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Martinez39s:
I don't post anything about my private life or any unnecessary stuff on social media. I don't even post things on my WhatsApp status, except if it is necessary. This is how I live my life, and I don't see any wisdom in doing otherwise.

Finally, someone who is like me.

DrAda:
It depends. I guess when you get to a certain age, you will yearn to post your achievements for you and not for anyone else.

More so, why hide it? It literally makes no sense. On LinkedIn, people fabricate all sorts of stories to make it look like achievements. Without a solid portfolio aka CV which consists of nothing but your achievements, then you have to ask yourself if you are living or just existing.

All these is to essentially say that yes I support posting ones achievements for every damn person on the planet to witness.

So you like online validation. Like almost all women. You just can't do without it.

Urghhh 👿

purples25:
I post for fun and also for validation.

I stopped because I don't get the validation and it makes me feel bad. My former mates from university, secondary school still get hundreds of thousands of likes, but I get very few. Maybe six, maybe ten. I got tired of the disappointment, so that's one reason I got discouraged from posting.

Number two, the fear of spiritual attacks. I have a picture of my little boy on Facebook but I'm going to remove it soon.

Number three, the stupid competition and endless jealousy of other women. My son was born with hair, but I decided to post a picture of him when we cut all his hair, tagging it 'memories'. Immediately, a former friend that has over millions of likes on every of her posts went to post her own son, tagging it 'memories' as well, with his full hair. I immediately got annoyed, like you have it all, must you kill my moment. I posted my son with hair but she must have known how I would feel and mischievously didn't view my own. She just wanted to kill my moment of joy. I decided to leave social media for them that are always having five million likes while people view mine and I have so little likes.

Another fair skinned pretty girl on my WhatsApp took it as a personal fight when I started posting my naming ceremony pictures and baby pictures. She never had before in the long time that I had her contact, posted pictures, but once I did my own, she started posting pictures of her relatives baby living abroad. Like... How am I fighting you, I don't even know you. To the extent that I posted on Whatsapp and immediately she posted something that triggered me. Once I put up another post that made her know it pained me, she put up a cryptic post immediately saying 'you do me, I do you' 'you do me, I do you'. Actually it was a meme of a politician saying that aggressively. As I was posting my baby she was posting that her relatives baby like say na fight. Honestly, I think light skinned women get mad when they see less beautiful or black women get married and have babies before they do. Same for extremely beautiful women. Some of them have a very black heart. They think a less beautiful woman shouldn't have anything. The can also be insanely jealous.

If I'm not going to get those likes, it's personally painful and embarrassing to me, especially when my mates are posting their babies and receiving tons of likes. Millions. Then I'd rather avoid the disappointment and not post. Like, my baby is very cute, so what the hell.

Let me add, my mates post pictures that are far out than mine. They post pictures of themselves abroad, finishing books, winning awards, big restaurants abroad, flight tickets and experiences, themselves I'm different countries, themselves with expensive hair and clothes with clean skin and people like them. My personal former friend dey post her trips to Japan, her constant visits to big restaurants to eat... I know it's genuine because I know their wealthy families or successes and skills from way back.

With all this ... I should still be posting myself in my modest settings and life? Sitting by the wall, or at a small restaurant, or by my window in my house? They just remind me of luxury that I'm not living, successes that I haven't achieved, worst of all little to no likes or attention for my own. Is it not better to not post than to be buying myself depression with each post? I don't even branch Instagram much again, for my personal sanity.

😳😳😳😳....

See people wey I dey reply on NL. See the mental state of this one. A woman who will post her family online and get depressed if she doesn't get likes!! WTF is the matter with these women? Are you not loved at home by your husband or you lack self-love ni? You are angry another woman is posting to trigger you when all you hunt for is likes and validation? At least she is validating you.😁😁

I just hope your husband is safe. Don't allow armed robbers come to kill him for your mistakes biko. May God save us men sha

Magnoliaa:
Not the selective moralist coming out to play in the wild.


Don't make me sick please. You better do what's good for you, take the best advice you can give yourself and scram out of my mentions.

Jesus!!! So crude and crass! Your time of the month? Use painkillers darling!!!

Magnoliaa:
I'm sorry about your loss.

Seeing what you've gone through and the subject of the thread, are you comfortable putting such an intimate and personal detail of yourself on a troll-filled forum such as Nairaland?

I would think you'll be more cautious of posting...more of your life events online as you've been on the receiving end of the downside of social media?

Toh.

Go and sit down jor...

So i will now be mocking her because she be SA and lost her baby? What's to enjoy in that? It's sterile!!! Besides, there is also the possibility of the story being a lie but I don't make fun of people who are mourning, so I'll pass on her.
But you? Hell yeah, I like trolling your black ass anytime
anyday. Just don't share any personal loss stories and we are good.

Fishlips

Nice to hear from the brothers out there.

We are happy to know y'all are alive and doing well


☺️☺️☺️

Sterope:
You are evil.

Assad is evil. So are Iran, Russia, Hezbollah.

But hypocrites like you will agree that they are evil, they don't pretend until it comes to the biggest hypocrites in the world

America, all its presidents and other Western governments. They will gaslight you with everything claiming 'good and humanity'

FYI, Hamas is right to keep fighting for their people. Akotileta omo

😳😳😳😳😳.

Why so violent on a Sunday?

Almiron


Pûnk ass nigga😡

PinkNature:
What you're saying now that it's only jobless guys like lumi and the rest that have time to yap all day about women.

K

NikoWinaman:
You and a neighbor were very good childhood friends (even family friends). You both started having a secret affair at an early age while in secondary school. Though you both attended different secondary schools, you both had your different relationships in school but whenever you are on holidays and back home you both always maintain that secret sexual affair.

After secondary school you both travel overseas to further your education in different countries but still keep in touch with each other and always plan to meet each other back home during holidays. You both continued this secret affair for long till after university even when you both were in other serious relationships.

Now both of you are married to foreigners with a kid each and decided to visit family back home then you meet each other again after not seeing each other for a long time.

WOULD YOU STILL HAVE SEX?

Mtchewww...mûmû talk!!!

doncartel:
Everybody with their own taste. I prefer to pay for it even in the Tpain economy.

You mudafucker!!!😡😡😡😡

jessylaurel:
Oya no vex madam 😂

Lol...clown

virginboy1:
"Bro, going to the gym is one of the best decision I made this year ooo!!! . After encountering CAPSLOCKED redpilled comment on this platform about keeping fit few years ago, I'd wanted to start working out, but my addiction to FIFA Video game and alcohol (Desperado and trophy beer) held me back. The thought of going to the gym would fill me with anxiety and stress.

But in May, I hit rock bottom. I looked in the mirror and barely recognized myself. My stomach was huge (like python that swallowed 2 goats). That's when I decided to take control. I started going to the gym regularly, despite my initial mind resistance.

It wasn't easy, but I persisted. And slowly, I began to notice changes. My addiction to video games and alcohol started to fade, replaced by a new passion for fitness. Today, I'm proud to say that I'm looking and feeling healthier than ever.

Redpill is life!!!!

Lmaooooo @ the python joke

Beremx:
How old is he that he is talking about sex?

All these spoilt brats from rich homes sef

Jealousy is the last step before full blown witchcraft

Juoflife1:
Proud evening newspaper here. Keep crying. Ode!

I love the fact that you didn't lie to me about the newspaper type.

I hope you have some sense finally. Shiloh is over this year but next year is around the corner. Don't miss your last chance.

MadamVanessa:




If I were to provide an objective analysis of the Pastor Tobi situation, I'd be accused of being motivated by an alleged bias against his place of origin. But who has ever suggested that I harbor hatred towards this people? What justification is there for assuming I possess such sentiment?

Furthermore, it's illogical to presume that I would waste my emotions on hatred towards something or someone I consider insignificant. It's more prudent for me to remain silent and refrain from engaging in futile discussion like this.

You already engaged yourself with this post....

You could have kept silent...

Juoflife1:
Good for him. It doesn't take anything to be faithful to your partner. And the people crying on this thread, keep wailing. It's like music to my ears

Evening newspaper has delivered a quote....

😂😂😂

themanderon:
I don't respond to compound idiots.

But you already responded which makes you a mega-compound mûmû.

Comprehension is far from you sha

greatjoshy:
WIZKID MEHN! He's undoubtedly talented and very blessed. Truly speaking theirs nothing interesting about this particular album, no single track there meets my expectation of him, not even the so called hit song 'Kese'.

I wish him well and I celebrate the success of the album with him... I only don't like the fact that lately he has been talking out of point and he has started some needless unhealthy comparison between himself and King Davido.


WIZKID may soon loss his relevance and respect completely if he doesn't retrace his steps

At least we know him...

You don't even have any relevance to start with.

Shioooor

jessylaurel:
Ozuooor😂 oshiiiiiii

Jesus...na me you abuse like this? You think I'm your mate... Oya beg me or elseee....

Mom007:
Your mother.

K

MsIjeoma:
Good. You're welcome.

K

MsIjeoma:
Let's do some logic then. Shey you did syllogisms in Logic 101?

Premise 1: All women are useless (as claimed by ZolotuaLorenzo)
Premise 2: ZolotuaLorenzo's mother is a woman
Conclusion: ZolotuaLorenzo's mother is useless.

If you can prove that this is not a solid deduction based on the available premises, then your objection stands and the conclusion is wrong. If not, then I'll have to assume that you are just a pretentious and dishonest individual possibly hiding his misogynistic tendencies behind his fraudulent understanding of "logic".

At any rate, I don't care what anybody here thinks about men or women. Personally, I think it's stupid to make blanket statements about any gender. I just wanted to show the boy the implications of his argument, in case he didn't realize, that he just wilfully insulted his own mother.

K

Mom007:
Kikikikikikiiikikiiiii
Ok. You are right.
(I don't argue with fools. )

You replying already confirms you as a fool.

MsIjeoma:
Thanks for the information. I'm sure your mother who raised you would be thrilled to know that she's useless to you.

Women who are quick to insult other people's mothers never respected theirs.

Any logical person would concentrate her attacks on the guy rather than his family but you ain't logical

elbulk:
If her battles don't make sense, he most likely won't. How come he's always having battles, says a lot about him

Mûmû...naso men dey do inside marriage abi? Nah today men dey die for wahala created by women?

Simp

jessylaurel:
It’s quite laughable 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣 he thought he’s getting married to mc oluomo 🤣

Let's see the roles reversed and we'll see if you will still be laughing ..
Hypocrite oshi!

themanderon:
Help you out in what way? So you are encouraging her to come and intimidate those you have problems with? She has told you the right thing to do which is involving the policemen or do you want to get her into trouble?
I am sure you heard the investigation going on against the army general whose boys beat up a man? Don't encourage her to break the law please. She is an army officer meant to protect the territorial integrity of Nigeria not to settle scores between civilians.

Mûmû...so her son can be beaten to death and she will be happy.

It's either the boy is never her child or she never loved her husband. There is no woman on earth that will be so indifferent to her family affairs like that. So what dafuq you talking about, pûnk?

iamL:
Really? So if you kill or rape someone your wife should support you because you are her husband,how are you different from Nigeria leaders?

Tell us what your boy did that his own mother refused to help him. Maybe he is one of those that feel that he can do anything because his mom is in the army.

It is so easy to know most women can't reason logically. Look at the trash you wrote for God's sake. If the roles were reversed, this same you will be screaming that the man is so cruel to be indifferent to his wife's son almost beaten to death. You will call him names and abuse him and right here on NL, you will curse him join. You women always support the narrative that benefits your emotions and frankly that sûcks ass and swallows.

So if the boy was beaten to death, you will be happy or blame the man again?

Smartb0y:
These are the simps of the world
And very dangerous,be careful around them.
They're worse than women.

Genuine men are hard to find these days.

The good thing is that it's too easy to spot these weak effeminate guys.
They're so proud of their effeminate nature. In their mind,they know how to roll with women.
I personally find them very pitiable because they have no idea what they're in for.

Bro...you said it all....

I avoid such men like a plague. I give them a piece of my mind and if they still don't change(which most won't) I just ignore them and move on.

Such men are not only dangerous as friends but also may poison your food or drink.

Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,


The True Character of a Man is tested by a Woman.

Most men lack character around women...

...because most men rather throw you under, just to impress a woman with their alpha status. 😂

I detest this like mad and always change it for the men.

You see men talking shiit to you or pulling you down once a woman is around and they say 'but na joke na' and I wonder why I am not fûcking laughing.

How I handle such men? I stare at them fixedly and just walk away, ignoring them and the girl they so desperately want to impress. Guys will snitch on their friends to get pussy or act tough so the girl can say yes.

Most times, the girls always tell me such men disgust them.

Wrackcityoffici:
The issue here is showing concern, whether as an army or a toilet cleaner, she is simply non challant… we are all humans at the end of the day, biden just signed a pardon for his son, you can’t care for someone and not do everything in your power to protect them, no one is saying she should be out beating someone, but you make efforts to protect your family, family over everything…she clearly had the DPO’s number, knowing if ahead placed the call, the case would be taken more seriously than when a civilian makes that report…IDK if she was a toilet cleaner, the effort to protect your family… it’s a different thing when your family abuse other people’s rights…there is definitely more to the story, noone can truly be certain till we hear from both parties

You dey mind that mûmû. If the roles were reversed, she would raise hell and say the man is not caring. Rubbish