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2special:
Another one

Three whole kids!!!

And he attempted suicide twice? Why kill himself instead of thanking God and trying to rebuild his life...

Damn!! These girls are wilding out there

Acebrain28:
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Smartb0y:
I have gotten to a stage where I've come to realize "Most" men not "Some" just want to be used.
They just want to live and serve the feminine imperative.
No matter what you tell them, even when the handwriting is clearly stated on the wall, they'll still simp.

It's deeply ingrained in them to simp.

I guess that's just part of the triangle of life.

The Man -->The Simp --> The Woman

There must exist a balance,so naturally the scale must be balance.

But as it's stands there's no balance, Simping is the order of the day.

Well,not all can or will be saved.

Who needs saving will most likely find salvation.

Then again women are always around to ultimately reboot their mode of thinking.

I agree with you!!! Some men love to suffer. I have shouted and advised till I was tired. Now, I just kukuma dey look as they come to you for advice, but in their minds, they know they won't follow or even give a fuq about the advice...so why should I waste my saliva?

Let them suffer!!!

Akwamkpuruamu:
This is enough to kill that vàgina.

But I don't blame her, rather the simp who saw the tale signs of lies in her age and wifed her.

I don't pity SIMPS

Exactly!!!

Damn...three whole kids!!!

Mariangeles:
Diddy is finished!

Omo! I got so disturbed when I watched the video, I still haven't gotten myself. 😩

Poor Cassie. She'll relive the horror all over again.
Now is the time for her to fully tell her story, and begin to truly heal.
So many things will unfold after this, including what (or who) truly killed Kim Porter.

Poor Cassie my black ass!!! She is a fucking golddigger who would do anything for money.
What nonsense horror will she relive? 🤣. Your naivete is amusing. Cassie was with him for another three years after that video and collected 30million dollars due to the video. You didn't know she sued him currently because she wanted another paycheck and he refused. Why don't you get all facts of the case before deciding to post biko? Because your post is funny as hell! Poor Cassie!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

Women!!! Playing the emotional game since creation but only redpillers know how to handle that shiit.

shaybebaby:
Was!

The same reason why yous lot go for young impressionable girls, who can be groomed and manipulated without being able to fight back because of the imbalance in the power dynamics in these relationships.

Stfu jor. See plenty grammar with zero sense.

Na greed and laziness make your gender dey tolerate nonsense...because of money. You guys can fûck dogs and monkeys for money.

Look at how you heaped the blame on the man and none on the woman who was so greedy for money, she tolerated and covered domestic abuse.

Akalia:
Shame on Pdiddy. I thought he was a big boy in his own class but now I know he is just another sick-minded uncivilized nigga with plenty of money.
He deserved to go down in flames for his heinous sins against humanity.

Against humanity?

Are you mad?

NeckingNgulping:
You again? You little senseless brat. Go back to the hole from which you came.

K

Biglittlelois:
Yes I did

I personally provided intimate information for bloggers and news outlets when the news went viral that year

Would you like more information or you'd like to cry more

K

Mariangeles:
Ooo!
Omode lo n se e.

K

Biglittlelois:
Your wife suffered 21 miscarriages and you're online claiming victim?

In the marriage you cheated on her countless times infecting her with different stds, even fathered a child or two outside your marriage yet you expect her to stay as per you are what?

Very nonsense mentality instilled in most Nigerian men, they expect women to constantly keep enduring bullshit cos of the Mrs title, never an ounce of care on her emotional and metal health, nonsense.

Damn...you must have lived in their house to know these intimate details!!!

Mariangeles:
Do what gives you peace of mind, for that is the ultimate.




You should've grown beyond that by now.
Even teenagers have moved on from that.

K

ukaface:
🤣😂😂😂😂😂
Which one be okpaface?

Where is paining you? Your head ?

K

Emmanuel30a2:
I wants to cuts some heads, can you cut some heads...? Help me cut some heads and your own head...

Stfu...mumu

ukaface:
Calm down
The person wey you quote papa bn dey cheat?

If this case is reversed, what would you advice the man to do?

Stfu....Okpaface!!!

NeckingNgulping:
Divorce him. I think it's better to get a second wife and make it legal rather than cheat on you.

See mumu!!
Naso your mama divorce your cheating papa?

Una go just open mouth wawa dey give mumu advice

Enemyofpeace:
Who he is cheating with. What could be the reasons?

This is not right...

Most times,it's the reverse!!!

ednut1:
hunger induced rant. Get some food to eat

You see your arrogance and assumptive presumptions? Your ego automatically assume I'm poor because you are abroadian.

I am exactly where you are, punk!! But unlike you, I still retain my manners and culture!!

heartofcity12:
Lol..

😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

WTF did I just read?

ednut1:
He is at fault . Never applied for passport all this years, never left the country too. This man no get sense abeg

Will you shût dafuq up!!!

How dare you insult a man who did nothing to you all in the name of being woke... Someone old enough to give birth to you...have you no courtesy, or culture or morals?

Can you talk to your father that way? You abroadians always lose your culture when you get there and behave rashly!!!

Damn...

Gerrard59:
I maintain my stance regarding the link between a high poverty rate and ugliness. Also, I have never claimed to be handsome. If you see me in real life, I resemble Ojuju Calabar.

Stfu

Gerrard59:
There are exceptions to every phenomenon. I am not interested in that minority. My focus is strictly on the majority, and yes, there are lots of ugly people in Kogi. Poverty is one cause of ugliness. Kogi is one of Nigeria's poorest and most deprived states.

Stfu.... How dumb can you be to claim majority equals totality in states with millions of people? Have you personally gone to these states and verified all the men are ugly? The way you make assumptions show that you don't anything about these states. So coming from someone has visited these states, there are many handsome dudes in these states..so stfu

I think it's because you are ugly, that's why you project your own shiit to others. I have noticed you are always touchy on the subject of getting girls abroad as a Naija man and always claim we don't get the girls.

If only you knew mudafucker how easy it is to get women there, you would never believe it. Girls are the same all over the world...you look fit, smell good and talk good game..and you'd have them eating out of your hands. The funny thing is you are in oriental countries where the girls should be the easiest to smash but you weren't even getting any...because you are ugly...and it scarred your mentality.

Stop projecting that shiit on to the rest of us. Because men like me, never had issues getting foreign women.

olamoses75:
In all you do, don't be this guy.

The guy na mumu...

Still asking mumu questions..some men are dense sha!!!

Namaster:
You begged.
Your brother begged.
Your father begged.

Dude, your simpleness is GENERATIONAL.

No hope for you.

You finished him!!!

Haba..how can a whole family beg a woman like that?

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

Damn ...

See as your gf cheated on you, and you forgave her after all we told y'all?

Never forgive a cheating woman....she never ever repents.

Mcslize:
Whereas there is a group I belong, I won't mention it (due to my confidential nature), there is a cumrade who is changing puzzies like pampers in that same abroad o.

It's all about your style and how much level you have as a guy. If you don't know how to toast women in Nigeria before leaving for abroad, you won't know how to toast women when you get to abroad. Our elders once said, a fowl that sleeps on top of roof tops in the village, when taken to the city, it will also sleep on roof tops. A goat 🐐 can never give birth to a pigeon. Same applies in the dating game.

Back then when we were in the university, me and 2 of my guys usually go hunting for ladies to try our toasting skills. Even though we studied engineering courses that are so demanding, we still carved out time to go hunting. We called it hunting at the time, cuz girls too many for school. That really helped in making us to learn how to talk to women aside reading design process, fluid mechanics, heat transfer, process separation and the like.

It was all fun walking up to ladies and talking to them.

It's all about you. You don't have to have money before you are able to pull girls as a man. Just get small swag and dress nice, you will never lack ladies in your bed.

Any way, we have repented.

So, back to that cumrade I mentioned earlier, go and see the ladies he is bunking abroad. Some black thick girls with big yansh. Normal working ladies no be joke. Some are even married o. The latest one he is bunking is a married lady.

Women! Any way, let's keep it there. What happens in Rome remains in Rome that's my rule of engagement with women.

He is a real nigga

iamL:
A woman that knows how to hit a man hard after helping him build his wealth. This generation of enlightened women are making me proud.

I nor go follow you build your wealth for nothing.

Shut up...broke ass mumu dey talk


Are you allergic to making your own money?

janeedema:
Did she marry Bill gates a millionaire? You don’t seem to understand that moral and intellectual support is a thing. Do I blame you?

A woman puts her life on hold to carry child and put the home in order so when the man comes, he can relax and you think she doesn’t deserve to be compensated in the event of a divorce?

You be better mumu I swear....you don't even know he was already worth millions of dollars when they married...and she was the fucking secretary.

So because she carried his child and all that...she deserved compensation? See mentality. Nah your type dey demand money for sex na...

Gerrard59:
Thank God you don see am for yourself. Mine is a dating/friendship group comprising largely young people within a particular region. I noticed the introductory posts by new members: the ladies looked pretty good, while the men weren't so good. I don't look at complexion, but general dress sense, structure of face, dentition, hair style etc. Where you see a handsome lad, even other males dey confirm say this dude is fine. The lad gets many positive responses from the lasses, with some "green light comments". Before readers think it is a group of poor people, no it is not. It is mixed, but mainly young people who are unmarried and very few married folks.

After a series of introductory posts, I con dey think say our men aren't really that handsome. This was before the yukay wave of videos. When I saw the faces involved in these videos, it confirmed my observations: Nigerian men are not handsome. Now, how can these men compete with born and bred Black British or African American men? No be say we get long preek pass Sudanese, Gambians or Senegalese. No be say we tall like those people sef. Our ambitious spirit might be a positive factor, but that is not a phenotypic feature.

Another thing too, people tend to think of Nigeria as just Lagos and Abuja, but there exist other places in Nigeria; and there, being ugly is the standard. Places like Kogi, Bayelsa, Ebonyi and Kwara would never have handsome men no matter how hard they try.

When I call you ignorant, it would seem very harsh

So in your wisdom, all men in Kogi, Bayelsa, Ebonyi and Kwara are UGLY?
What kind of mad assumption be that?
You are always on some insane shiit..so no biggie

cococandy:
You sound rabid hence most likely being influenced by a wild dog near you. Your neighborhood or lack thereof has little to do with it.

Mad dogs roam together

Keep your projections to yourself

Dog will bite you this week ..

cococandy:
That’s actually more likely to happen to you than to me.

Statistically and logically speaking 🤷🏽‍♀️

I mean you claim to be logical no?

Lol...you assume I am not in your neighborhood or even remotely close to where you are.

You see how illogical you are?

Anyways, dog will still bite your yansh