₦airaland Forum

Tenrack:
keep deceiving yourself. Religion is indeed opium of the masses. How many of your political leaders children have broken the law over and over again? Your Muslim leaders keep stealing brazenly, you know but you cannot apply Sharia law to them. Abi is it only for the poor? Spits. Hypocrites.

creolehunt:
What useless constitution? What's the point of a constitution when there are no institutions to actually enforce the content.

The same constitution that allows some states to have "sharia law" that goes against every element of sanity.

Hamachi:
What are the pros and cons of living abroad?
It depends if you are moving for financial or non financial reasons, and how long you move for.

If you are moving for a short period of time when you are young, there are seldom many negatives.

Few people regret studying abroad for a year, doing an internship or a gap year.

When it comes to longer-term assignments, financial considerations are important for most people.

The major positives associated with moving abroad are

If you work for a multi-national, there are sometimes bigger packages abroad, especially in frontier markets due to hardship allowances. For instance, if you are an oil & gas engineer working in Canada or Norway, you are likely to be paid more if you move to Nigeria or Myanmar on a two-year contract.
For business owners, the world markets are always a bigger opportunity than just only focusing on the local market. Whilst it is true that you can target people online successfully, a stint overseas will teach you about other cultures, give you fresh ideas and so on.
New languages and skills will help you if you move back to your home country
If you are high-net-worth you can save a lot on taxes if you move to certain countries, and do the right planning

The main negatives are

In your home country you get back ended benefits. In low-tax countries overseas, you get front ended benefits. What do I mean by that? In your home country, you might feel you are being weighed down by the taxes. However, you get back some of that money when you get old or are sick as per the graph below:

In comparison, if you have more money from lower taxes, you get front ended benefits. This can be great, but only if you are self-disciplined enough to save and invest more.

However, plenty of people in low taxes countries like the UAE and Singapore don’t do that, as many studies have shown
Career wise, you will be behind your peer back home, if you don’t use your time overseas wisely.
What are the pros and cons of teaching abroad?
What are the advantages or disadvantages of living and working abroad?
What are the pros and cons of moving back to your home country after living abroad?
What are the pros and cons of living in your country?

What are the pros and cons of moving abroad, and where are some good places to live?
Let´s start with the cons to get that out of the way first

1.
The more countries you have lived in, the more you loose a sense of belonging (at least I feel that way). I have lived in 9 different ones and although I have of course great memories and part of my heart is in all of them, I feel I belong nowhere and certainly not in my home country anymore either.

After so many years I crave a sense of belonging, a base to call home (even if it just means to be there a couple of months a year), friends I do not have to say goodbye to every few months or years. And no, to stay in touch on Social Media is not the same at all, I personally create bonding through shared experiences and not by living in past memories.

2.
If you move a lot and you know you will not be in a place for a very long time, you wonder if it makes sense to emotionally invest in relationships and friendships and I think sometimes relationship become more superficial because building them takes time and commitment and you know you will leave again and who wants heart breaks.

3.
Depending on your age group, aging parents back home suddenly become a concern. One is far away and cannot just jump in a plane and is home in one hour. A sense of guilt sets in even if your loved ones give you no reason to feel guilt and its only in your head. And you also realize time becomes more precious and one is far away.

4.
When you get home you realize your friends are more or less still the same, they have aged too, might have created a family, changed jobs, etc. but essentially they are still the same. You on the other hand have changed, its unavoidable. Your horizons have widened and you might not have that much in common with old friends anymore. There is a sense of loss and sadness.

5.
Depending on where you are abroad, romantic relationships can take a back seat. If an independent western single women in her late twenties or thirties comes for example to Asia with the hope to not only find professional opportunities and adventures but also a partner to create a family with, I would say, think twice, your choices will be limited, but that is a topic for a different question.

6.
The longer you are in a certain region the more difficult it will be to go back to your home country if you ever want to return, because your skills and experiences will become more bankable in your new country than in your home country. If your business is online it’s a different story of course.

7.
Loneliness can also be an issue. If you do not consider yourself the love of your life and enjoy time alone too, you will struggle, because it is unavoidable that there will be moments when you will be alone, especially if you just arrive in a new place. And when you get sick its also not exactly fun.

8.
Constantly having to let go is sad, at least for me. I do not like to let go of things, people, places that entered my heart, but sometimes life changes and there is nothing you can do about it.

In many places (such as Singapore, Dubai for example) people are in transit, they stay for a couple of years and then they move on, you might loose a job and the work permit that goes with it and the list goes on. If you have no plan B, the stress level rises.

9.
You feel often disconnected if you do not speak the local language, but might also not live there long enough to really fluently communicate. Some languages especially for westerns are just not so easy to learn (thai is one of them).

The frustration you feel when you start learning a new language and can only express yourself like a 2 year old in the body and with the mind of a grown up person.

10.

Personally I also feel sometimes alone, when there is nobody who shares a certain sense of humor. Humor is often very different and culture specific. I can laugh my head off about certain things or situations and my colleagues just look at me and wonder what that is all about.

And they laugh about certain things and I cannot see what is funny about it either. Laughing is also about bonding with people, so I can say sometimes I miss bonding over a shared sense of humor.

Now that we are done with some of the cons, lets talk about the wonderful pros.

1.
You change for the better

2.
You become more tolerant

3.
You become a better Ambassador of your home country when you return. I swear, whenever I return home, I am particularly friendly to anybody who is foreign, I feel so connected because I am a foreigner in other countries too, so I want them to feel welcome and leave with good memories.

4.
Once you have lived abroad, this place will never ever be just a dot on the map. It will penetrate your memory, it will become part of your history, if you disliked your experience or loved it does not matter, it will never leave you indifferent anymore.

5.
You develop courage and learn how to overcome obstacles

6.
You learn to rely on yourself

7.
You realize that essentially all people in the world are the same, we are just shaped by different education, background, beliefs, etc. but we all want to be respected, loved, heard and acknowledged.

8.
You become more flexible (you just have to)

9.
You age slower, because whenever you learn or see something new it feels the days are much longer and more intense. Every day is a new adventure and there is less routine.

10.
Everywhere I go there is something I love and I weave it into my personality to take it with me. It is like as I go along, I create a more interesting and better version of myself (at least I think that, but that is a good start).

11.
You learn to judge less and listen more.

12.
You will feel more emotionally connected to the world.

caesymore:
See what this evil party has turned Nigerians into Beasts.

May anyone that wishes to vote back this evil Men never benefit anything good in this life and next.

These Thugs quoting me up and down

I ain't here to fight you Niggas, a better Nigeria is all I wish for.

And from my stand point and that of millions of Nigerians, nothing good can come out from this evil party that has impoverished Nigerians in every sphere of existence.

If it pleases you to continue suffering and smiling over the little unconstitutional favors you might ever have or will ever get from their evil deeds then you deserve the greatest pity as you are dumb to know you deserve more.

My second wish is that the progress of your entire generation will be same as APC has brought to Nigerians.

sarrki:
River goddess known as yeye osun in south west Nigeria were also parts of the protesters agitating for oduduwa nation .

The river goddess took to their heels with other protesters when the police dispatched by the cp Lagos state used water cannons on the agitatators.

Fahdiga:
[s]Even you is not safe. Expect to see giant Buhari with cow horns in your dream tonight [/s]

Brendaniel:
Truly in this life some people don't know their worth, from what I've noticed about this girl, She is always trying to get attached with famous people thereby dragging herself below her self worth, even cubana chief priest was busy insulting her publicly, I just see her as a slave to fame, if she wants to be famous she can be without attaching herself to famous people, though I respect her in some other aspects of her life...

tyup:

tyup:

mrkunlex:
if dey born your papa well, come to yoruba land and try any fucking shit

mrkunlex:
Yoruba, this is a wake up call for us, let's defend ourselves and our land from these godforsaken fulani herdsmen that are terrorizing us on our land. Eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth, no mercy for those bastards

cpu2006:
Congratulations to our New president. He should pls contest for Nigeria President come 2023

SilverNorGold:
What OP reported is 100% true! Unscrupulous criminal elements are going about looking for unsuspecting Nigerians to induce into selling their NIN which they will use for their nefarious activities! Please don't fall for it!

One suspect accosted me yesterday offering to buy my NIN for $3 million (USD) but I strongly rejected it. He disappeared before I could call the police.. Same thing happened to my friend, Yusuf. He was offered $130k which he also rejected!

So please, Nigerians, let's NOT be greedy and foolish... Selling your NIN is like selling your freedom, your identity! If anything bad happens, nobody will believe your story.

As for the criminals doing this thing, the long arm of the law will soon catch up with you!

Nigeria must better, by fire by force!

Pearly255:
Are you single handsome?

Saao:
some people will come back to life after burial but under 6 feet or shallow grave.

Godpikin4real:
U no even ask of account details, na bvn? Ure doing well(In Mr Macaroni's voice).

Godpikin4real:
U no even ask of account details, na bvn? Ure doing well(In Mr Macaroni's voice).

Thermythorpe:
Happy New year

DukeJoe17:
What? This girl with not be happy with oga IG. I didn't mention any name, mind you.

Godpikin4real:
Yez ooo, well said. I'm here waiting for my own #2m for Xmas. Make una no talk too much ooo, just ask for my account details and I'd gladly send it across.

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

This one no be match na....
Na training session..
E remain Villa on Sunday.. we go punish them and revenge for liverpool.. let the pain remain in Zebracheter..
#COYG

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

This one no be match na....
Na training session..
E remain Villa on Sunday.. we go punish them and revenge for liverpool.. let the pain remain in Zebracheter..
#COYG

zexy2030:
I respect your courage sir, you will live long to see a better Nigeria. I hope you were not hurt. Till now food couldn't still enter my mouth for the sorrows Nigerian government inflicted on her citizens.

Honestly, our youths should understand if we dont have ammunitions and spiritual protections stronger than the force of this corrupt government, it's hard for this government to bow to our request. This jurisdiction respects not one citizen. If we get hold of this ruthless men and leaders and destroy them and their children then we will see the expected change. But how can this be done in a country where sycophants are among the youths. We need proper strategy to win this struggle.

humilitypays:
I am proud of our youths, we really need to intensify the tempo, how I wished we could have one undivided voice and raise a 10 million young gang to invade Lagos government house and another set to all state government houses in Nigeria and burn the useless state houses housing political criminals called Governors to ashes



I am so provoked, I feel like war should start already so I can move a battalion of angry militia to some politicians house like it was done in 1966

Wokenaija:
Sorry, I don’t take unnecessary risks in Nigeria.

phorget:
Is that you on your profile pic?
Well, I won't say a word.