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Martinez39s:
I thought you warned me about that fellow. Redpillers will just be chatting on their thread as usual, clowns will claim they are wiping, crying, complaining, bitçhing, or whatever. Critical thinking skills and maturity are lacking these days.

Don't mind that guy. Smh

I know the fôôl wella.... He is a lowlife. Anytime his life is on a downward spiral, he takes it out on us ..I asked him a simple question and he went on a mad rant, which I enjoyed then slammed him with a 'K'. 😉😉😉

DonroxyII:
Hey Nigga, You Jumped at My Mention & When I provided with Reply Now ... You will Put Your Stewpid "K" And Roll On like a Piece of One Boxer Shit That You are .... ....

Run Along & Face Ya Square ... Nairaland E-Rat !

Will Smith Is an Adult to Manage his life as he demfit... You might see a Prostitutes, Who.re, Hoe But Another Man might see a Wife, Patner, Friend Whatdafvc ... even ashawo self get Bf and no matter how much you are Street smart reach, you can be still be gamed anytime anyday .... It's Not Possible to be all time High ... at some point you wanna chill with someone but laslas Shit Happens & everyone moves On except Crycry Babies Always Wimping Ontop Women as if that's a Job ...

Women are to Wimp Ontop Men but when full grown Men dedicated their entire existence to Women This, Women That.. women Who.re as if Will Smith Himself ain't a Fvckerholics ....

You get to a point in life kids all this trash shall mean nothing and when hish happen which is part of life, you just dust it & Move on ...

You know you gatz no Brain for intellectual post ... Just Run Off ... ... I'm done with E-Fools!

Since Ashawo thread, you never grow up on bit... Running around Nairaland with "K" .. Fool!

K

Merry100:
But this is really toxic. After shouting at me and telling me to go and sit down somewhere, you are still expecting me to prepare pounded yam, efo riro, and ogufe for you.

You must be naive to think that their age is the problem.

It's toxic to ask you to make food after I asked you to sit down? Lol...una don abuse this toxic word too much... What then do I call 'go and hit your head on the wall' as you said....sexy?

Lol...that you don't think their age is the problem is the height of naivety.

Merry100:
Sorry dear, that one too harsh. Instead, kneel down and raise your hands.

Where in my comment did I say that women 35 years and older are in need of husbands, please marry them? All this crying no necessary; just carry cord go dey flog the men wey dey marry them.

Nah ...still violent. Whatever happened to 'come to the table, I have prepared your pounded yam and efo riro soup and goat meat, enjoy' why must yours involve violence?

Lmaooo ...you must be naive to think Shiloh and other religious gatherings have a higher population of women because they love Jesus more than men! No matter how you paint them, they need husbands and urgently too.

DonroxyII:
Why would you be wimping for another Man ... Prostitutes, LovePeddler... Hish Hash .. Jesus .. what's the redpilling doing to you .....

Is Will Smith a Virgin When He Husband Jada ??

A LovePeddler Marries a LovePeddler .... Fvck That Sheee & Face Ya Own Sheeee ....

What's this one saying again?

So Will Smith is not entitled to loyalty from his own wife by treating her like a queen?

dhiqson:


They don't listen
They always believe theirs is different



Sigh

He has yet to donate his kidney...maybe then she will recognize what he did for her

Ok..have played enough on this thread.

Sayonara Mudafuckers!!!

advanceDNA:
U are just using double standard....

The father ddnt support him when he need more studies abroad.... you are claiming that's okay because the father already supported him for bachelors....

But now it's not okay that the son pays him monthly allowance...why should the son do unnecessary extra.....the father should be okay with monthly salary just as he expected his son to be okay with bachelors...

Lol..it's always funny when y'all fighting over this dude's story. He has clearly made up his mind on who to love more between his mum and dad. He would never buy a car for his dad.

I'm tired of advising!!!

Merry100:
You self go and hit your head on the wall.

I am not even 30 yet, but that is not the point. Stop assuming that you represent all men. Women aged 35 and older are comfortably getting married.

Nah why you never marry na...very violent woman asking me to hit my head on a wall. Who wan marry such violent, animalistic tendencies.

We don't want your narrative. We won't marry women older than 35. Do your worst!!!

Karleb:
Go fuccc.k yourself!

Karleb....don't annoy me today...I'm warning you..I will..😡

Karleb:
Suspect is an irresponsible male that cannot sacrifice his comfort temporarily for the better good of his own child.

So you are blind to all he did for his child since birth? 400k for USA trip nko?

The jewellery and land the mum sold, where did you think the money came from?

The girls here called it right on you guys...you will blame kids who don't take care of their dads in old age yet you forget that's what you doing right now.

I hope you don't have kids sha

Karleb:
I find it funny that it's people that give so little that demand the most. I am sure that the mum would never ask him to buy her a car.

On God, what I hate most in this world is irresponsibility.

Karleb if you don't shût it right now ..I will...😡

tensazangetsu20:
It's as good as he was never there as he never did anything

Ok..we have heard you...no go away and go eat bitterleaf soup..because you clearly have daddy issues

Karleb:
Maybe you should take your rant to the irresponsible and entitled. I know a portion of my salary that goes to my siblings per month. I don't even have to do it but I know I have to because they are my blood. I also know how much I have designated from the salary I have not even received. They are not my children o.

It's why I absolutely hate it when I see dads who can't sacrifice their comfort temporarily for their children that did not asked to be born.

As an uncle, I have done more than all my uncles combined and I am just starting.

If you think training your own child to university level deserves an accolade. Then okay.

Man! Take this your negative energy away.

Shût ya ass up. You are a bitter soul. You came with all the negative energy and yet you blaming others for shiit

Beremx:
correct pikin!

Your mum needs the car more. You can't buy car for your father and another woman will be enjoying it. God forbid!! If your father needs a car desperately, he should sell his properties to buy one.

Nonsense

See this bitterleaf and her long mouth!!

E pain am well

amazinghands:
I appreciate everyone’s comments and suggestions. Just to provide more context: I have only one sibling, and I am of the opinion that he should be able to do more, given how flamboyant he has been with his spending. The main reason I believe he asked for the car is that my mum recently celebrated a lavish birthday (and he likely suspects I was the one who funded it).

When he asked me for the car, I arranged a meeting with him and my brother to discuss his finances (specifically how he manages and collects rent from his properties). Based on what I knew about his financial situation before I left Nigeria, I honestly don’t believe he’s in a bad position. However, he couldn’t give me a clear answer during the conversation and ended up breaking down in tears.

The real issue is that I can only afford to buy one car, and that will undoubtedly go to my mum. I am aware that this decision will likely further strain our relationship.

I understand you.

But I still maintain my stand. You can give your mum a car but find the money and buy your dad one too. That man provided for you when you knew nothing. All I see from your posts are emotions about what he didn't do. What about what he has DONE FOR YOU.
Anyways...it's your money. Have fun

1Sharon:
Well well well.

Another alienated offspring from a polygamous home, what else is new?

"Men are polygamous in nature"

Ride on !

Shût it, mgbeke

Maeve7:
Did I say he never supported him? He supported him but refused to support him when his son had the opportunity to move abroad because his new wife was more important to him. His mother, on the other hand, sold what she had because her son was more important than anything else. See the difference.

Accordingly, the son still supports his father. And like his father, he also has the right to say no when he wants.

I would rather cut off my own hand than give my father a car so that he can drive around his new wife. His wife is my mother, anyone else is not welcome into the family. If they happen to have children, I won’t even meet them.

You reap what you sow.

Lol..bitter soul.

My own disappointment is in the multitude of men on this thread who yelled at him to cut off his support. They forgot that the dad took care of him from birth but because he refused to send him to Ukraine and USA(he still gave 400k), then he shouldn't be taken care of. I'm ashamed for you men or you simps. Because y'all reasoning with emotions,not logic....typical womanish traits. You lots have been typically brainwashed by your moms to see your dad in a bad light and yet y'all would say kids don't take care of their fathers at old age. You lots are doing the exact same thing.
Some of the girls saw that too and pointed it out. Kindly
get your heads out of your asses

OP... Take care of your father ..buy him a car and do what you can afford for him. Simple.

Klass99:
I find it interesting that most of the commenters above me are men with similar daddy issues. As in, sons and fathers not getting along well, sons treating their mothers better and not wanting to help their fathers.

The same men will open their mouths waaa tomorrow to say marriage does not benefit men, men get neglected in old age, only women/mothers are looked after and only they get to travel, blah, blah, blah.

Meanwhile sons are the ones neglecting fathers and actively participating in this narrative they push out about men being neglected and marriage not benefiting men. Men doing men!

They talk from both sides of their mouths or should I say all sides of their mouths, never taking a stance and always being all over the place. Today it is ABC, tomorrow it is XYZ, next tomorrow it is KLM and they say they are logical.

You have a point.
I saw the posts from men and was disappointed but then they are the simps, not the redpillers. So let them croak but they don't represent us. I ain't neglecting my dad ...not is it a redpill tenet.

Merry100:
I agree that almost every woman have had one or more men who showed them genuine love, but there is nothing wrong with setting standards and waiting for the right time.

Almost every married man, even those who have turned their wives into punching bags or who constantly mistreat them, was once caring toward their wives. I doubt any woman would agree to marry a man who is uncaring or shows her hatred.

When will people understand that life is not black and white? It is better for a woman to have her own money and not take chances. I know women who have wealthy husbands that are not very involved in their children's lives, but they are financially secure themselves, so they are handling the responsibilities on their own and living peacefully with their husbands.

Please go and sit down somewhere jor

Your attempts to defend the topic revealed your own status as someone older than 35. We don't care ok but don't try to guilt trip men into choosing younger ladies over y'all.

Villa12:
only poor men uses simp in his statement. No one is the cause of your poverty. If you like shout simp from now till forever, men wey get money still dey spend on women and marriage dey happen every Saturday. Na poverty dey do you and your fellow poor alpha

See as ravencstar exposed your yansh. 🤣🤣🤣

You earned 40k as salary, was begging for 15k to fix the leaky roof in your family house...and yet you have been calling others broke and yelling poor, poor, poor..like a broken record.

See your life outside. I don screenshot ravencstar post....I go use am pepper you well.

purples25:
Mention the different people and prove their closeness to the family. Since you're working with facts.

You must be really jobless and lazy if you think I'd start my Monday with such trivial shiiit. You have Google and NL to help you out. I have pointed you in the right directions.

purples25:
My own is not true but your own version is sure. See bias. You too are sure she ditched him and not her own account of the story.

Because my version has been corroborated more than 10 times by different people close to the family while yours came from beer parlors and hair salons.

Villa12:
continue funking for free jare while we continue getting richer. I wish you what you wish yourself.

Lol...nah...she will still fûck me in your cousin's house...and also give me his money and take care of the bastards I give her too, using his money.

Let's put his money to good use😉

grandstar:
Wrong.

When levels changed the man appeared. She living prior to this as a single mother of 2 kids.

She gave the reasons why the marriage.

We still need to listen to his side but if he did beat his wife with a belt, I have no respect for him

You are a big fat liar!!! He never left her prior to fame. Naso una go dey talk yamayama without proof.

purples25:
And how did the man treat her when she had nothing?

Lesson, that woman you think you can trash around today because she is helpless under you, can have more than you ever dreamed of tomorrow. Never take her for granted because she is helpless today.

How did you know how she was treated pre-fame? You dey live in their house abi? At least we all saw she ditched him upon fame...went offline and now she is seeking for relevance. You are the one who needs to learn the simple lesson she talked of...'never ever turn your back on family and people who loved you, without them, life ain't shiit'

You think the husband is not with another woman now abi and talking care of their child? What exactly does she now have, a broadcast job, given to her by a MAN! if we are so bad as you claim, no man go touch her after her bullshit

purples25:
Why are people mentioning a husband that allegedly never married her properly, beat and mistreated her? So if she made it in life despite all he did, she should throw away the success and go and sit under him, and wait until he makes it. And sit under his shadow until he makes it more than her, or continues to put her under him if he doesn't make it. And endure more abuse from the mother in law who will definitely be more jealous now.

Some of these men sef, your star mustn't shine more than theirs, else.

Go.and sit down jor

So you didn't hear when she left him as soon as she became rich? Or is it today we hear of women behaving abnormally just because of little fame and power?

You see wetin I dey talk?

She rose to fame and forgot her husband...got duped and now dey pretend as if she be good woman.

Fame and power always make women mád!!!

dontrulee:
Their entitlement mentality baffles me.
That's how one of them sent me aza that I should pay for her nails. I was like, for what? Even if I have the money, I'm not sending anything.

Lmaoo...you guys are funny.

Any woman who asks me that will look at my eyes and see 1000 years of wrath and quickly turn the request to 'i will ask my father'

Villa12:
at least you're broke

At least I fûcked her for free and your cousin paid 1.5M for that. Did I tell you at one time my diick slipped out and she put it back, in her ass?🤣🤣

Villa12:
my cousin sister got married at 37 to a 40 years old man doing fine for himself. Only on social media men don't want single mothers, 35+ single girls, divorced women, widow etc. It is a different thing in real life

Lmaoooo....now I see why you are so ticked off....