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Drizzy5001:
December last year.. i was scammed of 120k , part of my school fees, by my own friend, I dey on my own oh jeje, nigga introduced me to one nonsense investment like that , he even showed me his own , how he invested 100k and got 200k, that I should invest any amount and get double of it in 45minutes, been that I was in desperate need of money that particular time, and bet9ja no dey pay me, I no dey get luck 4 dawan .... I needed money to pay school dues, sort my lectureers becos if u no sort u go fail am be that, the man intentionally fail students, so I sharperly send the money to the guy my friend introduced to me as the agent , the man told me to call him after 45 minutes, ..... I called dis man he told me to call him in 1 hour time, I called, he kept on shifting d time , I got fade up and demanded for my money and I got blocked , the devil that I called my friend disappeared till date I've not seen him , I've learnt my lesson ... Friends are bad.

Your friend's account was hacked. You should have called him to confirm

xendra:
what bitter truth you just need to wake up

Wake up from what exactly

I can say I'm well placed in 1 2 and 4 but the 3rd should be on the average

Audio money

There is nothing we cannot see or hear in this world The other day it was a snake with legs now we're seeing a rat without legs.

This confirms my stance that if the government wanted to end boko haram they would have done it long ago but they see them as their brothers

Joystark:
Damn.

This igbo tie wrapper.

I got most of it tho...
But, damn. This one sweet pass Anambra dialect.
And to think people argue that Anambra is "oral igbo"

Nkanu I'd kinda funny and Sweet just like ngwa dialect too

hammer0:
Listening to her speak an unheard Dialect, made me appreciate the differences in Igbo Dialect.

Maybe, we dont need a standard or universal Igbo dialect.

I like nkanu dialect

yeyeosoronga:
While you were too busy with your concubines, fire was burning under your roof.
You weren't there for your older children when they probably needed you the most as you were busy spending your time and money with your opekes.
You better don't make the same mistake with the younger ones.
The older ones seem to have given up on you. and have learnt how not to rely on you because you've probably let them down in the past with your absence. They didnt even care you were away dead or alive for 3 whole days.
Anyway, my advice for you is to work on your children one on one.
Let them get to know you individually. Start taking your eldest child with you when you go out, and ask him/her to escort you so you get to spend individual time together. Do same for the others, and don't spend time with them all together but individually till you are able to earn their trust again before you start spending time all together.
It's a long journey, which you can still redeem yourselfdeadoreEven e your children.
Don't let them see a father that abandons his children for 3 days because he is angry at their mother, don't let them see a father that comes home drunk, don't let them see a father that puts his concubines needs above theirs.
Ask them to come directly to you if they need anything, give them pocket money weekly (yes, the older ones will have some minor needs. It doesn't have to be a lot. Even if it is 500naira for data)
Beating the older ones at this stage will only further alienate them from you, as that ship has long sailed.
Good luck as you make amends with your children. At least give it your best shot.
Unfortunately, your marriage is dead. I'm not sure if you have the energy to revive it, but if you have wronged your wife apologise and ask her what she wants. A divorce to end the misery for both of you or another go at the marriage.

Well done o. After blaming and judging the man the next verdict is that his marriage is dead. Even when it is obvious that he came here to seek solution

Very credible

Being friends with someone in a far country does not make one a detribalized person. In this context It is actually Onyeama who is detribalized.Married a Yoruba lady, Had a Kanuri Muslim as best man etc. However let me also note that it is not easy to be a public office holder in Nigeria. They will lay on you many unverifiable allegations.Rip kyari

Maximus69:
Yes!

They chased Jesus away because he was trying to correct their dubious practices, but they pursue Jesus out of the temple and later killed him!

That is why God condemned the Jewish Temple in Jerusalem {Matthew 27:51} gradually Christians begin to realize that pure worship can't be practiced in the Jewish Temple.

Today Jesus have cleansed his spiritual Temple (Jehovah's Witnesses Organization) that's why when other religions claiming Christians are fighting and harming themselves due to their love for Mammon (God of money) Jesus' true followers (Jehovah's Witnesses) have LOVE, JOY and PEACE permeating their midst! Luke 16:13

Did I just see theJW That's absolutely nonsense. How did you allow yourself to be deceived with something that's not biblical. Ado God gave the temple to another nation, Jw. Chai!

Maximus69:
That was when he fulfilled his promises to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob but since their descendants did not cherish that spiritual heritage, God gave the blessing to another nation producing the fruitage! Matthew 23:37-38

Are you now saying that there is no need for a physical temple in this dispensation? Now remember the context of this discuss

CioAngels:
Sorry my dear because your question should not have an answers. Why are we Christians sure a gullible sets of human being? Even if your pastor gives you food should you then pay tithe with the stipend money is groggily paid for you to feed from. Please don't pay.

My dear the God who told me to pay my tithe also instructed me to give to the poor.I'm not called to serve God by man's wisdom. It is an election of grace. So be wise in your own conceit and let me be in mine. ThereforeI'm not gullible

jmoore:
Why are you not making animal sacrifices like Abraham and co?

You need to step into new testament. You are still left behind.

You see how you are running in circles and you could not answer any of the questions Did God tell you that he abolished the Abrahamic covenant in the new testament?

Maximus69:
Yes!

They chased Jesus away because he was trying to correct their dubious practices, but they pursue Jesus out of the temple and later killed him!

That is why God condemned the Jewish Temple in Jerusalem {Matthew 27:51} gradually Christians begin to realize that pure worship can't be practiced in the Jewish Temple.

Today Jesus have cleansed his spiritual Temple (Jehovah's Witnesses Organization) that's why when other religions claiming Christians are fighting and harming themselves due to their love for Mammon (God of money) Jesus' true followers (Jehovah's Witnesses) have LOVE, JOY and PEACE permeating their midst! Luke 16:13

The temple did not belong to God in the first place? Was it not God who gave the architectural design to start with?

jmoore:
Abraham was rich before he paid tithe.
Abraham paid tithe once according to the Bible.
Abraham did not give his own belongings such as cattle, sheep etc as tithe.
He gave out his plunder from war.

Don't get me started. All tithe questions have been dealt with on this thread>> https://www.nairaland.com/5783004/sentenced-asking-members-tithes-drama

Did the bible tell you that it is only the rich that should pay tithe?Where did you see it written that he paid it only once? If he did not pay it out of his own belongings why then did God told the people to pay it out of their own goods several years later?is God an author of confusion? If tithing is not important God would have allowed it to rest with Abraham

jmoore:
As usual evading the facts starring at his face.
Your pastor is not a levite. He is not a descendant of Levi.
Continue....

You people always claim smartness Let me ask you Was Mechizedek a Levite yet Abraham paid tithe to him?Also what's the difference between a Levite and a priest?

Maximus69:
So if what is happening now in those places you called "house of God" is worldly which supposed to depict the opposite, then what makes you think those places are houses of God in the first instance?

People at timed can bring worldliness into the house of God. You remember what happened during Jesus time when he chased away money changers and declared my house shall be called the house of prayer but you have turned it to den of thieves

kabarka:
Evangelism is not a must with microphone.
Evangelise with your day to day living.
let people see the christ In your day to day living.

Both must be involved. Let me ask you, how many people have you won by your daily life? In fact the apostles were called Christian in Antioch because they went about preaching Christ and people saw the way they spoke and act. DSO you must go out and witness Christ first before people will see you and recognise you as a child of God

I think you should rather seek a male partner

This is good

Wolgrace:
And you are triggered by the glaring truth because we are bound not to frown at the fake, forceful, and unholy union which favours the North most? Look, I hail from the king, gateway and heartbeat of SW, and it's time we cut off our spout mouths of lip service, eye service, hypocrisy, and pretense, and tell ourselves the truth.

I'm not actually disputing your ancestry. I was sarcastically implying that you're not Yoruba because you hardly see a Yoruba person openly criticize his tribe

Wolgrace:
Most Yorubas, especially the muslims, are just plain senseless and cowards. To an extent where they seems inredeemable is when the goggle eye and brown teeth is openly determined and willingly to ride upon their foolishness to expand his political map and portfolios across the nation. I'm so ashamed of my people....!


Let the country secede or restructure.

Abeg you're not a Yoruba person.

Ishilove:
Are you a levite? You likely had dada in infancy and your parents cut it off without following certain processes.

Let me narrate a personal experience. I am a Levite, but when I was a baby, my mum used a comb to comb everything out without allowing it to form. She combs, but by following morning the tangles are back. She battled with my hair for months before it stopped tangling and began to grow normally.

My hair grew long and thick, but when it started disturbing me, I saw fire. Spiritually and physically. Last last in 2005 after investigations I was told to go and shave off the entire thing. Gosh it was painful. After shaving the hair my bro still lathered my scalp with soap and shaved the scalp join because no single hair must remain.

Thereafter I did some Christian 'stuff' which I won't mention here and since then no more disturbances till this day.

Chai this one na ogbanje. Levite ko Samson ni

I'm not surprise at what is happening now in Lagos. What do you expect when you stop their source of livelihood. As long as there are no vehicles at the bus stop or garages for the owomida guys then be ready to contain them in another trade.

joshjc:
we don't even share similar culture and dressing with them,they are just trying to grab our land because of the resources in it

This is a kind of mindset that deters people from making progress. So if you identify as Igbo your lands and your oil will be grabbed. Just like saying that Enugu and Ebonyi are grabbing the lands and oils in Imo, Anambra and Abia states. Do you know that that same oil in your land is being explored by the Igbo's and others as well and yet they want to grab your land and oil. You people better wake up because even in your so called state you're still discriminated at as being Igbos.

Sanchez01:
Truer words have never been said. However, I'd like to add that it is almost pointless for anyone under 30 to hang to any meaningful relationship. They all end in tears, after sweet nonsenses and memories and mostly degenerate to resentments after the whole thing is off.

This is not to say under 30s shouldn't have serious relationships. Most don't jusy work no matter how dreamy and promising they look.

There's something about this guy. Impressive