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Asavivian:
Let me share with you a story from my perspective as a Nigerian lady, about the pressure we face to meet unrealistic standards set by Nigerian men.

In today's society, it feels like every Nigerian man has a laundry list of requirements for the "perfect" woman. She must be beautiful, slim, educated, respectful, and of course, able to cook like a gourmet chef. It's as if we're expected to be superwomen, capable of fulfilling every desire and expectation thrown our way.

As a result, many of us feel like we're constantly falling short. We're bombarded with images of flawless women on social media, in movies, and in magazines, and we can't help but compare ourselves to these unattainable standards.

It's not just about physical appearance either. Nigerian men also expect us to be submissive, obedient, and always put their needs before our own. We're expected to sacrifice our dreams and ambitions for the sake of our partners, without question or hesitation.

But the truth is, it's exhausting trying to live up to these unrealistic expectations. We're human beings with our own hopes, dreams, and flaws. We have bad days, insecurities, and moments of weakness, just like anyone else.

And yet, we're constantly judged and criticized for not measuring up to some arbitrary standard of perfection. It's enough to make you want to scream, to demand to be seen and appreciated for who we truly are, flaws and all.

But despite the pressure, we persevere. We refuse to let society define our worth or dictate our value. We embrace our imperfections, our quirks, and our individuality, and we demand to be loved and respected for exactly who we are.

So to all the Nigerian men out there with their unrealistic standards, I say this: we're not here to fit into your narrow mold of what a woman should be. We're here to shatter stereotypes, break barriers, and live our lives on our own terms. And if you can't handle that, well, that's your loss.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DNoFXD4Bjo

Lmaoooo
No one has unrealistic expectations like Naija women...no be una dey ask for monthly wages, hair money, birthday bash, iPhone, house rent, school fees and then mama and papa hospital bills and family issues and on top that, we must be ripped, caring, have 10-inch dick and must still satisfy you for 2 hours and do 7 rounds per night!!!

Na ekuke (local dog) go bite all of una🤣🤣🤣

LalastiklaIa:
Ask this same wayray dem to give you ordinary $100 online and you are either blocked or they bad mouth you. Yahoo boys are not scamming this people enough they always have more than enough money for stupid things

100 dollars is ordinary and you are begging for it?

Shame dey catch me on your behalf...scammer oshi..EFCC go arrest you and dog go bite you this week

RevenuesBoost:
It's possible

I know someone that went through similar issue.
She was lied to by the guy that he got a job and a car and he is ready to settle down.
Meanwhile, the car belonged to his uncle and he was jobless and lived with his uncle.
He even spends money on her like he isn't broke. As soon as she got pregnant, he told her to abort the baby, she refused, so the truth came out.


She got pregnant at 23 now married to another man.
Any man that loves you wouldn't care if you got a kid or not.

Your last statement is rubbish.

So any woman who loves you won't care if you have a child as a man or you are very broke? Answer that so I can cook you well today.

Emu4u2c:
I'm in one currently.. I love the girl but she is all shade of wrong and every Day I see reasons why everyone is against single mothers...One thing I observed about the single mother in my care..She fights me and disrespects me but you should see the respect she gives to the baby daddy...gets me confused then Why didn't he cope with her bad character..And believe me sometimes I feel like I'm her dump load where she off-loads all her rubbish...Why am I still in such relationship?.. Well I have access to free kitten why it last....I won't say I'm a Red piller..no.. but at least I'm not mentally and emotionally locked to her...so I'm taking advantage of the situation...Are we getting married?.... That's Left for God to decide and well I'm awaiting his direction but I will enjoy the moment while it last

So you are still waiting for God's direction with all these red flags about her?

You are worse than a simp...you are fly that follows the dead body inside the grave. Thank God you said you are not a redpiller, I for wooze you.

NB: so you still need God's direction when commiting fornication? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

philo04:
Men do not benefit from marriage!!!

1. He is 72 years old.

2. He has retired from active service.

3. He worked all his life to raise his children.

4. He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his children abroad.

5. They are now well-off in Europe, Australia, and America.

6. His wife, aged 62, has relocated to live with their children.

7. He remains alone back in Nigeria.

8. His children barely call him.

9. He has to start life all over again as a bachelor.

10. He struggles with high blood pressure and other ailments associated with old age.

11. How much longer will he survive alone?

12. This is the reality for most working-class monogamous men: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad.

13. No matter how good the man is, women tend to love their children more than their husbands. The older he gets, the less use they seem to have for him.

14. So, what do men truly benefit from marriage?

15. They sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for their hard work, while the woman seems to reap all the benefits.

It’s a man’s world they say but for the women and children in reality.

Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it?

What is your retirement plan?

Care for your self as much as you fend for your family. Love yourself.

God bless you.

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Damseldammie:
O káre omo yii

Sàdáñkátà re

Omo maa se ike iwo náà, I can’t wait to see my mom in canada 🇨🇦 too

Take me along with her Dammie... I promise to cook food and wash plates!!!😁

PinkNature:
U so rude

Stop trying to sûck my diick...I ain't gay, nigga!!

Justkatty:
I need one to use for protein over the weekend if you don't mind

Lmaoooo ...

Nice one...i like a woman who can take banters


Now, buzz off and go make dinner😜

Justkatty:
Mr, you don't need to shut me up before making a point
Like I said it's not a must for you to be responsible.
Deal with it later on.

If you talk to me like that again, dog will bite you this week...

Do I look like your mate?😡

Justkatty:
If you're a responsible father, it will surely favour you
Na irresponsible men na dey hear am for old age.

Will you keep quiet?

We both know that is a lie.. Most men are either dead or seriously incapacitated by that time and the woman just goes around the kids houses enjoying life.

okenikpoto:
Had the pleasure, joy and fufilment of welcoming my mother to Canada.

The joy on her face makes me happy everyday.

Your father nko?
😡😡😡

Greenfaces:
This post is so true. Two days ago my neighbours kids were fighting. These boys are around 18 and 20 years. I am 36 years, I tried to come inbetween them to separate the fight, the strength, the blows, the flying sticks and stones, even my wife would have run out to shout that I should leave them if she saw it. Thank God, I and another guy were able to break the fight.

But I picked out of it is this.... the fight broke out inside their house, their mother and 4 daughters were at home. They couldn't break the fight.

Men are actually killers by nature, the laws and society tames their excesses. It will be a wild wild wooly situation if the laws are all abolished for just 24hours.

Peacemaker wehdone oh...

Instead of you to pick chair and sit down to watch royal rumble, you dey form jagaban...what if those blows land on your skull or balls, naso you go just kpeme.

Iffa wooze you ehn!!!

lexy2014:
Since it's social media, it's easy for some people to live out their fantasies and the lives they crave for. Am not sure what they derive from giving the impression that they are rich when indeed they are not

No mind the guy....even if he is rich, paying such an amount for a used product is insane...

onadana:
Bro....money talks...when you have you spill it...it just happens.You don't think it.I bought a car for one Abuja babe..changed her apartment but it still gave me joy to walk away.I had so much satisfaction that till this day she can't contact me again despite having my number....I didn't give her the pleasure of hearing my voice again. It's crazy but it happens...it's just money...it's a god.

Ewwwwww.... *Wrinkles nose*

What a disgûsting simp you are!!!

cococandy:
If the girl is underage then yes I think he deserves it.

That’s your definition of misandry? Give me my crown now for being the queen of misandrists

Now go off with your bad self and keep clapping for men who rape children

Kai!!!

I hope your husband is not on NL. This is so embarrassing biko. See housewife and her fishlipped mumu talk

cococandy:
Maybe the prick raped her?

If she was married off by her parents and she had no choice but to agree to the marriage based on culture, tradition or religion, then she has been continuously raped this whole time.

Worse if she’s underage. Then that’s even especially egregious

Why am I not surprised with your hare-brained comment?

So she couldn't kill her parents who supposedly sold her but her lawful husband, who according to you had been raping his wife all this time?

*Sighs* logic no be your forte sha... Disappointing!!!

How can a sane human being with things to do on a Monday morning be monitoring what other people post on a redpill thread on a Monday morning of a new month and crying bitterly like someone who ate bitterleaf mixed with camphor? Logic should dictate that if it wasn't useless itself,it will mind it's business and be PRODUCTIVE with it's own life instead of becoming a monitoring spirit about what others decide to do on a faceless forum. Some people useless for this world.

camri:
Red in here. Simp in the real world. Keep deceiving them

K

Philosopher1979:
As a guy have you ever had sex with a low class girl and regretted it. Like having sex with a street hawker and feeling disappointed with yourself. Well, it also happens with girls. If they make a mistake and sex a guy they normally won't eg maybe a university graduate has a fling with a bus conductor. If the lady regrets it, she will lie she was raped just not to feel bad about her mistake.
The gender can lie about rape if they just get down with the wrong person in a careless way. That's oart of the reason for false rape accusations.
This gender can be silly

You have a point ... especially if he turns out not to have any future prospects or no money

Ever8090:
To marry this lady dey hungry me ..

At her 51 years of age? Are you under a cûrse

Ayobeck:
Too me this real Madrid doesn't deserve the title,every titles they won since I ve mature watching their winning criteria,it always a luck for them,,it seem God soccer really back this team,because there's no special about them wtf

Cry harder!!!

Mariangeles:
You know, when I deliberately ignored you the other day, I knew you'd come again with nonsense. (They always do)

For your own good, never try that again.
You've been graciously warned.

Bla bla blaaaaaaaaaa...you know you can't resist me🤣🤣🤣

Mariangeles:
Wa! Ki lo fa oshi?
L'aye l'aye e, ma a try nonsense yen mo!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

See the way you dey follow me talk...you had to speak vernacular!!! E pepper you wella...

Ntor!!

WorkBank:
Check these morons supporting the useless companies, they are igbos.
Tribalism kill you people.
Time will tell , that useless company won't survive for long.

I'm Yoruba you clown🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I don't reason based on tribalism but pure logic. Unless you wey dey practice how to curse upandan

Judithjovial:
But dude's drive for personal glory is unbecoming of him, devastated over losing the Arab Cup was the height of it

You said rubbish.

You have no idea how much he sacrificed for his team and losing a final has made plenty of other players cry, including Messi and others. So what's your point?

So if his club won the cup, they will give him to carry to his house as Ronaldo's cup or what?

Zero logic in your post

Biglittlelois:
She said it has too much sugar, and obviously too much sugar kills people, where did she explicitly say erisco product is killing people?

You know why I don't respond to your mentions, it's cos you are very mannerless

My last response to you.

I don't care...dog will still bite you this week...fishlips

Biglittlelois:
Chioma said it had too much sugar not killing people, don't quote me saying nonsense next time.

You think I will support Eriscos if she didn't say so? Check the comment section of her post and her reply to another user na...

Dog will bite you this week for being rude to me... fishlips

Mariangeles:
Madrid no dey lose final seh! 👑

Go sit down, fishlips

LDaVinci:
You dont deserve to live in a society with any kind of liberty.

NPC just keep quiet.

Babalegba:
Lol, you vexed write that long thesis. Fact of the matter is that people like me are supporting her because of the bullying she faced from erisco.
She was wrong initially but for erisco to set the IGP on her has got to count as bullying. It's time nigerians tell all these rich people that impunity has to stop.

I understand your point but she went too far.

Biglittlelois:
Oh I've done that on X, Instagram, and facebook, countless times, yet I'm presently in the comfort of my home

Type something sensible next time.

Lois!! You are a wicked woman. So you say the product is killing people without evidence?

I know you are wicked but to this level? Tufiakwa...

LDaVinci:
You dont deserve freedom.

Jesus...so you don't see the logic in that guy's posts?

Many men on NL are NPCs