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Not again

No.
Don't test her.
Let her do it first.
If you've moved on already, don't bother going back, if you love your peace of mind.

Congratulations!
Beautiful!
Happy married life!

Saintmary:
Only for men.


But polygamy kills women, and turns the children into horrible adults except for those who make the intentional decisions to turn around their lives.





We only have one life to live.

Let's use it wisely.

Not easy for women at all, no matter how they try to pretend.
It eats deep!

BroOlanrewaju:
May be I can relate well with your "request" in quote. But if not message me privately.

You see, many of us have found ourselves in this scenarios where we have been knocking on heavens doors for answer. Did you know, that there's no spiritual victory that does not have human side of waging war , doing battle, applying knowledge in order to bring down the hand of God upon that situations.
The point here is, there's someone(human/angel) /something is the carrier of your blessing that will activate that answer from his/her/it's end.

You can read about "if you want to hear the voice of God, do these" under my signature...
If you could hear God, the matter is settled

Okay.
Thank you.
Will read through.

beauty16:
you are right that is why am asking for an advice what exactly should i do in this kind of situation

My dear, just face your life and do your business.
If God sends a helper along the line, fine. Don't force it on anyone.
God be with you.

I survived deceit!
I survived the drama!
Thank God I found out early enough.
Thank God for life.

Hmm

Nice.
Thanks

Congratulations!
God bless your marriage!

Bros,
After four years?
Well-done o!

Sometimes, I don't feel for some men when they go through such.
Most men dumped the real women that loved them, to be with the fake one, just for beauty, curves, sex and others. They prefer women that are fire in bed, forgetting it won't guarantee blissful marriage.
Na una use hand do unaselves.
Love is a beautiful thing with the right one.

This one no well.
Love indeed!

WhiteLavender:
I don't belive it's a matter of trying to absorb what the women are spewing.
If a fellow guy does something to a man like this, I can bet you that his reaction will not be to beat the fellow up. He can beat a woman without thinking because he thinks they're easy targets but he'll definitely think thrice before laying a hand on a fellow man.
Woman beaters are just what they are, 'woman beaters', immature and undisciplined men.

Exactly

MuscularDick:
Are you currently in Abuja? How does this nairaland PM work? Is it reliable?

Yes, it works.

MuscularDick:
Yes, it's an old architectural design that lacks periodic facelift. Cyprian Ekwensi house at Area 10 try pass am.

Okay.
Arts and culture

Take bold steps.
Make a move, you never can tell.

MuscularDick:
Please remove that Ministry of Defense building. You can replace it with my house in Lokogoma.

It's fine small sha, just lack maintenance.
And its old building. Ship house in those days

Love is never enough.......

Mom007:
Say wha...?

My dear, my eyes saw fire.
A chronic, unrepentant liar and cheat.
When I try to forgive a lie, even still trying to forget it, he drops another one.
When he says, 'good morning' I check very well to be sure it's really morning time.

Love, Companionship, reproduction, raising your own family.

Saw female clothes in his house. Then he said they usually give them bale of okay clothes in his office to use as rags at home.

I just dey look am dat day

Madam, you are the pathetic one here.
Go and face the government you voted.

stansaintly:
Why won't I beg? Maybe you haven't been in a serious relationship before. Beg whenever it is wise to do so pls, "2 over wise partners don't make good couple". In a relationship, one person must act usefully stupid for it to work. Unless either you or ur partner is player

You're right
@usefully stupid

Egusi soup o.
Nothing join us together

Paswankidamian:
Fear of starting all over


This is a major reason why people continue being in an abusive relationship.

Know this:


The hardest part of a relationship is the beginning stage - starting all over.


Learning someone from the scratch - adapting to their pattern of thoughts, patterns of behaviour, character, way of living, their choices and preferences, it's actually overwhelming.


Often times when you hear people say that they don't want to go into a relationship, they just want to be on their own, it's usually because they are scared of walking through that journey of knowing someone from the scratch...


And most times after taking their time to know this person the relationship wouldn't still work out, hence they prefer to be on their own.


So for people that are in an abusive relationship, when they break up with their current partner and if it happens to be those people who can't stay a day without being in a relationship, it is usually a whole lot of thing for them


So instead of them going through that hurdle of finding a new partner, learning them from the scratch and adapting to their ways, they prefer to stay in the abusive relationship.


Most people prefer to stay in an abusive relationship than start a new harmonious one because of the stress of starting all over.


Mind you, if you happen to be on this table, it's not good enough a reason to remain in an abusive relationship...


You deserve someone that will love you good and treat you like a king/queen that you are.


You won't know which would turn a happy relationship if you don't give a new relationship a chance.

I love to see you happy in your relationship,
Your favourite Relationship Expert,
Damian Uchenna.

You are right.

Ebubechuwku:
I dey always tell people ; life no send you and your motivational talk

What is working for you, may not work for someone else.

Stop using one barrier to limit everyone bro... work on yourself...

Exactly

So, men do suffer disappointments and heartbreaks too?
Hmmmm.

Let her go, she don't deserve you.

I am more than a conqueror!

thorpido:
Pulling the tribal card is unnecessary.
FFK has always had a questionable character.

Very unnecessary

This lady should not drag others to her issues with the man.
When things were fine, we didn't hear any complain.
Fight your fight, don't cause tribal wahala, please.

School father ko!
School father ni!
What school father would watch his school son beaten to the point of death?
School father protects and guides.
Please, give us another super story joor, this one no enter.