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bewla:
yes that if she is above 35

Nice one...

Hey guys and girls.

Lets assume you are finally dating the girl/guy of your dreams but on getting to know the person's family, you realized there are so many dead people from his family side.
His father is dead, many of his uncles are dead... and most of their extended family members have atleast 1 or two dead person.
Will you still go ahead with the relationship and possibly marry the person??

Drop your honest thoughts!

bukatyne:
And when your wife also does family first so you both become flatmates instead of truly married, don't complain.

One wonders if the wives fell from the sky without a family.

If you cannot leave your family and cleave to your wife, no need for marriage.

I am saying a man should mke sure his family is alright before he even gets married.
Once you are married, 99 percent of your attention and all belongs to your wife and children.
Your siblings and mother and father become a bit distant.
you still care for them but your wife and children becomes priority.

munas:
Thats the worst advice i have ever heard...

Wait till you help everybody to stand firm before you start your own family?
Thats a huge joke.

So the guy you know who got married should have made sure his mother is living in luxury apartment and help get his brother to get a job before he gets married abi?

There an adage that says "marry your mother before you marry your wife".
That simply means you should take utmost care of your mother first before you move on to start your own family.

Yes, if my brother was unemployed and i happen to be a multi-millionaire, it would be a shame on me and my family if my brother is not doing well in his own business or unemployed. it will be a shame on me if the woman that gave birht to me lives in a ghetto while i live in v.g.c.

Family first!!... that is my first, second and third rule....

Zellie:
so its their wives that's causing these problems, how do you people even think

read the post again.
i didn't even insinuate that the wives are the problem.
its common sense knowledge that when a man gets married, his bond with his siblings/first family reduces.

Well, that was a kind gesture. Most Nigerian policemen are animals and I still despise them but this singular act made me feel like maybe, just maybe, there might be some good ones.

matrixme:
You are only just looking for a way to defend your selfishness. People can be bad, either rich or poor, black or yellow, Anglican or protestant.
For you to say that it's only poor people that are disposed to doing evil is bias, unjust and unfounded.

selfishness
i am a very selfless person.
I am generous to a fault but i only help from a distance. I don't wanna be friends or enemy with a poor person cos the only thing they bring is problems. One problem after the other.
They will never call u on phone to offer you what you need.. all they thy know is themselves...

this woman learnt the hard way..... lol!

Caseless:
As much as I find so many things wrong with the budget, I still can't see the Senate toying with it. We have saraki's head on our plate at the CCT; he won't even dare.

hahahahah... you are really naive.
do u think saraki will spend even a day in jail

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

There are so many "untouchables" in Nigeria and saraki is one of them.
forget all these gimmicks.
For you to hold such a revered position in Nigeria, do you know what it takes??
Loool... i wish things weren't so but we gotta tell ourselves the truth/

rbjimoh:
thank OP, you can see over glorification of america even by the median. Inferiority complex

well, its not the glorification of america.
Excluding the fact that the victim just returned to the country From the united states would make the story incomplete.
After all, she was picked from the airport and murdered in the car.
Readers will be curious to know where she is coming from? why was she picked up by those boys? why did she have dollars with her and so on.
If u exclude the fact that she came from united states, then the story will not really make any sense.

this is one of the reason i despise poor people.
They are very callous and will drag you down.
the only reason they smile and act nice is cos of their poverty stricken status.
Of course, there are good ones, but the bad ones plenty pass.
I have had plenty experience...

I used to have this poverty stricken friend of mine that i would help alot.
Well, he ended up stealing 3.5Million naira from my relatively young company. Its alot of money and it made me really angry but I let it go. Now he is begging for forgiveness cos he is back to square zero.
I trusted this guy and i believed he wouldn't be so greedy to bite the hand God is using to bless him.

All these poor people are just looking for who to job.

Like nigga raw said, if u no get money, u go be problem to those wey get....
maine, i have vowed never to mess with anyone below my social status... If you wanna help them, help from a fucccking distance...

This is sad and painful.

rest in peace ma!!... its a shame u had to learn this way.
chaaai... this thing is really paining me!!

mager:
yes i saw him, buh he said he will come back home after valentine.

COME ON nah!!
this is serious

GOD!!!!!!

she is mentally ill.
Probably schizophrenic.
She needs to face the punishment for her crime and get mental help.

Naughtysite:
You sound unserious.

May he be found.

i am dead serious.
i am not within the area but its really bothering me.
i once had a loved one go missing. you can't imagine the traumatic experience. Fortunately or unfortunately, it was just a case of kidnapping.
My friend's dad disappeared since monday and not even a ransom call or anything.
I am beyond bothered and i am praying for his safe return

simplemach:
all these long grammer................
I smell jealousy and envy. the girl mouth don dey pass your own, so you are warning her to slow down on her speed to fame.
May God take her to her destination at the top and guide her there.

charles novia is saying the truth.
The wolves smell blood and they are coming.
this girl would be a classic example her management fail to protect and guide her.
Watch and see!

4nobody4every1:
.....l dont understand?.....she is what??>.

READ it again... i updated the post

4nobody4every1:
.l think She will be properly guided and advised by her immediate siblings to close her honey pot for now or use pills, watch every move from the hubby, l dont think she will be moronic to allow her hubby to railroad her with pregnancy, fingers crossed

this initial stage (the stage the bread seller ) is in now is a make or break stage.
Everybody wanna leech on you. Even your family members that abandoned you to hawk bread and suffer with your child will all want a piece of the action, your phone rings 100 hours a day and you everybody is congratulating you and subtly asking you "not to forget them".

A good manager will protect her from people like the husband that abandoned her and other leeches.

I mean, you protect her till she gets a grip of the fame and able to handle her business.
you protect her till she becomes wise and able to know who she wants around or not.

I am telling you bro, she is a disaster waiting to happen. If she ain't protected, the fame will destroy her.

Cheechy:
Come on!!........ because when he married her he knew this would happen (staged or otherwise)

So he should leave because this has happened


Na WA!

HE LEFT HER.
HE ONLY RETURN RECENTLY.
HE ABANDONED HER AND THE BABY.
HE IS AN OPPORTUNIST AND A LEECH. OBVIOUSLY, HE STILL HAS A HOLD ON THE POOR GIRL.
BULLSHIITTT.

IF I WAS HER MANAGER, I WILL NOT WANNA SEE THAT DEADWEIGHT ANYWHERE NEAR MY PROJECT!!


I wish her the best but hope you guys know the show is over if she gets pregnant for that man.

[size=16pt]THE HUSBAND IS A LEECH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/size]

zed7:
Youths like u are d problem with Nigeria

if people like me are the problem with naija, then wetin people like IBB, OBASANJO, ABACHA AND THE REST COME BE> iranu!!

Last seen on 8th feb 2016.
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Hey guys, my friend's dad has been missing since monday.
The family is in distress and all help will be appreciated.

Kindly rebroadcast.