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Holluwhakemmy:
From your last paragraph I don't think you can be a responsible father to your children if your mindset about marriage is to have baby mama's and raise your children outside. Think twice before you land yourself into trouble. Ire ooo

How is that your business?

That's how you lots try to shame men into slavery when they gain absolutely nothing from a marriage,so you don't tell a man what he should do with his life. At least he is not leaving his kid to suffer. So stop with the 'responsible' bullshiit you lots use to blackmail men.

EreluRoz:
Yes a man needs marriage to bring forth kids into existence. Were you conceived out of wedlock? I'm sure the answer is No. So who taught you all this woke (sick) mentality that it's ok to have a child without marriage? How many children born out of wedlock are proud to be product of adultery/fornication?
The word "Bastard" still exist and it'll never go into extinction. There are still some families who don't allow their sons/daughters marry a bastard.

"Bastards" are kids born illegitimately(product from two unmarried people).

Something is seriously wrong with you with this bullshiit you sent me. Men don't need marriage to have kids at this day and age. Not with the kind of women out there now. We are good not tolerating your crap.

Adultery/fornication ? What nonsense? How many women are virgins when they marry. Ain't you lots the ones who give bastards to the men you marry, and scared to take DNA tests?

Give me a fûcking break

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

So a man needs marriage before he has a woman and some kids?

Nawa for your reasoning oh

heartofcity12:
Exactly. I don’t know what that silly Ben Affleck was thinking, being Alpha in movies don’t equate to being Alpha in real life, he and Will Smith are in the same WhatsApp group..

Exactly.

heartofcity12:
Not surprised

I didn't understand why they got married again to be honest. They could have just continued as they were or as a couple without the marital ties. Getting married spoiled everything.

lacasera14:
The best answer so far. I owe you a wine.

So what else have we been preaching here? Hatred or how to masturbate? 🙄🙄🙄

When you didn't calm down and read from page 1, you would be making mistakes na.

The key is to apply the redpill knowledge in your life...and grow in it

Faber:
The bolded is totally false assumption. How can u call a fickle, nagging, ever changing and cunning chameleons of a gender easy to control

Just dey play. To deal with that gender you have to appear very gentle and easy ...but ruthlessly cunning, selfish and wicked

Lol...as a redpiller, maybe you understand them better but that doesn't make them tender and easy to control. It's when you think that and relax that you get fûcked. It's always the punch that you don't see coming that puts you down.

Be vigilant and always take your dose of the redpill

EreluRoz:
Sometimes you it'll be like you are good, sometimes I see werey. Please stay one place and let thunder locate you well ntooor

K

Phant0mStranger:
I'm dumbfounded 😶

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bullbearboy:
The Mod that blocked me because I spoke out on dat porn show called bbn will mourn his/her first seed unless there is no God……and Seun God will put sorrow in your life that money won’t erase
Your own God might be dead and deaf, mine is not and Seun will lack peace in his last days

Why not tell that your god to bless you so much you can open your own nairaland and do as you wish and no one will ever block you?

Why are you cutting someone over his own company?

Bullbearboy:
The Mod that blocked me because I spoke out on dat porn show called bbn will mourn his/her first seed unless there is no God……and Seun God will put sorrow in your life that money won’t erase

Lol..you dey invoke God because you were banned and even cursed the owner of the site you are freely accessing?

And you think God will answer your prayer/curse?🤣🤣🤣

sabbiboi:
A girl uploaded her status and he replied.

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Don’t be a simp in this life, it is worthless, even gurls hate it, they hate u for it.

God cooked!!!

In what kitchen?😂😂

Martinez39s:
Just allow the dirty water flow to its destination. Just cover your nose and watch in amusement. Don't stress yourself or be bothered to interfere.

Lol..ok

Martinez39s:
SMH. Let the ignorance, silly games, and misunderstanding continue. Have a nice day.

Ermmm...I'm lost...something is going on I don't know.

1Sharon:
You know everything. Okpo.

Okpo?

You are so razz!!! 🙄

Badmashiii:
He's right. Your collegues can never be your friend. Let me suggest a good book to you on that topic,if you don't mind ; "Workplace poker
" i can't remember the author name but just search it up.

One more thing,an act of kindness by someone does not means that person have your best interestat heart.

Unfortunately due to the harshness of this world, when we experienced such act,we tend to open up and trust that person further while also expecting something like that to happen once again in the future. We ended up getting disappointed though.

You can be quite friendly with your collegues at work,heck you can even be the best of buddies but when it comes to career elevation,they'd rather be ahead of you than you being in that position.

Collegues usually sabotage themselves behind each other backs,mostly to look good and gain favor from the boss. Not to talk of the hidden envy and hate some have for each other.

Do not be naive folks,your workplace is a battlefield of interest not a gathering of friends and family.

Exactly. You nailed it

1Sharon:
Doctors don't run the health sector. They only work within it's confines.

Lol...you know nothing.

Proserpina:
Yeah yeah yeah the Realist are always "cynical" cliche again... Yawn . So positive mindset is for those who fantasize right?

It's funny how black men (Africans) are always the REALIST while those who "fantasize" build empires and better communities

Hard man, Weak brain

He made a general advice for anyone with interest to re-evaluate themselves but you turned it into black men narrative.

What's wrong with you?

Gerrard59:
FYI, I DON'T envy anyone based on anything in life. I know what it is to make money and have seen how people progress in life. So, why should I envy someone I don't know?

I don't know what you think of me, neither do I care, but I don't envy people. I just find it odd that a man keeps conjuring funny looking stories when his income isn't dependent (presumably) on social media marketing. Solomon Buchi does the same - cho cho cho - every now and then, but at least Buchi earns money via such.

Me envy people? God forbid bad thing! Anything people have, I had such and will have them.

How does his Cho Cho Cho affect you? 🙄🙄🙄... It's freedom of expression Man!!

Gerrard59:
This means his experiences are fake and I bet he is not as financially comfortable as he claims. Anyone who does business with him is in for big trouble.

Lmaooo...I smell envy and jealousy reeking off your post. Level up, will you?

VikingKing:
Crude as the method is, people are trying to survive. If you go round Nigeria looking for a Saint before you can help, I bet you, you won't find a single one. So just do what you must and let their conscientious judge them. That way, you would've taught them a lesson they won't quickly forget. None of us is truly righteous.

I disagree.

That doesn't excuse their behavior.

Cousin9999:
Bro, stop trolling.

K

cococandy:
There are dirt cheap hotels that cost that much per day as at now. Much less many years ago. Meaning he could have gotten hotels for that price or less for 24 hours since this supposedly happened years ago.

Na him wan stay New York. In fact even in New York he could have gotten hotels at that price for 24 hours instead of 8 hours and stay the whole day. plus some will serve you breakfast.

Pls shut up abeg.

See liar oh ... Why so rude though?

Philosopher1979:
The redpill community is created by intellectuals and intelligent people. We are not superficial people you can just displace with a wave of the hand.
You Anita's here can't stop us. Basically why are you even against is. What Weare saying is rhe truth.
Again I repeat you cant stop us

No give her attention..let her starve

madridguy:
In Nigeria, we still have more than enough wife material that can serve every single men in Nigeria. Our greatest problem is poverty and this is seriously affecting everyone and any lady that ask for basic things will be tagged a gold digger.

A single lady asking her suitor that she prefers a man with an apartment with a running water will be considered a high taste lady simply because she said she cannot be waking up everyday to be fetching water up and down.

Lol...that's funny. Na sin for her to get what she wants herself or help the man get them?

Emodeee:
No lies detected.

💯

AlphaNugget:
Modern women have an over-inflated ego.
A 4 thinks she's a 9 all because she has pussy starved men worshipping the ground she walks on.
Destroy her Ego with these 13 Tricks:

1) Ignore her looks.
By ignoring her looks, you prove to her that you aren't like the low-value men who chase her, hence making her more interested in you.

Better still, don't compliment anything about her. Only compliment her when she does something you like.

2) Don't make any effort to impress her: To me, this is the best way to deflate her ego.

Don't try to prove yourself to her.

The more you try to prove yourself, the more you prove to her that you are below her. And she won't fall for you.

3) Don't tolerate bullshit from her: Don't let her get away with treating you like a doormat.

Call her out on her bullshit. And if she continues to misbehave, walk away.

4) Don't be needy:
Two simple ways to avoid being needy:

• Have a Purpose
• Approach and go on dates with multiple women.

5) Make everything relating to you a priority.

She's used to guys making her a priority and she will respect you the more if you make her the least of your concerns.

6) Don't let her boss you around:
Be a man, stand up for yourself. Don't let her lead you or make decisions for you. Make your own decisions.
This is masculinity in its truest form.

7) Don't always agree with her: Have the guts to disagree with some of her opinions.

8. Leave her on read for hours: She intentionally leaves guys on read to inflate her ego, to prove that she's above them.
Do the same to her.

9) Be cold towards her once in a while. This is good. This proves to her that you don't care about losing her.

10) Be mysterious: Don't tell her everything about your life.

Keep a lot of things to yourself. This will pique her interest in you because you aren't like most guys who are an open book.

11) Be an asshole. Don't be afraid to piss her off.

12) Be extremely good in bed.

When you are good in bed, she will have no choice but to beg you for your d...k

13) Walk away if she doesn't reciprocate your efforts.

Don't inflate her ego by pursuing her even though she made it obvious to you that she doesn't give a sh*t about you.

Next her.

---- Wise Words of DurableMLecture 👑 ----

I need to patent my '419' women self evaluation. I have been seeing this being copied and I never made money from it🤣.

The correct evaluation is a Girl that you think is a 4 but in reality is a 1, but she thinks she is a 9. So there are three perspectives. Yours, hers and reality(based on the quality of girls in her area). A village girl that is 9 can become a 2 when she comes to Banana Island Lagos or Asokoro,Abuja. But their perspectives always shift no matter the reality because men help to overinflate an already bloated ego. So the 419 paradigm is the scam of the ages.

TheTundeMuniru:
I broke up with my ex of this. I had plans to marry the shittyy gal until she started putting on the silly trends.

She'll tell me she's heading to the market... No pants on. The last time I rebuked the shiiit, I was angry and furious telling her "will I marry you like this? You know what she did?"
She raised her gown and made me slot my D in... After giving her a few pounding from behind, she then asked me " isn't it easy for you like that? I answered... Yes it is. Then she responded "do you still have issues with me not putting on pants? I responded... No


Since that very day, I drilled her pusssyyy like never before cos I know that Bitccch can never be my wife. I encouraged her to burn all her undies and she was happy to take the advice.

The redpillers proud of you.

UnfairLife7:
My cousin sister guy dey spoil her silly with money and he's not a yahoo guy. She's using the latest iPhone, human hair, jewelries, clothes, bag just name it. The guy work in oil and gas. Na only for social media you dey see all these kind your message and na mostly broke guys. For real life guys are spending on girls lavishly. Men naturally are providers but poverty will make you think otherwise.

Bros, some of us are not broke. But we refuse to pay the bills for a woman who is not worth that shiit. Most Nigerian men are simps, they don't know how to love women without money. Will your sister date that guy without his money? That was what he should have found out before dating her. You need a woman of substance, ride or die, not a leech, who would never sacrifice for you or your dreams. That's what the redpill is about, nigga!!

But y'all keep screaming about men being natural providers ..for WORTHY WOMEN. When you say shiit like being unable to provide makes you broke, you empower lazy entitled women to say same and the circle of simping continues and that sucks. Don't date unworthy women and don't encourage their lechery. Is your cousin humble submissive, hardworking, a virgin, chaste- or what exactly is she contributing to his life that validates his spoiling her? I never give any woman money when all she has to offer is her pucci...I don't look at them,or talk to them or Bleep them. I have always dated women of value and virtue or what am I spoiling her for? I could go on and on but Naija men still won't get it...until they get served premium breakfast and they come online to rant and cry and all that shiit

That's the redpill, mudafucker!!!

Anny69:
Imagination wants to finish him. 🤣🤣

🤣🤣The projection is real!

Nah...you telling me your darkest fantasies again

Tell that to a father confessor, fishlips

Anny69:
Lol. Now he's quiet. Shior.

Of course not..it's called sarcasm,you dope

Anny69:
Go play with your father's dick boy.

Lol....I have enough toys called breasts to play with.

Please don't tell me your family secret, I don't really care what you do with your dad's bongomgo!