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maziude:
You got all that from his post? Maybe read his post again without your preloaded emotions.

The army is not a private security company.

Just shows you are shallow-minded and pea-brained.

I'm done engaging you

maziude:
Again, the army’s job is not for private security. The issues here are private/civil- it’s either the police or the court not the army’s responsibility.

To think some of you are actually suggesting that she use her position in the army for personal disputes is beyond belief.

Like wtf

Just shût it..it's your hypocrisy that disgusts the hell out of me

maziude:
You are part of the problem. You are using emotions to justify a wrong.

If he needs help, there are people called police and a place called a law court.

The army’s purpose is not to solve personal problems or personal vendetta.

Y’all are quick to scream ‘human rights’ if it was someone else being bundled by the army.

Stop the hypocrisy .

What are you talking about? I'm saying a man is complaining that his wife treats him like a baby and his own son almost died but she didn't care and you still think that man is crying about some police case? He is trapped and subjugated and the thread is his way of crying out.

You lots amazed me because you are just too emotional to read between the lines

N.B: On the police and army case...I think you are very màd. So if the woman is married to OP who is a soldier and is maltreated or her boy is beaten almost to death, WILL YOU ASK HER TO GO TO THE POLICE? Nope. You will call the soldier husband names for not protecting his wife. So now that the script is flipped, you are saying rubbish. Una mãd for this forum sha

emmaodet:
You are really really strong and discipline bro.
I admire your courage.
Only few men will decline such offer.
If you had taken it, you would have really regretted it.

Thanks boss.

That time, I preferred to starve rather than take her offer. She just wanted a man to give her belle and be under her thumb and the UK offer was the lure. I'm sure she would either divorce me or turn me into a slave. She was raised by a single mom and had no fatherly influence.

MadamVanessa:



After beating poverty to coma and achieving so much for myself, I came to a profound realization that life is truly fleeting. Its so worrisome to see that a lot of people engages In various vices just to make money, it all good honestly, but dose it truly worth it? Having money legitimately is the goal but killing and doing all sort of unethical things just to make money is foolery and after doing all these you'll realize that it wasn't worth it at all, that it's all vanity. I was there and I regret it every bit of it. I have never kill but I did a lot of terrible things . God have mercy on me.

God won't have mercy on your ass. You did so many terrible things that I know of and you are going to hell!!! 👿

Karlifate:
The thread is on fire 🔥🔥🔥

My brothers are already in the Yuletide mood.

😊😊😊

This thread disgusts me. Not only how the men responded like he-goats and never considered OP side but how men that speak against emotional abuse are made fun of.

He clearly needs help and y'all men(I skipped the girls because of their emotional nature) are making fun of him?

Na men dey do men

Pills, Pills, Pills EVERYWHERE!!!!


Y'all are doing well!!!

What a way to start the day!!! 😁

emmaodet:
I have a God-son who i do send errands regularly and also do give advice occasionally.
Due to scarcity and struggling, he ended up dating a single mother of 1....A young man that was changing girls during his active days when still collecting money from parent and elder ones abroad to flex but after graduation, everything stopped.
Rather than calling family members for help and regular finance, now they scold him of being lazy and should be the one working and atleast giving back to his mother.
Life starts at the end of our comfort zone.......Going forward, his life started spiraling downward.
From a guy dating young hot girls to a man struggling and begging to tame down a single mother of 1.
Red flag 1...............................relocated to lagos for job search and staying with the lady.
On no condition should you pack to a lady's house to be feeding you and housing you.
Things started smoothly initially but as time goes on and he was struggling with a 30k private school teaching in lagos while lady selling okirika in market, she started drawing back.
Became moody, occasional mood swings, followed by closing legs ....no more sex followed by occasional outburst, insults, quarrels etc
I know how many times he has called me with tears, how he has sacrificed alot for the lady. How the lady was crying and begging for him not to dump her at their initial dating stage because she is a single mother and now, the lady went for a 3 months course in home care and working in Lekki as a house girl with her own BQ earning 150k per month.
Now lady is tired of him and says she is no more interested. He is lazy and unambitious blah blah blah
I just pity him

I thank my stars for the redpill.

I am normally a die-hard hustler on a norm but the redpill made me an independent dude. There is no how I'd stay with such a woman and not hustle harder and make more money or I'd rather not stay with her at all. The moment a man leaves his goals and dreams because a woman asks him not to leave her or whatever, just know that man is finished and the woman will punish him severely. I can count many men who had opportunities to travel out and because of love and mumu tears, they stayed behind and soon enough either the girls dumped them or traveled out without telling their loving boyfriends 🤣🤣🤣.

Weird right? Here is how a woman thinks:

If he can leave his success and progress to stay with me, then he is weak and easily controlled. Who but a fool will leave his path to succeed and rather be swayed by my tears, instead of PRIORTIZING HIMSELF. if he can be swayed by me, then other girls can sway him and he is thus not special.

A woman would cry and beg for forgiveness after cheating but if you forgive her, she will cheat again and again...why? Because she knows she shouldn't ever be forgiven for that and will think you foolish for not prioritizing yourself as the male, the alpha and the boss. Same as the guy who stayed with this single mama for love. Women don't reason like that for long. I once said it here that most men will see the hidden side of their wives if they provide nothing for a year and the wives pay all the bills. Women are not made to carry such burdens for long and their so-called love will evaporate like iso-ewa (beans scented fart).
The girl already saw him as a leech the moment he couldn't provide and she had more money. Lol...God forgive me but it is just 150k she dey earn now oh...what if it's one million? She go dey shiit on his head na.

Let me share my story.

In 2021... One nurse dey on my case. She begged me to marry her and give her belle. But I had reservations because I wasn't so buoyant and she had major character issues. This lady can abuse the dead for any little thing and abused her own mother in front of me. She got a job in the UK as a nurse and promised to bring me along...if I am ready to marry her. I bluntly refused and said I'm not marrying her. She went to the UK and came after 3 months to beg me again. I said NOPE. I knew that SHEGE PRO MAX awaited me if I ever let her sponsor me. I will not only suffer her emotional abuse but I will be disrespecting my own ancestors by thinking my destiny is only tied to her help and I couldn't make it without her. She went back angry that I refused. I thank God for where I am today which is 1000 times better than 2021.
It would have been a death sentence to move in with her, marry her, impregnate her..when I had no job. In Naija, she had only Nursing School certification but will keeping saying no man can control her and she can't cook on some days and I will follow her to the UK with that mindset? Or her fiery temper that makes her abuse even her mother?

So redpillers, hustle harder. If you have no option at all....you can consider her help but always hustle and keep hustling till you save enough to move out of her house. Women have very long memories of real and imaginary help they render. They will never forget every kobo spent on you but will ask you 'what have you even done for me' even if you had spent a million dollars.

I rest my case

JESHAL007 Is the Redpill James Bond. Giving it tat tat tat to everyone hot hot!!


🙂🙂🙂🙂

emmaodet:
Na the word "shege" wey you dey always use dey sweet me pass

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ Zooposki...

Married men live longer?

That's trash.

Dittodat:

No mind that one forming Margaret Thatcher

If she sees any man now, she go rape am

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Divorced late night newspaper has spoken ..
Loneliness dey kill you but you dey form....shiooiir

Mom007:
Is that the dad or the husband?

Jealousy is the next step before witchcraft....

ClitRaider:
It's not bay force to marry their daughter na.
Why not dash him your own sister for free?

He is not marrying her again....so why are you still crying?

Clown

Extra30:
Omorr see English wey woman write. I love this comment, I love your Grammer. Chai

So na her grammar you want chop?

Augustine2244:
Madman,who is following you?
Lol! Sounding exactly like the madman roaming the streets of my residential area in PH, ranting at nobody like this " stop following me,stop following me".

K

JESHAL007:
https://www.nairaland.com/8281672/man-wants-100m-2-cars

@luminiouz
@Martinez39s

Use money game to attract, not chase, this simp bastard invested heavily, is it because of sex, just sex, or she's attractive and lovely

Betas would be used even if they are billionaires or paupers

Lolz

Na mumu na...
I saw the post and just shook my head. Nigga may not even have an investment.

That he came online to beg strangers to intervene showed his so simpified!!!

He learnt the hard way

Sonnobax15:

Op,I think you're a sensible banny,even tho I'm not completely sure of that...

You see,that's one of the major challenges we, transporters pass through in the hands of those useless and wayward guys who think having a big car has just made them to arrive in Life . Bashed the car of one the other day and he came down from his car and start ranting.....Nigha even threatened to break my windscreen . It was the banny who was with the mad cow in his car that later calmed him down.......

Some guys dey over do cha, especially when they are with a low budget banny whom they are trying to impress

You bashed his car and he should do thanksgiving? 🙄🙄🙄

Mariangeles:
Onijogbon oshi!

🤣🤣🤣

Oya e don do.... Losun!!!

Mariangeles:
Try dey rest once once, make hand for no touch you.
F'ara buruku b'ale!

Fimile jor!!! Yen yen yen. .

Mariangeles:
Omg! I would totally do the same.
And the best part is that all the ingredients for jollof rice can be found anywhere around the world.

There's no business like food business.

Nah why your head big.

Foodie oshi!!🤣

JESHAL007:
Exactly that's why guys should not take women matter especially sex as a do or die, even when you experience rejection it's not a big deal, see just make sure you are not in a position that you are wasting your time with women that don't enjoy you as much as you enjoy them , women are always having sex, they might not Bleep you but they are currently fvcking someone, that why don't put women on the pedestal, she's not special, majority are not virgins, even virgins are not special too, they have guys they crush and lust after, if the opportunity presents itself they would open toto


Don't let your esteem be built around ego of smashing, I understand it's not easy because we have testerones which makes us Hot 24/7 and it's a burden to extremely intelligent and redpilled individuals

Just remember when dealing with her someone has seen her naked, she's not a big deal no matter how cute, attractive, innocent, pleasant she is, she's not special

Good 💯

JESHAL007:
Dudes are fuvking shege out of that girl you think is so innocent or precious, that gal you just like because of your feelings of attraction, someone is tired of her nonsense and nakednesss

I have said this many many times on the thread.

No matter how angelic she looks or beautiful she is, unless she is a virgin... someone somewhere has fûcked,nutted on her face and had his diick returned to her pussy using her hand after it slipped out and that same someone...is very very bored and tired of her!!!

Anytime you wanna put that angelic-looking girl on a high stand... remember that and that when she farts after eating beans, that shiit don't smell like roses.

Pukkalolo:
True. Engaging constant sex can make you LESS productive

But…. still,

You can actually be engaging in constant sex and still be productive. Like, Faboosuarez pointed out: “There were ferocious warriors back then that loved partying, fornicating and drinking and they were great and we still mention them till today.”

There are actually many great men in the past who were engaging in constant sex but still achieving great things.

For example, when you think of the famous physics guru Albert Einstein, you immediately imagine him to be this nerdy introverted 'lonely' scientist who's obsessed with his work..... but it turns out that,

It's quite the opposite.

In reality, he was a "ladies man" even before he got famous.

Albert Einstein was once asked to explain the general theory of relativity, he said, "Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour, but sit with a pretty girl for an hour and it seems like a minute.

While Einstein was in high institution, after studying hard during the day and doing experiments in the lab, instead of jerking off, he'd go out and socialize with real women to cool off his brain. At that time, thank God there was no phone, socal media, porn....

Einstein was quite socially suave and quite capable of seducing women, something he did often and to an intense degree. From the stories I read about him, Einstein knew how to make women feel "something." So he dropped their panties as a result.

But despite his sexual escape, he was far more productive than many men. Einstein created the theory of relativity and quantum mechanics.... The two breakthroughs in understanding of the world around us in all of human history. Most inventions came from that idea.

Einstein single-handedly created modern physics. That's why when you study physics, his name shows up all the time.

Most scholars refer to Albert Einstein as the god father of inventions…despite that fact he was busy engaging in constant sex. Albert Einstein even cheated on his wife many times.

Even today, there are many productive fellas: artists, athletic, actors, business men, entrepreneur, rappers, singers and so on who engage in constant sex but are still productive, i.e producing results.

Anyways,

The bolded statement would be more powerful if you rephrased it as, There's no way a man would be chasing pussy and be productive.

That's because chasing pussy is beta. If you are chasing pussy, it means you view pussy as a trophy to win. That's weak.

You don't chase pussy, you instead become the kind MAN who just naturally gets pussy without him chasing it.

Lovely take

Let me rephrase the last couple of paragraphs.

'There is no way a man who chases ONLY pussy would be productive. A man who chases his DREAMS would naturally get pussy as a bonus'

PinkNature:
oga go and hustle. What exactly is nice about those points?

K

JESHAL007:
If you married a woman who wasn't obsessed with wanting to please you with every fiber of her being

Who instead treats you like someone who's merely tolerated that must please her

Congratulations, you played yourself.

You're not the man she loves, just the one she settled for.

Damn right!!! 👍

Martinez39s:
The werey thinks I'm scared of him or backbiting him. Emotional nuisances will always construct the perception that they will like to have and wish is true, especially the one that indulges and conforms to their feelings towards someone.

Very soon, if he chooses to ignore us and we later mention him or reference him when he does something foolish or unacceptable, he will be convinced we are dissing him because we are pained and looking for a way to make him triggered or respond... even though we don't really give a śhit like that. Egbon has already concluded that your generous supply of vitamin K's is a cowardly move meant to elude him.

In addition to all these, he is also being foolish or feigning ignorance as to why I refer to this thread as a redpillers' thread. Need I explain? No, I needn't.

Anyway, in case your store is running out of vitamin K's, here is a generous donation from my pharmaceutical company. These should last the cretin for a year.

Lmaooooo

You finished me with those pictures.

Nice one bro.😉

DonroxyII:
I don Edit am .. !

K

DonroxyII:
Nigga, I ain't Fellow ... Come to Me Directly Stop Backbiting Me with That E-Fool(Luminouz) ..

Redpilling is a Thread for all Nairaland to Contribute... There is Nothing Like My Thread, Our Thread in Public Forum ... You can Move it to Private Place & We go comot here !

Philosophies come and Go ...

Every Philosophies in Life Faces Adjustments & But Any Excessive Of Any Stupidities Makes The Bearer Useless Themselves!

Bitching Over Women or Forming Odogwu On How You Conquered The Opposite Weaker Sex is not an Achievement, That's a Simping Shit In Itself ...!

K

DonroxyII:
..
Online Muscle ...

K