₦airaland Forum

Budline1:
Thank you OG but this girl respects me very much, she's not forming it, she's just a really calm person, her dad is like that too.. she's not that old but very wise. We've been together for 2 years yet she hasn't done a single thing to make me upset. She never judged me but always encourage me, always wanting me to be happy.

She is very calm, she's not demanding, she only asks for help when she's very broke which I give to her immediately. She goes out of her way to come cook and clean, she's not a slay queen but she's classy, she's very contented with what she has. She tells me everything about her, never hides her phone from me, she tells me about those wooing her. Isn't that one close to perfection?

She calls even when I don't call her. She apologize even if I'm the one that has done wrong. She's very supportive even when I'm going through a hard time. I've been trying so hard to find flaws about her but she's been proving me wrong.

Don't let your case be a case of you don't value what u have until u loose it. Forget those guys advising you, you will find they don't have what it takes to advice you on this subject.

Now this is funny. Chain our dear nairaland don cast

rexwalters:
You say Yorubas, as if the ones that attended the jamboree of a farce, were elected to represent the Yorubas at the bazaar, you are talking of Pdp members from the south west like Governor Makinde, & Bode George that where handpicked by Jonathan & Oliseh Metu? Please Negro try borrow common sense comprehension.

Now stop this. Was it not here on nairaland that you people were fighting the Igbos for PDP chairmanship not minding your political leaning?

Seetto:
Why the complain from the East despite their claim that they are all billionaires and that their region is more developed than China and new York.

You get sense so? Let's assuming you do, do you think these figures enumerated are the only poor people in those States.

This is madness, What kind of stupidity is this.Shame of a government

Pious101:
are u same with Nigeria exploit?

And we will all shout PRAISE GOD!

Nigeriaexploit:
The summary of the message is that a change of leadership is imminent, the process will generate so much tension and controversy. But at the end there will be peace!

Please pray for your country!

Does it imply adieu to pm....

Well if this tears and mourning will birth a new Nigeria fast let it come, but if it will bring more hardship and hopelessness may it never see the light of the day.

I don't usually take this boko haram thing serious because I know that the government is playing politics with it. If the government is serious about ending boko haram they know what to do. Unfortunately they will not because they share the same ideology and that is why more ' repentant' terrorists will still be released.

If not for the vision less leaders we have had what is there about the Chinese to be admired that they would treat us like trash this way. It's a kinda annoying when you are dealing with a Chinese and he portrays himself disdainfully as a higher being.

helinues:
Why are they also travelling to China this period or are they coming from Pluto?

This one always talk off-point

Someone7:
I hate to generalise but the Chinese can be really nasty. Every Chinese I've met is very selfish and just feels he's a higher human than you if you have dark skin

This is a true talk

JAOS:
maybe their rent as expired due to the lockdown

It seems you've not encountered the Chinese. They are very wicked and have this superiority mindset against Africans.

Honestly China people are very wicked and selfish.

Ayinke93:
So you think I need you to validate my wisdom? Aboki go find a life outside nairaland and geddifok out of my mentions. Your opinions are grossly inconsequential.

E don happen

Rickjordan:
With evidence from many nlanders,I have no option than to declare my original op from the first threat as my convincer am now his Convincee... TORONTO here I come....

But seriously this thread does not in any way prove him wrong

EVILFOREST:
What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

True life experience. Happened to a relative of mine in the US.

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BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

Please copy me when you do

ahmemmygrey:
sir, but we're talking about corona virus

Did you actually refer to this thread?

Tankunland:
thank you to you, thank you to everyone that has treated me as a brother and a friend and given me suggestions. This I would take serious also.

Bros I must thank God for you. Just know that your story have saved many lives. At times things happen for a reason. Who knows if God wanted to use you to inspire people hence he allowed the whole thing to happen.

By the way it seems like I know you.
Do you used to train at ifako primary school? (Idiagbon)

skymight:
Thanks bro this really touched me. I have been planning for a sucide now since January this year but I am having a rethink right now.

Bros everyone of us have our different stories and many ups and downs but the most important thing is to have a strong and sane mind.Through out my youthful life it was never smooth and at a point it felt like I would never be successful, but that scripture that says ' to him that is joined to a living there is hope, a living dog is better than a dead lion' kept me going. Now the story has changed and God by himself has turned everything around. Please keep hope alive. You're not bed ridden for a purpose. God has a better assignment for you. Each time those suicide thoughts come up, always ask yourself where will you go if you die now because that death will open another door for more miseries since it's only your flesh that died while your real self lives on to another challenge.

90% Pagans, 7% Christians and 3% Muslims

roseb1:
u should also have oga as well. Plus I understand hair dressers do home service

Please stop judging people and help them if you can. I understand they are fraudsters everywhere

roseb1:
You requested and they ve sent money to u. Why is it taking you long to acknowledge and thank the sender. That's one problem I have with some people here in this forum. No iota of gratefulness

Just chil. What if he has dead battery or ran out of data? Just do the best you can and leave the rest to God

RoyalBlak007:
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God bless you

Sir I suggest you put this in a book. God bless you

helinues:
Igbo nation?

Hope they are not going to end up asking for donations....

This guy it's funny how you only have libido on Igbo related threads. It seems you live and breathe Igbo

obailala:
But people call buhari all sorts of nasty names everyday; so how come this particular guy was picked out of a million others?

Curious too

To what end? Fulani people a very wicked tribe. Their evil will catch up with them

I saw myself in the dream where I bought a new car without stress. In fact how the car came about I didn't know but I was cruising in it excitedly even though I don't drive in the real world. I had this dream two nights consecutively and many other times too. So what could be the meaning.

HMarshal:
That's where the problem is bro "core igbo" where they teach "core tribalisim" to new generations who end up living the kind of life the older generation lived instead to living thiers & creating a new trend .
u kinda late tho.am done wit this topic.#Peace

Truth is that you have been indoctrinated into believing that igbos are tribalistic based on the informations you're exposed to especially in your immediate society. For instance, this forum has over a time portrayed Igbo's as haters, tribal bigots etc. due to some political situations since 2015 till now which many of you gladly accepted to be the case. I'm talking as one who has experience on this subject because I was raised both ways and I can easily understand the situation. Truth is among the 3 major tribes in Nigeria Igbos are less tribalistic. You really need to understand your tribe very well not just listening to what others make you believe. Thanks for your time though.

BafanaBafana:
I my opinion and experience, the writer spoke freely about the north and got it right there, he then massaged the ego of the West while leaving many questions unanswered and then said almost nothing about his own region, the east.
Northerners are driven by religion, everyone there is fanatical, both Christians and Muslims, see what that little girl Leah Sharibu did? I can bet you that only a northern christian will do such.
According to the writer, the western region majorly follow a mainstream party and alienate anyone who is not from there. A lot of people believed this without actually thinking. How does this explain the fact that Oyo state have never been governed successively by a single party? This does not explain the fact that APC almost lost Osun state to PDP. Seyi Makinde is loved by his people, so was Fayose. They were not demonized as the writer insinuated. In my opinion, Yorubas abhor bad leadership irrespective of party.
As for the East, whatever you meant does not explain why a certain party is demonized over there, i.e. if you speak for APC, you are seen as an alien. Rochas Okorocha is actually better than most governors from there but he is portrayed as the worst thing that ever happened there. It does not explain why the first military coup took place.
Let me rest my case.

You got it all wrong