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LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

Acidosis:
Ewo! See her face, almost brighter than the future of Kogi state.

annyberry:
Nice words......it only a silly guy would take a lady for granted,I actually approached my man funny enof we are getting married soon.....

Nike99:
You're totally on point.

Thegeneralqueen:
Who bother you

Thegeneralqueen:
See them

famosh:
"Your looks do not freak you!" Funny bro! Almost every Nigerian guy is actually this deluded! They think they're the 8th wonder of the world! Are you Brian Okwara or Usher ni?

demobaba1:
how u take meet her bros?

isalegan2:
Please sir, who's the "NL geh"? Pretty please! Just the first and last initials and in what section she sojourns.

cyndy1000:
What ever that might have happened in the past bury with the past. she might be your daughter she might not be. For God sake you have been fathering her for the past 10years while then. Show her love as you show her siblings, stop making her start feeling somehow based on your behavior towards her sometimes.
you might not know what that child will be tomorrow. everything thing happens for a reason. so just shut that thought off n live like a family. Telling your wife will break her emotionally

MariaLavina:
I had to read your posts all over to see where I misunderstood you but I found none. I know what you did there


There was never an argument Mister, just a one end conversation.

MariaLavina:
Bravery you type? Lol... How sure are you that you are the first she asked out? To some ladies it is a normal thing to do, no big deal. Are you insinuating that proposals from ladies are genuine and based on love? This is like saying every guys that asks you out loves you. Oh it will be a nice world if that's true! Or maybe Guys are the demons we have in our lives, Your words not mine!

Of course you are right to 'Respect ' her, in a society where such practice is frowned at, it may be a act of bravery but saying you will cherish her is wrong (not the right word to use) You only Cherish something that MAKES you happy. Someone that ACTS in a way that gladdens your heart and that is a continuous thing and not a one time action.

MariaLavina:
You don't cherish people for something they did just once. Along the line you tend to forget and see them for who they are.

There is a difference between Respect and Cherish

Lalas247:
are you single .... just asking
cause your mindset different to some ...

Lalas247:
but no one sees intelligence though till you get to know the person
physical appearance matters also...
you must be one if the rare ones sha...

chris2face:
Me or them i dont understand

Butterflyleo:
Bloggers are the bosses of the devil when it comes to lies.

The woman said her face / head was superimposed on the body of another woman aka Photoshop so as to push the story.

She said her friends and colleagues sent her the story and images and that she has lived in the UK for 13 yes and has 3 kids.

The only problem I had with the video and all she said was that despite living in the UK for 13 years her Yoruba accent is still very strong.

How can we yorubas live still go around pronouncing things like appointment as happointment and apology as hapology even even after 13yrs of exposure to daily proper pronunciation of such words?

Kulas:
Whose picture is the naked lady then?, it's not same person with this woman. Who is the adulterous woman in the viral picture with the lover, that's the question begging for an answer. who is she?. The woman in this video is talking trash, who is the naked woman?

Simplep:
Lol...my line is still open,whatsapp me

Simplep:
How are u my love

Simplep:
Enjoy sir...God will bless us all