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People don't actually change because of people.

People change because they want to do.

If you can go 7 days without laying your bed then it's a part of you.

Stop being sentimental and start to reason with logic.

BusinessPlan22:
If what you wrote above are your pros... Then u need help baba

Wetin sup bros?

Femeto:
You are a jobless guy go get a life. She became worthless to you the moment you had sex with her.

Bleep! I'm a motherfuckin' CEO. I swear.

Every fuckin day, that money is comin' in.

I can never be broke again, I made money mistakes in the past but I'm really better now. I'm an achiever not a loser. I'm just a Gangster!

Benstino:
Within 2 days you already had sex (twice) with a girl you just met.
Within a week, she's already in your house, and you're expecting wife services. Within a week, you're already attempting forcing her to sweep.
Within a week, she's already complaining about being forced to have sex ( because u must have been pressuring her into having sex).

It's a union of two loose beings.
I won't pray that any of my male friends become yoked with such a girl, neither will I pray that any of my female friends become yoked with a guy like you.

Always examine yourself when U're pointing fingers at others. Sometimes we're the problems

Common Bro! I wasn't expecting any fucking wife service. I should believe that I have someone that knows the right thing and how to do it.

How will an adult leave bed without taking care of it and not be bothered about that, not being able to sweep your own room?

Anybody above 18 should know this already.

mechanics:
After using and dumping her, now he can see the red flags abi, that's stupidity, if it was your daughter that was used that way, how will you feel?

Na this girl collect my number, toast me. Read, don't talk rubbish.

Ebiskele:
Bros your story no clear....within one week na she sleep your house....na you still take send her money for pos...all this drama is too much for one week na

She is in my house currently...

I no be mumu na

ObalendeCMS:
Benue girl?

Yes o

Tit4Tat1:
If u do a thorough background investigation, she might likely be from a very poor home...

No Cap. That's where she came from.

Starz825:
He say she is rude but jealous....

Rudeness and jealousy na bad thing

There is a always a reason why people want you for marriage or relationship....

Endeavor to find out before committing to them...(note: don't ask them directly, just find out)

Very important....

I once dated one lady that only wanted a relationship because she doesn't have a comfortable place to stay...she was perching with her friends and wasn't comfortable with them..
Even though she finds me attractive....the above was what she wanted the most....

So a relationship with somebody like that can never last if she eventually finds a better option....

Find out the reason why he or she likes you or want you for marriage.

She likes dark men and she pointed out that she was attracted to me at first sight.

Freelane33:
Love is not enough
Na madness Dem dey take cure madness

This one pass me o...

Wait o! How do people cope in a relationship? I swear being Single has more liberty. I've hooked myself to a big Jezebel.

How we met: At a friend's house. She liked me instantly and asked my friend for my number through WhatsApp. Then we started chatting.

Note: We had sex twice the day after we met but now she's forming CATWOMAN.

Pros:

Ability to speak English fluently
Has some Gangster babe vibes.

CONS:

Cannot Submit - She'll forever be right.

- She turns little discussion to arguments and anger.

- cannot care for a home. cannot do basic things in the house except when forced, like sweeping, laying of bed after sleep, this beach cannot fry egg or cook anything other than rice.

- Someone we had sex last week now Find faults when I touch her. always talking that I'm forceful, I'm afraid of being accused of rape.

- She is rude but very jealous.

- She wants me to stop speaking our native language. We're same tribe from North region.

- she always want to identify as the most intelligent and richest in the room. Person way I day send even 500 for POS.

Can someone command get this thing outta my bed, She's sleeps till 10am everyday.

Una day try for relationship o.

Na God know when I go marry for this life.

Angrygoat:
I met one useless girl,days ago,had some snacks,drove her to a lounge,took some bottles,took her my place,discharged after 30 mins,dropped her off. Wince then,she never called me on phone or even WhatsApp. From no whr,2days ago she sent me a vn saying she wants to come to my place with her friend. Someone that has never called me.as she was typing, I blocked her. I don't need fools and ungrateful leeches on my list..

Don't even try to bring her close. You already know what it is, she will always need help. So I made a friend of mine comfortable in my office some years ago, she'll eat what she mentions, drink what she wants. She find me so vulnerable that she tried to request loan with my BVN. Imagine girl day tell me

"Bestie, did you receive an OTP, pls send me"

It was from Specta "Sterling Bank" that year.

Tell her plain that she a beach.

DonroxyII:
You just need to Define the Thresholds and extents of Your Nice, I'm Nice and Emotional But I Have Threshold and Time-line, Once My Time and Threshold is Breached or Accomplished, I'm Out Unto Another Person needing Help:


Don't blame people for using You, thank them for Training You to Becoming a Better Person, Thank Them for Showing You as Experience that Using and Dumping Someone is part of Life thus Don't Loose Guard Next time because You can be Used and Reused ....

Nature Usually gift Second Chance so Rise Up again and Experience shall Guide You but if you messed Up again, You will still be Messed ... Emotional People get Punished While Reasonable People are Rewarded!

Nature Only used them to Train You on How it's done on Planet Earth ... She like a Moutain with Valleys .... You Shouldn't walk Straight a Road that's not Straight, You will be lost to the Bushes if care is not taken then to the Jungle where there is no Rule But Survival ....

Nature will Give You Second Chance, if you fail to learn then Nature has Tried ...

Never-Ever Run Life on Emotions But Reasonableness if You going to Run on Emotions Possess Emotional Intelligence, and Emotional Maturities to Achieve Emotional Stabilisations!

Good or Bad, I'm always thankful to People who have showed me what I wouldn't have known existed ..... People who showed me the Loopholes in My Personality and I covered My Tracks immediately after Exposures!

Great People are Taught Great Lessons By Nature if not Nature wouldn't have Arch Humans to Hold Humanities into Order ....

All Great People have Myriads of Experiences some even nearly killed them But they survived and Learnt to Maintain the Top ....

I hope we get to know each other. You're so on point. You're a great person. I'm afraid of letting them see what's going on, Incase they are on nairaland too. Man! I been hurt. People that I take care of on a daily basis, that I go all the way to starve myself just to help them. I'm that nice. I sometimes do favours that affect me so much just to make people happy but it's not as if I'm that nice, I also have a very bad temper. I have pulled an axe on two fighters before and they stopped; I have fought someone to the point of not fearing death before, we wasted our bloods just to show superiority, now how did I got so nice that even people use me.

Funny enough, these people are not strangers, they are the people I call my closest people. I know them, I know their cribs, should I kill them if I had the chance?

Social Media life is one of the worst things that happened to us even with it's advantages.

We've all detached from our friends and family, no real relationship again with ourselves.

We're more focused on putting trash online to justify our various insecurities. I mean, how would a mother be so divided from her children, you pose to take a little boy around you. It's acceptable in the society for a Woman.

I cannot fear Death. I'm definitely going to where I came from.

Do you really think everyday you sleep, you don't die?

Why fear what you've experienced a lot of time?

Back in the years when I was a fresh bachelor doing well for myself, I had a lot of friends that I can't even count, I was so popular everywhere in my Neighborhood cos I was overly nice and friendly.

Fast forward to date, Every one had used my good heart against me and I'm ruined. I've even left my neighbourhood because all of them have taken advantage of me and no longer have the gut to come near me again.

I'm seriously lonely and not regretting it tho but I feel so much hatred for humans than ever before.

I wish I could get a gun henceforth. Can't leave my opps wandering the earth in peace.

Indeed being nice to people can be very toxic.

Back in the years when I was a fresh bachelor doing well for myself, I had a lot of friends that I can't even count, I was so popular everywhere in my Neighborhood cos I was overly nice and friendly.

Fast forward to date, Every one had used my good heart against me and I'm ruined. I've even left my neighbourhood because all of them have

He was a HUMAN before being a Yahoo Boy.

Blame the Human that he is.

That was some Gangster shit. That's my manner of playing GTA5.

Years of Hardwork pays off. Honestly I find you amazing but unfortunately you can't see this.

Good luck Tems.

When a society condemns masturbation, such incidents are prone to happen.

Open the 3rd-4th page.

It will say, 30% - 30% - 40%

We know as contract day be....Them no fit pay you once na.

stunnert:
My little sister who is a cardiologist finally managed to get me to quit this habit that I've had for almost 8 years now. Trust me it wasn't easy but she's been there by my side all thru making sure I don't slip back into old sins.

Yesterday the urge to smoke some was so strong that it took a lot of willpower not to call my plug. It seven days now and I can tell you that I've conquered the habit.

I'm open and willing to listen to anymore suggestions because deep down inside me I'm feeling that the battle isn't over

Mynd44 OAM4J lalasticlala seun Rocktation farano uboma mukina2 davide470 pls push this to the front page as I really want to overcome this addiction and I believe others can learn from the process

OP, you probably cannot quit without changing your environment. Your dealer is still close to you, your active buddies too are.

Is this a normal progressive chat or a small community of Crays people?

There is nothing that a Rising Prick cannot make an Old Man do....

Pet Tomato...I fear you bros.

Give your credit to QUORA....

That's intellectual theft.

How to be a Celebrity.

shege45:
very right. I can’t ever take a girl who doesn’t let me check her fone serious

Which work you day do? Na heart attack go finish you. My good friend talk say every girl get guys way Dem day send nudes.

Yes. I was arrested with possession of hard drugs and the Police made sure I had the worst time of my life.

Print banner the size "POS" people do use. That's advisable too.

If them don reach 25 years old, them go give you even their mummy's number.

Your opinion is based on your age.

Are you married yet?

Send me the family pictures.

kenzysmith:
This guy is now bigger than olamide I don't know what he is still doing at YBNL . oga throw way the ladder use take climb you no longer need it.
Stop making money for olamide wise up man

Fool. There's an underground game he might be oblivious of. What if he knows nothing about that?

You're a perceived toxic human.