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ConcNiggress56:
A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they
don’t get it, they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex. The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were virgins; the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity, but because they were foolish; they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL.


Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep the marriage going.

If a man asks a lady for sex and she says NO,the man can walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also, if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for
sex but along the line, he may be tempted to ask
for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship, if he sees
other things that are valuable to him but if he doesn’t, he may walk away.


Before you think guys are walking away because you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag about virginity are somewhat timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive.


Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some
ladies do not have manners, some do not have
much upstairs, some are not social,
some are dull, and maybe the best thing they
have is their hips, nice backside, nice breast and
nice lips and so when a guy comes because
of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is
turned down, he walks away because there is
nothing else interesting about the lady.

Most men now are even scared of marrying such
virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to
test before they discuss marriage because many
ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they are too naive on bed.

However, you don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, you can know a lady who will be good at home and bed by her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by God’s leading.


I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they
have great relationships, they have many friends
around them, you may not even know they
are still virgins unless they tell you. Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, unless you don’t have anything else to
offer in the relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add Extra OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith, virtue; and to virtue,
knowledge; And to knowledge, temperance; and
to temperance, patience; and to patience, godliness, And to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, charity.” 2Peter. 1:5-7.

Virginity or no virginity....

Ask yourself!!

Do you have any extra oil to sustain a relationship?

source: anthonia eghondore via daily times




please let's open up on our relationship issues here.. so we can find solutions to it.. don't be shy.. stay anonymous if you have to.. and guys, plesse dont mock us.. there is a lesson or two for you too..
Please where can I get the extra oil?
Mama Chile said she doesn't have

HsLBroker:
lol, this lairs will not make our cultures flourish, and also I was tutor in school, when I was in primary school by my Yoruba teacher that oduduwa came from heaven to earth with a chain, fallacy, munbo jumbo, had to tell my children not to believe in that lie, if you want culture to stand the test of time, at least let everything that surrounding it be proofable, that is why science will always makes an edge and proof culture wrong because you can always proof science with evident and law that is static or non static.

HsLBroker:
lol, this lairs will not make our cultures flourish, and also I was tutor in school, when I was in primary school by my Yoruba teacher that oduduwa came from heaven to earth with a chain, fallacy, munbo jumbo, had to tell my children not to believe in that lie, if you want culture to stand the test of time, at least let everything that surrounding it be proofable, that is why science will always makes an edge and proof culture wrong because you can always proof science with evident and law that is static or non static.

skywalker001:
ftc or fp ?

Tundeiab:
I have quoted you, so wetin go happen?
If you are not careful, I go beat you join...
How Sunday na, my guy!

thickgodess:
I came across a thread dat said....Those Big Aunties That Disvirgin Us When We Were Small https://www.nairaland.com/3380877/those-big-aunties-disvirgin-us and i was like....the molestation carried out by men we far greater. I could remember one day that i came home from school, no body was at home and the house was boring. Our neighbor that used to put on generator that time was at home and the gen was on and i was like.... Let me go and watch film, when i got there, I greeted him as usual and he let me in. After some minutes, he asekd me to sit on his lap. I innocently accepted. Then i felt something under, before u know it he started using my ass to massage his d!ck....i was so confused, but i knew within me that it was wrong. Then he started to remove my undies, and continue rubbing it. It continued for some time. The day he wanted to penetrate, it felt very painful that i screamed. I was lucky that he never penetrated me fully. I can't even remeber his name sef.... Men are very wicked

Gosj01:
3.Then you notice the price of phones you saw lastweek has gone up