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Bro, I so much want this country to just breakup into fractions of 20 nations if possible. Yoruba, igbo, Hausa and other bigger tribes should go their separate ways. The leaders and politicians know for sure that Nigeria is dead, that's why they are all trying to steal as much as they can before the eventual collapse happens. Talk of the last kicks of a dieing horse.

pansophist:
Yahoo boys, pastors, prostitutes are all symptoms of a failed system, a destroyed culture, and a directionless future. It's easy to blame these boys, but where the work is, is for the leaders to lead by example without embezzling. It's heartbroken when you did all what society said you should do, such as going to school, but end up been paid an amount that can't buy a bag of rice.

Meanwhile, those without conscience are living large. Yahoo boys and oloshos are cashing out big time. It's heartbreaking. You're effectively punished for being good and living upright, so it's only a matter of time before you say, fork it, to hell with uprightness, let me join. Especially if you've lost your loved ones due to lack of funds.

It will actually get worse. This is nothing compared to what is yet to come. I remember ten years ago like it was yesterday. Nigeria was good, I mean good compare to now. One pounds (not dollar, euro, but pounds) was less than two hundred naira, now its pursuing eight hundred. So if you kept one million naira in the bank for example in Nigeria ten years ago, you're actually poorer and lost about 60% of your wealth.

A country where the future depreciates, instead of appreciate your assets is a failed society. Nigeria is dead long ago, but corpse normally doesn't smell immediately. Its smell badly and dangerously as times goes. From the constitution, the leaders, the amalgamation, it was set up to fail. Know this, accept it, or do something with it. But don't live in ignorance, its more dangerous. Nigeria, is, dead.

This is a good thing, let the Fulani north clinch the presidency again after buhari's 8 years in power. Shebi the southern politicians and leaders are greedy and selfish ni, they will have sense by force. The failure of the entire south to unite will give the north another sure passage to win the presidential election.

Emilokoiyawon:
when someone's head is flat and kills another whose head is flat, what do you called it?

Please, the remaining Igbos that are sensible, beware of those among you who have flatness in their skulls.

You're right. Look at the issue of insecurity in Nigeria, no one is truly free. We're all praying not to fall into the hands of kidnappers, traffic robbers, terrorists/bandits, ritualists etc. The failed leadership and corruption has brought insecurity to everyone's doorstep. If the individuals in a country are peaceful and orderly, the society will be conducive and that's when we can actually live freely.

CaveAdullam:
Man, your personal freedom and how you choose to live your life is limited as far as this world is concern. You're not fully independent as you think, humans are dependent on one another of lesser or greater powers who have various influences on their lives. What separates you and others in periods of chaos is time. (Take the Russia vs Ukraine war for example, some died the first day the war broke out, while others died few days ago).

In my country, Nigeria, few days ago, a train was attacked by terrorists, lives and properties were lost. Victims involved were men and women living their lives freely, hoping for a successful journey and a bright future ahead. But hundreds of them never made it to the next day. Why? Poor governance! Hope you're seeing the need for peace and order which must be obtained at all cost.

Stop limiting your focus to just sex, sex, sex! I know it's an evolutionary instinct and not bad in any way, but if there's no peace and order to a larger extent, how can you fvck peacefully and reproduce kids who will continue your genetic line? We are intellectual animals, our instincts are still there but our brains are still making calculations. And calculative brains looks out for comfortable environments before mating.



Men don't need to go back to the plantation. And that's not the case I'm making. (Anyways, writer's motive + reader's understanding do conflict sometimes).

The ship has sailed fine, but as men, are we going to fvck all days and watch ourselves + families go down the drain? If men never sustained civilization, you and I wouldn't have been here today, especially the African populace. If few men in the manosphere already concluded that men are already lost and no way out, why TRP? Why improve ourselves? Why select for the best?

Why because we all have the future in mind, one to be lived in peace and order.

Just imagine, yesterday, Elon Musk became a major shareholder in Twitter, and the world heard it. It means that Elon Musk can play major role there and decides on many twitter affairs.

Now, had it been men in position of power and leadership are TRP aware, do you not know that peace and order will be achieved. Is it not men because of rapaciousness + emasculation made them feign to the decline of the family unit and the rise of woke culture and feminism?

To restore law and order is very simple. But it is only those in power that can fix it. Even if I'm a member of the military, I'm still under a president, and if the president is unwilling for a positive change it means that my military efforts are waste, hence, my withdrawal.

A simp employer can terminate your appointment. A simp legislators can pass useless policies. A simp neighbor can kill you for reprimanding your wife. A simp society can mob you to death if you're wrongly accused of getting into a fight or fight with a woman. Your TRP awareness will not be reasoned by simps when they take their turns on you in every sector of your life.

Divorce is taking a very negative turn on men because of femcentric laws. Now, the man has decided HIS PERSONAL FREEDOM from his matrimonial home, but is he REALLY FREE?

Man, this thing is bigger and above sex, and that's the way I see it. Other people's actions must definitely affect you whether positively or negatively regardless of whether you like it or not. The best is to watch out for yourself and savour every moments, because truly there is NO PERSONAL FREEDOM. And in calamity, death is cocksure for all except it is apprehended.

Thanks.

Putin just dey pepper Europe and the west.

This useless thief, so after burahi did 8 years, you still want to become president, is Nigeria owned by only Fulani/Hausa? I blame the cowardly southern politicians and leaders that allowed these abokis to be thinking too highly of themselves.

Enough blames to go round. Her parents & the school should take the greater blames.

100 percent true! These terrorists called bandits are tacitly backed by the govt of the day to achieve their aim of taking over the entire south and middle belt to accomplish the utman dan fodio jihadi plan of claiming all of Nigeria. The greedy mumu southerners will make this happen because they are too selfish and materialistic, just give an average southerner money and he'll betray his brother to abokis.

okosodo:
He is bold enough because buhari is tacitly supporting them with their aim to establish Islamic egalitarianism through jihad. At the moment, i see nothing stopping them. Southern christans are fools and their selfishness is making Moslems accomplish their diabolical goals

See this tribal bigot saying rubbish because the criminal rapist is your tribe man Igbo. You igbos always support criminals from your tribe.

NwaAmaikpe:




Always pray that you don't come in contact with neighbors who envy you.

What I've heard, read, seen and know about Nigeria and Nigerians has taught me to take all accusations with a pinch of carbide.

This story sounds very unbelievable. It sounds like the type of thing an envious person who is very sympathetic to Glory will frame up to have her husband out of the way so he can have monopoly of not just her kpekus but Rabbi's blooming 'POP' career.

You can't but smell the heavy load of jealousy, envy and resentment in this write-up. Lots of personal grievances unnecessary to the story are voiced that give away the true mindset of the writer.

And yes, it is Nigeria.

If animals can swallow money and convicted felons granted national pardons because they didn't steal so much, I won't be shocked if police medical reports don't say my grandmother was a virgin just to get at something.

I refuse to cast a stone at this man, I only hope he gets the best legal representation there is.
Because most villains in Nigeria are victims of envious fabrications.

Barca going down down down

Werey dey disguise... You be Tinubu supporter. Has tinubu ever condemned all the evil being done by buhari's govt? Las las all of una go dey alright.

EnglandAmaka:
Though I don’t like Tinubu & never will but he has better chances to be APC’s candidate than Osinbajo. Osinbajo is only running for entertainment purposes. He is seen as a betrayal. As leader of the economic team under Buhari, he has destroyed the Nigerian economy. He also lacks the courage to speak truth to power. When the judiciary was humiliated, he did nothing to defend the profession. They used an exparte injunction to remove a CJN, harassed judges, disobeyed court judgments, violated human rights, killed protesters & he said nothing. On Igbo presidency I stand.

In a week that Judas Iscariot betrayed Jesus, Vice President Yemi Osibanjo chose to betray his SOLE benefactor by declaring to run against him for Presidency.

I love his running but hate the timing.

I hate betrayal and those who carry it out. I will rather walk away than be part of those who will betray a man who has helped me enormously in life.

Cuppy that will be jumping from one man to the other without decorum, she has lost respect already. From Victor Anichebe, to Asa Asika, to Anthony Joshua just to name a few.

Nigeria wasn't created by the British to be a prosperous country, it was created as a business empire called Royal Niger Company.

So you see, no hope for Nigeria to get better, it will continue to get worse as long as the likes of buhari, tinubu, Atiku etc are the people leading us.

Until Nigeria break up into smaller nations, the suffering will continue.

The men who hurt saphiere has really destroyed her psychologically to the extent that she's exhibiting signs of mental disorders. I really feel for you saphiere, pls seek psychiatric help fast.

Walahi this girl is suffering from psychosis, the hatred she has for men has turned her into a kolomental for real. This is pure mental disorder and you need help fast!

Real Madrid giving it to Chelsea from the back wotowoto

These Fulanis/Hausas have really taken the entire south for fools. Imagine Atiku trying to contest after his fellow aboki is about concluding 8 years in power. It's the turn of the south, abokis should go and sit their stupid ass down. Till the south unite as one, they will always be slaves to the north.

When your species commit heinous atrocities, you go into hiding and refuse to condemn your gender, but you will always find your voice when it is men. Hypocrisy and hate is your problem. You need to heal from whatever issue caused your bitterness towards men..

saphiere:
seun lalasticlala Dominque justwise rule 2

Presidency must come to the south

The Nigerian team is not impressive at all, playing like local league players

Don't mind him, he's a bloody liar.

BluntNigerian:
What type of food have you been feeding yourself with, that you consume more than N50,000 every week just on feeding?

What about assisting your wife when she's pregnant and you don't want her to do too much house chores all by herself?

ubunja:
that's how it is. When that statement comes up trouble has come.

For all the "cook and bond with your wife" statements by men,, you'll never hear women say "pay rent and bond with your husband" lol. Women will tell you "you have only one job! Do it!!"
Women are cold with the game. Men need to be too.

abokis about to play the dumb southern politicians again

For a guy who can write so well like this, I really feel for you bro. Learn WordPress design, it's easier than coding. I was also stuck with learning front end development, till I decided to learn WordPress and look for a job with it. I got a 50k job to manage myself for a while. I proceeded to learning digital marketing to improve myself, and I later got another job of 80k. I am still learning front end development slowly, I have covered HTML5, CSS and I'm currently learning JavaScript. With time, I'll get there. Don't loose hope, because I was just like you, depressed at some point, but now I am a much better and happier person.

If you fall victim to fraudsters and robbers who rob you of your life savings, you won't be talking like this. So humans can make money via fraudulent activities and spend it lavishly because they have freedom of choice right?

Favfables1:
OP...
I get the ideology behind your analysis, but I do not agree with it...

How a man gets his money and how he chooses to spend it, is on nobody else, but that man ...

The man choose to be fraudulent....
He may have wanted money to spend on women....
He may have been pushed by a woman...
He may have been guilt tripped or broke shamed by a woman...

But it still doesn't change the fact that it was HIS CHOICE

This is why "Know Thyself" is one of the most important rules of life. I have come to realize that even though we can strive to achieve excellence in any endeavour, we still have our weaknesses, and must rely on the strength of others in some areas of life.

I am just a cool 5ft 6" slim guy with small frame, though I intend to find time to hit the gym and gain muscles plus train for strength. So If I delude myself in my current state and engage an agbero in street fight, I know I'll get thoroughly beaten, hence I stay out of fights. This is part of knowing thyself.

I am also not so good with convincing people with spoken words, but I can write and soften the hardest of hearts, even Putin's. Hence, I allow my business partner to speak to clients, while I write them a killer business proposal to win contracts.

Knowing one's strength and weaknesses will definitely take you far in life and limit your losses. It is also important to acknowledge people who are smarter than you in some aspects of life.

pansophist:
Nature gave me eyes to see, leg to walk, hand to carry, but it gave me brain without manual. If common android phones come with Google map, then there should be manual to live life without passing through hell to gain such knowledge. Lots of people in the 70's are still very dumb like they didn't live.

The more I learn about the world, the more I become conscious of my limitations. Some people are just way above me. As ferocious as Mike Tyson is in his prime, he can't defeat a gorilla who is just naturally stronger. No matter how much I try even on my peak performance, I'll never measure up to some people even at their worse. They are smarter, which makes them wealthier connected and the world freely opening itself to them.

So nature no try at all. This life no balance. It will be nice if we just know how to make the best out of this world, instead of spend the limited time we have figuring it out, and accumulating a pitiable amount of injury in the process, that's even if we achieve mastery in the first place.

I once taught in a school around Ajah Lagos and was paid 75k. Even though the money seems reasonable, I couldn't bear the disrespectful and rude attitude of the over-pampered students towards the teachers.

The school management of big schools usually look the other way while these uncultured students from rich homes treat their teachers like dirts by insulting them at will.

As an ICT teacher, I could do better for myself in the tech industry than wasting my youthful self away in the name of teaching computer in secondary, so I quit after 1 year of teaching and I'm glad I did.

I thought I was the only one that noticed, you most likely have knowledge of photography.

MandGEnterprise:
The photography editing is top notch

Hi, I've been wondering the meaning of your username 'Amotolongbo'

Amotolongbo:
No matter how reasonably a goat may act, na “asun” go still end its life

Lalasticlala and Dominique, we get a naming ceremony here o

If the woman was the one diagnosed with kidney failure, she and her family would expect the man to donate his kidney, and feminists would have dragged the man like tiger generator for refusing to donate his precious kidney. Women and selfishness.