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I stated all this because there maybe a Black lady reading this and wants to know why I would pick a White lady over a Black lady. Nothing against my sisters. But life have to go on.

Foods to avoid:
1. Rice
2. Pastries
3. Sugar
4. Saturated fats
5. Pizza
6. Bread
7. Chocolates
8. Pounded yam(Nigerian)
9. Eba (Nigerian)

Hahaha you just comfused me o.

I was simply giving her a point of view from a bi-raical child.

It is not just the picking you get at school it is the lack of self-identity that many bi-racial children suffer.  I think my mom was trying to be sensitive to my fathers needs and feelings so i never received the whole this is your ancestry black history from my mom, thus leaving a void to be filled later in life.  It was only through my own research and reading that I gained knowledge of self and was able to trace my heritage back to Nigeria.

he he he. It's called settling for anything because you may not be good enough for the best

@LoveAlways, your mission is to make Nigerian women misbehave so that Nigerian men can have time for you. please complete your task by telling us the exact stories of the pics you posted and tell us exactly where they all ended up. Not just the end of a movie that always ends sweet and doesn't let you know what will happen to the couple after 10/15 years.

abeg comot for here jare

@LoveAlways
Lol no be small thing is that a woman in the Mickey Mouse pic? doesn't exactly look like one besides the hat

@ LoveAlways

the reason most black females prefer their black brothers is the natural weapon of mass destruction we are blessed with, it can not be found in any other race. most women, especially AAs can't give that up. we got the ace card girl

Her lyrics remind me of something anyone can pull from a box of cracker jacks or a preschoolers mouth of first thoughts in song.

Black woman take too much crap trying to prove loyalty to men who have no prople leaving them for women of other races in the first place

Yeah for once we agree on something, lets not make it a habit.    I feel that upwardly mobile black women are starting to wise up.  I'm getting to the age where I may be ready to settle down soon and I refuse to "settle" for a black man, just because he is black.  I will marry a healthy-minded male from any racial background, before I marry a black man of idiotic variety.

So many AA women are burdened and dealing with the issues that many others (black community, black men, etc.)  bring and lay on them, or AA women take on others' issues voluntarily, whereas other groups of women tend to be MUCH more free to be lighthearted, float around, flirt, and look out for their own happiness and interests. So why have AA women been so blindly loyal??


--  AA women fantasize about marrying black men and having black children:  There's nothing wrong with this fantasy, it's quite natural.  But if one dreams about being a movie star, yet 10-13 years later they are still working at Subway, it's time to let that fantasy go and try something else. AA women should take into consideration the fact that MAYBE they will have a husband who is non-black and they may have children with non-black men. The fantasy, needs to be replaced by what is reality.


--  AA women worry about how "dating out" will hurt the black man's pride:  Yet, he's running around the world chasing everything.  I've even heard of black men running through Rio and writing books about it. (laughing)


--  AA women have been conditioned to believe that all white men are racist oppressors and that no other race of man desires them for marriage:  Yet, you will find black women venturing out, marrying men of other races AND having children.


--  AA women have been labeled by some black men as loud, obnoxious, boring in bed, ugly, lacking something, gold diggers, thug chasers, too fat and so on; while black men on the other hand perceive themselves to be more desirable.  Alot of black women have internalized this notion and feel that the only race of man who will tolerate them is the black man.  They are conditioned to believe that he is the only race of man who will accept her loud, ugly, lacking something ass.  Which simply isn't true.  This is just an excuse he gives, so that he can date white women and men. It's an excuse that he will use to justify his desire to be unloyal to a group of women who have been loyal to a fault. It's a game

Here's an example.  Sometimes when a man is unloyal in a relationship, he will place all blame on the woman.  He does this so that she will feel guilty, blame herself and focus on what she's doing wrong.   All the while, he is out somewhere being unloyal, while she's being hard on herself. 

I just think that  black women who are still single, need to wake up to this game.  AA women need to stop being so nice and kind and letting men walk all over them.  They need to stop being the church mammy for everyone.   The average AA woman is everybodies mother and rarely has a chance to just be a light-hearted individual.

THIS IS WHY I THINK THE BLACK WOMAN IS LOOSING THE FIGHT OVER THE WHITE WOMAN:
1]DURING THE CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT, BLACK GUYS WERE DEPRIVED OF THE WHITE LADIES, SO WHEN EVERYTHING WAS COOL, THERE TASTE FOR A WHITE LADIES WAS HIGH.
2]YOUNG WHITE LADIES THESE DAYS THINK BLACK GUYS ARE COOL, HIP, AND FUN TO BE WITH
3]BLACK LADIES DON'T SEEM TO UNDERSTAND THAT BLACK GUYS WANT PEACE.

HOW TO MAKE;-
start like u're making "pick and drop"(braid like 4cm then tie)
after making all,take 4 or 5 braids and twist,
twist all,then put d hair in very hot water(be careful wt ur scalp!!)
undo d twists, and ur hair comes out as water melon!!

cuteness01:
this type of braids is called WATER MELON. j , if u want,i can describe to u how it is done

AA will get all the fighters or do i call them haters here don't you think? is  that what you really want?