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The red one is nice, only thing is the material looks a bit cheap.

Enriched Nivea works really well and it's inexpensive.

Yeah, Dr Miracles is a waste of money. I don't like Organic Root Stimulator either

As a big girl, I really hate the term BBW. I prefer voluptuous or zaftig.

I do not think that all Nigerian men love bigger women, but I think my boyfriend has a serious thing for bigger women. He just doesn't know how to express his desire, being as he is rather reserved and shy in expressing his attraction to me. But one day we went out for sandwiches, and I made a comment about wanting to eat light in order to slim down a bit. He went on to say that he wasn't attracted to smaller hollywood women. Needless to say, I went on and ate my sandwich and then some -- laughing

A group of my girlfriends and I went out dancing a few years back. One of my girlfriends is very slim and petite. I have another friend who is full-figured; tall and very top heavy like an amazon. Most of the black american men asked my slim petite friend for a dance. Then out of no where, a naija guy asked my full-figured friend for a dance. They danced all night, exchanged numbers and dated for awhile.

what is this; CSI or something? lol

I am thankful for the Nigerian lady who helped me with my comcast internet account today. Very friendly lady. THANK YOUUUUUUUUUUU

Well my husband punched me in the back of the head tonight! He has been emotionally and mentally abusive to me since getting pregnant with our son and since getting married he has not contributed financially, called me names and hardly shows me affection. I am UK white and he nigerian. He punched me and knocked me down to the ground, that was it, I had enough of the abuse, when it becomes hitting he's gone. I called the police and he is in a cell overnight and is not allowed now near me or his son whilst things are sorted. I have always loved him, 2 days ago he called me his angel for bailing him out of shit, running around paying his fines etc and I know I don't deserve this. I feel awful but when a man hits its over, don't u agree?

You shouldn't even have to ask this question. Do not look back.

I don't even want to talk about it !!@!!!!

Ooh that's right. They went to Lagos to meet with Shell.

I saw it yesterday.  It was pretty informative.  They filmed a segment in Lagos and interviewed a small militant group.  It was kind of funny, because these guys were shooting guns like crazy; showing off for Lisa Ling.  Then towards the end, one of the millitants accidently shot himself in the leg (laughing). 

But I truely understand why these Nigerian militants are organizing.

I hope your cousin wins.  She's doing the right thing.  Her mom gave her a cruel and unusual punishment and deserves to be prosecuted.

Some mothers are just women with twats.  Does her mom have tribal marks across her face Probably not.

My interest in women began to grow again and i felt attracted to a chick after a while and i noticed she had the kind of persona i had in uni. She was homely, kind, deeply religious and very cool headed. We began to date and i found out that she fell in love with me. I hid my new me and she didnt know i smoked, drink or was'nt spiritual. After 5 months of dating, i new she was madly into me and one evening i invited her to a popular fast food  joint on the island and after our meal, i looked deeply into her eyes and told her there and then, that i smoke and drink. She looked at me curiously and didnt say a word. I was expecting a backlash but she said she would pray for me and with prayers we could both over come it. I took the bold step to tell her that i don't believe in God. She looked at me and said, my confession today to her meant that God wanted to take control of me and she would pray more so that her future husband would be a testimony to god. I was shocked that she didnt rake, complain or act astonished but kept faith in the relationship and after ward, i stood up and told her that i was tired of the relationship and wanted a break up. She changed her counternance and began to ask why i was doing this to her and humilating her. I just walked out and felt like Superman. She ran after me and i just told her to never call me or see me again. Her tears almost affected me emotionally but i just zoomed off without looking back.

After the girl broke up with you, you began to dislike yourself.  That's why you changed who you are.  You went from being a religious respectful guy, to being a jerk.  What caught my attention, is the fact that you know full well that you are destroying the women you date, because one pathetic woman, loved you and left.  You are very aware of your actions.  I do not think that you need help, you just need to decide when you will stop taking your pain out on others and on yourself.  You probably care for the woman you spoke of in bold.  Unfortunately, she would have to treat you like the crap that you now believe yourself to be in order to hold your interest.  

You really need to know that you are a wonderful guy, underneath all the drinking and cigarette smoke.  Maybe God sent you a beautiful angel, one to help you restore your faith in women, but you just goofed it up.

lol, why do you care Ikeyman?? lol so silly