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elbulk:
If her battles don't make sense, he most likely won't. How come he's always having battles, says a lot about him

Mûmû...naso men dey do inside marriage abi? Nah today men dey die for wahala created by women?

Simp

jessylaurel:
It’s quite laughable 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣 he thought he’s getting married to mc oluomo 🤣

Let's see the roles reversed and we'll see if you will still be laughing ..
Hypocrite oshi!

themanderon:
Help you out in what way? So you are encouraging her to come and intimidate those you have problems with? She has told you the right thing to do which is involving the policemen or do you want to get her into trouble?
I am sure you heard the investigation going on against the army general whose boys beat up a man? Don't encourage her to break the law please. She is an army officer meant to protect the territorial integrity of Nigeria not to settle scores between civilians.

Mûmû...so her son can be beaten to death and she will be happy.

It's either the boy is never her child or she never loved her husband. There is no woman on earth that will be so indifferent to her family affairs like that. So what dafuq you talking about, pûnk?

iamL:
Really? So if you kill or rape someone your wife should support you because you are her husband,how are you different from Nigeria leaders?

Tell us what your boy did that his own mother refused to help him. Maybe he is one of those that feel that he can do anything because his mom is in the army.

It is so easy to know most women can't reason logically. Look at the trash you wrote for God's sake. If the roles were reversed, this same you will be screaming that the man is so cruel to be indifferent to his wife's son almost beaten to death. You will call him names and abuse him and right here on NL, you will curse him join. You women always support the narrative that benefits your emotions and frankly that sûcks ass and swallows.

So if the boy was beaten to death, you will be happy or blame the man again?

Smartb0y:
These are the simps of the world
And very dangerous,be careful around them.
They're worse than women.

Genuine men are hard to find these days.

The good thing is that it's too easy to spot these weak effeminate guys.
They're so proud of their effeminate nature. In their mind,they know how to roll with women.
I personally find them very pitiable because they have no idea what they're in for.

Bro...you said it all....

I avoid such men like a plague. I give them a piece of my mind and if they still don't change(which most won't) I just ignore them and move on.

Such men are not only dangerous as friends but also may poison your food or drink.

Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,


The True Character of a Man is tested by a Woman.

Most men lack character around women...

...because most men rather throw you under, just to impress a woman with their alpha status. 😂

I detest this like mad and always change it for the men.

You see men talking shiit to you or pulling you down once a woman is around and they say 'but na joke na' and I wonder why I am not fûcking laughing.

How I handle such men? I stare at them fixedly and just walk away, ignoring them and the girl they so desperately want to impress. Guys will snitch on their friends to get pussy or act tough so the girl can say yes.

Most times, the girls always tell me such men disgust them.

Wrackcityoffici:
The issue here is showing concern, whether as an army or a toilet cleaner, she is simply non challant… we are all humans at the end of the day, biden just signed a pardon for his son, you can’t care for someone and not do everything in your power to protect them, no one is saying she should be out beating someone, but you make efforts to protect your family, family over everything…she clearly had the DPO’s number, knowing if ahead placed the call, the case would be taken more seriously than when a civilian makes that report…IDK if she was a toilet cleaner, the effort to protect your family… it’s a different thing when your family abuse other people’s rights…there is definitely more to the story, noone can truly be certain till we hear from both parties

You dey mind that mûmû. If the roles were reversed, she would raise hell and say the man is not caring. Rubbish

maziude:
You got all that from his post? Maybe read his post again without your preloaded emotions.

The army is not a private security company.

Just shows you are shallow-minded and pea-brained.

I'm done engaging you

maziude:
Again, the army’s job is not for private security. The issues here are private/civil- it’s either the police or the court not the army’s responsibility.

To think some of you are actually suggesting that she use her position in the army for personal disputes is beyond belief.

Like wtf

Just shût it..it's your hypocrisy that disgusts the hell out of me

maziude:
You are part of the problem. You are using emotions to justify a wrong.

If he needs help, there are people called police and a place called a law court.

The army’s purpose is not to solve personal problems or personal vendetta.

Y’all are quick to scream ‘human rights’ if it was someone else being bundled by the army.

Stop the hypocrisy .

What are you talking about? I'm saying a man is complaining that his wife treats him like a baby and his own son almost died but she didn't care and you still think that man is crying about some police case? He is trapped and subjugated and the thread is his way of crying out.

You lots amazed me because you are just too emotional to read between the lines

N.B: On the police and army case...I think you are very màd. So if the woman is married to OP who is a soldier and is maltreated or her boy is beaten almost to death, WILL YOU ASK HER TO GO TO THE POLICE? Nope. You will call the soldier husband names for not protecting his wife. So now that the script is flipped, you are saying rubbish. Una mãd for this forum sha

emmaodet:
You are really really strong and discipline bro.
I admire your courage.
Only few men will decline such offer.
If you had taken it, you would have really regretted it.

Thanks boss.

That time, I preferred to starve rather than take her offer. She just wanted a man to give her belle and be under her thumb and the UK offer was the lure. I'm sure she would either divorce me or turn me into a slave. She was raised by a single mom and had no fatherly influence.

MadamVanessa:



After beating poverty to coma and achieving so much for myself, I came to a profound realization that life is truly fleeting. Its so worrisome to see that a lot of people engages In various vices just to make money, it all good honestly, but dose it truly worth it? Having money legitimately is the goal but killing and doing all sort of unethical things just to make money is foolery and after doing all these you'll realize that it wasn't worth it at all, that it's all vanity. I was there and I regret it every bit of it. I have never kill but I did a lot of terrible things . God have mercy on me.

God won't have mercy on your ass. You did so many terrible things that I know of and you are going to hell!!! 👿

Karlifate:
The thread is on fire 🔥🔥🔥

My brothers are already in the Yuletide mood.

😊😊😊

This thread disgusts me. Not only how the men responded like he-goats and never considered OP side but how men that speak against emotional abuse are made fun of.

He clearly needs help and y'all men(I skipped the girls because of their emotional nature) are making fun of him?

Na men dey do men

Pills, Pills, Pills EVERYWHERE!!!!


Y'all are doing well!!!

What a way to start the day!!! 😁

emmaodet:
I have a God-son who i do send errands regularly and also do give advice occasionally.
Due to scarcity and struggling, he ended up dating a single mother of 1....A young man that was changing girls during his active days when still collecting money from parent and elder ones abroad to flex but after graduation, everything stopped.
Rather than calling family members for help and regular finance, now they scold him of being lazy and should be the one working and atleast giving back to his mother.
Life starts at the end of our comfort zone.......Going forward, his life started spiraling downward.
From a guy dating young hot girls to a man struggling and begging to tame down a single mother of 1.
Red flag 1...............................relocated to lagos for job search and staying with the lady.
On no condition should you pack to a lady's house to be feeding you and housing you.
Things started smoothly initially but as time goes on and he was struggling with a 30k private school teaching in lagos while lady selling okirika in market, she started drawing back.
Became moody, occasional mood swings, followed by closing legs ....no more sex followed by occasional outburst, insults, quarrels etc
I know how many times he has called me with tears, how he has sacrificed alot for the lady. How the lady was crying and begging for him not to dump her at their initial dating stage because she is a single mother and now, the lady went for a 3 months course in home care and working in Lekki as a house girl with her own BQ earning 150k per month.
Now lady is tired of him and says she is no more interested. He is lazy and unambitious blah blah blah
I just pity him

I thank my stars for the redpill.

I am normally a die-hard hustler on a norm but the redpill made me an independent dude. There is no how I'd stay with such a woman and not hustle harder and make more money or I'd rather not stay with her at all. The moment a man leaves his goals and dreams because a woman asks him not to leave her or whatever, just know that man is finished and the woman will punish him severely. I can count many men who had opportunities to travel out and because of love and mumu tears, they stayed behind and soon enough either the girls dumped them or traveled out without telling their loving boyfriends 🤣🤣🤣.

Weird right? Here is how a woman thinks:

If he can leave his success and progress to stay with me, then he is weak and easily controlled. Who but a fool will leave his path to succeed and rather be swayed by my tears, instead of PRIORTIZING HIMSELF. if he can be swayed by me, then other girls can sway him and he is thus not special.

A woman would cry and beg for forgiveness after cheating but if you forgive her, she will cheat again and again...why? Because she knows she shouldn't ever be forgiven for that and will think you foolish for not prioritizing yourself as the male, the alpha and the boss. Same as the guy who stayed with this single mama for love. Women don't reason like that for long. I once said it here that most men will see the hidden side of their wives if they provide nothing for a year and the wives pay all the bills. Women are not made to carry such burdens for long and their so-called love will evaporate like iso-ewa (beans scented fart).
The girl already saw him as a leech the moment he couldn't provide and she had more money. Lol...God forgive me but it is just 150k she dey earn now oh...what if it's one million? She go dey shiit on his head na.

Let me share my story.

In 2021... One nurse dey on my case. She begged me to marry her and give her belle. But I had reservations because I wasn't so buoyant and she had major character issues. This lady can abuse the dead for any little thing and abused her own mother in front of me. She got a job in the UK as a nurse and promised to bring me along...if I am ready to marry her. I bluntly refused and said I'm not marrying her. She went to the UK and came after 3 months to beg me again. I said NOPE. I knew that SHEGE PRO MAX awaited me if I ever let her sponsor me. I will not only suffer her emotional abuse but I will be disrespecting my own ancestors by thinking my destiny is only tied to her help and I couldn't make it without her. She went back angry that I refused. I thank God for where I am today which is 1000 times better than 2021.
It would have been a death sentence to move in with her, marry her, impregnate her..when I had no job. In Naija, she had only Nursing School certification but will keeping saying no man can control her and she can't cook on some days and I will follow her to the UK with that mindset? Or her fiery temper that makes her abuse even her mother?

So redpillers, hustle harder. If you have no option at all....you can consider her help but always hustle and keep hustling till you save enough to move out of her house. Women have very long memories of real and imaginary help they render. They will never forget every kobo spent on you but will ask you 'what have you even done for me' even if you had spent a million dollars.

I rest my case

JESHAL007 Is the Redpill James Bond. Giving it tat tat tat to everyone hot hot!!


🙂🙂🙂🙂

emmaodet:
Na the word "shege" wey you dey always use dey sweet me pass

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ Zooposki...

Married men live longer?

That's trash.

Dittodat:

No mind that one forming Margaret Thatcher

If she sees any man now, she go rape am

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Divorced late night newspaper has spoken ..
Loneliness dey kill you but you dey form....shiooiir

Mom007:
Is that the dad or the husband?

Jealousy is the next step before witchcraft....

ClitRaider:
It's not bay force to marry their daughter na.
Why not dash him your own sister for free?

He is not marrying her again....so why are you still crying?

Clown

Extra30:
Omorr see English wey woman write. I love this comment, I love your Grammer. Chai

So na her grammar you want chop?

Augustine2244:
Madman,who is following you?
Lol! Sounding exactly like the madman roaming the streets of my residential area in PH, ranting at nobody like this " stop following me,stop following me".

K

JESHAL007:
https://www.nairaland.com/8281672/man-wants-100m-2-cars

@luminiouz
@Martinez39s

Use money game to attract, not chase, this simp bastard invested heavily, is it because of sex, just sex, or she's attractive and lovely

Betas would be used even if they are billionaires or paupers

Lolz

Na mumu na...
I saw the post and just shook my head. Nigga may not even have an investment.

That he came online to beg strangers to intervene showed his so simpified!!!

He learnt the hard way

Sonnobax15:

Op,I think you're a sensible banny,even tho I'm not completely sure of that...

You see,that's one of the major challenges we, transporters pass through in the hands of those useless and wayward guys who think having a big car has just made them to arrive in Life . Bashed the car of one the other day and he came down from his car and start ranting.....Nigha even threatened to break my windscreen . It was the banny who was with the mad cow in his car that later calmed him down.......

Some guys dey over do cha, especially when they are with a low budget banny whom they are trying to impress

You bashed his car and he should do thanksgiving? 🙄🙄🙄

Mariangeles:
Onijogbon oshi!

🤣🤣🤣

Oya e don do.... Losun!!!

Mariangeles:
Try dey rest once once, make hand for no touch you.
F'ara buruku b'ale!

Fimile jor!!! Yen yen yen. .

Mariangeles:
Omg! I would totally do the same.
And the best part is that all the ingredients for jollof rice can be found anywhere around the world.

There's no business like food business.

Nah why your head big.

Foodie oshi!!🤣

JESHAL007:
Exactly that's why guys should not take women matter especially sex as a do or die, even when you experience rejection it's not a big deal, see just make sure you are not in a position that you are wasting your time with women that don't enjoy you as much as you enjoy them , women are always having sex, they might not Bleep you but they are currently fvcking someone, that why don't put women on the pedestal, she's not special, majority are not virgins, even virgins are not special too, they have guys they crush and lust after, if the opportunity presents itself they would open toto


Don't let your esteem be built around ego of smashing, I understand it's not easy because we have testerones which makes us Hot 24/7 and it's a burden to extremely intelligent and redpilled individuals

Just remember when dealing with her someone has seen her naked, she's not a big deal no matter how cute, attractive, innocent, pleasant she is, she's not special

Good 💯

JESHAL007:
Dudes are fuvking shege out of that girl you think is so innocent or precious, that gal you just like because of your feelings of attraction, someone is tired of her nonsense and nakednesss

I have said this many many times on the thread.

No matter how angelic she looks or beautiful she is, unless she is a virgin... someone somewhere has fûcked,nutted on her face and had his diick returned to her pussy using her hand after it slipped out and that same someone...is very very bored and tired of her!!!

Anytime you wanna put that angelic-looking girl on a high stand... remember that and that when she farts after eating beans, that shiit don't smell like roses.