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midolian:


Election in Nigeria and in fact the world at large has always been such that, if you don't rig, it doesn't guarantee that the other parties won't rig.

Reckless rigging is what people now frown at.

Pafoma:
What if i have detached from these circles even before i met her, we had met and started dating when i found out about them.

I mean, what will their respect do for me because we dont belong to the same circle any longer. If she can prove that i will not regret my decision then maybe i might be willing to risk it

Pafoma:
What if i have detached from these circles even before i met her, we had met and started dating when i found out about them.

I mean, what will their respect do for me because we dont belong to the same circle any longer. If she can prove that i will not regret my decision then maybe i might be willing to risk it

sanmtiago:
This babe fine die
Cuteness overdose

amebogistng:
Emmanuel Adebayor's ex-girlfriend, Dillish Matthews is not mising her words as she lets out what she feels about her footballer ex-boyfriend who has come out to publicly declared that he has nothing to do with her despite the couple parading each other as a romantic pair for almost a year with several canal and intimate sides involved in the relationship.

Dillish Matthews rose to fame after her appearance on the Big Brother Africa reality TV show where she was distinctively noticed for her good looks and charm on the show.

She has been dating Emmanuel Adebayor since last year but things crumbled this year following an internal conflict of Adebayor not willing to fully commit into an exclusive relationship with her. This might be the reason Dillish views Adebayor's actions as childish and he was just using her for her good looks and body.

We have the message sent to Adebayor below:

http://www.ogbeta.ng/2019/11/i-hate-childish-men-adebayors-ex.html?m=1

barinedan:
And why do unemployed men keep girlfriends if they don't have money to cater for the needs of the girls. If you can take care of a girlfriend then taking care of wife should equally not be a problem

Acidosis:
If you're single, you feed yourself and have a roof over your head, then you can marry. There are no special bills or taxes for married people. Your stomach and portion of food do not get bigger with marriage. Your electricity or water bill do not increase because you're married. Same electricity, same cable TV, same quantity of water, same rent, etc.

In fact, it is easier for two WORKING and sensible people because they're able to put resources together to achieve a better result. E.g. If you've being paying rent alone, you can share bills (not necessarily in equal proportions).

The only thing that makes a difference is pregnancy & child upkeep, and to the best of my knowledge, this is optional. After all, single men and women have more sex than married people, without fear of pregnancy.

To blame finance for being single is lack of SENSE and understanding. It is perpetual failure of the brain to think MARRIAGE between two people will drain finance faster than the single folks. It is like living alone to bear all cost Vs. living and sharing bills with a room mate.

Think.

AcuraZDX:
There was confusion, mixed with drama in the early hours of today along Lagos-Badagry expressway between SARS operatives and some boys heading for a show.

One of the boys identified as Zlantan Junior, in a viral video, could be seen challenging one of the officers who allegedly slapped him.

While others were busy querying the officers for tagging them armed robbers just because of driving a Range Rover.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4SeWNPAobi/

Source:
https://zenithnaija.com/boys-heading-for-a-show-in-lagos-harassed-tagged-armed-robbers-by-sars/

voltron14:
It is a real problem.

It cuts across all tribes.

The problem I have is the denial of the populace and the need to heap the blame on government alone, forgetting the government are also products of the society.

There is a certain love of money that is unnatural but in abundance amongst Nigerians.

This issue needs addressing.

No society can function like this.

If you love money so much why not be enterprising in a positive way?

Be a wizkid or Psquare of your vocation.

adedayourt:
Its an integral part of the Nigerian education system and its a two way traffic.

Randy lecturers demanding sex from student, Slay queens willing and tempting lectures to get cheap marks. male student offering money instead.

Its part of the corruption we fight against in Nigeria.

Bobonowell:
blogger blogger

dayo229:
The Ekiti State First Lady, Mrs Bisi Fayemi is pushing for an amendment of the law so that rapists in Ekiti state will be punished with medical castration.

In addition to a life sentence, the Ekiti State Government, in collaboration with the office of Wife of the Governor, is making moves to amend the gender-based law to see that rapists get a more severe sentence. This is in a bid to deter offenders.

According to Mrs Bisi Fayemi, is seeking amendment of the Gender-Based Violence (Prohibition) Law, 2011 at the State House of Assembly.

A public hearing on the GBV amendment bill was held at the state House of Assembly on Thursday, October 10, in the state capital.

At the public hearing, the Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Mr Wale Fapohunda, said the amendment to the bill might include medical castration, compulsory psychiatric test and disqualification of offenders from benefiting from government’s social investment programmes.

Mr Fapohunda said: "We plead with the Assembly to have expeditious and holistic consideration of the amendment to the bill, because it is to provide legal framework for the present administration’s zero tolerance for all forms of gender-based violence.

"The increasing cases of rape and defiling of little children in Ekiti require urgent attention.

"The amendment being sought may include imprisonment and medical castration of offenders, among others not stipulated in the existing law."

Mrs. Fayemi, in her address, said her office has been overwhelmed with complaints relating to all forms of violence, particularly against women.

She said the amendment of the bill has become imperative to make offenders accountable and to be a voice for victims.

She added that the worst form of injustice in any society is for offenders to go unpunished.

Mrs Fayemi said: "To make the law effective, we are going decentralise the referral centres and all the local governments will have one each. You don’t need to come to the state capital before lodging your complaints.

"The GBV management committee has been brought back to attend to complaints. I felt distressed to hear when we returned last year that the committee didn’t meet for four years after we had left.

"I’m not the owner of the law; it is for men and women in Ekiti. We only championed it. It is to protect us, our families and the society against all forms of discrimination so that we can all live life of respect and dignity.

"Violence against women keeps increasing in Ekiti. We appeal to the House to pass this law expeditiously."

Source:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2019/10/ekiti-goes-tough-on-rapists-pushes-for-castration-of-offenders/amp/

1000LIKES:
How can a sane man be harassed by the way a female dresses?

I don't really understand.

1000LIKES:
How can a sane man be harassed by the way a female dresses?

I don't really understand.

bellachibaby:
Buba Galadima, a former ally of President Muhammadu Buhari, has said that the true colour of the president was exposed when he came into power.


According to Galadima, in an interview with New Telegraph, had Buhari worked for the real values he stood for in the past, the country would have made significant progress.

His words, “He (Buhari) knew why he came to politics and why some of us sacrificed everything to ensure that he becomes President but when he became President, he sort of kicked out all those ideals for which we fought for, for which we had been intimidated and for which he suffered trial for treason,” he said.

“So, it is something that is most unfortunate for a statesman like him, saying something and not living to his words.

If we had followed our own programme as envisaged in 2002, Nigeria would have been elsewhere now like Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore, India and a host of so many other advanced countries of the world.

“We shouted for Buhari for many years but that didn’t make him a President until he crossed the borders to meet other people from other parts of the country. He went out to seek the assistance of others… then after he won, he brought out his true colours.

On whether previous Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) governments see truly responsible for the woes of the country, he said;

“Let’s agree with him on what he has said about the situation he met. Why was he voted for? He was voted for because most Nigerians believed that he would take us out of the woods,” he said.

“So it is no excuse. Whenever anybody in this government blames past governments, I just laugh. Who are those among them in the government that were not part of the PDP, including the President himself.”

https://www.newtelegraphng.com/2019/10/power-has-exposed-buharis-true-colour-galadima/

Logobenz:
My mom will always be my everything till the end of time.
I don't know where I will be today or how i will live without her.certainly the worst part of slums.
The sacrifices,support,encouragement,belief,etc...In fact,I am who I am today because of her no doubt about that.
If I tell you then things that woman did for me ehn,you will change that stupid write up of yours or learn to always speak for yourself
You said your mom wasn't educated and bla bla bla...mine stopped at standard 6 too so is that an excuse?
So you think moms don't know how to teach children how to live and become great people?
You sound really limited.

Logobenz:
My mom will always be my everything till the end of time.
I don't know where I will be today or how i will live without her.certainly the worst part of slums.
The sacrifices,support,encouragement,belief,etc...In fact,I am who I am today because of her no doubt about that.
If I tell you then things that woman did for me ehn,you will change that stupid write up of yours or learn to always speak for yourself
You said your mom wasn't educated and bla bla bla...mine stopped at standard 6 too so is that an excuse?
So you think moms don't know how to teach children how to live and become great people?
You sound really limited.

genq:
As a child it is none of your business whether your dad is polygamous or not - this solely between him and your mother. Afterall, you were not there from the beginning. You have no clue what they promised/negotiated with each other. Any child who judges a parent based what the other parent told them is a fool! Yes, your mother may be sweet, but she certainly isn't an angel - both parties are prone to make mistakes over the course of a marriage.

A father deserves maximum respect for the mere fact that he provides the needs of his household. In most Nigerian homes, the man is mainly responsible for putting a roof over the heads of his wife and children, he pays the bills, school fees, feeding, outings and other upkeep with little to no assistance from the mother. It's not easy and the old man should be appreciated for that.

I love my mother - ever so gentle and wise. But my father, gets my ultimate reverence and honour irrespective of whatever mistakes he made in his personal life.

Hamachi:
Get out of here