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Don't Masturbate: A Dogma from People You Least Want to Emulate

The saying, "Don't Masturbate", is a saying you must have heard by now. On this thread, there are countless instances. On YouTube, there are countless instances. Your pastor and imams must have also promised all masturbators hell. I could go on, but you get the gist.

Like many of you, I stayed away from this act for almost as long as I have been alive. I didn't want that disdainful look if I was ever known to be a masturbator, I stayed away from it. Many of us can't understand why it is wrong, but we all just stay away from it, to avoid disdain from society.

If you ask the people who espouse the idea, "Why is masturbation wrong?", you'd get one of the following answers:

1: God Frows At It
Holier-than-thous can't wait to espouse how their religion is against masturbation, yet they are never able to provide a reference in any of their Holy books.

Your pastor would say masturbators are going to hell, but if you ask for a reference in the bible, he would ask what authority you have to question him. In fact, you may become a scapegoat and an outcast in your church.

2: It Would Destroy You
This is another bullshit. You will see why I said this.

Religion and Masturbation
I have researched both Christianity and Islam countlessly, but have never found any valid argument against Masturbation. Just in case, I was the one missing the depth of available research materials, I decided to use one of these AI assistants.

Question
Is the Quran against Masturbation?

Answer
The Quran does not explicitly mention masturbation. However, Islamic scholars and interpreters have debated and discussed the topic, and some have derived guidance from related verses and hadiths (sayings and actions of the Prophet Muhammad).

Some scholars consider masturbation to be makruh (disapproved or reprehensible) but not haram (forbidden). Others view it as a minor sin or a sign of weakness.

The Quran does encourage Muslims to maintain chastity and modesty (e.g., Surah Al-Isra' 17:32, Surah Al-Ahzab 33:35) and to seek marriage as a means of fulfilling sexual desires (e.g., Surah An-Nisa' 4:3). However, it is crucial to note that Islam prioritizes compassion, mercy, and self-awareness, and individuals are encouraged to seek guidance from qualified scholars or counselors if they struggle with sexual desires or behaviors.

Remember that Islamic interpretations can vary, and it's essential to approach these topics with sensitivity and respect for diverse perspectives.

Question
Is the Bible against Masturbation?

Answer
The Bible does not explicitly mention masturbation. However, some interpretations of certain passages have led to various perspectives on the topic. Here are a few examples:

1. Genesis 38:9-10: The story of Onan, who "spilled his seed on the ground" to avoid fathering a child, has sometimes been linked to masturbation. However, this interpretation is debated among scholars.

2. Matthew 5:27-28: Jesus teaches about lust and adultery in one's heart, which some have extended to include masturbation. However, this connection is not universally accepted.

3. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20: The apostle Paul writes about fleeing sexual immorality and honoring God with one's body. Some have applied this to masturbation, while others see it as addressing sexual relationships and exploitation.

It's essential to note that the Bible's focus is on promoting healthy relationships, self-control, and respect for one's body as a temple of the Holy Spirit. Different Christian traditions and interpretations may have varying views on masturbation, and individuals often hold personal beliefs based on their understanding of scripture and spiritual guidance.

Just like our AI assistant has provided, the Holy books never directly or in a logically implied manner admonish against masturbation.

Islam talks about just chastity and modesty. But when asked about masturbation, because the Quran didn't say anything about it, clerics would rather consider masturbation a bad act, based on their limited personal understanding. To an extent, I don't blame some, but the ones arrogant about the claim are the biggest problems.

Islam also asks, "... seek marriage as a means of fulfilling sexual desires ....". When someone says "Do X", it doesn't mean Y is forbidden.

The Bible referenced "Onan, who spilled his seed on the ground ...". This is nowhere close to a clear-cut admonition against masturbation.

In addition, the bible preaches against "lust and adultery". Anyone who tries to pass off masturbation as lust or adultery has likely never read the meaning of lust and adultery.

Futhermore, the Bible also made reference to, "... apostle Paul writes about fleeing sexual immorality and honoring God with one's body.". Masturbation isn't sexual intercourse, and any attempt to classify it under sexual immorality is just outrightly dumb.

Dangers of Not Masturbation in this Modern World
Yeah, you read that title right.

You see, we live in a modern world, or maybe I should say, a world very distant from the past.

In past times, women dressed modestly. Muslim and Christian women were well-known for their modest dressings. Even the ones who were not so religious dressed impressively modestly.

In present times, the average woman at best, puts on tempting, semi-revealing, and tight-fitting dresses. We now see 10% of their bosom. We now see the delicate curves of their body. We now see how soft their boobs are. When they run, we now see how their soft and succulent boobs dance. We now see their elegantly shaped bums. We now see the perfect sizes of their cup breasts. We now see their pant lines. We now see the delicate skin of their neck. All that, just for the average woman.

It gets worse for the other 30 - 40%. We get to see their entire breasts, through a joke called (see-through) net. If you go to the beach, you see full bum bums. In fact, you now see a woman's completely stark underbody at places like the beach. The only thing you probably haven't started seeing publicly are the entrances of their vaginas. Every other thing is readily available everywhere you go?

Is this a good or bad thing? I don't know, and that is not what this article is about.

My point is, we now live in a vastly different world. We now live in a world, where the sexual desire of the average man is stimulated to its peak, continuously for almost through out the day. Even if you decide not to go outside, your TVs are now heavily sexualized. The internet is now heavily sexualized. Even our churches have become hotspots for satisfying our eyes with women dressed sexually temptingly. The mosques are not an exception. There isn't just anywhere to run to. Whether you like it or not, you will be sexually stimulated. Sexual tension (Boner/Konji) or whatever you want to call it, would be forced down your throat.

Unless for guys having regular sex, the average man on the road is a Hot he-goat, maybe just a quiet one. You don't believe me? Make a girl approach a random guy on the road, tell him, if he slaps anyone on the road, she would allow him Bleep her. Wait and see how many slaps would go around, and eventually how many guys would line up for Bleep.

If sexual tension was a mild feeling that can be easily subdued, this whole situation wouldn't have been a problem. If anything, sexual impulse is an extremely powerful force. That thing called konji has made countless men do things, even they could not believe. Ask men around the world, if they wouldn't be ashamed and sincere, 98% would narrate at least one experience of how konji made them do things they wish they never did.

Konji is real. It is real and very crazy. It is real as God (for those who believe in God). In fact, certain scholars go as far as saying sexual tension is what drives the world economy: every man just wants to Bleep - not entirely true, but significantly true. This thing is so powerful, the moment surplus starts to build up in a man, you have to get it out of your system as soon as you can. You try to control it, but like fire in a bedroom, you are in control until something crazy happens.

I could share my personal experience. I was a man trying to be a decent human being. There was a point in my life when I wasn't having sex. The women I was around then expected a man to bow to them to get the coochie. My ego wouldn't let me. I also didn't want to masturbate, I didn't want to be sneered for being a masturbator.

I stepped out every day, to carry out my daily activities, but I found I was always already sexually stimulated by the time I got back home.

The powerful force kept building up inside of me and there was no way to dissipate it. Heat a wood enough, and it would burn. Heat a metal enough, and it will melt. Heat Diamond enough, and it will melt. Heat steel enough, and it would melt. And that is exactly what happened to me. I soon found myself in a spiral of events that almost led to a point of no return. I had grace and extreme luck, for my life would have been in a mess right now. It was at this point I decide things had to change and I couldn't keep going like this.

My story isn't unique. There is a sea of men who have gone through or going through similar experiences, with consequences of varying degrees. I'm not justifying any of these acts, but we have all heard of stories of grandpas abusing 5-year-old babies, stories of guys raping girls, stories of brothers sleeping with sisters, stories of fathers sleeping with daughters, stories of teachers sleeping with students, stories of guys whose careers were ruined because konji got the better of them.

It always doesn't manifest in just the form above. Sometimes, it manifests in the form of beaten-down husbands and boyfriends. The wife/girlfriend finds how helpless her man can be when he needs sex, then she weaponizes it. She gives him sex when he does something good and withholds the sex when she disapproves of something, like a dog trainer training a dog. The man, fearing the consequences or not even having an option, surrenders and becomes a docile sheep that does whatever madam says and wants. This is why you sometimes see strong men become caricatures of themselves when they get into relationships. Konji is real.

It sometimes manifests in the form of anger. Look at men (and women) who are always angry for no reason, you would often find they have never had sex or haven't had sex in a very long time. These are the kind who go ahead to shoot schools down, stalk and murder women, and troll on social media.

People would try to make you seem weak for being unable to control konji. They would try to make you seem less. These guys are hypocrites who are getting sex often and can not relate. Also, some chronically masturbate, and shame other men who do. And truly, some don't get sex often and also don't masturbate, but look at their lives, they are often the people you least want to be like. Will Smith is an example. The boy once made a video of how terrible masturbation is, but Will Smith should be the last person trying to be an example for other men.

Closing
Konji is real. It is a crazy force. Before it ruins you, get hold of it.

You don't want to lack it, but even more importantly, you don't want too much in your system for a prolonged period. Konji is an essential ingredient in a passionate man's system. It is what makes men work hard and grind the hell out of work. In other words, it is needed, but when you are done using it for what you need it for, you want to expel it from your system as soon as possible.

The frequency and time of expulsion would depend on you. Personally, when I wake up, I go to work, and grind the hell out. But as soon as I am back, I expel that shit out of my system, unless mama is coming over for the night.

When I sleep at night, my body secretes fresh one, and the cycle repeats.

The first step to becoming a man with great mental clarity is being able to manage your konji levels. You don't want to have an excess or stale semen in your system for a prolonged period.

If you have a girl or woman to help relieve you of this energy, great. But when a female isn't around, be proud to help yourself.

So brother, head over to that store, find the most refined cream you can lay your hands on, and konj/stroke konji out of your system.

Be proud. Don't let any mother fucker shame you for choosing to have mental clarity. If you can't afford a cream, a bar soap works too. Soaked detergent or even bare-hand also work, although not recommended.

This is my BUT, a big B BUT actually. Never use masturbation for pleasure. There is a difference between using it to maintain your energy level and just using it whenever you feel like. Like all addictions, masturbation addiction is also bad. When masturbation becomes a tool of pleasure (instead of being a tool to keep your mental clarity), you soon start doing it too often, and that is where the problem begins. Just like too much water can kill you, too much masturbation is also detrimental.

Usually, once a day, is enough. At times, you need it twice. Experiment to find out what frequency and time work best for you.

In closing, Masturbation is an absolutely essential tool in the kit of every man looking to attain mental clarity and logical maturity. Even for men with relationships, it shatters whatever pussy power a woman thinks she holds over you. When she knows, your hand could do the job if she refuses, she would have less incentive to misbehave and think she holds any special power over you.

Once again, Masturbation is an absolutely essential tool in the kit of every modern man. Your true moral, masculinity, career, or even life may never survive without it. Be proud to be a masturbator. I am proud to be a masturbator.

Can someone share us a GIF of that Ronaldo masturbation goal celebration? The man has been trying to pass you guys a message.

You are not correct sir.. I disagree with you.

johnog4sure:
The app itself will first verify your real identity as you are signing up, each of the 'personas' you chose will be tied to the real identity incase of tracking, afterall when social media first started nobody was using their real identity those days it was "avatar" if u use myspace and other early social platforms before facebook.
So its do able.
I heard now that even btc wallet is now tied to real identities I dont know how true is this, I have not been active in the crypto space for sometime now.

If not projects I have at hand I would have started the app.

Your idea is a brilliant idea but I think there are grey area when it comes to things like this..

johnog4sure:
This update is only for those who wants to clean up. And it's for only those in 'dating' I will think of solution for other categories of yahoo later. I have started an NGO and we are running a campaign called "whiteyahooyahoo" it is to educate yahoo boys that the effort they put in crime if put in legit business they will still be very rich. As a software developer I want a build an app for "Romance as a service" all yahoo boys into dating scam should register and update their profile, no effect can arrest you because you're now legally offering romance as a service and getting paid, and what they called "impersonation" will be called "persona" meaning you can switch persona as your clients demands it. You can be a soldier, a female, male... anything. After all a girl at silicon valley built an AI chat app which keeps millions of users company. Ours is even better because it will be real humans! Mod take this this to FP let me see how much support we can get, before setting up a team

this cannot work in a realistic world..Ideally,it might work but realistically,it won't..IDENTITY is a big thing now and the powers that be wants one identity per individual in a realistic world.

johnog4sure:
God bless him, I know several guys who would have gone into crime if not crypto, I didn't benefit directly but many young dudes built houses, got married started other businesses because of binance, he is indeed a blessing

tell them..dem nor know wetin CZ do for boiz. CZ shine light for alot of youngsters/men..

JimohMomoh:
CZ the boss himself. Many years ago when trading of cryptocurrency looked like rocket science, this man made it simple as ABC. Millions of people in Nigeria owe him thanks because he made the 8 years of Buhari's disastrous Government not to affect them.

Instead of running to China to hide, he took a bullet for us and his company Binance not to be liquidated by paying billions of $dollars in fines to SEC.

Everyone make mistakes in life and the mistake you made was opening a branch in the United States and allowing people without KYC to trade on your platform in it's early stage.
Serve your prison sentence in peace and you will come out a world hero.

many thanks to CZ..

shortgun:
Ironically, do you know there are girls who enjoy beating and forceful sex?
As wild as it may sound many girls have that desire to experience violent love making.

very true. It is a usually a trauma from the past for some of the girls who enjoy forceful and violent sex.

Tallesty1:
When you finally get it enough, you will realise that it doesn't

that's a fact.. Truth be told, you don't even need to be excessively rich to begin to see and realize it..

ObaKlaz:
The first man to use Apple Tile Pro Max.

santos247:
I need rands. Pls who has and what rate?

how much rands?

CrossRhodes:
Further proof that you need more than just money to bag and keep a woman.

You need game....

She don chop his money move on and he's crying like a simpy wimpy ass bit.ch
Naaaaa I'm pissed.

BIG FACTS.. I always tell youngster.it is not enough to work on yourself financially only,when you work on yourself, work in totality.. Improve everything nor just your financial life..

With all your money,if you don't have game,you will always struggle with women. With only money,all you will ever attract is Gold diggers and Excavators.

VinnyBaba:
U don Put Everything inside? 😕😌😌

na ocean na u go swim inside?

Desusi:
Its because you have not lived with them before. They are more horrible in behavior and morally bankrupt. A lady had once pleaded to kiss me and at the same time asked me if l would like to Bleep her?In beauty she was like angel.

facts.. They are real definition of weirdos..
A straight white man will leave his wife out home and goes to a hoe to get his ass bleeped.. . He will still claim to be straight.. Weirdos

luminouz:
No give shi-shi!!!

That's how you handle billing from billers!!!

I don't agree with you.. You should only give to people who truly deserve it and not because she is a lady with a hole BTW her legs and who hasnt proof her self..
When you date enough girls,you will be able to decipher the bugs out asap..

PhillipPHD:
Can someone kindly give a holistic approach of how a financially comfortable redpill guy should handle billing from ladies?

As a guy who’s evidently neither broke nor stingy, how can one handle billing?

I'm waiting for this response truly..

lymelyte:
Hello gurus please help. My redmi 10c went from showing Google assistant on its own to power on/reboot interface. Now it reboots back and forth showing the MO powered by andriod logo.. Please help.

please help

The usa is truly protecting something not seen the layman can't see...Isreal is the trade route to all of the most precious resources from oil to gold,diamonds etc..

Hello gurus please help. My redmi 10c went from showing Google assistant on its own to power on/reboot interface. Now it reboots back and forth showing the MO powered by andriod logo.. Please help.

Hi gurus,Has anyone renewed his or her passport within south africa? Help

Seunpapa65:
It's crazy but marriage no be bean imagine waking up everyday to be seeing the same person for eternity u sef go tire

I tire.. The thing nor make sense..
It's like eating only rice for the rest of your life which is not even healthy..

All this na wash.. Crypto has come to stay.. No one can stop crypto..If Us like,make dem destroy binance,Another solid platform will take its place..

I REPEAT. NOTHING CAN STOP CRYPTOCURRENCY.

TheBillyonaire:
The essence?

If you knew everything and have everything, what will you be doing?

Play games and watch movies. But what of playing a character in your own movie?

What about playing any role on any script, or just playing old school virtual games in a holographic ensoulment?

I guess the answer is in the questions.

please breakdown sir..

h

Dyfynezz12:
Check the age of the girl he is talking abt
She is a Gen Z
Most of them dnt want serious relationship,serious relationship calls for responsibilities and they ain't ready for responsibilities,they just want to Bleep nd go.

Most guys in the game like us av understood that nd we ain't looking for serious relationship,the earlier u learn that as a guy the better 4 u

If u like there there dey find loyal girlfriend na u know.

If u get close to any 17_23yr old girl nd see what they do u will weep cox of ur future wife.

Na public forum be this no be everything we gats talk!!

na true u talk ..u really dey street.
Gen z girls are not linear..they will like to Bleep u,fckur friends,fckkk ur dad and everyone else..They love exploration..

Dyfynezz12:
Say she get boyfriend no mean say u no fit bang her.
Some guys don't know that most girls don't like guys asking them to date them,just strike a friendly relationship with them nd be eating the puna.
Allow them to continue having their serious relationship in peace

facts G...

Chasito:
I find it disgusting, because each time I remember that blood, urine and some other fluid that pass through that place, I no dey reason to suck am.

some guys are walking dead bodies but they don't just know it

MrCork:
So u rada suck priiiick than to go down on a woman when the world full of beautiful women...corrrrect?. Brother,Technically u are gay
but u are not aware . 0ur job has men is to please women & if u cant go down on a woman, u are in deny..u are gay. Pirrriod. Why are u gay sir??!(no oofencse)

you nor well..I swear.
Na man like you girls dey use clean ground . So for your mind,Any guy when nor give girl bj na gay abi? You don go smoke again..

This is why most girls think that they are the price.. Giving everything you come across bjs.. I fear una

Even some girls dey vex for una..spit..

AsaBlackheart:
First time is always crazy.
Now you have to control yourself because, trust me, you will get the craving for that experience again.

too sweet..less is more

MONEY247:
Please, anyone with a guidance or ideas should, lend help....
This Sapa season will surely pass

Don't waste your time on betting. Go and learn a viable skill.

The ivorian couldn't shoot thier way to goal at first,then they switch to wings and pull out which broke the defence due to zonal marking by Nigerian team.
It was just a matter of time,before the pressure breaks the wall..There was no bite from the nigerian team until they conceded.