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[quote author=Mynd_44]Even my dog rejects some female dogs[/quote]Ha! So your dog is discipline than some men.*shocked*

[quote author=Mynd_44]It is probably because you walk with guys who can't see a woman without getting silly ideas and they put the ideas in your head. And since not all Nigerian men do this, I am sorry to say but you might be weak and incapable of controling yourself[/quote]Fact.The diffrent btw man and dog is discipline.

If the other guy had accepted the pregnancy,would she have come back to u? If u had not tricked her,would she have tell you the truth? For her to know the father of the baby,that means she didn't cheated once.
Now if ur love for her can overlooked all these,u can marry her.

Hmmmmm

zeefa: Yh, I can feel u & am so so api you are in d film. Imagining what they are thinking. Wonder shall never end my brother. Just as you said, am standing on my feet as a Man. I married her & I have the right as a man 2 decide on what I want in my home.

Its not really funny at all. Am so happy reading ur comment. Cos dos words of yours just energized me.




Let all haters ladies in d house kiss the dust on the floor. That one na their cup of wahala
Thanks man!

Eeeehn,a dog that will get lost will not hear. the whistle of the hunter.I pitied her,she has entered one chance!
My prayer 2night is not to entered this kind of one chance o.

zeefa: Blood covenant cos of what? R we clued on rituals secrecy! That must b a joke of the century.

Twisted sexual orientation indeed! Well, am not sure u r making a good point on ur contributions. In as much as I seek ppls opinion on what to do, that doesn't make me a fool to ridicule inform of som1 willing to help or advice me on a critical issue that concerns me & my home.

If y need 2 ask Qs, Pls do me a favour of being diplomatic & flawless in d kind of words to use.

I kw am bound to receive so many sarcastic response on this thread but at d sametime, ppl shld mind what to sa in the cause of given advise.

Non of ur Qs deserves an answer cos they r notin but craps from a processing plant.

I read all comments from ppl including u. I have taken note of everything & I op 2 call the meeting if possible to allow her open up & state her grievances so as to see how 2 work on it to close up d headache.

@luvmijeje, I don't know what kind of reply to give to you personally, all I will say 4 now is thank u 4 following up with d thread. Atleast u showed concern thatz y u r here to comment. E se pupo. Thanks a lot.

I can smell sarcasm in your words directed toward me but no wahala.
In my opinion,Rocktation was too diplomatic like an ambassador that I couldn't have done better if it were me that ask those questions.
Zeefa,if we can infer questions like that from your posts,what will be going through the mind of your wife? I will leave you with that question.

[quote author=gbaky_floor]Girls are this, Girls are that, black women are like, Nigerian women are not..... Always complaining. Jobless Nigerian men, please use your time wisely and make the country better; that is a more pressing need![/quote]Best post.

Rocktation: Yes, as I've also noticed that you haven't exactly accepted any advice from anybody on this thread - both ladies and men together, that asks you to weaken the not-so-natural cohesion that's between you and your buddy, and thus, give more attentiveness to your wife's wishes. Which begs the question- is there more to this brotherhood, than you're letting on? Like a blood covenant or forgive my bluntness, twisted sexual orientation?
I mean, it's not like my right to demand the complete truth, BUT inquisitive minds cannot help, but wanna know!

Pls take this *kisses*. Op oya answer the questions.

bukatyne: I want to believe my eyes are deceiving me @ the bolded.

Your friend warned his wife NOT to poke nose into your friendship?
Your wife is strong headed because she doesn't feel comfortable with your friendship with Dayo?
You are willing to let your wife go for your friendship?

Mbok, tell us what is really going on so we can advise you.

So no be only me see something! *Breathe a sigh of relief*

freecocoa: This your question only proves me right about you being an overly egocentric kid.

I'll indulge you anyways, the thing here is that my man would tell me all about it, get my own topic before embarking on the journey to get more topics, he won't just jump out of the blues on bbm and ask for my project topic after collecting from a million other people, if it were to be a case of emergency and he didn't have time to tell me all about it before asking, he'd still explain if I asked and yet again if he didn't have time to explain, he'd be polite about it, not act like a jerk.

You don't know the first thing about being in a relationship if you'd term a girl arrogant for asking you a harmless question, let the girl go cos I see things from her perspective now, she's even an angel for putting up with your. Chauvinistic a$$ for 2 months, nansense.

Words of wisdom,Op if u like adhere to it,na u sabi.

zeefa: Report my wife to my friend? Nope! He hates coming in2 our issues, and always tell me 2 handle my family affair myself without a third party. How I wish you people have the feelings of the kind of person Dayo is! He made it clear to me that our wives are friends especially here where you have no other families apart from the one's around us.

I still don't understand her problems & promise 2 get back here to you guyz on our conclusion.

Am I the only one seeing something or am I being dramatic.I rest my case here.

Ice4jez: i beg to disagree u see my dear becos u marry a lady dont mean u forget some certain pple .some ladies marry a guy n want all d attention for themselve.this particular friend is one dat is very faithful.watin she want again.after a hard day ur husband comes to the house and call his best friend where dey discuss problems n find possible solution.wat of if he left the house and dey meet in a bar .which one will she prefer.he is faithful and responsible but she want satan to use her to seperate him from someone that can impact his life.

Eeeeehn,so she should be grateful that her husband come home everyday to spend time with his friend instead of her? To be grateful that his husband considered his friendship more important than his marriage? He even has to report his wife to his friend.! One chance!
I'm not saying he should not spend time with his friend but his wife happiness should also matter to him.

[quote author=Duke_Nija]Abeg keep quiet!
What do you know about friendship?
Any Man that loses such a great friend is a big FO.oL!

Who will he run to when Life turns sour? This kind wife?[/quote]Keep shut! Who is he suppose to turn to,if not the mother of his children,the bone of his bone. He is no longer single and he should start acting that way.

[quote author=gbaky_floor]Two years with her you say? And now that things have gotten to marriage level you realised she's materialistic; thus you came to nairaland to get the support of manner less and self centred nairaland Nigerian men to quit. Well if you believe that you are without imperfections, go cast the stone and pray it doesn't bounce back at you.
Silly Nigerian man with dumb reasoning! Still wonder how women tolerate your kind. Mtcheeeew.[/quote]God bless u!

Op ur wife is suppose to be your best friend. To be candid you are being selfish.2hrs afterwork every weekdays and also on weekends,haba.!So u are expecting her not to complained.
You better set your priority right before your marriage fails.

Lol,Op am partly in agreement with you.Also attitude and tone range she exhibits tells if those words will be dangerous.

Yes,it is called cheating and unfaithful.