if a lady is cheating or a man is cheating, if you cant take it leave in peace and pursue other things in life, why resort to murder and suicide? murder or suicide is never an option, just because of sex you kill person then kill yourself..now there is no room for repentance...there is no coming back from eternity...why rush there unprepared by living a holy life instead you lost it all because of a woman...when women yapa every where

nice one if its from personal savings, family money etc but if na olosho or doking job e no make sense...enjoy

the man is the one making the money, let him enjoy himself...if we hear from the man side now we will get something else....you too if its easy run am...buy chicken from any where eat it and hide the receipts...after all what a man can do, a woman can do better...

Baba God don run that one, na now e de eat well pass...every day na groove...this year too make sense

male cell so they can doke her very well...welcome to the real world bob

well if this should happen to any of my sons, i will nurse him patiently back to health, then on one cold,quite evening or on a busy day like Christmas eve the teacher will receive a bullet in the back!

you should have added gambling and running around with side chicks....frequenting the beer parlors etc

fiancee after 6 years and with a child? haba you are trying to run away after disfiguring her and finishing her juice...now you want to start with a new and juicier lady, this is what bring side chicks to married men...guy face your front and marry her properly.....you want to eat your cake and have it...if you had married her these past 6 years would you be saying the same thing now? i blame ladies who shack up or live-in with a guy when there is no commitment or the relationship legalized....she be your concubine or baby mama remove that fiancee there ...chai

Raydos:
It's so sad that over 10 trillion dollars has been stolen since the inception of Nigeria

That huge amount could transform any serious country from the worst to the best in just a decade, Are we really cursed as a people? I've been to other Africa streets too, They also suffer from the same bullsh*t, What is wrong with us as a race?

Someone said if Nigerians Moved to America and Americans move to Nigeria, In just 5 years America will be messed up and Nigeria will become a thriving nation

Are we cursed?

...you are right, the curse that was placed on Ham by Noah is at work among the black race, he is the father of Nimrod, the father cush, ethiopia, egypt etc...i can give you more bro but this is not the time but we can discuss further if you wish...blacks every where are the same, take haiti for instance the only country with 100 percent black population outside Africa dem get the same problem...this is a well researched topic both in secular knowledge and Biblical...facts yapa if you want it deeper

this is sad because it is obvious you are committed to your marriage and love your wife, but unfortunately she does not love you, it could be psychological or even a spiritual problem, or she could still be in love with someone else or maybe she prefer the own gender...you got it wrong by not reading these sign during courtship...sex is key in maintaining a healthy marriage and after all the stress of the day man need to let off some steam....go to God in prayer because he is the originator of marriage, try and take your mind off sex so you wont feel the pain...concentrate and enjoy what she can give you for now stop complaining about her either to her or to any body....just flow along, she may start loosening up but i can assure you all is not well with her, it could be spiritual so you have to pray and also try and dig into her past

it is really cool to be a handsome dude and more so if you have a good physique( we wen come like gym and regular exercise), seems to have an easy way with ladies, for instance most of my clients or customers that buy easily from me are women, even when i was working in the bank, oil company etc it was easier getting an account with a female than a male...even now any time i buy groceries home my wife will be asking: those who serve you at these stores you go to are they girls? and when i answer in the affirmative she will say no wonder, the fish or whatever is above so so and so kilo...i just take it in my stride and i dont dwell on it that much...the focus is more on family, money and business now than sex appeal or whatever...

they want you to sponsor their girl abroad and they wont allow her marry you, you are a mugu take it or leave it...the girl is waiting for you to do just that...they see her as their major investment in life, better count your losses and leave...seek for direction from God she may not even be the woman meant for you....take the hard decision now and rest or keep having issues with your by force in-laws all the days of your marriage

the one i know is leg-xus no longer lexus...every car consumes fuel, and you need fuel to drive, na poverty de make person think of car that will use lesser fuel for same journey...the car that uses lesser fuel may not be your ideal taste of a choice car and besides na the same amount per liter all of us de buy....break the yoke of poverty in your life and enjoy different brands and taste of cars etc hahaahhaahahaha!

some ladies don't care so far money is involved..why go out on a date with a stranger or go supply an item or make hair for a stranger without bothering to find out who that person is? the stranger should first and foremost come to the house or where you have friends and family make very body see am so you can also gauge his personality and background....jumping all on your own to meet a total stranger whether harmless or otherwise is a no no in our present world...whether for business or pleasure ensure the person is known to others, do not be desperate, make the stranger come to you first especially at home or close to where you stay where other people can get to see him/her and give you their opinion....one thing stood my wife out from the ladies i dated before i settled for her...when i met her in Uniben way back she came to visit me in Hall 4 and told me if i want us to have a serious relationship i must take her to my family house because for all she know i might be a ghost on campus! i was shocked initially but saw the sense in it and took her home to see my family and where we stay....from that moment i knew i was home and dry....that was in 2003....the rest is history

thank God, for the first time a case that trended like this have been concluded...a lot of people crucified JAMB including Charly Boy who claimed the girl was too innocent to do such....will now bury their heads in shame...never take any one on their face value, no man/woman is proven without trial

SwayG:
This is one of the reasons why I respect Burna boy. He is doing it but playing safe. Na only person wey dem catch dey rob be thief.

However, nobody should castigate Davido. Its never easy to be popular, be a billionaire and powerful. Ladies will rush after you. They offer their bodies to to you free of charge.

When I was in the SUG in my university, countless ladies loved me like they could die if they don't. Ladies just love men with power and money. They want to sleep with you by all means possible. Many girls will cook for you for free with their money, give you gifts and offer free love, even those with boyfriends want to sleep with you. You can't just control them.
Even if they see you with other ladies, they still want you. Infact, that's when they want you more.

Ladies take pride in being Davido's baby mama. They blow up immediately and become almost like a celebrity. Thousands of ladies are ready to still sleep with Davido if he has 100 baby mama's.

Same goes to a beautiful lady. The way men call, try to get the attention and die for beautiful ladies you'd think their lives is at stake. You may not understand this if you don't have a very beautiful sister.

...pure truth...this is the summary: women love men with power and money

what you have is eczema, use nizoderm the one in tube...rub it well and after a day or two it will go away and the skin will become fresh and soft again

as sure as i am sitting in my office right now...he is coming back again, even islam acknowledges that...so it is confirmed not only in the Bible and by christians even non Christians know the only true source of salvation

i have always though i was a hard boiled, james hardley chase reading tough guy who always bang without emotional commitment until i met Abbey in my final year in school...though been toasting her for over 3 and half years, she only accepted when i was at the point of leaving and i was really committed i left other babes including the one i finally married ( my wife now)...fast forward to 2009 when i started working in Lag fully she left because some one from her village want to marry her and the guy hold am( get money) and me still de manage my small office work then....i cried because i never saw it coming, i was prepared to take the relationship all the way and spent all my earnings on the 2 of us since she was living with me...but fate is funny or should i say karma is a bitch....dude later dumped her after impregnating her(now she is a single mum) me i am happily married with kids, she is back to the single market...i guess i had the last laugh when our part crossed later and she narrated her ordeal and blamed me for moving on so quickly( marrying 3 years after she left ). i just laugh...was i suppose to stand still?...lesson learned: never take a woman too serious(because you never know with women) to the point that when she leaves you start crying, depressed or contemplating suicide, it is not worth it

any body who says heaven and hell is not real is living in a fool's paradise initiated by the devil...the devil is waiting for such individuals to breath their last and face the harsh reality in the after life....there is heaven and there is hell....if you want freedom and pleasure in the presence of the living God after death, accept the Lord Jesus Christ now and accept his offer of free salvation won on the cross...without Jesus Christ eternity in hell with the devil is as sure as you are seeing your physical self right now. dont wait till it is too late to find out and do not follow some atheist who thinks life on earth is all that there is.

you no lie, the moment i got a new car, rent was increased but na every body collect am...i also realized i cant be having two cars in a compound and still be tenant so i need to start working on owing a house but to buy car na him easy pass to build house...but we have to try

festacman:
Saint Obi was having a flourishing acting career until his desire to marry a financially strong woman led him to marry one stone-hearted woman who was senior executive in telecom industry and who happens to come from a wealthy family. At the end of the day, money Saint Obi no see. Rather, having fathered some children, Saint Obi was thrown out of his home and his children taken far away from him. Consequently, Saint Obi's fight against this woman and her strong family took a toll on him and the rest is history.

I don't know why his friends are speaking in parables instead of saying things as they are to honour his memory.

Lesson: Sometimes, money is not everything.

May his soul rest in peace, Amen.

...money is not always everything, the divorce and issues in marriage sent the guy into depression and the rest is history..also when you are suffering try and open up to some close friends...over coded no de pay always

date na for the woman not the kids, besides they just met and i think this is the first physical meeting you don bring your entourage come chop...no shakes..pay your bills...no long talk

you are not doing badly, sorry your progress has been slow but things can pick up at a faster pace, it is God that provides, the race is not for the swift or mighty, it is God that showeth mercy...make your plans, commit them to God , pray and continue to work hard....

who get time for any kind of zoning? friend zone say waitin happen...as a sharp Benin guy, we no de show up for where we no de run things...friends zone can only happen after much shining and we don move on to new deals...back in the days any way...now na Baba God, cash and family matter

more grace brother, please keep it up...thank you.

Noahjo:

The Voice in the Wilderness

45: 04 – 2023

Flee Sexual Sins

Text: 1 Corinthians 6:18

“Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”

One of the most prevalent sins that has always been with mankind are sins that are of sexual nature. As can be seen in the Holy Scriptures, this sin had been responsible for the fall of many. It is responsible for the fall of many in our days and will still lead to the fall of many in the future. It was sexual immorality that made David, a man after GOD’s own heart to fall and would have fallen out of grace, but for his timely and heartfelt repentance (2 Samuel 12:13; Psalm 51:1-19). It was the sin of sexual immorality that led to the untimely termination of the ministry committed by GOD into the hands of Samson (Judges 14:1-2; 16:1; 16:4-21). But for the fear for GOD in Joseph and his determination to flee from Potiphar’s wife, he would have been included in the number of those who fell via this evil (Genesis 39:7-12). What would have become of Joseph had he succumbed to the wishes of Potiphar’s wife? What would have happened to the dreams concerning his being ordained by GOD to be the most prominent of Jacob’s children? Have we wondered what would have become of GOD’s destiny concerning him? Sexual sins are evil! GOD says to you and I, “Flee fornication.” Not just fornication, but also adultery, homosexuality, masturbation, pornography, and other sensual conducts. These and other degrading passions are considered grave sins in the sight of GOD. They destroy the soul. A person whose soul is destroyed has no eternity in GOD’s holy presence. They are a transgression of GOD’s law and will therefore place anybody who indulges in them outside GOD’s Kingdom (Rom 1:24-32; 1 Cor 6:9-10; Gal 5:19-21).

Many may not know this or is it that we pretend not to know, that the arousal of sinful lust in others through one’s appearance and mode of dressing can rightly be described as sexual sin. A lot of women who profess to be believers and yet put-on body-hugging clothes and other odious dress styles and appearances in the name of modernity or civilisation are indulging in Biblically unjustifiable conduct as their actions arouse in others, especially men sexual desires that cannot be righteously fulfilled (Ephesians 4:19; 1 Pet 4:3; 2 Pet 2:2,18). Be not deceived into believing that if you continually break fellowship with CHRIST by living in immorality your salvation and inheritance in the kingdom of GOD are still secure. Do not be fooled. No one can live for immoral gratification and still inherit the kingdom of GOD (Rom 6:16; James 1:15; 1 John 2:4).

Brothers and sisters, salvation without the regenerating and sanctifying work of the HOLY SPIRIT has no place in the New Testament nor does it have a place with our walk with LORD JESUS. Approving the immoral and perverted practice of others is as serious as the practice itself (Rom 1:32). This includes many who have pleasure (agree with or consent to) in the immoral actions of others as dramatised in books, videos and TV entertainment. Let us remember that sin is intensified in any society whenever it meets with no inhibition from the disapproval of others.

Those who profess faith in JESUS CHRIST and yet use the immoral action of others for entertainment and relaxation are directly contributing to the public opinion favourable to immorality and therefore to the eternal damnation of an indefinite number of other people. Such sin will be exposed and judged at the day of final judgement (2 Thessalonians 2:12).

Conclusion
Believers in CHRIST are called to be morally and sexually pure (Hosea 2:19; 2 Corinthians 11:2; Ephesians 5:25-27; Hebrews 13:4). Purity means that we are free from all taints of lewdness and all acts and thoughts that incite desires not in accordance with one’s virginity before marriage or one’s marriage covenant after marriage. It stresses restraint and avoidance of all sexual stimulation or activity that would defile one’s purity before GOD. This includes controlling one’s own body in a way that is holy and honourable (1 Thessalonians 4:4) and not in passionate lust (1 Thessalonians 4:5). This Scriptural instruction is for both for the single and the married.

Think on these and it shall be well with you as you obey the voice of the HOLY SPIRIT. Till we meet again on this platform, I remain yours in CHRIST JESUS, Brother Michael E. Dike @ The Dayspring Ministries.

GOD bless you.

get her female clothes, God our creator specified it clearly in his Book the Holy Bible, even though some modern Christians think otherwise, shock await anyone who dies in such state of wearing clothes belonging to opposite sex...again not sow bad seed of bobrisky and co for your child mind ooh...buy the little female clothes you can afford

favor914:
Empty Barrel because Bola Ahmed Tinubu was the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria?

Go out & stop Tinubu’s inauguration, let’s see come May 29th 2024, your friends & family will be conducting your 1st year remembrance.

...you got it twisted...it is not your fault, you cant read properly....

just come to Jesus Christ, no matter your sins he will forgive you and give you that inner satisfaction that nothing else can give you...until you will continue to feel that emptiness.....dont joke with hell...one second in hell will make you realize how foolish you were when you had breath in your nostrils...repent now....living according to the dictates of flesh does not pay

NANS where una de for the 8-9 months strike? una don chop something begin voice..aluta things that year we know as e de go....whatever happens if you no hustle you wont eat, naija never reach the level of paying social security or unemployment benefit...so swear in any body you want and let us have our peace

two wrongs does not make a right, forgive your wife for what she did,but her mum should stay away... if she brought up that topic at all it means she think she is smart and you were not really strong in allowing your mum leave your house because of your wife when you knew your other siblings were not around, it was loneliness that killed maale no be age or sickness...just tell your wife to get a place for the mum where the two of you can visit her....but do not be angry with her...tell her the advice you received earlier :marriage is for 2 people no room for extra except the kids