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lol-- this is funny.  I had to spit out my milk.  Sounds like she was sexin someone else before her visit with you.

so she paid me a visit the following week, we both had sex that day

You both sexed the second week of your relationship.  That's really too soon.  You didn't know her well, and she didn't know you.

@Na2Day

honestly sweet heart, i will love to have a one on one talk with u. i am not justifying the guy, but the fact that most of u females grossly over-looked the many faults of his girlfriend is astounding. i totally understand now when my girl says, "when u are wrong, apologize, when i am wrong, u still need to apologize"

I do not like being called "sweet heart."  --  laughing, let's get that out of the way.  I didn't over look her faults, we all have faults.  She is guilty of neglecting her boyfriend, but the crime doesn't fit the time. 

He should have ended the relationship before moving on to marry another woman.  Not only is it disrespectful to cheat on a woman/man, it is also selfish.  While this guy was out building a relationship with another woman, his current girlfriend could have been free to build a relationship with another man.  One who appreciates her ambitious nature and desire for "things".   

Not only did he deceive his current girlfriend, he deceived his fiance as well. 

her defense was that she has to paid the bills (the guy works also)

This is another line that I noticed.  She had to pay the bills even though this guy worked and was probably living with her and not sufficiently contributing to the household.  Why should she have to apologize for working hard to pay the bills?  This guy just sounds like a loser, all the way around.  He probably moved in with his fiance (laughing). 
Fiance = New Meal Ticket

hmmn, lovealways na wa o
u fine o.
chicago people corruption people
how blagoyevich na

LOL

I will tell Blagoyevich that you said hello.

When I eat beans, I just fart alot. 

Beans Beans
Good for the heart
The more you eat
The more you fart

Faaaaaaaaaaaaart!    cuse me

@Adam Brody 

lol -- Why are you swearing and using bible versus all in the same sentence?  Geeesh.   I wasn't responding to your bible lesson, I didn't read it until now.

The whole thing is very nauseating.  I don't believe in sibling incest in modern culture.  In biblical times, incest between siblings was accepted and quite normal.  Brothers married their sisters in order to maintain wealth within the family.  They also did so to multiply and populate.  But it is now 2008 and incest is not the norm in modern culture.

Maybe she should go for incestuous relationship therapy and check around for incest discussion boards also.

no comment, I just feel a bit ill.

please never swim in a shark infested water cause them go chop you oooo

lmao -- yeah they could careless about humans.  They become curious and chomp.

is there something yopu'd like to share with the class?

Nope, nothing to share.

I think that some small children need a LIGHT spanking at times.  But I don't feel that children should be spanked past the age of 5.  I think a spanking can be given with love.  I probably will not spank my children, but I will never say never. Some people "beat" their children. This doesn't build healthy self-esteem.

Its those abusive parents who make spankings an issue.  abusive parent + spanking = azz kickings

****** scratches head***** so men are mind readers?     i hate to break it to u, he did communicate to his girlfriend and she admitted to that, the bottom line is, she valued her work and material things above her relationship and she tries to control the guy(that is a no no) and that led the guy to back away from her, and she knew it but was just in denial hoping things will change. she even insulted the guy saying all he could afford is a cheap walmart ring for his fiance. again, that shows how clueless she is about love and relationship, all she thinks of is wealth and the bling-bling

Oh okay, so he did voice his relationship concerns.  Yet and still, it's not her fault that he CHEATED.  When a person cheats, the only one to blame is the cheater.  He could have just ended the relationship and moved on.  Let fait deal with her.  That's the decent respectable thing to do.  What you are saying is that when someone wrongs another, they have every right to wrong that person in return. 

I don't mean to get all holy, because I'm not religious, but in the bible it says:  Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, "vencence is mine, I will repay," says the Lord.  I believe this to be true.  He should have just moved on with his life repsectfully -- letting God deal with her.  If he would have ended the relationship in a healthy way and then proposed to the new girl, his ex would have eventually heard about it.  That would have been her wake up call.  He did not have to cheat to prove a point.  Now they both will have much to learn.  If you hurt someone, that hurt is always returned to you.

I think this should be fine.  There's a 12 year age difference indeed, but she won't be 18 forever.  I think the fact that she is only 18 confuses you a bit.  I just feel that you shouldn't marry her with blinders on, be realistic.  She is going into her 20's and while she may complete her degree program, that doesn't make her an experienced woman.  In our 20's, we learn so much about our wants and desires.  So if you marry her, you should allow her time and space to grow as an individual.  Maybe you can hold off on creating a family immediately after marriage and give her time to adjust and learn what women in their early 20's need to learn about themselves.

unbelievable

This sounds like a fake story. Why would the husband say to his wife of 2/5 years "I see you've met my father" as if talking to a stranger?

Some women know how to wear tight clothing, while remaining classy.   Some women just enjoy fashion.

Beyonce, Mariah Carey, Pamela Anderson, Jenna Jamison and so on are often under-dressed, yet they are married or have been married.  In an interview, Mariah's husband said he married her because she didn't have sex with him.  Mary J Blige found her husband while still addicted to drugs and alcohol and partying like crazy.  Her husband saw something more in her and her career is even brighter with him in her life.  So I don't feel that guys should judge a woman based on perceptions alone.  Sometimes the most covered woman is likely to be the real undercover "hoe."

If she call off the relationship before proposing to the other girl, the girl will not no what she did is wrong. I feel sorry for her and wetin the guy dey talk there be say body no be fire hood

I agree. This guy was wrong for not communicating with her. Women aren't mind readers. What you are doing na2day is blaming the woman. It is not her fault that he cheated. First of all, he never communicated his needs to his girlfriend. Secondly, instead of communicating or breaking off the relationship in a respectful way, he choose to cheat and plan marriage with another woman while still in a relationship with his girlfriend.

Being as his girlfriend quickly admitted that she had been working too much and chasing her dreams, I'm sure that she would have responded in his favor, if he had of taken the time to just communicate his needs or give the relationship a break. Men usually cheat when they are seeking validation outside of a relationship/marriage. Because of the way he handled the breakup with his girlfriend, his marriage to the other woman will probably be doomed.

Yes, I've seen this.  When I was younger my very close friend's maternal aunt, married her paternal uncle.  She also had a younger aunt who was dating her younger uncle on the father's side.

Her mom and dad are still married.

@ Tha Dude

Do u want to marry a 16yr old who doesnt know how to wash her pussy??,

You must have younger sisters lol

I'll pro'lly name my angel Chioma. Lovely name

Yeah, Chioma is purty.

@Karmamod

I can't believe that you just probably named my little girl  lol.  Life is funny.

I love that name Chinasa -- beautiful

i was touched seeing those gorilla. . . they have some kind of worried look like trying to say something to us human.
what a beautiful creature. poachers should be jailed.

Regarding the gorilla segment; I share your sentiment. I was also ticked off when I saw those dead elephants. I can't believe that people still wear ivory with all of the synthetic/plastic/glass products humans are able to create with. I wish that CNN would continue with Planet in Peril on a weekly basis.

Chinaecherem -- How is this name pronounced? I think I like this too.

Chinasa is nice. Very cute

Cathleen, Caitlin, Cristian, Christian, Chelsie, Chrystal, Crista, Crystal - I think one of these name would  be very nice for your baby girl.

I am liking Crista, but are these Igbo names?  Do these names have meaning?

Thanks a bunch

Hey All

What is a nice Igbo baby name for a girl beginning with the letter "C"?

Thanks