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Dvea:
Do you finally see where many modern women are coming from? I'm not trying to be a feminist or anything but the very life you are worried about is what many women in the past and presently have been told is the only way to be married. You hear people tell women if you are not willing to give up on yourself and your dreams for your husband then you are not ready to marry. You hear people say being a wife material is a woman who isn't too opinionated and too focused on her comfort.

I'm not disputing that there are bad women but men for too long have hated the idea that women say many men are bad. I once read a group chat between older women those over 50 and one said if women treated men the way men treat women, men would think their wives hate them. These were not the words of GenZ ladies but mothers born over 50 years ago.

You will see after this comment many will attack me for saying modern women also have the same fear as you have now. They won't tackle you for your own fear but will tackle me for saying that your fear is also the fear of many women.

Nonetheless, I stand by the fact that many people have married right to good spouses and their lives have drastically gone from good to great. The point is calming down and not rushing to marry. If it takes till you are 45 to find the right person as a man or woman then wait. Worrying about children, money, respect etc is what has gotten many into horrible marriages.

Until you find a person who makes your single life look sub par stay single so you won't ruin the life or another person's child and they won't ruin yours. And above all let God choose. If you like believe in God or don't, the only person that can truly tell you who a person is and who they'll become is their creator. Even you self don't know yourself well. Humans are fickle by nature so turn to God to help you find the less fickle.

But what do I know I'm just a woman and one with zero wife material in the bag.

So you ain't married?

1Sharon:
Enjoy your white love. Nobody dey drag am with you.

As you eat the meat, don't forget to suck the bones.

Clown ass!!!

You think these are my realities? 😂😂😂

If only you knew!!! But then, i understand these are types of guys approaching you,so it's all good

Fishlips

Lalami3232:

Marriage is a beautiful thing but it doesn't favor most men in Africa

Any country in the world

I watched the Netflix comedy and it was pretty good.

His daughters stayed with him and stood for him. He seemed a great father.

1Sharon:
Black men that date white women are taking the white man's leftovers.

Knew I'd find you here .. saying rubbish as usual

Black man, you no get. White man? He doesn't want you. You have become embittered. Shiloh is going on. Kindly log in online and you will be blessed. Year is almost over oh

Merry100

Join this thread if you can't afford online streams

God bless you

GreatAchiever1:
Funny how you red pillers dey always look forward to the Shiloh conference and una no dey fail to remind these women about the event.

We are always here to help. I'm just trying to help a sister.

Merry100:
And you said you have comprehended the Bible properly. Is this what I asked you?

I will be waiting for those who circulated the misogynistic beliefs to take up the challenge.

Since you are online, can you at least connect to Shiloh online service?

Your miracle awaits you ...no end this year like this na. You need a man. Go get one

Merry100:
I would have wished for zombies to attack you, but zombies are only attracted to brains.

Clutch your bible and head to Shiloh...this year must not pass you oh ..ehn ehn

Merry100:
Many marriage sermons are based on traditional philosophy rather than Biblical principles. Period!

😂🤣🤣 Calling me ugly, useless, and all sorts of names will not change the facts.

Ladies, wake up. The fact that these misogynistic men are crying and attacking me without providing any biblical evidence to counter my statements speaks volumes.

Ladies wake up to do what? Not submit? 🙂🙂🙂🙂. Women are always the greatest enemies of women. See mûmû advice oh

Such a clown you are. Shiloh starts today....I hope you are there asking for help

maziude:
This is very shallow.

Comparing a job relationship to marriage is the highest form of irresponsibility.

See this one...always emotional and never logical.

If you can submit to your pastor and kneel down to him...submit to your boss and do whatever was asked of you.... Why not your husband who paid bride price?

It's a very good analogy but you are too emotional to see that.
Fishlips

pussyphilia:
You were boring indeed. Some men like us love our women dominant and not all the submissive nonsense religion preach to our women

You and who?

Simp

Silentgroper:
not doing due diligence in finding what the cause of ailments is before giving it as a mysterious cause is hwta is not making sense..

You know as well as I do that your approach was wrong. Doing tests till they find out what was wrong won't save him because he died 24 hours later. Some tests take two days to come back...so how will he still be saved? He would still died. A medication to lower the blood pressure could have helped stabilize him but then I'm still leaning towards village people

ReacherSaidNoth:
If that didn't make sense to you, it's no wonder your kind like the explanation of mysterious spiritual attack

You are not making sense too!!!

And if you can believe your phone uses waves to communicate and there is quantum teleportation (if your brain can fathom what that is)...it's stewpid to think there is nothing like raw undiluted voodoo.

Silentgroper:
fever , headaches, vomiting ws the symptoms he was having .. the doctor would use that to narrow it down to the actual ailments of the illness ... That is how it's been done each illness would have a specific test /scans or check up you have to do to be probably diagnose b.. if you no get money then that's your fvcking problem .. Until all these are been done still no headsway only then is it proper to start tagging the condition as mysterious...


If the doctor didn't do that which he probably didn't .. he must've thought headache and fever equals Malaria and typhoid, gave him treatment on that ...


What I'm saying before one tag an illnesses of mysterious, you should clear all doubt medically even if it requires you to do zillions of test ...

You are not making sense bro.

Silentgroper:
How do you know it's a mysterious one ..
Headache with fever is not Malaria .. can be typhoid ..

Can be meningitis or some other ailments ..


When they ran test, did they do full body checks too even brain ones ..

To me , it sound like the boy might have been misdiagnosed ....


If I was the doctor, I'd list up all ailments then can cause fever and headaches they run whatever test or scans to fish the actual one out ..


Even migraines causes fever

List all ailments that causes fever?

Almost every disease known to man causes fever. You think they have money to do all these tests?

durentboi:
finally they have started bombarding the thread.

How one human could potentially kill another without physical contact is really beyond me

Because you are close minded as fûck.

You believe the laws of the universe?
You believe in God right?
You believe in scientific miracles?
You use a phone that utilizes waves to communicate across the world?.
You use a microwave that you don't see the heat but yet your food is cooked?

If you believe in all this and still think the world is devoid of witchcraft and metaphysical shiits... You are a dûmbass

That is no ordinary death

Either the child is abiku or was killed by village people. Being the only child sealed this revelation

Rechargeam247:
You sound delusional though.

You wouldn't know what delulu means if it rose up and bit your tits

So buzz off, fishlips

Rechargeam247:
If you don't post, how are we going to see content to watch🤷🏽‍♂️

Then post yourself and your own shiits and watch them.

Or are achievements scared of you?

drehdinho:
I work as a lawyer. I know the effort and struggles it took me to get to this stage.

I have come to observe that those who envy you most are close relatives and sometimes your partner , who you're far above in all ramifications.

They are quick to taunt you at any given opportunity, particularly when they see you're facing challenges.

I emphasize again, most enemies of you, you're way doing better than they are and they are astounded at all times as to how you manage to stay ahead of them despite the collosal challenges you have been through and over.

I was abandoned by my family and even my partner at the point I needed them the most.

At some points, I was begging for food. They never showed up.

But deep inside of me, I never blamed anyone. Throughout year 2024 there was no day that passed that I never experienced one challenge or another.

I used to tell myself one thing- to whom much is given , much is expected. As a result, I never felt tired of pushing.

In fact, it got to a point that I was totally homeless, as a lawyer. Because I just graduated. I fell into the hands of wrong principals on multiple occasions, but I was able to rigour out my way and ended up finding a beam of light and hope.

If I tell you that now, my partner that was mocking me because of my situation came texting and calling recent weeks ago trying to initiate conversation.

I simply ignored her. Same as my family members. I ignore them like plague.

This is because there thought was for me to perish but God never allowed that to happen to me. I became even more vigorous and intentional with achieving my dream.

I can't count the number of times I would have to starve for 4 -5 days straight.

So, while I'm recovering now, should I start pronouncing my bout of successes to the public with all the things have known and experienced first hand about human beings?

I don't think it's proper and fair to my chi to expose myself that way.

I have a group of few persons who I have specially formed a broadcast list for on Whatsapp. They were those who genuinely assisted me at my trying time.

And those are the ones that know my progress as they demonstrated time and time again that there are still good people in this world.

And I really thank God for putting this people in my life.

You still dey call her 'YOUR PARTNER' ??

BE LIKE SAY YOU LIKE SUFFERING SHA. You better disengage her and find another partner.

purples25:
See this one wey dey use people catch cruise. You're just having fun here, dey go your way.

Sorry Ma!!!

Mariangeles:
I have that effect on people with dark energy.
They abound on this forum.

The see me and scamper.
The ones that dares to dare me suffer the consequences.

Lmaoooo

Clown ass!!!
😂😂😂

Mariangeles:
Watch yourself!

What are you afraid of?

You Mama!! You scare the shit out of me!

🙂🙂🙂

Mariangeles:
What is your zodiac sign?

Kiss my ass babe!!!

Kimo21:
Oga which one be zodiac sign you Dey talk again like say you Dey special in one kind way why you Dey talk like woman?

K

DrAda:
That's strange. How exactly does one hide their scholastic achievements? They are there for you to announce it to the skies. What's the point of getting all that education if noone knows about it?

Hold on, can you carefully tell me what you think scholastic achievements mean? What did you study in school and what degrees, if any, did you obtain?

Lmaooo...you are telling me to do exactly what I don't do. Oh I have so many achievements but NL is also SM. If I start counting them here, I'm fûcked. I prefer to be the punkass, brokeass, redpill troll everyone here thinks I am. It's more fun that way.

Nice engaging with you on this topic but now it's back to troll mode.

Same time tomorrow? See ya!!

DrAda:
Also valid.

Perhaps my star is different from yours because at this point, I have remote jobs that pay better than my current job, all because I 'overshare'.

I really don't know what you all do in your social media space but mine is imply tailored to show off my skill set and scholastic achievements.

Lmaooo .what else you think I post, my bedmatic skills? Scholastic achievements of course. But I learned early enough NEVER to do it again. Stay hidden and grow..that's my motto.

DrAda:
I am used to you contradicting everything I say.

Yeah...I give you shiit most times but on this topic, I'm being real with my last post. SM validation doesn't work for me but I'm glad you are benefitting from it.

maziude:
🤣

You again...still monitoring me abi?

You go taya, fishlips

DrAda:
Please read my posts carefully to understand the message that I am trying to pass along.

The only opinion or validation that I need or listen to is mine and mine alone. I post my achievements because I am very proud of it even though it may make others mad or uncomfortable. I sincerely couldn't care less.

**I just realized that it is you. Figures. I shouldn't have wasted my time replying

Someone cannot play with you again?🙄

DrAda:
Well said.

I am a very private person but noticed that that lifestyle was literally doing nothing for me. I have since restrategized and my God, it has been amazing.

Putting myself out there and forcing people to take notice of what I have done and can do has turned my life around and I am simply not going back.

Never hide your light under a bushel because of outlandish concerns about what people might say or do. You are hurting noone but yourself.

We should learn to change our mentality because the misfortunes we face may have nothing to do with the people around you. Learn to take charge of your life no matter what happens.

Always remember that good and bad happens to us all, so why not live your life to the fullest whilst you still can.

It may work for you and that's fine but don't ever think evil people or village people don't monitor. That's a very wrong assumption.

Seeking online validation by posting my life has never worked for me. It's not in my nature and never worked out well. I excel better when I keep my mouth shut and my hands busy hustling. My star/moon or whatever zodiac attracts too much envy and jealousy from others and I can't keep looking over my shoulder. You seem fine though...good luck