotel or to your house or office, even if she wears a mini skirt and no undies and she doesn't consent, it's rape.

If you and the girl are doing it and after a while she says stop but you don't stop, it's rape.

A lot of Nigerian men need to understand this.

where did u get this ur foolish definition from? Otondo

Goshen360:
1. That doesn't answer my question which is, are non tithers like me NOT enjoying open heaven because I don't tithe?

2. How do you know how I am now and how far I should have gone? Do you know how committed I am to giving and blessing or touching people's lives?

When they no longer have point to defend the obvious truth they go into you have been better if u where paying...lol go tell that to the Chinese

onuhabel1:
Yea, if what Jesus said to one person, he says to all

Don't u know Jesus was with God from the beginning and he's God?

If he told Abraham, it applies to us as well, Paul the apostle also spoke abt tithing, u knw?

what did paul say abt Tithing?

onuhabel1:
they are universal in the sense that what God said to Abraham in the old testament is applicable to everybody even in our world today
U see that, God told Abraham to be perfect in the old testament, that It is in the old testament does not mean its not applicable to us
So, if God has said to Abraham by revelation (Because nobody told him to tithe) to tithe, it is also applicable to everybody
Selah!

lol...what did Abraham tithe? Did Abraham ever tithe his income? Can u compare the mosaic law of tithe with what Abraham did? God never said t Abraham to tithe so this your by revelation is delibrately misleading... A one time tithe on spoils of war cannot be Define as a tenth of one's income except of course it is definition by revelation

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onuhabel1:
Last night, God's servant, Dr Paul Enenche of Dunamis exposed the truth of tithing pointing out how Jesus endorsed in
Matt 23:23 says

New Living Translation
"What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens, but you ignore the more important aspects of the law--justice, mercy, and faith. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things.

King James Bible
Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone.

The passage shows that Jesus endorsed tithing but rebuked tithing in iniquity, so we should tithe!
*You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things.* (NLT)
Excerpts from the teaching:

WHAT IS THE TITHE ABOUT?
1. The Tithe is one-tenth of a person’s income
2. The Tithe existed before the law of Moses (Gen. 14:18-20; 2Cor. 9:6-7)
The Tithe did not come with the law of Moses so it cannot go with the law Moses. It existed far before the law and will continue to exist far after the law.
3. The Tithe did not begin as a commandment, it began as a Kingdom principle delivered by revelation (Gen. 14:18-20)
Nobody told Abraham to tithe, it was revealed to him by God
4. Kingdom principles and revelations are universal in application (Mark 13:37)
Time does not change Divine principles and revelations (Gen. 17:1; Matt. 5:48; 2Cor. 13:11)
6. Tithing was confirmed and commended by the Master in the New Testament (Matt. 23:23; Luke 11:42; Lev. 27:30)
7. The Tithe was validated by Paul the Apostle in the New Testament [Heb. 7:1-8]


Do not be pastored by Social media!

1. Your scriptures do not tally with your definition.
Gen14 tells us Abraham gave tithe of spoil of war not his income Hebrew 7: 4
Never was it written anywhere else that Abraham paid tithe of his income. Abraham never taught h children principles to tithe.
A one off 10% of spoils does not equate to Tithing 10% of income or the laws giving to the children of Israel in the book of leviticus.
2 the book of Matt 23:23 was never abt commending Tithing, infact Jesus specifically stated that it is less important part of the law.
It is important to note that in the days of Jesus Christ the isrealites where still under the mosaic law hence the latter part of the message coz anything else will be seen as against the law.
3 Tithing began as a law and a commandments in t book o leviticus saying otherwise is deliberate misleading information to gullible followers. Prior to the book o leviticus d bible never told us of anybody paying tithe o income except spoils of war and Jacob who made a vow
In the book of lev 27 tells us the law which was giving to the isrealites on Mount sanai. That law is for a purpose the tribe of the Levi which bloodline is for the duties of priest are not allowed to have any inheritance or land so in return a tenth which is tithe Is given to them and they in turn give 10% of what they have received an keep in Gods store house.
4 mark 13:37 talks nothing abt tithe..kingdom principles state it is more blessed to give than to receive. Kingdom principles tell us that there is blessing in giving from your heart not in giving as threatened by pastors who quote Malachi 3:10
Your 6-7 is just u delibrately ignoring the fact a twisting the truth

Nellybank:
Google is ur friend

dumbass

Is it only women that are sexually harassed? Smh most of them self will give u green light and come claim sexual harassment

Nellybank:
Hit 'like' if this is our (Niger Delta) oil money

what are your useless governors doing with their allocation?

babyfaceafrica:
what if he was framed?..think of the trauma him and his family have gone through?....do you know how it is to be accused of something you didn't do?

don't mind all this idiot girls... they just want any man accused of rape to be crucified forgetting that most girls are natural liars

Alexgeneration:
He was suspended, meaning he indeed raped the girl.

lol....so suspended means guilty of rape in your court abi? You can be suspended pending when investigation is completed even without been guilty but I don't expect your brain to understand that sha

lazygal:
Will you shut up there even if it was cooked up. What impression are we giving to international world worst of all out sons ,that its okay to rape?

what impression is the world giving to us? That it is ok for any girl to wake up one morning and start claiming sexual harassment to destroy a man's Career just by mere going to the press and saying I was sexually harassed 200 years ago....lol rubbish

Benita27:
Of course, there's no law that says you can't have a romantic affair with a junior female officer but don't use your position to sexually harass and intimidate your junior female officers into having a romantic affair with you. Try that, and see if there's no law against sexual harassment in this country.

did anybody complain of harassment? Is it not possible for a junior officer to even initiate the move since she admire the guy? The funny part is when things don't work out as they plan they usually come out to cry and claim the victim....sexual harassment... the only thing women can do best is to destroy a man's Career since the time of adam

petra1:
Tithe was on before the law ever came

I knw you will tell me abt Abraham...what did Abraham tithe?

petra1:
Jesus clearly endorsed tithing here

Matthew 23:23 (TLB)
"Yes, woe upon you, Pharisees, and you other religious leaders--hypocrites! For you tithe down to the last mint leaf in your garden, but ignore the important things--justice and mercy and faith. Yes, you should tithe, but you shouldn't leave the more important things undone.

Tithes and offetings are principled in the kingdom of God. It has always been there before the law came . Right from the days of Abraham it has come to stay . Just like other principles like worship , prayer , alms , fasting etc . Testaments don’t change principles

are we still under the law? If no when did we stop? If you are sincere you will see that this is a rebuke not commendation but then he added that part because they where still under the law

adebisiseun2:
i am not twisting the scripture.jesus command it

Jesus time was under the law...he actually rebuked them not commend as u claimed maybe you should read your scriptures properly

Queenlovely:
When I read the biography of great men like Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton, Magnus Calsen, Marie Curie etc Tears start dropping from my eyes. These people were not after certificate in schools, they wanted true knowledge. They were curious. Compare them to the idiots we call students today. The students are just after superficial things. I don't want to list the vices these secondary kids involved in. Education has been abused. That is what happens when you make something affordable to masses

your post shows that you are a bigger idiot.....smh

Mille:
Same thing I have been telling people everytime but they don't agree. You can only do the conversion when the money gets home.

In Lyon currently, even earning €30k annual salary means you will live a basic life. Same as someone with a 80k salary in Nigeria. Earning under €20k means you are living under the poverty line. Not even with a tax rate of 30%.


Don't think about owning a car or raising a family with a €20k salary in Lyon. I'm sure it's either you are homeless or sharing a room with such a salary in Paris.

And yet, I see these same people flashing all over Facebook but people back home don't know.

so with 80k salary you can live a basic life in Nigeria...lol do u even knw the definition of what a basic life is?

Silvermoney:
I've been hearing many good things about Diamond Bank lately. Especially their business friendliness. I'll open a business account with them soonest.

How easy is the process and what are the requirements for opening a Diamond Bank corporate account?

where is your location?

ayourbamie:
U don't want 30k. Stay at home let ppl Wey need job do the work and manage the 30k

illiteracy is the greatest problem in Nigeria

tintingz:
Logic is better.

is it deductive or inductive?

tintingz:
Hello folks.

I want to know if the husband still earn/deserve the position of "head of the house" if the wife is the breadwinner?

Is the "head of the house" earned or a birth right for men?

I understand some men lost their job and their wife took/take up the responsibilities but what happens when the wife is the one keep doing it for years, no positive move from the husband?

* I'm not a religious person nor traditional person, so don't use your religious/traditional view as the ultimate/superior answer, just comment your views on this.

so if we don't use religious view or traditional view to answer your foolish question...please state the view you want us to use

EFCC should focus their energy to arrest the real thieves...The once that are stealing the future of over 170 million ppl

lonikit:
so are u saying old testament is not relevant again??

do u still do things of old testament? If yes why do u have to select the ones to do and not all of it

lonikit:
Levite's are equivalent to full time pastors in this generation. there are pastors who do not do anytin aside the work of God.

yeah u are right... they do anything yet they fly private jet and build schools you cannot afford to pay plus owning real estate....wedon

torres89:
most times the problem is always within us.

but we are always looking for whom to blame...

have you considered spoiling your woman with enough flirting and romance

if u can't do that, then someone else will do the job for you....

modified

some men dont just understand how to make use of simple tactics.

little wonder shes currently winning in the game,
first u need to understand here that , its a blessing in disguise he discovered the recording.

now u can comfront her and she comes up with excuses perharps cries a bit or it could lead to a huge fight . and your kids would be watching u guys ooo

or u can just go subtle or sober and ask yourself were it all went wrong

then ask her how you can be a better hubby.

guys please be smart....

foolish post.... women will never take responsibility for their foolish act.. smh always blaming men for their madness

sekxyqueen:
you should have made your comment without insults...now you and your comment look more stup1d than I thought. .gerrara my mention.

answer the question

sekxyqueen:
what if the guy is a chronic cheat, ,and maybe gives her one dangerous disease like that??isn't it better she leaves the marriage cos certainly she is no longer comfortable with the marriage.

dumb girl, hw is I love u on a chat message equal to a chronic cheat? Have u not said I love u to someone before other than ur partner? If we go thru ur chat message are we not going to see some flirty chat? Does that mean u are a prostitute? Take a chill pill jor

missloluwa:
Hey guys,

I'm in my mid 20's and i've been working for a few years now, my current salary is very decent and i'm striving to earn more. Obviously at my age, i'm thinking of the long term which obviously includes my career but i'm also looking forward to and marriage and kids. However, the vast majority of guys i've met are either not ready for the long term, or they're still in their 'struggling' phase.

Is it bad that I want someone who is at least on the same level as me, or maybe even slightly below? Am I a 'gold-digger' because i don't really want to 'eat garri' with a guy before he blows? I've dated these guys before but even till now their level hasn't changed much despite all their talk about potential.

I don't mind having to split the bill once in a while or even contribute but i'm a lady that's used to certain tastes. My family isn't Dangote rich but we're doing quite well, and i'd like to continue living that life or at least not drop too far below. What do you guys think? Do I keep looking for these 'almost/made guys'(can anyone tell me where to find them? lol) or do I settle for a struggler.

Please keep looking for your level...lol don't come down so u don't kill an innocent man all because of level

[quote author= post=60084541]Lol. This is a classical move to control the minds of the future. By prohibiting children from going to church you have taken away the choice.. simply put china has turned the Chinese to prisoners in their own country.. China is heading for doom.[/quote]And u think the church is different...smh

mrvitalis:
This is actually very small to run a state

Imagine my state imo with over 3million people with 17bn in 6 months ??

If every individual is taxed 5k a month that's 15bn every month and with that we will get our desired development and we will have reason to hold our governors accountable

But no we decide to spend far more to achieve nothing

A typical car owner in Nigeria will spend 400k a years averagely to maintain his cars

But as him to pay a tax of 10k a month for road maintaince that will save his car he will protest

We have over 11 million cars in Nigeria ...if on average each pays 10k every month that's 110bm that's over 1.2 trillion on road maintaince

Say federal government takes 30% and states 70% of what you contribute tell me why we would have bad roads

you are a big fool.... so we should be tax 5k so these useless leaders can loot it right? Your family must be a politician. If u cannot be accountable for the 17 billion hw then will u be accountable for the 5k tax? The problem of Nigeria is not more money for the government or state governors or should I call them emperors...the problem is they have only one vision which is looting

majekdom2:
I read about a company that helps cut energy costs sometime.... Energy Integrals I think. The Man companies can check it out.

you can't even see the energy not to talk abt cutting cost