₦airaland Forum

osinbanjoisaliar:
Yes, he was promoted out of Nigeria. You people don't know what you're dealing with. If GEJ had been as submissive as the coordinator, Turai Yaradua would have won the 2015 Presidential election. But as i said, continua, the days ahead will open una eyes.

did the coordinator tell u he is interested in 2019?

VickyRotex:
Chaiii Remi, why you lose that kind amazing woman?

the woman lose am too na haba

dingbang:
Supporting her goals.. Physical visits. Helping her to do stuff. If she is a student, I assist her with an assignment ... If she is jobless, I assist her in applying for jobs.


In a nutshell, she becomes part of me... Like a sister I never had.



I don't like it when girls think love is shown by long hours of call and texts... Dats foolishness. Any girl dat wants to cage me with her selfish love expecting me to call every second or chat every second is just wasting her time. Time is fvcking money!

people express love in different ways. The fact that some ppl prefer to call long doesn't make it foolish...It is just their own way...respect ppls way of doing things

paybak:
This man kenneth is so much filled with anointing.. God, look at the way he sings.. A man of 80 years jumping all over the alter.. Indeed there is God and He is Great.. I will keen to everything man of God said yester night for indeed God loves me.. Only God can make a 80 year old man jump around like that without help or walking stick whatever.. How old is Nigeria president that he is either missing today or couldnt speak tommorrow. Serve the living God dear president and become like them great men. I will never forget that night.. Surely "My case is different."

how old is the Queen Elizabeth husband?

dinak1:
hey dear. I am looking for friends on Facebook. My online days are boring and I really need people to interact with. the username is dinakabdul1.
thanks in anticipation.

if u are great looking we need to see Pix first....seeing is believing

MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.

same applies to a lady

Safiaa:
Absolute nonsense.

I only agree with the ' dont make yourself too available'

That's very true.

the problem with the Internet is that everybody is an expert

HqBoss:
isnt it too early to start a part 2? the movie will soon be forgotten. american movie producers leave a space of 1 to 2 years before releasing subsequent parts of their movies

must you copy Americans...

Silly write up....so u assume that it is the man that wants the abortion right? A lot of women don't want to keep the babies if they get pregnant... a lot of women don't like condoms too, so before u type nonsense remember that we are no longer in the 60's

Rooneyboy:
What about when the reverse is the case?

When she knows that you can never hit her and she takes that as an advantage.

I'm talking from experience and it's not a funny experience.

Slapping and apologizing

you have the license to slap flog beat if she ever raised her hand first

MissCuppy:
I'm talking about entry salary.

they did not specify entry salary... mention a company that pays 700k apart from oil company. At no point in the discussion entry salary was mentioned so please where did u get that from

MissCuppy:
Telecommunications that pay not more than 150k, you must be joking.

you don't know abt telecommunications.....so managers earn 150k in telecommunications abi? You are very funny

MissCuppy:
Like which company? except oil companies.

telecommunications

Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.

At the slightest thing you women talk abt trust. The annoying part is even when your boyfriend knows you are cheating and you are guilty you still play the u don't trust me card. If u don't knw, your boyfriend telling u to stay away from some kind of party and guys is his own way of trying to prevent temptation but u will never see it from that angle rather u will come and tell us abt trust

fasterwell:
Who is a harlot or prostitute?


My definition

A harlot/prostitute is that man or woman / boy or girl who is indulges in premarital sex when he/she still lives with his/her parents being unmarried.

Or

Any man or woman who is no longer a virgin when he/she is not married. That person is a harlot/prostitute.

So my answer is

YES I WILL MARRY HER AS LONG AS SHE IS READY TO SETTLE DOWN EVEN IS SHE STAYS IN A HOTEL OR BROTHEL TAKING 100 MEN A DAY

BECAUSE SHE IS SAME WITH ALL THOSE LADIES WHO ARE NOT MARRIED YET NOT A VIRGIN

urhobo definition....lol

xkris11:
Its very hard to accept such condition,guys will always feel cheated.
Because he will feel you using him and you don't have feelings.

the truth is most of those girls end up dumping the guy for someone else. They only end up using u or u must do everything to marry them while they sit back and watch u make all the effort

axiliborha:
What's wrong with no sex until marriage?

Nothing wrong with it but we also have to include no financial commitment until after marriage

firstking01:
Marriage guarantees nothing and you fell from the sky abi?...the way some of you think eh, @times i just feel like giving up(this one weak me)....so, God that instituted it was foolish?, smh....marry the right person and for the right reason and your mentality about marriage will change.

you are so dumb. Marriage doesn't guarantee childbirth Incase if u don't ppl give birth to children with or without marriage. The God said that marriage is compulsory? Why did Jesus not get married? You are the one that is foolish and cannot understand simple English. MARRIAGE guarantees nothing.

pepemendy:
foolish girls plenty 4 naija sotey, I met one fool last month, I neva woo her she don day tell me say she get boo, I con free the idiot, this lovely morning she just call say she won greet me, I told her too come over to my place so we can talk better, I fvck the biitch twice

with this write up you are also very foolish well birds of the same feather

obi58:
Buffoon. It's pple like you who promote infidelity in relationships

they hate it when a girl turn them down telling them that they are in relationship all this are manipulative techniques. As woman follow your instinct

GodblessNig247:
Somebody did that to me here. I keep wondering, so I helped her to operationalize the word 'taken'.

so u come to Nairaland to look for babe? Smh get a life

Toks2008:
When you tactfully leave your options open,it does not mean you will start sleeping with different men..

you don't need to sleep with a man begin you build emotional attachment or are u not aware of that?

firstking01:
Hmmmm, i think the write up is a food for thought for the ladies but op, telling a nigerian girl this is just like coming to say that lionel messi is better than ronaldo which is the blunt truth and far too obvious to argue about...i always tell my female colleagues, until a man pays your bride price still keep your options open...i don't even know were this engagement, dating and courting thing came from sef cos it's not even in the bible....in the olden days if you see a young damsel/virgin(as it's what they used to adress a young girl in the days of our fathers and mothers), you just make enquiry about her parents and before you know you guys are getting married....and most times you are only meant to see each other on an approval by both parents not to talk of having sex, but today the world don spoil.

lol... you love old days maybe u should get a donkey or a horse to ride on. marriage guarantees nothing. What works for u may not work for someone else. My advice to lady follow your instinct. You can say I am taken and u get to the Alter with that guy on the other hand u can keep your options open and still not get to the Alter afterall most of the guys that wishing u keep options open are actually selfish some feel they can just buy a woman. Trust your instinct.
I for one if you keep your options open I will also keep my options open so don't expect high level commitment chikena

Omotayor123:
I'm Taken

jokes apart, Op is so on point. Ladies let's stop the "Ayam taken" signature even when the guy concern is not showing any signs of proposing marriage.


You will see guys asking out and dating numerous Ladies with the excuse that they want to choose between/among alternatives so as to have the best.

And Ladies do would put these guys on top their head


Let's be wise abeg!

ladies are expert in the above you just mentioned

Even marriage doesn't guarantee anything. So she is with sumbody she should open up herself for all men and build emotional attachment all in the name of marriage? Some ppl put men on their wall and Facebook page they end up in the Alter some did not and yet alter them no see. So all this online expert that think that life is all about marriage sorry to disappoint u even after marriage nothing is guaranteed

Dottore:
Why are people saying rubbish here. You applied for job in another's man's business and he treats and pays you the way he feels is OK and you are crying foul. If you think he's not treating you well then quit.
.
Come out from your comfort zone, put away your lazy garment and pursue your own dream. You may eventually become a boss.

China made white collar jobs and Government jobs so unattractive such that everyone is craving for self reliance. Look at where it got them today.

Nigerians want to be identified with a workplace with fine building, air-conditioned offices and company goodies attached to it not minding that they are slaves in corporate outfits. When anything goes wrong they are thrown out and they won't have something to fall back on.

We shall employ all of una very soon and we will tap from what you have learnt in other places you have worked and use it for our greater growth and still pay you as we deem fit, then you come back to Nairaland and cry foul.

#Teamentrepreneur#

goat can everybody be entrepreneurs? If u are an entrepreneur won't u employ ppl? So because u employ ppl to help u achieve your set goal u have to treat them like thrash right? Nigeria can never go forward with the kind animal character that we have everywhere. With this low level of reasoning u can never be an entrepreneur

olafunny:
Before you start screaming that it's your money they are sharing, understand that your deposit is a liability to the bank itself. Banks don't rely on only deposits or the charges they got from those. Hence, they invest in various sectors of the economy (yes! With your deposits). They go as far as investing in oil and gas, even though loans constitute over 50% of banks' asset.

As long as i walk into the bank and I'm not denied of my rightful withdrawals, i think I'm cool

is it a crime to increase the salary and living standards of the ppl that work in those banks? The way u reason is very silly.... the complain is simple u cannot be making so much money and not impact on the life of even low level staff like the contract staff. If u cannot see the point then go back to bed

Oyind17:
Kemen allow this case to rest na

can't u see it is a useless blogger that will not allow the case to rest

austinvsb1:
Disgustingly battered mentality is what you have there my friend. IMHO blacks and africans were inventors and innovators wayyy before the white man came and forced 'education' and 'religion' on us! If you feel that the sorry state of the african continent is beyond the colonialists doing, you have been effectively manipulated and brainwashed!

you lack understanding. Your problem is ur focus on race. What are nigerians doing for themselves? African leaders loot their ppl and hide the money in buildings...lol. What kind of inventors and innovators allow another race force their education and religion on them? If u where better u would have stood out rather Killing of twins and other disgusting practice was the order of the day. If you must knw the education and religion forced on them was a better alternative hence it was accepted but if u don't knw that then u must be coming from Pluto

Quinn22:
But a guy can marry at age 70 while for a woman it will be too late

you make it sound like a game. Life is risk love is risk. Committing to one person is risk before or after marriage. The best advice is not to love not to marry stay alone and be safe no risk

Quinn22:
The op make sense because I've seen some women who will be committed to just 1 guy for 4-7 years and at the end of it all, he would just dump her like a hot potato. Then she will now have to start from scratch again when her time is running out. So it make sense.

have not seen why guys sacrifice everything for a girl and the girl dumps him?

Halfpenny:
Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.

what you women do to men is far worst. Selfish and deceptive creatures always claiming to be the victims